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Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron
Cindy Hovington, Ph.D.
Frequency: 1 episode/9d. Total Eps: 234
A parenting podcast that doesn't tell you HOW to parent your own child. We teach you how to think during parenting challenges and help you build emotional intelligence skills to lower your stress and help you cope with those challenging emotions that come with parenting.
Neuroscientist, Dr. Cindy Hovington can help you parent your child with confidence and feel competent by helping you understand your triggers, recognize and break your emotional patterns and teach you how to model healthy emotional coping skills for your child.
Cindy is the founder and CEO of Curious Neuron, is an internationally recognized emotional well-being resource for parents with their evidence-based educational content being consumed in over 70 countries! She is a leading thought expert in emotion regulation and parental well-being as well as an international speaker on well-being and emotional development in children.
The goal of this podcast is to help parents gain awareness of their emotional triggers, build your confidence as a parent, understand how their past influences behavioural patterns they can stuck in and help them learn how to model healthy emotional coping skills for their children. We do this by discussing the science of emotional intelligence and effective parenting practices.
Join us every Monday for conversations with leading researchers and best selling authors in parental well-being, childhood adversity, attachment, emotional development, stress management and emotion regulation skills. Past guests include Dr. Bruce Perry, Dr. Marc Brackett and best-selling authors Dr. Ramani Durvasula and Stephanie Harrison.
Join me and become a Reflective Parent! Subscribe today not to miss next week's episode!
To learn more from Curious Neuron or to join The Reflective Parent Club, visit www.curiousneuron.com.
Follow us on Instagram @curious_neuron.
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Setting Boundaries and Holding Space for Teenagers' Emotions with Kirsten Cobabe
Season 7 · Episode 3
lundi 16 septembre 2024 • Duration 01:00:06
In this episode, Kirsten Cobabe, a teen coach, discusses how parents can navigate the challenges of raising teenagers. She emphasizes the importance of building a strong connection with teens and understanding their perspective. Kirsten suggests that parents should shift their mindset and approach the teenage years with openness and curiosity. She encourages parents to set boundaries while also holding space for their teens' emotions and experiences. Kirsten also highlights the significance of community support and mentorship for both parents and teens.
The conversation explores the importance of active listening, vulnerability, and building a strong relationship with teenagers. It emphasizes the need for parents to slow down, pause, and think critically instead of trying to know everything. The fear of not knowing can be a barrier to true connection and understanding. It is important for parents to work on their own emotional regulation and self-compassion in order to support their teenagers effectively. The conversation also highlights the significance of meeting teenagers in their negative moments and refraining from name-calling or labeling them. Apologizing and making promises to improve the relationship can be powerful steps towards rebuilding trust.
Visit Kirsten's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/kirstencobabe/
Get coaching from Kirsten:
https://www.kirstencobabe.com/
Learn about about our membership called The Reflective Parent Club:
https://curiousneuron.com/join-our-club/
Join the 8-week Reflection Challenge:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.ck.page/befe29cb43
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
Parental stress has become a public health concern: here are my thoughts
Season 7 · Episode 2
lundi 9 septembre 2024 • Duration 20:58
In this episode, I discuss the importance of parental stress and its impact on parenting. I introduce the Reflective Parent Club (IT'S FINALLY OPEN!!), a membership program aimed at helping parents pause, reflect, and regulate their emotions. I emphasize the need for parents to respect their time and create meaningful connections with their children. I also encourage parents to evaluate their schedules, set boundaries, and prioritize quality time with their families. The episode concludes with an invitation to join the Reflective Parent Club and a reminder to leave a rating and review for the podcast.
Reflection Prompt: Am I being respectful of my time?
Download our 8-week Reflection Challenge:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.ck.page/befe29cb43
Takeaways
- Parental stress is a public health concern and can impact parenting.
- The Reflective Parent Club offers tools and support for parents to regulate their emotions and build confidence.
- Respecting and managing time can reduce stress and create more meaningful connections with children.
- Evaluating schedules, setting boundaries, and prioritizing quality time are important for parental well-being.
- Joining the Reflective Parent Club provides access to resources and expert guidance.
Join me inside the Reflective Parent Club NOW OPEN!!
Use the code REFLECT50 to get 50% off your first month in a monthly subscription HERE
Use code REFLECT20 to get 20% off your first year (only $18/month!!) with our yearly subscription HERE
Or learn more by clicking the link below:
https://curiousneuron.com/join-our-club/
Source:
https://www.cnn.com/2024/08/28/health/surgeon-general-parent-stress-wellness/index.html
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
When you feel like a shitty parent for giving your child a consequence...
Season 6 · Episode 28
lundi 8 juillet 2024 • Duration 15:11
In this episode, Cindy discusses the challenges parents face when setting boundaries with their children. She shares a personal experience of setting a strong boundary with one of her kids and feeling conflicted about it. Cindy emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and provides reflection prompts for parents to work through their struggles with boundary-setting. She highlights the empowering nature of boundaries and the positive impact they have on building respect and trust in relationships.
Takeaways
- Setting boundaries is an essential part of parenting and helps build respect and trust in relationships.
- Parents may feel conflicted and even guilty when setting boundaries, but it is important to prioritize the well-being and growth of their children.
- Reflection prompts can help parents navigate the challenges of setting boundaries and prepare for potential resistance from their children.
- Boundaries should be set with love and firmness, demonstrating strength and leadership without being authoritarian.
- Setting boundaries is a continuous process that requires self-reflection and adaptability.
My favourite quote from the episode:
"A boundary is saying to the other person in front of you, I matter, my needs matter and I need to set this boundary for myself."
Book a chat with me! Help me meet my goal of chatting with 100 parents this summer:
https://calendly.com/curious_neuron/chat-about-parenting-with-cindy
Join the waitlist of the Reflective Parent Club:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.ck.page/5ab8a76664
Learn more about the club:
https://curiousneuron.com/join-our-club/
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
If you often feel guilty and like you are messing up as a parent, listen to this!
Season 4 · Episode 13
jeudi 17 novembre 2022 • Duration 23:11
Parenting is hard…period.
We all know this. We tell our friends too, yet when we are alone we are so hard on ourselves.
Let’s bring back self-compassion. Maybe you messed up these past few years and yelled more than you would like. Maybe you said something you regret today. Maybe you haven’t been yourself and neglected your mental health. Or perhaps you missed the signs of your child needing to feel seen.
There are plenty of reasons why we mess up or FEEL like we are messing up. But the problem isn’t making mistakes, it’s not learning from them. It’s not reevaluating how we are parenting and how we can improve.
Focus on these 3 tips. Be kind to yourself and remember that you matter. Reconnect with your child. Sometimes just doing this can change their behavior. Lastly, forget what other people say about how you parent. Our kid's grandparents had their chance to parent before. They had chances to mess up too. Now it’s our turn to raise our kids our own way and mess up as well. Thank them for the advice and walk away. Focus on your family.
You’ve got this.
Thank you to our supporter the Tanenbaum Open Science Institute at The Neuro. The Neuro is the first health sciences institution in the world to commit to Open Science, an approach to research that ensures scientific knowledge is shared widely and transparently.
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
How to address your child's most difficult behaviours with Bryana Kappadakunnel
Season 4 · Episode 12
lundi 14 novembre 2022 • Duration 01:00:40
In today’s episode, we meet with Bryana Kappadakunnel from @consciousmommy. We’re doing things a little differently this week: we’re covering the TOP 10 questions that parents ask me about their child’s behaviour. Tune in to hear how Bryana would deal with rudeness, hitting, whining, trouble sleeping, lying, ungratefulness and constant interrupting. I love how Bryana gives us a framework to deal with these difficult situations. Take your Curious Neuron Notebook out! You will understand how to connect, investigate, offer a boundary and teach your child after today's episode. Not only do we talk about how to deal with your own child, but we discuss how this might be implemented in the classroom.
Here are my two favorite quotes from the episode:
“We have to be the emotionally mature one in the relationship with our child.” - Bryana
“Conscious parenting invites you to look at your own ego and own needs.” - Bryana
Thank you to our supporter the Tanenbaum Open Science Institute at The Neuro. The Neuro is the first health sciences institution in the world to commit to Open Science, an approach to research that ensures scientific knowledge is shared widely and transparently.
How to reach Bryana:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/consciousmommy/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@consciousmommy?lang=en
Website: https://www.consciousmommy.com/
For workshops: https://learning.consciousmommy.com/
Please leave a rating for our podcast on iTunes! You can listen to our podcast on iTunes, Spotify and Amazon Music.
Join our community:
Instagram: @curious_neuron
Website: www.curiousneuron.com
Podcast website: www.curiousneuron.com/curiousneuronpodcast
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
After becoming a parent, I started to fear dying...
Season 4 · Episode 11
jeudi 10 novembre 2022 • Duration 16:49
In today's solo episode, I discuss something I experienced after giving birth to my first child. I could not stop thinking about the fact that life isn't forever. Now that I had a baby and my life meant everything to me, I was faced with realizing that I will not live forever.
I share a story about my grandfather and what he said on his deathbed and how this changed the way I was living.
Perhaps there is someone out there that can relate to this. 81% of parents on Instagram said they experienced this as well!
Thank you to our supporter the Tanenbaum Open Science Institute at The Neuro. The Neuro is the first health sciences institution in the world to commit to Open Science, an approach to research that ensures scientific knowledge is shared widely and transparently.
Please leave a rating for our podcast on iTunes, Spotify and Amazon Music.
Join our community: Instagram: @curious_neuron
Website: www.curiousneuron.com
Podcast website: www.curiousneuron.com/curiousneuronpodcast
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAMkWjtcMFVrOmFPtyLk1ow
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
How language, music and sleep change the brain with Dr. Emily Coffey
Season 4 · Episode 10
lundi 7 novembre 2022 • Duration 32:34
In today’s episode, we are joined by Dr. Emily Coffey who researches music, language, sleep, and how it relates to neuroplasticity. Have you ever wondered if you should be signing your child up for music lessons? Or if your child should learn more than one language at a time? What about how your brain might be influenced by sleep? All of these common questions are discussed in today’s episode. Tune in and take out your Curious Neuron notebook because we get a bit technical talking about how research involving music, language, and sleep is being conducted. Importantly, we learn about music in noise tasks and how they may be able to help your child focus in class.
You can read more about Dr. Coffey’s research here.
If you’re interested in taking part in research about music, language, and the brain check out:
CRBLM: Centre for Research on Brain, Language, and Music
BRAMS: International Laboratory for BRAin, Music and Sound Research
Thank you to our supporter the Tanenbaum Open Science Institute at The Neuro. The Neuro is the first health sciences institution in the world to commit to Open Science, an approach to research that ensures scientific knowledge is shared widely and transparently.
Please leave a rating for our podcast on iTunes!
Join our community: Instagram: @curious_neuron Website: www.curiousneuron.com Podcast website: www.curiousneuron.com/curiousneuronpodcast
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
Is my child a people-pleaser?
Season 4 · Episode 9
jeudi 3 novembre 2022 • Duration 14:10
Something happened with my 7-year that led me to re-evaluate what I was saying to her with regards to her needs and boundaries.
I wanted to share this story with you in a quick podcast episode (it's about 10 min!). Perhaps you will be able to relate to this and readjust how you are approaching these situations.
Especially if you have an older child that likes to keep their younger siblings happy, then this episode is for you!
I mentioned the podcast episode about running your home like a company. The link to this episode is below!
https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/being-a-parent-is-similar-to-being-a-ceo/id1440533170?i=1000564475260
Please rate and review the Curious Neuron podcast, it would mean the world to me! Email me at info@curiousneuron.com and send me a screenshot of your review and I will send you a free PDF from our Academy (the one below)!
https://www.curiousneuron.com/for-parents
You can listen to the Curious Neuron Podcast on iTunes, Spotify and Amazon Music!
www.amazon.com/curiousneuron
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
5 important tips for new parents
Season 4 · Episode 8
lundi 31 octobre 2022 • Duration 30:20
As new parents, we have tons of questions! My brother-in-law is expecting his new child and I asked him what his questions were. This podcast episode is dedicated to him and is for all parents expecting or with a child under 2 months old.
When do you start tummy time? How often should you do skin-to-skin? What did my own labors look like for all 3 of my kids and what are the signs and symptoms of postpartum depression/anxiety in both moms and dads?
Listen to this quick 30 min episode to learn everything you need to know about your baby.
Join me LIVE this Wednesday, November 2nd at 9pm ET to ask me any question about newborns:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8kPcDFcwNw
Listen to the Curious Neuron Podcast on iTunes, Spotify or on Amazon Music (use the link below)
www.amazon.com/curiousneuron
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
How to talk to your child about death
Season 4 · Episode 7
lundi 24 octobre 2022 • Duration 59:34
Content warning: death, death of family members and pets, suicide
In today’s episode, we are joined by Dr. Elena Lister and Dr. Michael Schwartzman authors of Giving Hope: Conversations with Children About Illness, Death and Loss. During this conversation, we approach many questions from the Curious Neuron community about death, and how to talk to your children about death.
Dr. Lister & Schwartzman give us many tools & scripts we can use as parents. This episode was so insightful for my parenting journey, and I’m sure it will be for yours too. Not only do we cover grieving in children, but we also discuss how death can be something difficult for adults too. We cover so many great topics like pregnancy loss, suicide, and death of a grandparent or pet.
Tune in to hear why every 4-year-old needs a goldfish, it’s more than just learning how to care for another life.
Remember, you can now listen to the Curious Neuron Podcast on YouTube! Link below.
Books discussed:
We’re Going on a Bear Hunt - Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury
The Anxious Parent - Michael Schwartzman
Visit Dr. Schwartzman’s website to learn more about his work.
Visit Dr. Lister’s website to learn more about her work.
Thank you to our supporter the Tanenbaum Open Science Institute at The Neuro. The Neuro is the first health sciences institution in the world to commit to Open Science, an approach to research that ensures scientific knowledge is shared widely and transparently.
Please leave a rating for our podcast on iTunes!
Join our community: Instagram: @curious_neuron
Website:
More ways to build emotion regulation skills with Curious Neuron!
Record your message to ask a question, share an insight or give us some feedback! https://www.speakpipe.com/ReflectiveParentingPodcast
Start your 7 day FREE trial of the Reflective Parent Club
A science-based course that helps you learn how to cope with emotions, stress, your child's behaviour and your partner! Plus, a weekly coaching call to help you build awareness and practice new tools.
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Join our FREE Monthly Parental Well-Being Webinar Series:
https://tremendous-hustler-7333.kit.com/989145490b
Grab a Free Resource:
- FREE Workbook: Staying Calm When Your Child Isn’t: A Parent’s Guide to Triggers and Emotions
- FREE Kids Activity: Help! My Emotions Are Confusing
Email: info@curiousneuron.com
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