Why do we lose ourselves in love, repeat painful relationship patterns, and mistake intensity for intimacy instead of becoming whole within ourselves first?
Josh Trent welcomes Sheleana Aiyana to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 800, to explore why self-abandonment drives relationship chaos, how attachment wounds and the mother wound shape romantic bonds, what becoming the one truly means, how grief and motherhood catalyze deep healing, and why divine union begins with reclaiming self-trust, presence, and inner wholeness before partnership.
About The Guest Sheleana Aiyana is the best-selling author of Becoming the One and the founder of Rising Woman, a global community dedicated to self-healing, relational transformation, and spiritual embodiment. Her work blends somatic awareness, inner child healing, and grounded spiritual insight to guide millions through the landscapes of heartbreak, love, and personal rebirth.
Having grown up in foster care and overcome cycles of abuse, addiction, and heartbreak, Sheleana's teachings are not theoretical, they are lived. Through Rising Woman, she has helped millions remember that healing is not about becoming someone else, but about reclaiming the love, power, and wholeness that was always theirs.
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[01:15] Why We Lose Ourselves In Relationships
[06:40] Your Soul Came Here to Learn
[11:10] Becoming The One
[16:10] Awakening Through Relationships
[20:50] Mother Wound
[25:45] True Depth of Transformation + Healing
[32:10] When Motherhood Reopens It Heals Your Wounds
[38:55] What Is The Role of A Parent?
[46:55] Life Feels Heavy When You Abandon Yourself
[53:45] Relationship Rebirth
[01:00:15] Pain Is a Passage
[01:03:05] What Is A Divine Union?
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