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In this episode we chat....

• Confidence vs. FAKE confidence and how to tell the difference
• Ways insecurity masks itself through FAKE confidence
• How walking in FAKE confidence is actually incredibly manipulative

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In this episode we chat....

• That feeling of OBSESSION with him wanting you back and what to do about it
• The surprising reason behind the OBSESSION that I guarantee you are not aware of
•  Leaning on God during this time for strength and the ability to LET GO

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 CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS

The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.

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In this episode we chat....

• Why MEN are providers and BOYS are not
• The difference between BOYS and MEN and spotting it in dating
• How the RIGHT man actually will invite EASE + make you 100x the woman you already ARE

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Do you ever feel like people don’t value what you have to offer or like things are SO easy for other people but so difficult for you, particularly in regards to your career? Then this is the episode for you. Today, I’m talking about how you can navigate feeling undervalued, unappreciated, and unseen - at work or in your love life. 

We frequently take setbacks and assume they mean something about ourselves, but what if a little shift in energy could really change the way that you feel AND how you show up for your work? It’s possible, and I want to help you get there and ensure that you are questioning whether you’re doing things out of obligation or desire.

Here’s what I talk about in this episode:

• Is It About Obligation or Desire?
• Finding the Right Work Environment
• Acting from a Place of Unworthiness
• The Right Relationship Environment 

I’ve been in the place of feeling unworthy, lacking confidence, and completely numbing myself to the day-to-day of my job just to tolerate it. I know how demoralizing that is, so it’s important to me that you escape that place if that’s where you find yourself. Tuning into this episode is step one in that process. 

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Today, I want to talk about something that plagues many people, especially in the context of their careers. Anxiousness, self-doubt, and a fear of being seen may come up a lot, and these feelings prevent people from showing up authentically as themselves. I don’t want you to experience this, so I dive fully into the topic on this episode.

There are so many different facets that come into play when you experience self-doubt within your career specifically. You may question your skills and start feeling like an imposter, not knowing how to showcase your soft skills, or may really struggle to show up for yourself authentically as a business owner. Does this sound like something you suffer with

Here’s what I discuss in detail on this episode:

• The Deal with Imposter Syndrome
• Showcasing Your Soft Skills
• Experiencing Self-Doubt as a Business Owner
• Intuition vs. Trauma 

I really hope that this episode makes it easier for you to tune out your self-doubt and shift into both self-trust and your desires. Once you do that, you’ll be able to show up authentically as you and it will feel so much better - believe me, I’ve been there, too!

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Stemming from the episode last week about codependency, this week I wanted to talk about a related topic. Especially for those concerned with codependency, it can be really easy to go to the other side of the spectrum and become hyper-independent. So, that’s what I’m discussing in this episode.

It’s really important to me that I communicate that it’s okay to lean on your loved ones for support and help. Doing so doesn’t equate to codependency, and I know that sometimes it can be confusing to navigate that. It’s really easy to demonize dependency in general when you’re in this position, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

Here’s what I dig into on this episode:

• Codependency vs. Interdependence
• Accepting Support from Loved Ones 

It’s my hope that this episode reframes the way that you look at independence, dependence on others, and how they relate to codependency. Striking the right balance can feel impossible, but I promise you that there’s a nice in-between where you can settle in and get amazing support at the same time.

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Codependency is a big topic, but I want to clue you in on something about the topic that people tend not to talk about. That’s what this episode centers around, and once you gain this understanding, there’s no going back! 

There’s a lot to unpack when it comes to codependency, and it completely takes away your ability to make decisions for yourself. The reason I’m ready to uncover this topic and break down the codependency barriers is because I’ve been there! So please know that I feel your pain if you’re currently working through your own struggles with codependency. 

Here’s exactly what I discuss in this episode:

• What is Codependency?
• Is It a Self-Love Issue?
• Your Intuition is Always Guiding You

I hope that this episode allows you to think about codependency in a new light. And with that, I also hope it inspires you to approach codependency issues differently in order to gain back a sense of independence as well as confidence in your intuition and body. They know best!

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Grab your FREE meditation on self-trust for the inner child: www.beatricekamau.com/freemeditation 

Boundaries are one of those concepts that get a lot of air time, but do you actually know how to effectively set them for yourself? That’s the topic of this informative episode! Boundaries can really help you align your relationships to what you want to get out of them. Furthermore, setting healthy boundaries allows you to create better energy in your life rather than being plagued by bad energy.

The truth is that you have the power to take ownership over the energy in your life. That’s an exciting prospect, right?  Being proactive rather than reactive and setting those boundaries is the best way to step into that power and to be happier with the energy you surround yourself with. 

Here are the topics surrounding boundaries that I bring up in this episode:

• Proactivity vs. Reactivity
• Boundaries with Family Members
• Boundaries at Work

I hope that this post has given you a blueprint of how to think about instilling boundaries in your own life so that you can begin taking control of the energy you surround yourself with. Believe me, doing so will make ALL the difference!

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The idea of being fully healed is something I’ve heard referenced time and time again, and it’s what I want to talk about on today’s episode. It’s about time the mere notion of being “fully healed” is debunked, and I’m not only doing that today, but I’m also sharing three mini myths around the topic that I want to help you shy away from.

There’s a common misconception that people need to resolve things within themselves and be “perfect enough” to be worthy of love. This is a subconscious thing that people tend to think, so today I’m going to address the mini myths that exist under the larger myth around being fully healed. 

Here are the mini myths I discuss:

• Mini Myth #1: Going Back to Old Behaviors Cancels Out the Work You’ve Done
• Mini Myth #2: There are Endless Problems We Need to Solve Internally
• Mini Myth #3: You Have to Get Rid of Parts of Yourself in Order to Grow

It’s my hope that talking about these will help shift your perspective on this topic, as I want you to stop focusing on being fully healed and start focusing on radical self-acceptance.

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Another week, another podcast guest! I’m so excited that Gina DeVee joined this episode to talk about her book, The Audacity to be Queen, as well as several other topics relating to zeroing in on the queen energy that lives inside all of us as strong women.

Gina’s perspective is so interesting, as she has lived an interesting life that has brought her where she is now. Gina went from being a broke psychologist to a multi-million dollar women’s empowerment and lifestyle brand with Divine Living. She has dedicated her career to helping women connect spiritually, start profitable businesses, and create wealth from a feminine perspective. She and I had a LOT to talk about, and I can’t wait for you to hear it all.

Here are the specifics that Gina and I discuss:

• About Gina
• Our Inner Archetypes
• Schools of Health, Love, and Money
• Blocks Around Money
• Success and Opportunity is for Everyone

It’s my hope that this episode inspires you to tap into your power as a queen, since I know it lives within you! So go ahead, put on that crown with pride! 

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