Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

You asked... we listened. It's cuckolding time, baby! We've wanted to do this episode of a long, long time, but we struggled to find anyone who would talk about this wildly popular but stigmatized kink. We talk to *David (we have changed his name for privacy reasons), a "bull" in the scene, who typically plays the starring role in a couple's cuckolding fantasy. We've altered his voice to protect his anonymity, but his story his real. 

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We're back with a brand spanking new season of your favorite fetish and BDSM podcast. In season four, hosts Anna and Gregor team up with Fetish.com and the FET App to dive even deeper into the world of relationships, kink, and that one secret fantasy you're dying to explore.

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In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks!

Timestamps:

00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics
00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism
00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism
00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine"
00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism
00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation
00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism
00:07:25 - Psychiatry and BDSM in History
00:08:11 - Therapy and BDSM Today
00:09:07 - Power Dynamics in Sadism
00:09:38 - Control and Submission in Masochism
00:11:00 - The Sensation of Pain in BDSM
00:12:04 - Differentiating BDSM Pain from Other Pain
00:12:44 - Importance of Consent and Control
00:13:48 - Psychological Aspects of Pain Enjoyment
00:14:53 - Sexual Arousal and Pain
00:15:28 - BDSM Play Without Sexual Context
00:16:09 - Advice for Exploring BDSM
00:17:02 - Choosing the Right Play Partner
00:17:38 - Blood Play and Safety Precautions
00:18:19 - Closing Remarks and Contact Information

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Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here.

Timestamps:

00:04:18 - Mickey's entry into the porn industry
00:06:05 - BDSM community and performance spaces
00:07:01 - Changes in the porn industry and online spaces
00:08:09 - Performer empowerment
00:09:02 - The impact of ranking systems and social media
00:10:02 - Success on OnlyFans
00:11:26 - The Effects of FOSTA/SESTA on sex work
00:13:18 - Collective Corruption
00:14:38 - Stigma and career challenges post-adult industry
00:16:07 - Decriminalization of sex work
00:17:33 - Mickey's work behind the scenes
00:18:40 - Fluidity and labels
00:21:02 - Skills from the adult industry and mainstream rejection
00:22:09 - Shadow banning and its impact
00:24:54 - Ethical content creation
00:27:02 - Consent and power dynamics in BDSM
00:30:05 - Mickey's personal kinks and hard limits
00:33:04 - Consent and misunderstandings in online interactions
00:35:05 - Race play and its complexities
00:37:13 - Exploring power dynamics and submissive roles
00:38:19 - Butt stuff and societal stigmas

Follow Mickey on X (formerly Twitter) at @theMickeyMod.  Check out Collective Corruption here.   

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Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self.

Timestamps:

0000:00 - Intro
00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga
00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats
00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat
00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra
00:14:53 - Hosts' Background in Kink
00:18:03 - Creating Safe Spaces in Kinky Workshops
00:19:17 - Consent and Boundaries in Workshops
00:20:01 - Introducing Toys in Kinky Yoga
00:23:01 - Demystifying Feminine Sexuality
00:25:29 - Empowerment and Performance in Sexuality
00:26:12 - Kinky Yoga Experience for Newcomers
00:27:48 - Partner Work in Kinky Yoga
00:29:00 - Feedback from Workshop Participants
00:32:06 - Aftercare and Upcoming Workshops
00:33:49 - Inviting Experts to Kinky Workshops
00:34:07 - Hosts' Interest in Attending a Workshop
00:35:00 - Accessibility of Kinky Yoga for Beginners
00:37:42 - Where to Find Kinky Yoga and Contact Info
00:39:32 - Barcelona's Sex-Positive Scene
00:40:03 - Mainstreaming BDSM and Sensual Kink
00:41:16 - Importance of Communication in Sex
00:42:10 - Closing Remarks and Podcast Promotion

Attend their next kinky yoga retreat in Barcelona on 21st January by signing up here. Also, check out their Wholly Whore retreats and Rise Women Rise collective and retreats. 

For more info about the founders, visit Alice's website and Pau's website. 

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Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community.

Timestamps:

00:06:12 - Learning the Ropes of Domination
00:07:59 - First Session Experience
00:09:08 - Emotional Connection in Domination
00:10:23 - The Financial Aspects of Being a Dominatrix
00:12:05 - Rates and Earnings as a Dominatrix
00:14:32 - Transitioning from Dungeon to Online Presence
00:16:32 - Personal Life and Boundaries
00:18:25 - Misconceptions About Sex Work and Domination
00:20:03 - Communication and Societal Expectations
00:21:07 - Prejudices and Learning New Kinks
00:23:30 - Understanding Age Play
00:24:13 - Public Perception and Acceptance of Kink
00:25:09 - Family Reactions to Sex Work
00:27:54 - Mainstream Interest in Fetish and BDSM
00:29:30 - Career Limitations After Sex Work
00:30:57 - Promoting Eva O's Podcast and Work
00:32:24 - Post-Interview Reflections
00:34:23 - Podcast Outro and Credits

Visit Eva's official website here. You can also follow her on Instagram and Twitter and listen to her podcast #teakink wherever you get your podcasts. 

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BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate through Carey's personal journey, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of his work in normalizing kink within the community.

Timestamps: 
00:01:14 Istanbul and LGBTQ+ experiences.
00:03:40 Kink in conservative countries.
00:09:07 Discovering personal identity.
00:11:38 Touch Kink documentary and characters.
00:15:27 Stigmatization of kink.
00:20:10 Kinky fashion throughout history.
00:20:41 Fetish and desires.
00:24:21 Building trust in the community.
00:27:35 Male vs. female Dom ratios.
00:33:08 Normalizing kink in mainstream media.
00:34:53 BDSM training school on fetish.com.

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It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture has evolved in his zine Bound Leather and on his Instagram page. He is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about his work, as well as his personal experiences as a member of the queer leather community.

Check out Steven's Bound Leather zine here. Follow him on Instagram here. Steven's website can be found here.

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It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community.

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Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM.

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