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Cuckolding03 Sep 202400:35:12

You asked... we listened. It's cuckolding time, baby! We've wanted to do this episode of a long, long time, but we struggled to find anyone who would talk about this wildly popular but stigmatized kink. We talk to *David (we have changed his name for privacy reasons), a "bull" in the scene, who typically plays the starring role in a couple's cuckolding fantasy. We've altered his voice to protect his anonymity, but his story his real. 

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Spank U, Next! season 4 trailer29 Aug 202400:02:13

We're back with a brand spanking new season of your favorite fetish and BDSM podcast. In season four, hosts Anna and Gregor team up with Fetish.com and the FET App to dive even deeper into the world of relationships, kink, and that one secret fantasy you're dying to explore.

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BDSM Basics – Sadomasochism 14 Feb 202400:19:52

In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks!

Timestamps:

00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics
00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism
00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism
00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine"
00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism
00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation
00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism
00:07:25 - Psychiatry and BDSM in History
00:08:11 - Therapy and BDSM Today
00:09:07 - Power Dynamics in Sadism
00:09:38 - Control and Submission in Masochism
00:11:00 - The Sensation of Pain in BDSM
00:12:04 - Differentiating BDSM Pain from Other Pain
00:12:44 - Importance of Consent and Control
00:13:48 - Psychological Aspects of Pain Enjoyment
00:14:53 - Sexual Arousal and Pain
00:15:28 - BDSM Play Without Sexual Context
00:16:09 - Advice for Exploring BDSM
00:17:02 - Choosing the Right Play Partner
00:17:38 - Blood Play and Safety Precautions
00:18:19 - Closing Remarks and Contact Information

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All about porn with Mickey Mod 31 Jan 202400:41:53

Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here.

Timestamps:

00:04:18 - Mickey's entry into the porn industry
00:06:05 - BDSM community and performance spaces
00:07:01 - Changes in the porn industry and online spaces
00:08:09 - Performer empowerment
00:09:02 - The impact of ranking systems and social media
00:10:02 - Success on OnlyFans
00:11:26 - The Effects of FOSTA/SESTA on sex work
00:13:18 - Collective Corruption
00:14:38 - Stigma and career challenges post-adult industry
00:16:07 - Decriminalization of sex work
00:17:33 - Mickey's work behind the scenes
00:18:40 - Fluidity and labels
00:21:02 - Skills from the adult industry and mainstream rejection
00:22:09 - Shadow banning and its impact
00:24:54 - Ethical content creation
00:27:02 - Consent and power dynamics in BDSM
00:30:05 - Mickey's personal kinks and hard limits
00:33:04 - Consent and misunderstandings in online interactions
00:35:05 - Race play and its complexities
00:37:13 - Exploring power dynamics and submissive roles
00:38:19 - Butt stuff and societal stigmas

Follow Mickey on X (formerly Twitter) at @theMickeyMod.  Check out Collective Corruption here.   

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Kinky yoga 16 Jan 202400:43:10

Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self.

Timestamps:

0000:00 - Intro
00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga
00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats
00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat
00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra
00:14:53 - Hosts' Background in Kink
00:18:03 - Creating Safe Spaces in Kinky Workshops
00:19:17 - Consent and Boundaries in Workshops
00:20:01 - Introducing Toys in Kinky Yoga
00:23:01 - Demystifying Feminine Sexuality
00:25:29 - Empowerment and Performance in Sexuality
00:26:12 - Kinky Yoga Experience for Newcomers
00:27:48 - Partner Work in Kinky Yoga
00:29:00 - Feedback from Workshop Participants
00:32:06 - Aftercare and Upcoming Workshops
00:33:49 - Inviting Experts to Kinky Workshops
00:34:07 - Hosts' Interest in Attending a Workshop
00:35:00 - Accessibility of Kinky Yoga for Beginners
00:37:42 - Where to Find Kinky Yoga and Contact Info
00:39:32 - Barcelona's Sex-Positive Scene
00:40:03 - Mainstreaming BDSM and Sensual Kink
00:41:16 - Importance of Communication in Sex
00:42:10 - Closing Remarks and Podcast Promotion

Attend their next kinky yoga retreat in Barcelona on 21st January by signing up here. Also, check out their Wholly Whore retreats and Rise Women Rise collective and retreats

For more info about the founders, visit Alice's website and Pau's website

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Renowned dominatrix Eva Oh talks kink, money & fame 21 Dec 202300:34:55

Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community.

Timestamps:

00:06:12 - Learning the Ropes of Domination
00:07:59 - First Session Experience
00:09:08 - Emotional Connection in Domination
00:10:23 - The Financial Aspects of Being a Dominatrix
00:12:05 - Rates and Earnings as a Dominatrix
00:14:32 - Transitioning from Dungeon to Online Presence
00:16:32 - Personal Life and Boundaries
00:18:25 - Misconceptions About Sex Work and Domination
00:20:03 - Communication and Societal Expectations
00:21:07 - Prejudices and Learning New Kinks
00:23:30 - Understanding Age Play
00:24:13 - Public Perception and Acceptance of Kink
00:25:09 - Family Reactions to Sex Work
00:27:54 - Mainstream Interest in Fetish and BDSM
00:29:30 - Career Limitations After Sex Work
00:30:57 - Promoting Eva O's Podcast and Work
00:32:24 - Post-Interview Reflections
00:34:23 - Podcast Outro and Credits

Visit Eva's official website here. You can also follow her on Instagram and Twitter and listen to her podcast #teakink wherever you get your podcasts. 

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Kink on cam – Todd Max Carey’s BDSM documentary07 Dec 202300:35:08

BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate through Carey's personal journey, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of his work in normalizing kink within the community.

Timestamps: 
00:01:14 Istanbul and LGBTQ+ experiences.
00:03:40 Kink in conservative countries.
00:09:07 Discovering personal identity.
00:11:38 Touch Kink documentary and characters.
00:15:27 Stigmatization of kink.
00:20:10 Kinky fashion throughout history.
00:20:41 Fetish and desires.
00:24:21 Building trust in the community.
00:27:35 Male vs. female Dom ratios.
00:33:08 Normalizing kink in mainstream media.
00:34:53 BDSM training school on fetish.com.


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Leather fetishes with artist Steven Harwick20 Nov 202300:34:33

It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture has evolved in his zine Bound Leather and on his Instagram page. He is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about his work, as well as his personal experiences as a member of the queer leather community.

Check out Steven's Bound Leather zine here. Follow him on Instagram here. Steven's website can be found here.

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Vampire fetishists thirsty for blood play30 Oct 202300:24:22

It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community.

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On repeat: A 24/7 BDSM marriage19 Oct 202301:06:51

Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM.

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BDSM on the therapist's couch with Dr. Stefani Goerlich05 Oct 202300:49:51

Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna and Gregor about how BDSM is pathologised in mainstream therapy, ways to practice good communication with a vanilla partner, and the perks and pitfalls of polyamory.

Check out Stefani's website here. Pre-order her new book 'With Sprinkles on Top' here.

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We answer ChatGPT's BDSM questions09 Aug 202300:25:25

All anyone is talking about is AI. How it’s coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too.

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Financial domination with Mistress Marley 27 Aug 202400:47:18

This is an old fan fav that everyone should listen to! The formidable financial dominatrix Mistress Marley is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about quitting the 9-5 rat race to humiliate 'pay pigs' for a six-figure salary. In this episode, you'll hear about the non-stop hustle of a New York FinDomme, draining powerful men's wallets as reparations for the black community.

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BDSM Basics – Foot fetishes 20 Jul 202300:21:31

In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet. 

Timestamps:

  • Intro [00:00:00] 
  • Why sexualizing feet feels taboo [00:03:17] 
  • Foot fetishes as the gateway drug [00:05:58] 
  • How to communicate your foot fetish [00:12:30]
  • BDSM and feet [00:16:15] 

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UK's top sex therapist Kate Moyle on having better sex 06 Jul 202300:46:10

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's actually a lot you can do about it. The UK’s leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex and the therapist's couch. They dive into topics like why sex dwindles in long-term relationships, how mums can get their groove back after maternity, prioritising pleasure over penetration, and exploring BDSM with the help of a therapist.

Timestamps:

00:05:00 Why sex therapy is crucial and ever-evolving
00:07:08 How psychosexual therapy is nuanced and individual
00:14:01 The importance of communication to enjoy a better sex life
00:15:12 Prioritise physical intimacy and pleasure even if you don't feel like it
00:20:00 On how to reconnect sexually after childbirth
00:27:43 Sexual satisfaction is subjective and individual
00:34:25 There is no objective measure of good sex
00:39:31 Why kink-aware therapists are so vital

Check out Kate's website here. You can also listen to her podcast The Sexual Wellness Sessions on Apple and Spotify.  And follow her on Instagram.

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BDSM Basics – Breakups (the bad kind of pain)22 Jun 202300:17:42

Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. 

Timestamps:

  • Intro [00:00:00] 
  • When your kinky partner breaks it off [00:05:07] 
  • Ghosting – forget the idea of closure [00:07:09] 
  • When a breach of trust ruins a dynamic [00:10:26]
  • Do the impossible: forgive [00:13:17] 

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Why are people into THAT?! With Tina Horn 07 Jun 202300:43:41

 Today, BDSM podcast royalty is in the studio with co-hosts Anna and Gregor. Tina Horn’s podcast ‘Why are people into that?!’ – where she has candid, thoughtful and steamy conversations with people about sex, kink, gender and love – is a go-to audio bible for fetishists everywhere. Horn found the kink community through sex work and Domming and is now a world-renowned author and creator of sci-fi sex work comics, a diehard queer punk, and an “educatrix”. Don’t miss this one. 

Timestamps:

  • Intro [00:00:00] 
  • Exploring BDSM and sex work for the first time [00:04:33]  
  • 'Why are people into that?! Podcast' about sex and kink [00:05:38] 
  • Sexual subcultures in the San Francisco Bay Area [00:11:28]
  • Acing consent and communication in kink [00:19:17] 
  • Learning from each other and having fun [00:29:23] 
  • On why sex and gender expression is important [00:33:47] 
  • Supporting sex workers and the sex work community [00:38:02] 
  • Finding community in kink and BDSM [00:43:09] 

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BDSM Basics – All anal, all the time 24 May 202300:21:29

"The butt is the new pussy", says co-host and anal aficionado Gregor. In this new episode of BDSM Basics, he gives Anna the lowdown on all things anal, prostate stimulation and the gateway to new forms of pleasure. Expect expert anal-ysis on preparation and practice, how to try butt play for the first time, and why everyone should be using lube. Straight, gay, bi or anything in-between, the bum is for everyone. Welcome to anal 101.  

Timestamps: 

  • Knowledge is power in anal play [00:01:47] 
  • Be open and understand your limits [00:09:50]  
  • Try on yourself before experimenting with other people [00:14:59] 
  • Relax, breathe – and lube! [00:15:15]
  • Fisting [00:15:25]

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The bisexual boyslut with Zachary Zane10 May 202300:41:25

On the perks of being a bisexual boyslut!! New York columnist, author, and sex expert Zachary Zane is in the studio with hosts Anna and Gregor to talk about his bisexual journey and how the community has got stronger over the last ten years. They talk ethical non-monogamy, struggling to exist in both queer and straight culture, and why being slutty is the best way.

Timestamps:

00:00:00 Intro
00:04:44 Bisexuals need acceptance and support.
00:09:09 Men need sex positivity too.
00:10:41 Create inclusive sexual communities.
00:16:18 Bi people are valid and accepted.
00:21:27 Embrace and love each other.
00:29:10 Straight people welcome in queer spaces.
00:33:53 Kink community is tolerant.
00:35:00 Rejecting people is tough.
00:40:38 Explore your kinks freely.

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BDSM Basics – BDSM contracts 26 Apr 202300:16:53

BDSM contracts: what are they, who needs them, and why? That's what hosts Anna and Gregor are discussing in the newest episode of BDSM Basics. Forget what you learnt in Fifty Shades of Grey – get a real education here.

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Make love, not porn with Cindy Gallop12 Apr 202300:48:37

Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back and bigger than ever! To kick off season 3, hosts Anna and Gregor are joined by entrepreneur, businesswoman and social sex activist Cindy Gallop to talk real sex  – not porn. Cindy learned about the negative effects of porn on IRL sex by exclusively dating younger men, and as a result founded her company MakeLoveNotPorn in 2009. In this episode, Cindy talks real sex for real people, Big Tech's big problem with adult content and how she's changing the future of sex tech for women. 

Timestamps: 

  • Intro [00:00:00] 
  • How MakeLoveNotPorn was born [00:08:41]  
  • Real world sex vs. porn fantasy [00:13:20] 
  • Why female founders struggle to get funding [00:15:12]
  • Advertising sex tech: The big white male problem [00:19:33] 
  • A new ad tech for banned sex-positive businesses [00:24:41] 
  • Sexual safety concerns on social media [00:28:23] 
  • De-kinkifying sex [00:33:51] 
  • A new kind of sex education for children and adults [00:38:19] 
  • Lessons in pleasure [00:42:53] 

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Spank U, Next! season 3 trailer 10 Apr 202300:01:45

Join the revolution of pleasure. Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back for a third season with hosts Anna & Gregor from Fetish.com. Look out for the first episode of season 3 dropping this week! 

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On repeat: Begging for a pegging 08 Mar 202300:45:48

Listen to an old fan favourite while the hosts plan more spicy content for season 3.  Enjoy a walk down pegging memory lane and listen to the first – and by far most popular – episode ever while you wait.

Here, Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. You'll also hear from the squirting world-record holder about how to reclaim female ejaculation from the male gaze. Lola Jean talks about her own journey and answers the question: can all women squirt? 

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BDSM Basics – Anal for women08 Aug 202400:22:30

We all know about pegging. We 've all watched porn and see how men love to put it up women's butts. But how is anal for women? Pain, pleasure, poop... all the above? In this episode, Anna and Gregor dive into this hot and peachy topic.  

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The Kinky Crown: Prince Harry & the "Prince of Pegging"14 Feb 202300:34:42

Enjoy a very special Spank U, Next bonus episode that takes a microscopic view of kinks in the British royal family, celebrity culture, and the hottest fetish trends of the last year. Think of it as a retrospective on the BDSM cultural zeitgeist. 2022 may be over, but better late than never... right? Expect conversations on Prince Harry's first sexual experience, as detailed in his explosive memoir, Spare, and his brother Prince William's rumoured love of pegging. Hugh Grant has also been into S&M for twenty years (he says) and the internet is awash with #hot new kinks to try. 

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Fetish phone-in – A Christmas stuffing 23 Dec 202200:14:08

'Tis the season for festive cheer. And multiple orgasms. Carve out some time for yourself over Christmas and settle down by the fire with a special Fetish-phone. It's Christmas Eve. She should be stuffing her turkey, but instead, she's getting stuffed by 3 hot guys. What greater gift could anyone ask for? As always, this episode is NSFW or appropriate for families. Please listen with discretion. 

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Our wet & messy trip to Fetish Con, Florida15 Dec 202200:45:32

Spank U, Next’s special Fetish Con episode is here. Go on a wild ride with Anna, Gregor, and the Fetish.com team to St. Petersburg, Florida as they attend one of the biggest and best BDSM events in the United States. The hosts meet fetishists from all walks of life – literally, trampling was big at this convention – and hit the kinky red carpet, the bondage battle, pervy pool parties and so, so much more. Surviving on Starbucks super-size coffees and latex-charged adrenaline, Anna and Gregor get down and dirty with America’s best in show. 

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BDSM Basics – Safewords & limits 30 Nov 202200:09:07

Anna and Gregor bring you another episode of BDSM Basics. This time they’re talking about how to stay safe while indulging your kinks. Learn why safewords are so important in BDSM – and how to choose yours. They also walk you through other safety assurances, such as the traffic light system and non-verbal communication. Last but not least, Anna and Gregor discuss soft and hard limits and why it's crucial to know your absolute no-go’s. 

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BDSM Basics – How to talk to your partner about fetishes 11 Nov 202200:27:45

Are you single & ready to mingle but don't know how to find a new play partner? Or are you in a relationship and struggling to talk about your kinks with your significant other? Welcome to BDSM Basics, Anna & Gregor's new practical advice series, where they will literally get down to basics on all things fetish and BDSM. In the first episode, learn about the dos and don'ts of discussing your fetishes with a partner or hookup for the first time. 

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Fetish phone-in – Cumming for Sir13 Oct 202200:17:26

Treat yourself to another instalment of Fetish Phone-in, a new format where a team of voice actors transform listeners’ IRL kinky experiences into steamy sound bites… for your pleasure. In this episode, hear all the juicy details about one woman’s first date with her Sir after striking up a D/s dynamic online. The kinky tale begins with her butt-plugged and pantyless in public, and ends in spank marks, anal play and multiple orgasms. Needless to say, this episode is extremely NSFW and is not appropriate for family listening. Enjoy it with discretion.  

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Fetish phone-in – My first spanking 13 Sep 202200:11:34

Introducing a brand spanking new format called Fetish Phone-in! We wanted to hear from you, the listeners, about your first-time kink experiences for a one-off episode. However, we loved your steamy submissions so much that we've decided to regularly share IRL kinky stories, alongside our longer interview episodes. You’re going to be really turned on by some of the stuff you hear, so maybe save these episodes for that all-important ‘me’ time. In today’s episode, you'll learn about one man’s first ever spanking, as well as the first time he actually enjoyed it. As they say, if at first you don’t succeed… try, try, and try again.

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Kinky at 50 – What's age got to do with it? 02 Sep 202200:45:12

Sex blogger and content extraordinaire Molly Moore (a.k.a. Molly's Daily Kiss) is here to give you pearls of wisdom on becoming a successful adult content creator. Get practical tools on how to publish your steamy work and turn a profit, as well as how to circumvent online censorship on traditional platforms such as Google and Facebook. Molly also talks about getting older and how the natural aging process has changed her sexuality – in many ways, for the better! Menopause, hormone therapy, low libido and dryness are just some of the topics covered in this episode. Because why should age be a barrier to BDSM? 


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I love God & BDSM – but the Church deserted me19 Aug 202200:38:04

Queen of smut Victoria Blisse is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about religion and BDSM, erotic writing, and (literally) playing God with breath play. Victoria has been a practicing Christian since she was a child, yet was shunned by her local church after being ‘outed’ for her kinks. But she didn’t lose faith. Victoria was ordained as a Reverend to the kinky during a Manchester Pride parade and now preaches to the perverted herself.  Anna & Gregor ask Victoria to deliver them from evil… for they have sinned.

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A 24/7 BDSM marriage 28 Jul 202201:08:33

Explore the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. 

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BDSM Basics – BDSM gone wrong02 Aug 202400:15:29

Sometimes things just don’t go the way you’d hoped. In BDSM, this can lead to bizarrely funny or even dangerous situations. In this episode of Spank U, Next’s BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor discuss how to avoid any kinky disasters and how to deal with them if they happen anyway.

00:00:00 - Introduction and Host Banter
00:01:24 - Overview of BDSM Basics Series
00:01:58 - Topic Introduction: BDSM Gone Wrong
00:05:30 - Medical Emergencies and Honesty
00:07:05 - Emotional Impact and Aftercare
00:09:06 - Reporting Abuse and Seeking Support
00:10:22 - Connecting with the Kink Community
00:12:18 - Safe Meeting Practices
00:13:33 - Final Thoughts and Advice
00:14:15 - Closing Remarks and Contact Information

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We want YOUR kinky first-time stories!22 Jul 202200:00:56

How did you pop your BDSM cherry? Tell us your kinky first-time stories for a special phone-in podcast episode! Where were you? How did it happen? Was it any good? How did you feel after?
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Here's what you need to do:
1) Record a voice note on a phone or electronic device telling us about your kinky first-time.
2) Send the voice note to us via email at spankunext@playamedia.com.
3) If you’re feeling shy, write it down in an email & we'll get a voice actor to play you!
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The life of a human ashtray 06 Jul 202200:39:23

Smokers this way →  Anna & Gregor are joined by a fetish porn submissive to talk about kink on camera. Eyemblacksheep is a UK-based performer with many strings to his BDSM bow, including a penchant for Dominatrices using his mouth as their own personal ashtray. After a break from the kink scene in 2013, he rose from the ashes to become a multidimensional film sub worshipping goddesses in the independent fetish porn industry. Eyemblacksheep explains what it takes to succeed, how it can go wrong, and what you should absolutely never do. 

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The whore in the sex tower 22 Jun 202200:40:18

Once upon a time, there lived a sex worker named Martyra Peng who resided in a castle far, far away in quaint southern England. She lived alone, high up in the tallest tower. Eligible gentlemen visited her opulent quarters to satisfy their wanton desires, in exchange for golds and riches adorned unto her. Join podcast jesters Anna & Gregor for a goblet with Martyra as she tells tales of brothels and swinger parties, swapping academia for the erotic underground, and subverting capitalism and the patriarchy through sex work. 


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Blood, sweat & needle play 08 Jun 202200:30:36

Spank U, Next is back for a second season, and this time it’s going to be deeper, darker – and more hardcore. Fetish friends and hosts Anna & Gregor are in the clinic with medical Dominatrix Madame Li Ying for a check-up like no other. In this season premiere, get a consultation on the men seeking cock and ball torture (CBT), catheterisation and the agony (and ecstasy!) of mock castration. Examine the eroticism of pain in medical fetish, one of BDSM’s most risky practices. The syringes are sterilised. The stretcher is prepared. The doctor will see you now. 

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Spank U, Next! season two trailer 24 May 202200:01:39

Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back with a brand spanking new season. Join hosts Anna & Gregor for kinky conversations in the dungeon, as they go deeper and darker into the BDSM world. Watch out for the first episode of season two dropping soon!

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Healing trauma through BDSM & pet play16 Mar 202200:55:50

Channel your inner animal with Anna & Gregor as they sit down with trauma-informed BDSM instructor Divine Theratrix. In this episode, you'll learn about the playful side of human sexuality and behavior, as well as how to free yourself from the shackles of society through pet play. Theratrix explains why this kink is so much more than just a Domme/sub dynamic – it creates a safe space to explore past trauma. If you're looking to embrace the puppy in you, listen now… woof! 


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The Goddess of financial domination breaking her pay pigs' banks24 Feb 202200:48:11

The formidable financial dominatrix Mistress Marley is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about quitting the 9-5 rat race to humiliate 'pay pigs' for a six-figure salary. In this episode you'll hear about the nonstop hustle of a New York FinDomme, draining powerful men's wallets as reparations for the black community. Learn about this deeply psychological kink thriving in the digital era, where male 'finsubs' relinquish cash in the ultimate power exchange under capitalism. Dubbed the Beyoncé of BDSM, Mistress Marley will make you want to give up your day job, too. 

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Floating in littlespace & Daddy Dom Energy 11 Feb 202200:53:27

You're invited to explore the much-misunderstood world of age play and DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) with hosts Anna and Gregor. They are joined by Shaun and Sarah, a couple who met on Fetish.com, to talk littlespace, consent, sensual domination, aftercare, and funishment vs. punishment. Get educated on the BDSM community's move towards the gender-inclusive term Caregiver/little, and let them debunk some misconceptions you may have about Daddy Doms and their littles. 

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Sex-positive parenting by a BDSM brat21 Jan 202200:46:15

Talking to kids about sex can be awkward. That's a fact. Sexologist and BDSM brat Dr. Celina Criss is in the (remote) studio with Gregor and Anna to chat about sex-positive parenting, consensual non-monogamy, and outmaneuvering your Dominant as a mischievous sub. Find out how to provide better sex education than your parents and porn ever did, as well as acquiring the tools necessary to make polyamory work – and thrive. Dr. Celina is also out to challenge preconceptions about brats in the BDSM world. Take a seat! Class is in session. 

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Bonus episode! A kinky Christmas mailbag 22 Dec 202100:37:44

Have you been good this year? Let's hope not. Christmas has come early as Anna and Gregor are back with a bonus mailbag episode. They answer listeners' questions about anything and everything BDSM and fetish, including a quick guide on all the kink terminology you need to know, advice for a sleep-deprived sexsomniac, and ruminations on why safewords are so darn important. Join the hosts and embrace a lump of coal in your stocking this year, because being naughty is the new nice. 

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Mailbag episode: Punishment vs. Funishment 05 Jun 202400:25:06

Spank U, Next listeners... we're back with another mailbag episode where we take listener's questions and answer them in the best way we can. We've been a bit MIA recently due to life events, so we'll update you on the podcast for the next few months and check in with each other on what the hell has being going on in both of our lives. 

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Conjuring sex magick with a BDSM witch15 Dec 202100:54:15

Want to perfect your sex magick ritual? Intrigued to know more about sacred S&M? Anna and Gregor sit down with LA-based author, columnist, and real-life witch, Gabriela Herstik, to conjure the mystical realms of BDSM and fetish. Learn about the daily practices of a modern witch, and find out how you can channel powerful sexual energy to manifest and transform your life goals! Let Gabriela cast a spell on you as she explains why kinky submission goes hand-in-hand with surrendering to the Divine Goddess. Listen up people... it's witching hour. 


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Serving sex work to women 16 Nov 202100:46:58

Christian Grey, your time is up! This episode, Anna and Gregor talk to London's most prolific pro Dominant, Master Peter.  Hear about the women who pay for a good spanking, and why sex work catered to female pleasure is so rare (the patriarchy!). Treat yourself to titillating tales from the BDSM underground, as Master Peter reflects on moving away from SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) towards RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Because, really, can BDSM ever be safe? 


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Introducing Spank U, Next! 20 Oct 202100:01:41

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Begging for a pegging 14 Oct 202100:45:48

Hosts Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. You'll also hear from the squirting world-record holder how to reclaim female ejaculation from the male gaze. Lola Jean talks about her own journey and answers the question: can all women squirt? 

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