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Polycurious
Fernanda
Frequency: 1 episode/29d. Total Eps: 52

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47. How to Deal with NRE (New Relationship Energy)
mercredi 30 octobre 2024 • Duration 18:41
Today I'm giving you a little sample of a Patreon episode.
Feeling NRE (New Relationship Energy) in non-monogamy for the first time?
If you're connecting with someone outside your primary relationship, you might freak out a bit (I sure did!). Here’s what I wish I knew:
Thinking about your new lover more than your partner is normal and it will likely go away: Infatuation often comes with intense emotions and short-term, obsessive attachment. Remember, you likely felt the same for your primary partner once—it will fade.
You might feel guilty: If you haven't discussed this with your partner, guilt can creep in. It’s crucial to talk about what happens if someone catches feelings. Falling in love isn’t something you can control—be ready for it.
You might doubt your primary relationship even if it’s going great: This is monogamous conditioning at play. Society teaches us that loving someone else means something’s wrong. It takes time to unlearn that belief.
Resources:
Join my Patreon at patreon.com/c/Polycurious
Book an exploratory call here: https://calendly.com/polycuriouspodcast/30min
Announcement!
mardi 3 septembre 2024 • Duration 02:50
38. Twelve Lessons in my Polycurious Journey
Season 3 · Episode 9
mardi 9 mai 2023 • Duration 37:02
In this episode I talk about the 12 lessons I have learned in my Polycurious journey.
- Be Patient. Go as fast as the slowest person
- Find the right time to talk
- Check with your partner before making plans with other people
- Feeling guilt at first is normal
- Don’t sugarcoat. Be honest with your partner
- Determine how much you want to share with your partner
- Meeting your partner’s partners (metamours) helps with jealousy
- Jealousy and insecurities are likely to decrease with time
- You can’t control your feelings for other people
- Infatuation and New Relationship Energy can be fleeting
- Be careful where you invest your energy
- Non-sexual intimacy can be powerful
Resources discussed in this episode:
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37. How to Have a Good Threesome with All The Feels (Part 2)
Season 3 · Episode 8
mercredi 3 mai 2023 • Duration 34:13
Today I bring to you the second part of my conversation with Natasha + Jeremy, sex coaches and educators behind All The Feels. They give amazing tips around communication in and outside of the bedroom. Jeremy talks about ways that are sexy and respectful to approach women and they both share how to have a threesome that is fun and sexy and where everyone feels safe. We also talk about what one can do if you have a sexual desire or preference your partner doesn’t like.
Resources discussed in the episode:
Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - Carolyn Elliott
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Pussy: A Reclamation - Regena Thomashuer
Dr. Eva Cadell Certified Sex Coach
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36. Turning Jelousy into Kink with All The Feels (Part 1)
Season 3 · Episode 7
mercredi 26 avril 2023 • Duration 49:47
Today I had a wonderful discussion with Natasha and Jeremy, the couple behind All The Feels. They are certified sex coaches, working on empowering people to have better sex lives. Besides coaching, they also educate through their instagram and their porn videos.
Today we chat about their journeys taking charge of their sexuality and navigating non-mongamy. Natasha also tells us how she went from feeling jealousy to getting turned on when seeing Jeremy having sex with other women.
Resources discussed in the episode:
Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - Carolyn Elliott
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Pussy: A Reclamation - Regena Thomashuer
Dr. Eva Cadell Certified Sex Coach
Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here
https://calendly.com/polycuriouspodcast/30min
Join my Patreon
https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious
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Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com
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35. Opening to Polyamory with Jessica Esfandiary from Open Late
Season 3 · Episode 6
mercredi 19 avril 2023 • Duration 53:41
Today I speak to Jessica Esfandiary, the host of the Open Late podcast. She tells us how she opened up her now 9 year relationship only a few months in, after an ‘accidental’ threesome. We talk about how she went from hiding her open lifestyle even from her closest friends to having a podcast about non-monogamy. She also tells us the reasons why she likes being polyamorous, including seeing a side of herself she doesn’t always express with her partner.
Resources discussed in the episode:
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures (book)
Listen to Open Late
Spotify: Are You Polycurious with Fernanda from the Polycurious Podcast
Apple Podcast: Are You Polycurious with Fernanda from the Polycurious Podcast
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34. Managing Two Partners and Building Community with Jenny & Kris (Part 2)
Season 3 · Episode 5
mercredi 12 avril 2023 • Duration 34:13
In the second part of our conversation with Jenny and Kris we chat about a time when Jenny fell in love with a secondary partner and had a hard time managing both relationships. Jenny also tells us about the parties she organizes and how it all began as a way to connect the non-monogamous community.
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33. Open From the Get Go with Jenny & Kris (Part 1)
Season 3 · Episode 4
mercredi 12 avril 2023 • Duration 44:08
In today’s episode Mariah and I chat with Jenny and Kris, who have been together for almost a decade and navigated non-monogamy from the beginning. They tell us everything about their introduction to the non-monogamous world and what they learned in this process.
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32. Letting Go of Shame with Philip from Dear Poly
Season 3 · Episode 3
mercredi 5 avril 2023 • Duration 52:43
Today I chat with Philip, the host of the podcast Dear Poly where I was a guest last year. We go deep into Philip’s coming out story and how he had to break so much stigma in his religious community to be his true self. If you have ever had a hard time letting go of shame, as a queer person, non-monogamous person or simply someone with a high sex drive, I think you will resonate with this episode.
Dear Poly website
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31. Healing Sexual Trauma with Jess & Zach from Sacred Ships
Season 3 · Episode 2
mercredi 29 mars 2023 • Duration 01:00:43
Jess is a trauma centered relationship coach and plant medicine guide. Zach is a breath work facilitator and men’s intimacy coach. Together they have the Sacred Ships podcast, where I had the pleasure to be a guest last year.
Today we talk about how they healed their sexual trauma, partly through their relationship. Zach opens up about using porn in a way affected his sexual performance, and reveals what he did to get to a comfortable place with his sexuality. Having casual sex with other women and opening up their relationship was actually an important part of this process.
Connect to Sacred Ships through their website
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Listen to Fer's episode on the Sacred Ships Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts
Resources mentioned in the episode:
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy (book)
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know (book)
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Visit our website polycurious.com
Book a free exploratory coaching session with me here
Our email is polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com
Get $10 off STD Check here