Girls Gone Deep – Details, episodes & analysis

In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with School of Intimacy founder, intimacy coach, and author of No More Faking It, Magda Kay.  This episode is FULL of "nuggets", touching on everything from tantra to energy centers to how to up the intimacy in your relationship to why it might be better to practice tantra with someone other than your primary partner. You don't want to miss this one!

Why tantra and intimacy coaching?

Becoming orgasmic: orgasming with yourself and unlocking the ability to orgasm with others.

The pussy as an energy hub: taking on sexual partners’ trauma. 

What is a full body orgasm, and how do we know if we’ve had one?

Orgasmic states and self mastery through tantra.

Releasing through tantric sex, and who should you practice with? Crying during sex, and holding space for your partner’s release.

How to find the right practitioner for a yoni or lingum massage. 

Listener Question: “How can I get my wife’s spark back in the bedroom?” 

Listener Question: “What’s a quick guide on tantric breathing?”

Intimacy Block: The ability to let go with people you don’t know or care about as much. 

Looking at sex as something more than just the physical experience. 

School of Intimacy: providing the foundation for better sex, relationship and tantric education.

Can you practice tantra with the same sex, when traditionally it's all about the yin and yang of the masculine and feminine energies?


Find Magda:

Website: www.magdakay.com
Instagram: @magdakayofficial
Youtube: @magdakay

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In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up and discuss their takeaways from two sex party events their friend group (the Joy Fam) threw, including recapping sexy stories, "a-ha" moments and reflections. 

Implementing Lessons Learned: change your environment and have vacation sex! (0:33)

House of Love club night takeaways: Vee’s birthday celebration, and Elle’s first big night out since having a baby! Getting over new mom nervousness with costumes: How themes get you into the sexy mood - especially animal theme :) (3:56)

How to feel confident while carrying baby weight: MILK PLAY! Break the touch barrier by using breast milk play as an ice breaker? (5:56)

Sexy Story with The Greek: what makes a good single male in the lifestyle? Wolf energy. (11:11)

Feeling overwhelmed at a sex party when you’re the guest of honor, taking a backseat but staying involved. (18:27)

Joyunion: sex friends getting together with babies - it’s different but the same! (20:46)

TIP: how to get sexual if you’re not sure if you’re horny. Getting turned on by hearing another woman orgasming. (23:27)

Sexy story: Pushing past your own limits. Elle orgasms twice when she thinks she can only do it once. (27:13)

CREAM PIE STORY: Trying to do TVP (triple vaginal penetration), DVP (double vaginal penetration) and cream pies. (29:33)

TIP: take 5 minutes away from the overstimulation of the party to let your body relax and your dick to get hard. (31:46)

TAKEAWAY: The problem with peeing in the middle of the orgy. (34:26)

TAKEAWAY: The best orgy snack, and issues with dry mouth. (37:00)

Being a mom in an orgy and getting distracted during play.  How to re-center yourself and focus on your body and sensations. (39:36)

Listener question: Our book recommendations for jealousy! (43:34)

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In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.

Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)

Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life.  Uneven labia. (11:09)

Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy.  The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)

Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)

DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)

Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)

Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)

Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)

Links:

Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzz
Find Physics on Fetlife: Physics

Websites:

CuddlesByBee.com
The Temple

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In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia) to play the game Whoreible Life.

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!

 There are many many ways to play, so in this episode they play it two ways: “Would You Rather” and “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank You” - 

1 Done it — share the story!

2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!

3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.

Have you ever had sex in your parents’ bed?  How “the talk” and your parents’ approach to sex can affect your early relationship with sexuality. (3:13)

Different approaches to talking about sex with your kids. (8:48) 

Have you ever role played in a rape fantasy or “Consensual Non Consent” (CNC) scene?  Describing examples of CNC scenes, role playing, safe words and what needs to be discussed and agreed beforehand. (13:30)

Lowering our standards while dating during the Covid pandemic and putting ourselves in potentially unsafe situations. (22:52)

Catharsis in acting out fears through sexual fantasies like rape scenes and consensual non-consent. (30:34)

Would you rather use a double ended dildo or make a girl squirt?  Being surprised by a squirter. Glass vs silicone double ended dildos, and the first time orgasming with a double ended dildo - what position works best. (38:27)

Double ended dildo vs. Feeldo. (42:50)

Would you rather practice tantric sex or role play as submissive? Masturbating and focusing on the breath; breath orgasms without physical touch. (45:40)

Workout orgasms and Elle’s experience orgasming with an ab roller. (48:02)

Would you rather watch VR porn or be dominated to lose the right to orgasm? Orgasm denial, being a brat, and Reddit porn communities. (50:45)

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Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).

Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)

Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)

Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)

Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)

Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)

ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)

If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)

Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)

How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)

Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)

Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)

Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)

Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)

How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)

Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)

How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)

Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)

Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)

Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.au

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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). 


No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)

How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)


ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)

Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you’re trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)

Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)


Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)

Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)

What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)

What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)

Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)

Where to find Lola Jean:

Website: lolajean.com

Seven Days of Domination

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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Kate Maxx, who is a "Jill of all trades": a former Naked News anchor, model, Young Swingers Week emcee (among other events), stripper, Only Fans content creator, and dominatrix specializing in humiliation.  They go deep on all these topics. Additionally, they cover the importance of separating your work and personal life as a sex worker, and the shifts in perspective when you're a young widow.

Website: www.katemaxx.com
Instagram: kate_maxx_

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest M (from Episode 5: Compersion, Episode 12: DP,  Episode 34: How to Squirt) and Daniel D'Ottavio (@dottavio77) from Episode 64: SNCTM to play the game WHOREible Life together! 

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! 

When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 

1 Done it — share the story!

2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!

3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.


Crawled on a leash held by another. What might motivate someone to engage in age play? Comparing and contrasting using a leash for a sub/dom scene, role playing as an animal, or role playing as a baby. (3:16)

Used a glory hole. How to make your own! The difference between a glory hole and milking table. (15:36)

Received double penetration. M's first DP experience. (20:12)

Sucked a cock with a Prince Albert Piercing. The negative aspects of giving head to someone with a genital piercing. (29:13)

Had sex with someone who didn't speak the same language as you. How demisexuality interferes with this fantasy! (31:54)

Worn a collar in public. (36:00)

Worn or played with a spreader bar. Using BDSM gear with multiple partners. (37:46)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including:

What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy?  How can you deal when you’re unsure whether it will work with someone who has no experience with being open? (4:51)

Vulva owners reciving oral: tasting yourself so you’re not worried about how you taste or smell, and the benefit of having a partner who loves natural body odors. (17:07)

Alexa’s secret to relaxing when receiving oral: setting time boundaries! How long do you think it actually takes you to orgasm? Getting over guilt for taking “too long” to orgasm while receiving. (22:49)

Bisexuality and biphobia.  How does biphobia show up in non-monogamous spaces? What is “one penis policy”, and how a male partner dictating that their female partner can be with other women but not other men is problematic. The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. (30:11)

 

The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. Normalizing speaking about bisexuality, especially in men. Watching your male partner give head and deep throating. (34:29) 

Alexa’s specialties, and the full range of volume in sex - letting go vocally when coming vs holding your breath and being totally silent. (39:20) 

Is it weird to announce it when you orgasm? (41:44) 

“Challenge your beliefs and question everything.” What do YOU actually want? The path to a greater sex life. (43:42) 

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
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This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL.
(Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.)

What to stop doing in oral sex. (2:38)

Tips for helping with gag reflex. (4:56)

Imbalance of giving head vs eating pussy. (10:14)

Challenges and hangups with oral. (12:45)

Best oral positions in group sex. (17:03)

Grooming and hygiene. (21:03)

Cum: spit or swallow? (27:17)

Cum: where to finish, and how to communicate about it. (29:42)

Ask Dr. Elle: 

• Is it bad to give or recieve oral with morning breath? (35:20)
• How do you give oral with stuffy nose? (40:01)
• How can whatever is in the giver’s mouth affect my genitals? PH balance, etc. (42:33)
• Is it ok to give head to an irritated dick? (45:05)
• How can you get rid of the condom taste? (48:44)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
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