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087: Orgasmic States: Full Body Orgasms, Becoming Orgasmic, and Energetic Release through Tantra with Intimacy Coach Magda Kay05 Sep 202401:10:56

In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with School of Intimacy founder, intimacy coach, and author of No More Faking It, Magda Kay.  This episode is FULL of "nuggets", touching on everything from tantra to energy centers to how to up the intimacy in your relationship to why it might be better to practice tantra with someone other than your primary partner. You don't want to miss this one!


Why tantra and intimacy coaching?


Becoming orgasmic: orgasming with yourself and unlocking the ability to orgasm with others.


The pussy as an energy hub: taking on sexual partners’ trauma. 


What is a full body orgasm, and how do we know if we’ve had one?


Orgasmic states and self mastery through tantra.


Releasing through tantric sex, and who should you practice with? Crying during sex, and holding space for your partner’s release.


How to find the right practitioner for a yoni or lingum massage. 


Listener Question: “How can I get my wife’s spark back in the bedroom?” 


Listener Question: “What’s a quick guide on tantric breathing?”


Intimacy Block: The ability to let go with people you don’t know or care about as much. 


Looking at sex as something more than just the physical experience. 


School of Intimacy: providing the foundation for better sex, relationship and tantric education.


Can you practice tantra with the same sex, when traditionally it's all about the yin and yang of the masculine and feminine energies?


Find Magda:

Website: www.magdakay.com
Instagram: @magdakayofficial
Youtube: @magdakay

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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086: “House Of Love” Sex Party Takeaways: Tips to Get Horny and Hard, Cream Pies, and How To Feel Confident in Your Post-Baby Body ... PLUS the Best Books for Dealing with Jealousy!29 Aug 202400:50:00

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up and discuss their takeaways from two sex party events their friend group (the Joy Fam) threw, including recapping sexy stories, "a-ha" moments and reflections. 

Implementing Lessons Learned: change your environment and have vacation sex! (0:33)


House of Love club night takeaways: Vee’s birthday celebration, and Elle’s first big night out since having a baby! Getting over new mom nervousness with costumes: How themes get you into the sexy mood - especially animal theme :) (3:56)


How to feel confident while carrying baby weight: MILK PLAY! Break the touch barrier by using breast milk play as an ice breaker? (5:56)


Sexy Story with The Greek: what makes a good single male in the lifestyle? Wolf energy. (11:11)


Feeling overwhelmed at a sex party when you’re the guest of honor, taking a backseat but staying involved. (18:27)


Joyunion: sex friends getting together with babies - it’s different but the same! (20:46)


TIP: how to get sexual if you’re not sure if you’re horny. Getting turned on by hearing another woman orgasming. (23:27)


Sexy story: Pushing past your own limits. Elle orgasms twice when she thinks she can only do it once. (27:13)


CREAM PIE STORY: Trying to do TVP (triple vaginal penetration), DVP (double vaginal penetration) and cream pies. (29:33)


TIP: take 5 minutes away from the overstimulation of the party to let your body relax and your dick to get hard. (31:46)


TAKEAWAY: The problem with peeing in the middle of the orgy. (34:26)


TAKEAWAY: The best orgy snack, and issues with dry mouth. (37:00)


Being a mom in an orgy and getting distracted during play.  How to re-center yourself and focus on your body and sensations. (39:36)


Listener question: Our book recommendations for jealousy! (43:34)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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077: Pro Domme and Professional Cuddler Bee on Therapeutic Kink, Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG) Dynamics, Yoni Gazing and Squirting Upside Down feat. Physics27 Jun 202401:01:16

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.

Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)


Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life.  Uneven labia. (11:09)


Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy.  The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)


Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)


DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)


Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)


Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)

Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)



Links:

Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzz
Find Physics on Fetlife: Physics

Websites:

CuddlesByBee.com
The Temple

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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076: Rape Fantasies (Consensual Non-Consent aka CNC), Parenting Sex Positivity and "The Sex Talk", Double Ended Dildos, and Masturbation feat. Slutlana and Alexa Andre20 Jun 202400:57:58

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia) to play the game Whoreible Life.

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!


 There are many many ways to play, so in this episode they play it two ways: “Would You Rather” and “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank You” - 

1 Done it — share the story!

2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!

3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.


Have you ever had sex in your parents’ bed?  How “the talk” and your parents’ approach to sex can affect your early relationship with sexuality. (3:13)

Different approaches to talking about sex with your kids. (8:48) 

Have you ever role played in a rape fantasy or “Consensual Non Consent” (CNC) scene?  Describing examples of CNC scenes, role playing, safe words and what needs to be discussed and agreed beforehand. (13:30)

Lowering our standards while dating during the Covid pandemic and putting ourselves in potentially unsafe situations. (22:52)

Catharsis in acting out fears through sexual fantasies like rape scenes and consensual non-consent. (30:34)

Would you rather use a double ended dildo or make a girl squirt?  Being surprised by a squirter. Glass vs silicone double ended dildos, and the first time orgasming with a double ended dildo - what position works best. (38:27)

Double ended dildo vs. Feeldo. (42:50)

Would you rather practice tantric sex or role play as submissive? Masturbating and focusing on the breath; breath orgasms without physical touch. (45:40)

Workout orgasms and Elle’s experience orgasming with an ab roller. (48:02)

Would you rather watch VR porn or be dominated to lose the right to orgasm? Orgasm denial, being a brat, and Reddit porn communities. (50:45)


Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

074: Sex Educator and Pro Domme Lola Jean on Fetish Wrestling, Choking Methods and Squirting Misconceptions (aka Why Squirting Sucks)06 Jun 202400:49:50

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). 


No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)

How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)


ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)

Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you’re trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)

Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)


Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)


Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)


What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)

What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)

Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)

Where to find Lola Jean:

Website: lolajean.com

Seven Days of Domination

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

073: Owning and Loving What You Do with Kate Maxx featuring Humiliatrix Work, Stripping, and OnlyFans Content Creation30 May 202400:56:07

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Kate Maxx, who is a "Jill of all trades": a former Naked News anchor, model, Young Swingers Week emcee (among other events), stripper, Only Fans content creator, and dominatrix specializing in humiliation.  They go deep on all these topics. Additionally, they cover the importance of separating your work and personal life as a sex worker, and the shifts in perspective when you're a young widow.

Website: www.katemaxx.com
Instagram: kate_maxx_

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

072: Guys Gone Deep on Age Play, Spreader Bars, Collaring, Prince Albert Piercings and Glory Holes with Daniel D'Ottavio and M23 May 202400:44:29

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest M (from Episode 5: Compersion, Episode 12: DPEpisode 34: How to Squirt) and Daniel D'Ottavio (@dottavio77) from Episode 64: SNCTM to play the game WHOREible Life together! 

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! 


When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 

1 Done it — share the story!

2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!

3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.


Crawled on a leash held by another. What might motivate someone to engage in age play? Comparing and contrasting using a leash for a sub/dom scene, role playing as an animal, or role playing as a baby. (3:16)

Used a glory hole. How to make your own! The difference between a glory hole and milking table. (15:36)

Received double penetration. M's first DP experience. (20:12)

Sucked a cock with a Prince Albert Piercing. The negative aspects of giving head to someone with a genital piercing. (29:13)

Had sex with someone who didn't speak the same language as you. How demisexuality interferes with this fantasy! (31:54)

Worn a collar in public. (36:00)

Worn or played with a spreader bar. Using BDSM gear with multiple partners. (37:46)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

071: Sexologist Alexa Andre on The Secret to Relaxing While Receiving Oral, “One Penis Policy”, Biphobia and How to Navigate When One Partner is Less Experienced in Ethical Non Monogamy16 May 202400:48:41

This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including:

What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy?  How can you deal when you’re unsure whether it will work with someone who has no experience with being open? (4:51)


Vulva owners reciving oral: tasting yourself so you’re not worried about how you taste or smell, and the benefit of having a partner who loves natural body odors. (17:07)


Alexa’s secret to relaxing when receiving oral: setting time boundaries! How long do you think it actually takes you to orgasm? Getting over guilt for taking “too long” to orgasm while receiving. (22:49)


Bisexuality and biphobia.  How does biphobia show up in non-monogamous spaces? What is “one penis policy”, and how a male partner dictating that their female partner can be with other women but not other men is problematic. The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. (30:11)

 

The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. Normalizing speaking about bisexuality, especially in men. Watching your male partner give head and deep throating. (34:29) 

 

Alexa’s specialties, and the full range of volume in sex - letting go vocally when coming vs holding your breath and being totally silent. (39:20) 

 

Is it weird to announce it when you orgasm? (41:44) 

 

“Challenge your beliefs and question everything.” What do YOU actually want? The path to a greater sex life. (43:42) 

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

070: Oral Part 2: Gag Reflex Tips, Orgy Oral Positions, Spitting vs Swallowing, and the Importance of Grooming09 May 202400:57:33

This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL.
(Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.)

What to stop doing in oral sex. (2:38)


Tips for helping with gag reflex. (4:56)


Imbalance of giving head vs eating pussy. (10:14)


Challenges and hangups with oral. (12:45)


Best oral positions in group sex. (17:03)


Grooming and hygiene. (21:03)


Cum: spit or swallow? (27:17)


Cum: where to finish, and how to communicate about it. (29:42)


Ask Dr. Elle: 

  • Is it bad to give or recieve oral with morning breath? (35:20)
  • How do you give oral with stuffy nose? (40:01)
  • How can whatever is in the giver’s mouth affect my genitals? PH balance, etc. (42:33)
  • Is it ok to give head to an irritated dick? (45:05)
  • How can you get rid of the condom taste? (48:44)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

069: Oral Part 1: Our Favorite Techniques for Giving Head and Eating Out, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics02 May 202400:53:10

It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it. 

Why do you deep throat? (1:53)


Enthusiasm - our number one tip! The importance of moaning to show enthusiasm when receiving. (6:37)


Techniques for giving head: the corkscrew method; communication; ball sucking and licking. (9:49)


Getting comfortable! The best positions to give head and go down on someone. (15:08)


Techniques for licking pussy (cunnilingus, going down on someone, etc): make out with the clit; build gradual pressure. (19:10)


Eating out: flicking vs sucking the clit; fingering in conjunction with clit play; in and out vs come hither. (22:34)


Tongue fucking. (25:44)


How do you stop someone if you don’t like what they’re doing? How to be comfortable sitting on someone’s face, and why you might not want really good head in a play situation. (27:21)


Eye contact during oral: yay or nay? (36:03)


What should we stop doing? What makes oral bad? Teeth, smell and bad hygiene, and the importance of tasting your own cum. (40:24)


How to give head (fellatio, blow jobs) to uncircumcised dicks. What do you do with the foreskin? (45:09)


Power dynamics of oral sex: who’s in charge? Face fucking. (47:38)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

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WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

068: Sensation Play with Sarah Eve: TENS and Electroplay, “Pervertables”, and Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body25 Apr 202400:54:11

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session, to safety considerations (especially when using electroplay), and so much more.

Sarah Eve is an educator and facilitated a mini workshop on sensation play at Daytime Playtime: a Sober Play Party, which Vee recapped in Episode 063.

What is sensation play? How can we stimulate different senses to heighten a sexual experience? It’s not just touch - how to play with scent, sight, taste, and smell, too. (6:58)


What’s in your bag of tools for sensation play? (12:58)


Things to consider: intensity, pressure, speed, direction and location. (18:10)


Setting and negotiating the scene to deliver a great experience: the right questions to ask before engaging in a sensory play scene. (20:50)


TENS unit play and electro play - what to ask beforehand, insertables, using condoms and safety.  (23:47)


What can you do when you don’t have tools at your disposal? Using your mouth: breath, spit, temperature, teeth. (30:17)


Thoughts on numbing or intensifying creams? (39:00)


How long is a good amount of time for a sensation play session? (44:09)


Pain play and floggers. (47:52)


What does sensation play do for couples? De-centering penetrative sex. (49:40)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

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WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

085: Getting Weird with Your Slutty Friends: “Baptism by Pee”, Putting Objects in Your Vagina, Sexual Alter Egos, All-Girl Play (FFF Threesomes and more), and Comparing The Best Strap-ons22 Aug 202400:40:19

In this episode, the girls chat with Mommy (Episode 018: Female Friendships in ENM) and play WHOREible Life, their favorite game to break down barriers and get naughty AND deep! They touch on everything from being called Mommy during sex, to stretching fetishes and putting food in vaginas, to bisexuality and all-female orgies!


Growth: seizing the moment rather than getting in your head and not taking advantage of sexy opportunities. (1:59)


-Would you rather role play as a teacher or be called mommy during sex? (7:52)


-Would you rather have peanut butter licked off your genitals or be peed on? (12:35)


Whats Up Down There? The weird things people put in their vaginas, and what’s the weirdest thing you’ve had in your vagina or put into a vagina? (14:51)


Pee Play: Peeing on people, first Tinder dates with pee fetishists, Baptism by pee. When you’re new to the lifestyle and go on a date with someone who’s super kinky. (19:15)


Watersports and Vee pushing her boundaries by sitting in pee in bathtubs and in resort pools. (22:50)


-Would you rather have a same sex threesome or give another bruises from impact play? (26:08)


All girl play and bisexuality on a spectrum. Sometimes you crave female energy, and sometimes you crave a dick! (30:00)


Comparing Elle and Mommy’s favorite strap ons: Oxyd Creations and Strap-On-Me. (34:09)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

067: Overcoming Challenges and Exploring Dynamics in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Stag and Vixen, Playing Separately vs Together, and Alcohol's Effects 18 Apr 202400:47:18

In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success.  Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so much work? ...And what are some hot experiences they've had along the way?

First Hedo experience: a big challenge. Going through a polyamorous breakup. (3:55)

Tools from both solo and couples therapy. People pleasing. No "taking one for the team".  (8:42) 

Safety Tool: No record-counting. Setting desires not goals. (12:30)

Safety Tool: Move at the pace of the slowest person. Playing separately vs. playing together. (15:34)

Safety Tool: limiting alcohol consumption to help manage emotions. (17:51)

Safety Tool: Only argue for two minutes. Keep the mindset that you're a team. (19:01)

Spicy story: being a couple's first ENM experience. Enthusiastic consent. (20:01)

Spicy Story: Superslut's first double penetration (DP). (21:31)

Stag and Vixen: what is it? Why a woman might not enjoy watching her partner with someone else. Finding your dynamic through trial and error. Why Hedonism is not the ideal place to figure out what works for you. (22:50)

Drinking and the lifestyle: how drinking affects your ability to respect boundaries and agreements. Getting sober to save your relationship. How stopping drinking can enrich your experience with your partner. Getting used to being at an all-inclusive resort without alcohol. Discovering we are braver than we thought. What do you do with your hands? (28:29)

Why swing? Dressing sexy for your partner. Vaginal hook harnesses. (35:49)

Why be in the open lifestyle? Sense of community. "Hedo people are the best people." Icebreakers. (38:13)


Major takeaway: don’t have a checklist. Release expectations. There’s always next time. (41:01)

Squirting and exhibitionism. (43:20)






Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

066: Guys Gone Deep on Prostate Play, Squirt Juice Facials, Spit Play and Latex Fetish feat. Zachary Zane and The Builder11 Apr 202401:10:23

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game.


First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ :

from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life!

Then, The Builder:

from  Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other episodes! 


Fucking yourself in the ass as a way to warm yourself up and clean yourself out before a play night. (3:20)


Squirt juice facials with a side of hot sweaty squirty sex.  (9:24)


Spitting on your partner and into their mouth. (16:01)


For men, the balance of being forward yet also needing to read the room correctly. (19:45)


Enthusiastic consent in straight play spaces versus opt-out consent in gay spaces. (22:42)


Prostate play and how to have a prostate orgasm. (25:10)


Leaking prostate juices and toys for prostate play: nJoy and anal hook discussed. (29:14) 


Airtight: the benefits of each position. (38:26)


"Running a train". (44:19)

 

Experiences meeting people on ENM or swinger apps. (50:15)


Working through catfishing and making real connections on dating apps. (54:48) 


Where do you meet dates, and what do you do dates with a unicorn or another couple? (59:59)


Full head mask during sex and latex fetish experience. (1:03:03)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

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065: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2024: Intentions and Takeaways, featuring Squirting, Day Orgies, Speculum "Caving" and Slut Scouts04 Apr 202401:04:52

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica.  It's a weeklong takeover of the resort, full of nudity, orgies, theme parties and debauchery! 

Vee articulates her intentions, and later they recap the week and their experiences of it - both there and from afar - and what their takeaways were!

This conversation includes:

Lingerie vs rave costumes at lifestyle theme parties. PLUS packing tips! (:45)

Setting Sexual intentions: butt stuff, Nuru, daytime orgies! (14:13)

HSB 2024 recap. (20:40)

Sexual intentions fulfilled? Additional intentions during the week. (21:59)

Day orgies recap aka DORGIES! Dorgy 1: Nuru and DP (double penetration). (23:00)

Dorgy 2: Nuru and getting out of your head to squirt. (28:00)

Slut Scouts: what it is, how to play, badges. (30:33)

“Gardening” Badge: using gardening tools as sex toys because Elle is a freak ;) (33:01)

Water Sports Badge: golden showers. (34:11)

“Spelunking” aka “Caving” Badge: pussy spreading with speculums (medical play). (36:38)

“Global Action” Badge: Eiffel Tower sex position, impact play spanking session, and shibari harness sex. Vee has an aha moment and becomes the initiator! (38:38)

Making a girl squirt, strapping girl on girl with strap ons. (44:13)

Major Takeaway: balancing friends and sex at HSB; Vee’s demisexuality confirmed! Building on relationships to have better sex. (48:32)

Pro Tips for Hedo! Learn from the girls’ experience. (51:14)

balancing friends satellite friends and new people. (57:12)

Dealing with fomo: just like Burning Man, wherever you are is where you’re supposed to be. (59:35)


For more on Hedonism including FAQs and tips and tricks, check out:

014: HSB: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights

015: Going Deep with Julia Lange: the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing Breakers

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064: SNCTM with Daniel D’Ottavio: Erotic Performance Art, Exploration Through Anonymity, and the Deeper Meaning Behind Impact Play28 Mar 202400:49:42

In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside.  They cover the club, but also go super deep with their guest on the deeper meaning behind impact play, his love and adoration of his burlesque champion wife, and their artistic partnership.

Daniel D’Ottavio: his role in SNCTM, and his origin story with his wife, Lou Lou D’vil, the creative director or SNCTM. (1:03)


Monogamy and SNCTM: The choice to stay monogamous while working for a sex club, what your first sex club experience feels like, and learning about the consent culture. (5:27)


Erotic storytelling: How telling stories through erotic arts lead Daniel and his wife to SNCTM, and how her creative direction helped create a femme-empowered, luscious environment. (9:41)


What to expect at a SNCTM party: ambiance, service, clientele, privacy (including masks and NDA’s). (13:54)


Accountability and communication: How have these experiences affected Daniel’s personal growth, and his relationship growth? (18:15)


Types of performances at SNCTM: aerial, kink, and theatrical erotic artistry. (20:52)


Kink workshops: Discovering kink and impact play, and evolving into an educator. (23:05)


Catharsis and therapeutic benefits of impact play: The deeper meaning behind kinks and fetishes. (25:01)


The importance of having spaces to explore sex, kink, fetish and fantasy. (31:36)


How has SNCTM evolved since ownership changed in 2019? Consent rules, NDA’s, masks, one-strike policy, single women. (33:30)


SNCTM: fever dreams and sexual fantasies, and the emphasis on having a female-empowered environment. (42:21)


Nuggets from being part of the lifestyle community. (45:30)


Websites:

SNCTM

Cocoon


Instagram: 

@dottavio77 

@snctmsociety

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063: “Daytime Playtime” Sober Play Party: Penis Sounding, Sensation Play, Cumming On Top, Apple Vision Pro Home Porn21 Mar 202401:04:31

Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54)


What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vibe: lighting, highlighting hit me up, attire, number of people. (4:54)


What sobriety brings to a sex party. (7:21)


Lola Jean: Spicing up the typical consent speech, including an interactive exercise. (9:31)


Making eye contact at a sex party: it;s not necesssarily an invitation! (11:02) 


Embodiment, setting intentions, and setting boundaries workshop: giving permission to others with your actions, and how to have initial conversations with new people about boundaries and STI status. (13:47)


Sarah Eve: sensation (sensory) play workshop, including tools, blindfolds, temperature play, breath and intensity. (20:28)


Does kink always have to be sexual? (26:22)


Penis sounding: Vee performs her first urethral sound! What is it, how do you do it, and what does it feel like? (33:10)


All the dirty details: Sensation play on the hitachi wand chair, blocking out voyeurs to get out of your head to orgasm. (44:15)


Cumming on top vs cumming on bottom. (49:54)


Sex club etiquette: is it ok to cum on chests at a public play party? (53:39)


Sex and technology: Apple vision pro’s capabilities for personal porn, and its limitations. (57:52)

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062: Sugar Daddy Fantasies, Orgasm Control, Foot Worship and Sex Dungeon Experiences14 Mar 202400:59:07

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game!

Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformational Experiences in ENM and Episode 42: Sexual Somatic Healing and Sasha Silver (@Sashasilverxo) from Episode 54: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix.

With Leia, the way we played the game was by answering “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank you” and with Sasha, we had to guess if the person who drew the card had done it or not.


Plan B use in college and IUDs. (2:28)


Have you ever had a sugar daddy or sugar mommy and seeking.com discussed.  (07:29)


Orgasm control, edging, cumming on demand.  (12:50)


Impact play with a crop.  (20:37)


Dominatrix Masterclass details shared. (22:13)


Been choked during sex, passing out, fingerprint marks, where pressure is applied and hand placement on the neck/chest. (28:06)


Using WHOREibe Life the game for tips on chaturbate. (36:05)


Massage with a happy ending and surprise rub and tug experience. (37:13)


Received foot worship and toe sucking and double dom experience shared. (43:23)


Sex dungeon experiences shared. (49:34)


Not being a voyeur creep in the sex cub and double standard of women watching others. (55:32)

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061: New High-End Sex Party Noetic: Fantasies, Strap-ons, Consent Double Standards and Hot Girl Privilege 07 Mar 202401:04:19

Listen in as Elle and Vee chat with Amy and Byron about Noetic, an exclusive elite VIP sex  party which  hosts  unique, kinky, themed events in NYC, Miami, and Dubai. They cover everything from strap-ons to consent double standards and hot girls privilege.


What does Noetic mean? (0:44)

What is the orientation of the attendees of these events?  (4:04)


How does allowing women to have complimentary membership impact the dynamic and ambiance of the parties? (5:46)


What can one expect at Noetic event?  (13:01)


What types of performances are there at Noetic? (21:32)


What is the importance of having a space to explore sexual desires? (24:02)


Fantasies: worship fantasy, massage fantasy, heteroflexible gang bang, pregnancy fantasy. (26:54) 


What are the membership requirements and process? (33:17)


Consent: the double standard between men and women, and the different weight it holds in ENM vs monogamous dating. (37:51)


The difference between membership types: Basic, VIP and Prestige VIP. (44:21)


How does Noetic enforce and protect anonymity and discretion of its elite members? (46:27)


What is required of guests to attend an event or try Noetic before committing to a membership?  (50:32)


How do Burning Man and ENM overlap? (57:57)


Using ENM and communication to grow.  (59:14)


Learn more about Noetic Here.

Follow Noetic's Instagram.


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060: NSFW Sex Club Founder Daniel Saynt on Creating a Sex Positive Community, Bi Male Acceptance, and Cannabis and Herbal Sexual Enhancements 29 Feb 202401:17:12

In this episode Vee and Elle had special guest Daniel Saynt on the show: founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, AKA New Society for Wellness,  which is an NYC-based sex club and community. 

They get into what makes NSFW different from other sex spaces, how they host workshops around sex education and communication, how they create safe space for all genders and sexual orientations, including bisexual and gay men, to feel welcomed and safe to explore their sexy sides… and way more! 


Bisexuality: Daniel shares his journey as a bi male, and the difference between bi men and women. (2:37)

Daniel shares what lead to the creation of NSFW,  a sex positive community that is inclusive for all, especially bisexual and gay men with a focus on sex positivity education.(7:43)


Consent differences in straight sexual spaces with women and how it’s different in all male spaces where you give up consent as you walk in. (9:56)

Rejection: Daniel shares tips on using your no’s, how to set your own boundaries, and how to deliver and receive rejection. (13:40)


The vibes when you arrive at NSFW.  (17:32)


What makes an inviting sexual play space for a sex club and the evolution of NSFW spaces and events. (19:57)


Daniel descibes the new East Village location that is set to open March/April 2024. (24:24)


Does Daniel get to enjoy himself when he is at the club?  (28:30)


Why does NSFW have an all black dress code?  (31:44)


Cannabis: Daniel discusses cannabis strains he has created that are paired with various medicinal herbs to enhance sexual experience. (34:06)


Why the new East Village location will not serve alcohol; rather, it will have elixirs, tinctures and potions. (38:33)


Vee dives into the sexual awakening that occurs when around likeminded people with various levels of experiences and we dive into some Daniel fantasies, dom/sub, producing fantasies for other people  (41:58)


The flow of the night at an NSFW party. (46:23) 


NSFW memberships. (48:52)


NSFW’s own LOVER cryptocurrency, why it’s beneficial for them to use crypto for their sex community and simplifying purchasing and its use. (52:11)


NSFW legal and funding questions answered. (56:09)


Why did the Brooklyn location close?  (58:04)


What’s happening with NSFW? 
 (1:02:00)


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Learn more about NSFW and apply here

Purchase NSFW’s Eden Direct Cannabis

Find Daniel @DanielSaynt on all social platforms

Contact danielsaynt@gmail.com

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059: Sensual Shibari Practitioner Jaqueline Michelle on Embodiment after Disassociation, Healing Trauma, Solo Kink and Conscious Sex Work21 Feb 202401:06:05

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with sensuality mentor and sensual shibari practitioner Jaqueline Michelle about ways to heal trauma and connect with yourself.  They touch on everything from solo kink to conscious sex work and strip clubs, the stigma around stripping and finding what makes you feel sexy, relearning to tune into your body when you disassociate to healing trauma through movement and self love practices, and surrendering to your inner domme or sub.


Jaqueline Michelle's healing journey: from disassociation and being inorgasmic, to discovering tantra, meditation and yoga, to sensuality embodiment mentor. (2:52)


Body awareness and healing. (8:53)


What is sensuality? (11:49)


Masculine vs feminine, embodiment tools and processing emotions, and shadow alchemy. (20:35)


Ways to move trauma through the body and out through sensual movement, writing, rope bondage, sensory play, and self pleasure practices. (25:19)


What does intuitive sensual movement or ecstatic dance do for someone? How does it benefit a practitioner?  How can you be in your body and feel into your feelings? (27:18)


Finding your own version of sexy, and bringing tantric work into the strip club. (32:26)


Conscious stripping and femme-powered strip club Rosewood Theater in NYC. (37:35)


Overcoming the stigmas around being a stripper. (42:03)


Solo kink and channeling your inner domme and inner sub; self bondage and self pleasure practices. (43:28)


Overcoming disassociating: What advice do you have for women who struggle with sensual embodiment? Feeling your feelings deeply and sitting with discomfort to heal trauma. (47:05)


How can solo embodiment practices support your non monogamy journey? (51:12)


Sex and energy transfer: protecting yourself from absorbing your partners' energy. (55:37)


LINKS:

Work with Jaqueline Michelle

Instagram: @jaquemich

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058: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play15 Feb 202400:49:53

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging, to play the game WHOREible Life together! 

This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! 


When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 

1 Done it —with story sharing

2 Fantasy —-with desire share

3 No thank you --and why not


Ass swallowing butt plug experience. (1:00) 

Toy Review: Amovibe Pro+G Spot Flapping Vibrator with Kissing Function & Vibrating Tongue. (6:15) 

NEW with GGD:  New Episode series launch: Why WHOREible Life? (12:55) 

First WL card: “Take a sip for every person you have peed on.” Thoughts are shared around the psychology of what brings on the kink of pee play. (15:19)

Second WL Card: “Been Fisted” and overcoming the idea of, “yeah right, a hand won’t fit in there”  (24:34) 

How to stay focused on your current partner(s) without getting distracted in a group play situation. (28:42)

No pressure to perform leading to organic sexual play. (33:53)

How Jess and Ace evolved into separate play. (36:12)

Vee shares her first fisting experience. (37:15)

Looser pussy with DVP and solving the triple penetration logistical problem. (42:50) 

EXCITING NEW UPDATES WITH GGD: A website, merch shop, & Slutstakes. (45:54) 

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084: Solo Travel and Vacation Horniness: Hot Hookups, Nipple and Anal Play, and “Selling Someone” on Open Relationships and Sex Toys … PLUS Listener Questions: Sex Party Newbies and Men’s Body Hair15 Aug 202400:53:43

In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up on Vee’s solo trip to Thailand and Vietnam. Vee has some major sexual takeaways and "aha moments" going on vacation with no sex in sight... until the last day of her trip when she met Mr. Bangkok. Hear her play by play and so much more, including:


Solo Travel: not knowing when you’re going to have sex next, and where are all the sex clubs in Thailand?! (1:57)


Hot Hookup: Vee has a sexy one night stand in Bangkok after 8 hours of foreplay in the back of a bus! The sexiness of meeting in a non-sexual environment. (6:54)


NIPPLE PLAY: Vee almost has a nipple orgasm. Techniques of nipple play. The beauty of having an experience with someone who can’t get enough of you no matter what you look or smell like. (15:35)


ANAL PLAY: enthusiasm and ravenousness. (23:38)


Hooking up with Monogamous, Macho Men: how to approach the “open relationship” conversation with a vanilla hookup. Unlearning ingrained societal norms. Toys in the bedroom. (26:01)


Relaxation plus vacation equals maximum horniness! (30:49)


Listener Questions, Answered!


How to Find Your Lifestyle Community (especially when you live in less progressive areas): Kasidie, Feeld, SDC, SLS, Fetlife, hotel takeovers, Luxx Parties, etc. and the benefits of each option. (33:44)


Dipping Your Toes Into Sex Parties and Kink for the First Time: go to meetups and mixers rather than the full blown sex parties. Go early to sex parties for the ice breaker games and making connections while it’s less crowded! (42:12)


Men’s Body Hair: what’s popular these days, and what’s appropriate? If you take nothing else away from this:  Shave your balls and asshole. (48:58)

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057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life!08 Feb 202401:06:26

In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and the nerdiness of polyamorous people. 

Being “closeted” as a sex positive swinger. (3:42)

Pansexual vs bisexual. (7:12)


From sexually confused to "The Bisexual Mega Influencer." (13:13)


Bisexual visibility/audibility. (18:46)


Untangling anal stigmas - can you be seen as masculine AND enjoy anal play? (23:44)


Common myths or misrepresentations of bisexuals. (27:28)


Overcoming sexual shame and coming out as bi. (34:05)


How to come into your own and overcome shame: finding your people, and identifying who or what is trying to shame you. (38:54)


Polyamory. (45:05)


The challenges of being biexual. (46:55)


Trans party Inferno. (49:43)


Sexy threesome story, MMF vs MFM, and having sex with people who are on the same page as you. (51:24)


How to channel your inner Boyslut! (1:01:54)


Links:

ZacharyZane.com
Zachary Zane on Instagram

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056: 2024 Sexual Intentions and Fuckit List Items: Sex Dolls, MFMs, and Overcoming Codependency01 Feb 202400:56:46

In this episode, Elle and Vee reflect on their sexual highlights from 2023, and look forward to what they want to focus on in 2024, sexually and personally.  But first, they recap and share takeaways from their 16-person NYC weekend.

Slutcracker weekend recap. (3:05)

Takeaway: Finding quiet moments to recharge batteries. (6:27)

Hot takes on the NSFW soft opening. (11:40) 

Hoes in Hoboken: Joy Edition. (17:26)

Highlight: Vee gives head from start to finish! (21:50)

Takeaway: The bonus of more intimate settings and smaller groups. (26:50)

2023 Sexual Highlights: Day orgies, sex swing, the freedom to throuple, MFMs and more male group play. (31:18)

Highlight: Sex doll Channing! (37:49)

Toy Highlights: double ended dildo, and the importance of getting to know a toy in private. (40:45)

Sexual intentions for 2024, including DP and more butt stuff. (43:03)

Intention: Maintaining body confidence while pregnant. (44:27)

Intention: Overcoming codependency. (47:40)

Intention: Communicating when you're triggered. (51:30)

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055: The Beauty of Sex as Play: Deep Throating, “Caving”, Double-ended Dildos, and “Who’s in My Mouth?”25 Jan 202401:00:25

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up after their separate slutty adventures.  Elle gives all the naughty details of her trip to Nicaragua with a group of ENM friends, and Vee shares her sexy stories and takeaways from the Naughty Snowball, an annual sexy party thrown by Brandi and the DJ.  

Through detailing their experiences, you get an inside look at all the ways in which Elle, Vee and their friends get intimate and playful one-on-one with their primary partners, and in group sex situations...some things might surprise you!

Elle and M’s playful night: Hand jobs, VR porn and dildos. (3:52)


Deep throating: to do it or not to do it? (10:09)


Pregnancy sexuality updates. (16:15)


Being drawn to your partner at parties. (18:47)


Vee recaps the Naughty Snowball party. (22:52)


Getting day orgies started: Who’s in my mouth? (23:24) 


Masturbating to get sex started. (29:23)


Choking and consent. (31:16)


Nicaragua: caving. (38:55)


Sex is the way we play as adults. The beauty of play. (47:35)


Sensory deprivation cave game: who’s going down on me? (50:49)


Double sided dildo, and the need to play with new toys in a more intimate setting. (53:21)


What makes a sexy weekend successful: starting with group play, and doing fear/desires/boundaries. (57:05)


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054: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix with Sasha Silver: Financial Domination, Small Penis Humiliation, Giantess Fantasy and Healing Through Kink18 Jan 202401:19:44

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Femdom Sasha Silver. The girls talk about her journey from webcamming to dominatrix to self discovery to the psychology behind many kinks and fetishes. This conversation has so many good nuggets! We're excited for you take a deep dive with us!

Who is Sasha Silver and how she got into webcamming on Chaturbate, and online Sex Work. (1:38)
What is a cam girl?  (4:30)
Sasha shares web cam tips that helped her success. (5:38)
What was on Sasha’s cam girl menu?  (9:18)
What is a day of work like and what are the challenges?  (11:10)
How did Sasha transition from webcam girl to Femdom?  Uncovering her authentic self in the process. (12:36)
How do we women channel our confidence and assertiveness? (16:30)
What is an interaction like with clients?  (18:26)
Small penis humiliation story, and the psychology and healing behind fetish and dom work. (20:52)
How does being a dom and embodying various different role plays change Sasha's personal desires and kink?  (27:08)
Masculine and feminine energy and the misunderstanding of alpha males and beta males. (28:57)
Which requests does Sasha turn down and does she meet clients in person?  (33:17)
How did Sasha learn to become a Femdom?  (40:44)
Role-playing as a creative outlet and practicing instant forgiveness.  (43:10)
What are the latest fetishes? Giantess fantasy, pregnancy, paraphilic infantilism (ageplay). (47:28)
What about domming women? (54:51)
What is financial domination? How does it work? Is there aftercare?  What does it do for the sub? (56:17)
Sasha's transformation to be the woman she is today, letting go of shame (1:07:01)
Quick questions: What does she wear for sessions? Impact play tools during virtual sessions? (1:12:02)

You can find Sasha Silver on Twitter / X  HERE 

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053: Butt Stuff: Anal Sex, Pegging, DP, Butt Plugs, Rimjobs, Douching, and Everything In Between!11 Jan 202401:08:29

In the episode you've all been waiting for ;), Elle and Vee dive deep into all things BUTT STUFF, including (drumroll please)... Vee's play by play of her first DP! 

New Years Eve: Vee does DP (double pentration)! (2:23)

Butt plugs: tails and inflatable butt plugs - the pros and cons and what to watch out for! Douching, and butt plugs falling out. (12:45)

Lubes: types of lube (silicone vs water based), coconut oil and lube shooters. What Elle learned from the Reddit thread Ask Gay Bros. (26:01)

Rimjobs aka rimming. (30:41)

Nail hygiene and the snag test. (32:12)

First Experiences: how bad ones scar us; experimenting and opening our minds to butt stuff. (34:00)

Anal training. (36:01)

Diet: psyllium husk, fiber, acacia, water! (38:18)

First time receiving anal vs first time enjoying it; synesthesia and seeing visions during orgasms and anal. (42:40)


Pegging: communication and should you stimulate the person being pegged? (48:45)


Positions: comparing anal on top, missionary, and doggy style. (53:24)


Golden Rule of Ass Play: no cross-contamination, and cleanliness - gloves, peeing, and washing after. (54:35)


“It’s gay for a guy to like butt stuff.” (1:00:00) 


“My asshole doesn’t look like a porn asshole.” (1:02:04)


Set and setting: going into butt play with the right headspace. (1:03:32)

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052: Enthusiastic Consent, Slut Hacks, Airtight Sex Dolls and DVAP (DVP + Anal)04 Jan 202400:56:25

Happy New Year! Elle and Vee usher in 2024 by reflecting on some of the  never-before-released clips from some of the most popular episodes of 2023.
 
 Nipples through shirts: Free the nipple?  What are the ethics of letting your nipples show through your shirt in public?  What about wearing a shirt with fake nipples built in?  (2:34)
 
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 041)
 
 DVAAP: What's the best position to make triple penetration (DVP and anal) work? The importance of set and setting for DVP and DP.  (9:11)
 
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 012)
 
Pregnant Sex: What's the difference in having sex with a pregnant woman? Updates on how is Elle feeling in her second trimester.  (17:07)
 
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 039)

Blow up sex dolls and bunkbed sex: Elle shares dirty details from her trip to Tulum, including getting a sex doll airtight and the challenges of having sex on bunkbeds.  (23:34)

“Slut hacks” for getting turned on: switching the ambience, and using your wand.  (34:49)


(Hear the full conversation in Episode 003)


Healing Trauma Through Yoni Massage: how energy is stored in the body and how we can heal it through somatic sexual practices.  (37:24)


FRIES: an acronym for all the aspects that need to be present to create true enthusiastic consent.  Revoking consent, and feeling pressured to play. (42:49)


(Hear the full conversation in Episode 045)


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051: Interviewing Julia Lange, the Woman Who Runs Hedonism Swing Breakers (HSB): What To Expect, Tips for Newbies, and What to Bring28 Dec 202301:18:10

Wrapping up 2023! Podcast stats revealed! THANK YOU to our listeners! We appreciate you spending time with us each week and for sharing this podcast with others! 

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind a sexy vacation week called Hedonism Swing Breakers (HSB) that happens every year in March at resort Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! Then, they answer all your questions submitted on social media about Hedo.
 
How did Hedonism II and Hedonism Swing Breakers come about?  How did it become a family business? How nudity levels the playing field. (9:31)

How can ethical non-monogamy (ENM) enrich your relationship? (17:41)

All about HSB (Hedonism Swing Breakers) - How many guests are there? What's the difference between typical weeks and HSB? Are throuples allowed? (19:37)
 
 What types of people and age groups go to Hedonism II in Jamaica? (22:10)

What are the rules at Hedo? What does Hedo do to keep it safe for guests? (25:23)
 
 How the workshops and theme nights help you explore different sides of yourself. (28:19)
 
 Permanent residency at Hedonism II Resort. (34:43)
 
 What do the Jamaicans and staff think of Hedonism guests? (35:36)
 
 How has being in the lifestyle affected your relationship with yourself and with your partner? (40:12)
 
 Social Media Question Answered:

  •  Tips for newbies! 
    •  "What should I pack?" (44:19)
    •  "Is there anything I should know about the resort?" (47:07)
    •  "Which excursions should I go on?" (49:48)
    •  "Should I go see the shows?" (51:50)
    •  "Is there anything I should know about the Jamaican airport?" (52:12)
    •  "How do I get from the airport to Hedonism?" (54:38)
  •  Where do Elle and Vee get their sexy rave theme outfits (costumes)? (58:17)
  •  How does Hedo compare to other lifestyle resorts? (63:43)
  •  Rapid fire questions! DP (double penetration), anonymous sex, sexual numbers,  roses and thorns of the trip, how did you accomplish a desire you set for yourself. (1:08:31)


To here Elle's and Vee's recap of the 2023 event experience, Check out EPISODE 14

To check out Hedonism Swing Breakers March 16 – 23, 2024  Event, click here 

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050: Handling Rejection: How To Turn Someone Down, Polysaturation and Getting Out of a Group Sex Situation21 Dec 202300:53:49

The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including:

Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or turn someone down in the moment at a sex party? How circumstances, headspace and how well you know the person comes into play: private play parties, organized play parties, lifestyle resorts, etc. (10:45)

The do's and don'ts of rejection.  Rejecting over text, ghosting, and being clear and respectful. (16:24)

Vee gets rejected over text, and how to deal with being rejected. (22:45)

Couples and rejection: just because your partner plays with someone does not mean you will play with them or their partner.  (24:58)

How to reject someone during group sex when you’re not into one of the people. (27:43)

Being approached vs approaching: The gender norms in pursuing, and how we subconsciously consider feelings differently between men and women. (34:41)

Turning down couples with different boundaries. (37:49)

Common Excuses: “I have my period.” (39:38 42:08)

Common Excuses: “I’m polysaturated.” What is polysaturated, using it as a way to turn someone down, and how to deal with polysaturation. (44:35)

The concept of “veto”. (46:59)

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049: Vagina Health: How to stay DTF, Tips to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs14 Dec 202300:54:33

In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health.  Elle is a medical professional - a nutritional therapist and holistic  medical professional with a Doctor of Pharmacy degree, so Vee uses this opportunity to pick her brain about how to prevent the most common of vaginal issues, including:
 
 Chronic yeast infections and BV (bacterial vaginosis): natural solutions, vaginal PH balance and probiotics. What specific probiotic strains should we look for when buying probiotics? (7:01)

Yeast infections: how do antibiotics affect our vaginas? Medications vs boric acid. How do condoms, lubes and sperm affect our PH levels? (13:20)

Online medical solutions: WISP (@hellowisp), and finding the right resources online. (20:21)

Can our body be trying to tell us something? Irregular PAP smears, precancerous cells and LEEP procedures. (22:21)

How does our diet affect our vaginas? Sugar, antibiotics, muscle testing and getting yeast infections in foreign countries, plus coconut oil has anti fungal benefits! (26:21)

UTIs: peeing protocol, the right cranberry supplements, the right things to wash with, and why Elle doesn’t recommend douching. (33:36)

Vagina upkeep: how to keep your vagina healthy on lifestyle vacations, at sex parties etc. What do Elle and Vee have on hand during, and what to use beforehand and afterwards. (42:21)

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048: Freaksgiving Revisit: Sex Party Hosting Checklist, Sub/Dom and Impact Play, and Prioritizing Your Partner07 Dec 202300:36:57

Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend.  After the 2022 edition, the girls debriefed their weekend, including:

How to throw a great sex party! Valuing comfort: what’s on the checklist when setting up as a host? (2:42 )

The girls share their intentions, and what they learned from implementing them, including communicating your desires in the moment, and acting on your sexual feelings. (8:33 )

Elle shares a fun, sexy moment and the girls talk about the benefits of private versus public play. (10:20 )

Vee shares a story about a foursome, and how that experience helped her exercise her intention of acting on it when you feel sexual, and how “breaking the seal” of sexuality gets you in the mood for more sex. (14:45 )

BDSM and Spanking: Elle gives the play by play of a BDSM impact play scene, Vee talks about what she gets out of being the sub in an impact scene (spanking), and how BDSM can help you go deeper. (19:10 )

Observing the difference in your energy when you’re at a party solo versus with your partner.  (27:45 )

Prioritizing time with your partner at parties. (29:19 )

How to break the ice and force yourself to socialize with everyone at a party! (32:55 )

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083: Dildos and Fleshlights, Pregnant Sex Positions, First Times, and Formative Sexual Experiences feat. Brandi08 Aug 202400:40:59

In this episode, the girls bring back Brandi from Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix

Together they play WHOREible Life by trying to guess whether or not each player has done the act mentioned on the card. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!



Sex Positions While Pregnant: which positions create a boy and which create a girl, and why laying on your back doesn’t work while pregnant. (2:15)


Card 1: Had sex before the age of 15? First time stories. (9:41)


What is considered “full on sex” or “fourth base” with a female? (15:29)


Formative sexual oral experiences as precursors to the lifestyle. (18:07)


Card 2: Used a fleshlight. What is a fleshlight? Other toy options for penis owners. (23:01)


Card 3: Own 3 or more dildos. Sex toy closets and favorite sex toys. (30:41)


Dildos vs. vibrators, and when and why would you use each? Frozen glass dildo to relieve pussy pain. (33:57)

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047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix30 Nov 202301:10:24

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types of fantasies, from orgies to sub/dom power dynamics to pet play, and the joy and empowerment they can bring.

Fantasies: exploring and fulfilling fantasies through ENM (ethical non monogamy). (2:18)


How can you make it work when you’re both submissive? (9:25)


Being dommed with your partner. (14:19)


Hiring a pro dominatrix. (17:45)


Female dommes vs male doms: trust, comfort, and safety. (24:48)


DC Fetish Ball: what is it like? (28:55)


What do you get out of exploring fetish and kink? (36:00)


Sex therapy: working to be more assertive, going for what you want in the moment, and growing your self-confidence to overcome the fear of rejection. (38:53)


Pickup lines: the best ways to approach a couple at a week-long event, and one night only. (49:16)


Friends working to make friends' fantasies come true. (54:59)


Vee, Elle and Brandi's fantasies to check off the list in the future. Gang bangs and being worshipped. (59:54)


What are some fantasies that have been fulfilled that you'd like to repeat? MFM, MMF, pet play and more. (1:03:00)

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046: BDSM: Safety, Communication, and Intention, Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG), and “Demystifying Rope” aka Shibari23 Nov 202300:51:48

In this episode, join Elle and Vee with return guest  Physics to get an inside view of what goes on in a top’s brain and the intricate communication required for different BDSM relationships and experiences. 


Who Is Physics? (0:53)


The magic of intention in BDSM experiences. (2:05)


What is DD/lg? (6:59)


 DD/lg VS age play? (11:41)


How to have a healthy appropriate Ds relationship? (15:35)


Communicating desires and boundaries: What questions to ask before a scene. (21:21)


What is Shibari, and what are some necessary safety fundamentals to keep in mind? (28:53)


Experiencing the variety of BDSM on websites like kink.com (43:51)


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045: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Manifesting Through Sex Magic, and the Importance of Prostate Play16 Nov 202300:59:02

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Physics (@physics_shibari) about the ins and outs of founding a sex group, what a yoni massage involves, and what sex magic is, including: 


Shibari porn: Physics’s kinky awakening. (3:16)


What is The Temple? Returning sacred sexuality to spirituality. (5:22)


Sex workshops: What kinds of workshops can be found at The Temple? (10:06)


Yoni Massage: 


-From being “the guy who can make any girl squirt” to being a yoni massage practitioner. (11:34)


-Differentiating squirting from yoni massage. (17:14)


-What does YONI mean? (20:28)


-How-to: Breaking down a yoni massage step by step, and what to expect. (21:53)


-Set and Setting: preparing for a yoni massage similarly to preparing for a psychedelic trip. (29:45)


-Aftercare and processing. (30:46)


-Do you orgasm and squirt every time during yoni massage? (32:11)


-Advice for women who have reservations around squirting. The emotional intensity, releasing blockages and uncovering trauma. (37:00)


Sex Magic: manifesting through sexual energy. (42:10)


Female vs. male orgasm: can men orgasm the same way women can? (45:11)


Lingam massage and the importance of prostate play for men. (48:57)




The Temple: http://flowartcenter.org/


Physics Instagram: @physics_shibari


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044: Halloween Sexcapades: Sex Swing Sex, BDSM with Strangers, & Sensory Deprivation09 Nov 202301:03:20

Elle and Vee catch up on their weekend sexcapades. Vee attended a private sex party event with 40+ people and the City of Gods Halloween party in NYC while Elle spent  a sexy weekend with M at home.


Butt stuff updates, the second sphincter and using poppers. (1:10)


Storing sex toys, the Liberator, and traveling with toys. (6:44)


City of Gods Halloween Party in NYC: impact play, electro play and understanding establishing consent and boundaries with new BDSM partners. (11:12)


Sex Swing  and why Elle loves it so much. (20:22)


Halloween Sex party experience with 40+ people: takeaways. How to stay sex-oriented at a play party, how to reject someone without any weirdness,  (23:18)


Open door etiquette: If the door is cracked or open during an orgy, can others invite themselves in? (35:21)


Spanking experience with sensory deprivation. (39:49)


Do women with a strap on fuck differently than men? (44:48) 


Ask Dr. Elle: how can you boost your immune system and prevent sickness in preparation for a debaucherous weekend? (55:02)


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043: Hoes in Hoboken Sex Party: The Role of Substances in Enthusiastic Consent, Exercising Your "No", and Getting Out of Your Head to Squirt02 Nov 202301:03:08

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up about Vee’s latest sex party that she hosted with J, including squirting, enthusiastic consent, substance use, six-handed massages, listening to your body, and so much more….


Our top five episodes according to the numbers! (1:44)


The benefits of having new people at a small sex party.  (12:16)


Squirting: how to overcome the threshold and let go. Waterproof blankets, sensory deprivation, hydration, trust and muscle memory. (15:16)


Setting expectations for a sex party: what to include in a pre-party email or text; “Fears, Desires, Boundaries”(personal and as a group). (22:45)


Enthusiastic consent and substance use. How substances can inhibit connection. (29:15)


New toys: what’s a thruster? (37:35)


Deciding which events to go to, FOMO and exercising your “no”. (39:01)


Listening to your body, going to sleep when you need to, and Vee’s six-handed massage. (48:28)


Ask Doctor Elle: What should I do when I get a yeast infection because of antibiotics?  (50:20)

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042: Sexual Somatic Healing, Erotic Embodiment, and Embracing Spirituality through Sexuality26 Oct 202301:00:36

Elle and Vee bring Leia back for a part 2 to discuss Sexual Somatic Healing and so much more! 

What is somatic healing? How does it differ from typical talk therapy?  (0:43)


 Three cornerstone beliefs of the Somatic Healing method. Transformation through pleasure. (4:50)


 What does a session look like? Is there physical contact? An animal play session recounted. (6:28)


The impact of current events and shared tips on how to get out of your head and into your body. (11:49)


Leia leads us through a 3 part breathing exercise for Erotic Emobodied Healing. (20:47)


Elle and Vee share their feedback after that exercise. (26:29)


Leia shares her experience being the demo student with her instructor. (29:39)


Putting your hands on your crotch to help you sleep and for comfort? (31:00)


Who is an ideal client for sexual somatic healing? What challenges are people looking to overcome? Deshamifying sex, and differentiating shame vs. guilt. (33:29)


Do you have to relive the trauma in order to heal it? (40:59)


Our thoughts on healing trauma through psychedelics: psyllicibin, ketamine, MDMA. (44:04)


Sex and godlike experiences? The connection of this lifestyle and how it impacts spirituality. (48:06)


What to look forward to on how to learn to live your most vibrant life with Leia. (54:02)


Work with Leia! 
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041: Transformational Experiences of ENM: Sexual Healing, Self Love, and the Benefits of Dating Couples19 Oct 202300:48:13

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with their friend Leia (@vibrantbyleia), who gets deep about being a single bisexual female in the lifestyle, dating couples (versus prioritizing finding her own primary), and sexual healing.

"Catalyst couples", awkward first dates and enthusiastic consent: how Leia was introduced to the lifestyle. (1:31)

Where should the couple sit at a 3-way date?  How women hold a lot of power in ENM. (12:24)

"AHA" moments from being in the open lifestyle. (16:57)

Single and open. (20:51)

What have you learned about yourself through polyamory? (24:03)

How have these experiences changed your sexuality? Using the label “bisexual”, strapping, doing anything 3 times, pegging, shibari and BDSM. (29:30)

BDSM as a form of therapy and healing, and the similarities between impact play and yoga. (34:32)

Sexual somatic training. (39:34)

How breast augmentation changes your relationship with your body. Accepting compliments. (40:25)


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040: Sex with Pregnant Women, The Pussy Pump + Other Sex Toy Reviews, and Period Sex 12 Oct 202301:07:48

Elle and Vee catch up and chat about sex with pregnant women and talk about new sex toys, offering their reviews and opinions. 

Being pregnant in the ENM lifestyle. (3:47)


Elle’s hormonal and body changes during pregnancy. Horniness, sexual desires, nipple changes, deep throating updates. (5:58)


How pregnancy changes relationships, and the feeling of being left behind. (15:02)


Sex with pregnant women and fulfilling fantasies:  Cream pies, lubricated vaginas, and conception fantasies. (22:41)


Sex Toy Review: Mini Wand (33:40)

How the menstrual cycle affects libido. (36:14)


Elle and Vee share how and when they like to use vibrators. (39:33)


Sex Toy Review: Strap-on-me dildo (a vibrating strapless “strap-on”; competitor to the Feeldoe).  (41:11)


Sex Toy Review: pussy pump. (45:58)


Sex Toy Review: Cock Ring/Ball Stretcher. (49:48)


Sex Toy Review: vagina spreader 5-pronged speculum.  (51:37)


Period Sex. (58:16)

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039: Stretching Fetish: Fisting, DVP and Vagina Spreaders; Shaved vs Hairy Pussies; and Introducing a Partner to ENM05 Oct 202300:55:02

This week, Elle and Vee chat with T Money about what he's learned in his twenty years in the lifestyle, including:

Introducing someone to ethical non-monogamy, being on traditional dating apps, and dating people who are monogamous. (8:16)


Stretching Fetish: DVP, vegetables, and the elasticity of vaginas. (17:24)


Fisting: how to fist, the “goose” technique, and slow exits. (27:27)


DVP: double vaginal penetration tips, and the benefits of being the "top" or "bottom" giver. (32:33)


Speculums and Vagina Spreaders. (37:21)


Daddy Doms: What is a Daddy Dom? Dominant personas, and how to make chores sexy. (40:21)


Shaved vs hairy genitals. (43:46)

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038: How to Keep it Sexy in a Long Term Relationship: Esther Perel’s 4 Things to Foster Erotic Desire21 Sep 202300:42:18

Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic desire:

  1. When your partner is in their element and confident.
  2. Surprise.
  3. Seeing your partner though the eyes of another.
  4. Longing and absence.

Who is Esther Perel and what is she about?  (0:38)


When you ‘have’ something it takes away the wanting, and how the lifestyle helps with this. (2:47)


When do you  feel most drawn to your partner? (6:46)


Desire requires focusing on your own pleasure. (9:15)


The balance of neediness in a relationship. (10:24)


In relationships, certain behaviors bring out contrasting behaviors in the other. (11:51)


Two types of people in a relationship: one with the fear of losing the other and one with the fear of losing themselves. (13:50)

 

Relationship dynamics develop around security and freedom and also self reliance and interdependence. (16:19)


How the lifestyle supports admiration and surprise. (20:30)


When you see your partner through the eyes of someone else. (23:54)


How absence and longing helps with desire yet sometimes has a paradoxical effect in the lifestyle group of friends. (25:15)


Sameness kills desire: Elle and Vee share how they keep it spicy. (29:05)


Forget 1-on-1 First Dates: Try this alternative first date scenario and learn why! (33:32)


PSA: We’re taking a break next week! See you in October!  



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082: Sex Party Etiquette and Tips from Experienced Sluts: Avoiding Common Assumptions, Establishing Connections, and Being Sexually Forward feat. Jess01 Aug 202400:58:50

There are plenty of podcasts that talk about do’s and dont’s at a sex parties. This episode goes deeper.

The girls share their "aha" moments, discuss common mistakes made by veterans in the lifestyle, and storytell through it all with real-life examples.

Joining Elle and Vee chat in this discussion is returning guest Jess from  Episode 58: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play and  Episode 37: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and Spanking


Episode Breakdown


Intro and The Need for this Discussion from the More Experienced Perspective on Sex Parties. (00:35)


DON’T yuck someone else's yum. Be open minded for to other’s desires and kinks. "What about that turns you on?" (04:51)


Tips for Making More Connections at Parties. (09:33)


DO Attend Sex Parties with other friends: How many is too many? What’s the right amount of people to ensure fun while still branching away to meet new people? (11:01)


DON’T Set Expectations, rather, DO Set Personal Goals.  (13:44)

DO Create an Immersive Environment by Putting in Effort in Dressing Up for the Theme. (16:31)


DO Be Sexually Forward with Clear Communication and Honesty  (20:08)


DON’T Take Anything Personally, and how not to lead People On. (26:45)


DO Ask “What Are Your Intentions For The Night?” To Uncover Compatibility. (30:43)


DON’T Assume It’s Free for All: Interactions Between Other People Does Not Mean It Also Applies To You. (32:24)


DO Use Your Words and Tell Others When You Feel Uncomfortable, otherwise, you’re a part of the problem. (37:52)


DO Read the Room for Energy and Vibe, DON’T Talk During the Orgy. (43:32)


DO Pack Your Slutbag, Organization Tips, Bringing Your Own Sex Toys, Toy Condoms. (46:42)


DON’T get too fucked up: Substances and Moderation.  (48:54)


DON’T STINK! Preparation and Hygiene. (52:45)


DO Flirt Early, Arrive Early. (55:59)


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037: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and Spanking14 Sep 202301:07:04

Elle and Vee have two special guests in today's episode, Ace and Jess who share their lifestyle practices with edging and other kinky  experiences


2:32 Why edge an orgasm? What does edging do for Ace?  


3:44  Aces edging discovery and how he uses it his advantage in the lifestyle


5:57 Elle Vee and Jess explain the differences of their personal orgasms 


8:05   Multiple orgasm for female, but what about men? 


10:50  Who is charge of finally cumming, edging to cum together and a women perspective when her partner doesn’t finish often


15:49  Quantity, taste, consistency from the edging load 


17:12  Edging for spiritual reasons and transferring that sexual energy into day to day life


20:00 The evolution of stopping an orgasm, self awareness and being a better lover in bed


28:27 Cum fetish, shooters vs dribblers 


36:41 The countdown to an orgasm vs the pressure of being told to have an orgasm


39:32  Being in tune with your body and knowing what you like through sexual curiosity 


42:37  The violet wand discussed, eletro play and how to use it


46:00  A male perspective on spanking


49:13 Spanking lesson by Jess and impact play discussion, 


57:39 A first fisting experience


59:59 the recipe for successful new sexual experiences and the surprise pleasure from a double sided dildo


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036: Triggered: Bringing a Third to a Sex Party, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Perception Vs Reality07 Sep 202300:51:48

Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered.


Vee shares her fears, desires and boundaries for this episode. (2:26)

A challenge of having a third partner: balance. (3:57)

Codependency, projection, and the stories we tell ourselves. (6:41)

Elle discusses another potential challenge of having a third: feeling left out. (13:32)

Elle's example of "the stories we tell ourselves" and the lessons learned. (18:16)

Avoidance as a coping strategy. (26:36)

Confirmation bias to support our stories. (28:47)

Elle's plan/tools to deal with triggers in the future. (30:15)

What Vee would do differently the next time she brings a third. (31:49)

The Four Agreements. (45:08)

How instagram impacts our mental health. (48:56)

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035: JOYsey Shore: Partying Sober, DVP Tips, and Sybian vs F*ck Machine31 Aug 202300:47:05

In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends.  


“A glimpse into a lifestyle party,” and one of the challenges of bringing a third to a party. (1:46)


What’s the point of having themes? (5:35)


Sobriety: the challenges and benefits of staying sober for an entire lifestyle weekend. (9:10)


Sobriety and sexuality. (18:02)


Highlight: FFF threesome and goal-oriented fucking. (21:57)


Face-sitting: the benefits of being distracted/focused when you’re getting action both up top and down bottom. (26:46)


Highlight: Fivesome and creampie. (29:41)


Fuckit List item: DVP, and Elle’s tips for success. (32:06)


Breakthrough: Getting out of your head, and cumming in front of a group. (38:28)


Sybian vs Fuck Machine. (41:37)


Highlight: Using a speculum to see inside the vagina. (43:55)

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034: How to Squirt: Tips and Tricks, the Peeing Sensation and Social Stigmas of Squirting24 Aug 202300:47:03

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with M, the squirt master. He shares his tips and tricks on how to make a girl squirt and the girls share their perspectives and experiences.


Vee shares her fears with squirting. (2:12)


What makes squirting different from orgasm? (7:17)


M shares how he discovered his squirting skills. (8:36) 


Why squirting is hot: a male perspective.(15:00)


How to make a girl squirt: finger placement, feeling, movement and more. (16:36)


The challenges for the squirter and working through the ‘I have to pee’ sensation. (24:29)


The scientific difference between a clit orgasm and the G-spot orgasm. (26:41)


Do women have a prostate? What is squirt juice made of? (27:49)


Squirting as a party trick, the importance of hydration, and something every squirter needs. (30:21)


A different position to try if you have a hard time squirting. (35:32)


Squirting expectations and stigmas. (37:04)


Orgasming and squirting at the same time.(41:30)


 
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033: Intimacy Inventory: Questions for Introspection, What You Bring to Your Relationship, and Taking vs Being Taken (including CNC)17 Aug 202301:01:16

What is an Intimacy Inventory, and why is it important for our relationships? (1:52) Get Access  here… 


What strengths do you bring to your relationships? What is a dilemma that you carry with you? (5:32)


Stubbornness and fighting with your partner; how to put a sexy, fun spin on it. (9:44)


When do you feel most free in your relationship? (14:28)


When you’re out at a bar with friends, do you have a hall pass?  What agreement do you have with your partner about what is allowed?  (17:04) 


Independence as a turn on. Separateness and  mystery and their impact on relationships. (21:36)

 

What do you like to experience in sex? (27:40)


Being taken, thoughts on CNC (consensual non consent aka rape fantasies), extreme desire, safe words, and using BDSM as a healing experience. (29:59)


Seeking a release, freedom from responsibility and timelessness during sex. (35:35)


How setting time boundaries impacts sex and mental state. (37:05)


How the dominant messages around gender norms shape your sexual beliefs. (42:10)


To ask, to take, to give, to receive and to refuse: which are you most comfortable with? Which would you like to stretch? (48:44)


Rapid Fire final questions of the intimacy inventory questionnaire. (54:21)


What is a difficult conversation for you to have around sexuality? Uncomfortableness with not feeling attracted to someone who is interested in you and turning them down. (56:38)


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