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The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging
Kiley ‘Sexyswingerchic’
Frequency: 1 episode/9d. Total Eps: 109

The Pineapple Express
Once a swinger podcast… now a real-time journey through modern love.
Hosted by Kiley — queer, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, ex-sex worker turned sex and relationship coach — The Pineapple Express explores the messy, magical, ever-evolving world of love, sex, intimacy, and emotional growth.
This podcast is for anyone navigating:
- Non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging
- Monogamy after openness (or vice versa)
- Relationship transitions, breakups, and rediscovering self-worth
- ADHD, neurodivergence, and nervous system repair in love
- Sexual empowerment and authentic connection
Each episode blends real-time storytelling, expert interviews, and unfiltered reflections on:
- Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging
- Emotional intelligence and intimacy and of course SEX
- Boundaries, communication, and healing attachment wounds
- Queerness, identity exploration, and sex-positivity
- Neurodivergent love, pleasure, and partnership
You’ll laugh, cry, and maybe even journal after. Kiley’s here to stir the cauldron — and remind you that pleasure, connection, and love are allowed to evolve.
This isn’t your average relationship podcast.
It’s personal. It’s sacred. It’s a little unhinged.
And it’s exactly what you’ve been craving.
Why Listen?
Because you're not looking for perfect love — you’re looking for real love.
Because you’re healing, growing, and rewriting the rules — and want company along the way.
Subscribe now and ride The Pineapple Express, where we talk about sex, love, and everything in between — with zero judgment, just curiosity, courage, and connection.
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78: The Compersion Connection With Dr. Marie Thouin Author of the book What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships
Season 2 · Episode 28
vendredi 30 août 2024 • Duration 01:14:37
[Welcome to another episode of the Pineapple Express podcast, where we explore the juicy and vibrant world of relationships! Today, we have a special guest with us—Dr. Marie Thouin, author of 'What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships.'
In this enlightening episode, we’ll dive into the transformative concept of compersion, a feeling of joy and empathy that arises when we see our partners thrive in other relationships. Dr. Thouin will share her insights on how understanding compersion can deepen connections, enrich our experiences, and foster healthier dynamics in consensually non-monogamous settings.
Marie Thouin, PhD is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, The Times of London, and HuffPost. Marie has also published seminal research studies, the first encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and resources on the topic of compersion. She is the Founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she supports and guides people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives.
Find Marie on IG
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77: Monogamy? In This Economy? Unpacking Polyamory and Family Relationship Dynamics with Laura Boyle
Season 2 · Episode 27
vendredi 23 août 2024 • Duration 01:13:08
Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, where we dive into the multifaceted world of relationships, love, and everything in between. I’m your host, Kiley, and today we have an exceptional guest joining us—Laura Boyle, the brilliant mind behind the thought-provoking book *Monogamy? In this Economy?*.
In this conversation, Laura shares her insights on polyamory, modern relationships, and the changing dynamics of love in today's society. We'll explore the ideas behind her book, discussing how people can navigate different types of relationships and the challenges and rewards that come with them. It's a must-listen for anyone curious about alternative relationship styles and looking for a fresh perspective.
So, grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and join us as we embark on this enlightening journey with Laura Boyle.
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Enjoy the episode!
Find out more about @readyforpolyamory
Here is Laura’s Linktree with all of her information, socials and website
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Here’s a link to get a copy of the book
🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍
Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about me
Literally everything is right here…
Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂
All My Links To Learn More About Me
My Website
Onlyfans
Linktree
Sex Coaching
Find me on social media
IG
🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast
Subscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack.
💡 Events & Coaching
- Coaching sessions: Book time with me.
💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.
OPEN's Free Peer Support Group
🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You
Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off
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68: Creating Space For Community In Non Monogamy With Noa Elan
Season 2 · Episode 17
vendredi 7 juin 2024 • Duration 01:13:36
In this episode, we sit down with Noa Elan, the CEO of the Plura app, to delve into a thought-provoking conversation about community in non-monogamy. Join us as we explore the importance of finding like-minded individuals, building a supportive community, and navigating the complexities of non-traditional relationships. Tune in to Pineapple Express for a meaningful dialogue that celebrates diversity, love, and the power of community in redefining relationships.
Join the Plura App
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/plura-meet-partners-friends/id1528252601
Join the movement with me!
Together, we can normalize non-monogamy
By promoting visibility, challenging stereotypes, and celebrating love in all its forms, we can pave the way for a world where non-monogamous families and relationships are not just accepted but celebrated.
Check out https://www.weekofvisibility.com/
Thrilled to announce that I will be speaking at #Poly4Paly, a fundraiser by @polyphiliablog featuring 20+ non-monogamous creators sharing polyamory tips and stories to support people who really need our help right now. It's happening in two weeks, so register now - and everyone gets a copy of the recording, so if you can't attend live you miss nothing (except for the opportunity to say hello to me live, of course!)
https://poly4paly.eventbrite.com/
There’s still time to book Naughty in Nawlins book until June 10
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🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast
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💡 Events & Coaching
- Coaching sessions: Book time with me.
💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.
OPEN's Free Peer Support Group
🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You
Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off
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67: Navigating Swinging as a Newbie with Jess Nonmonogamous_newbies
vendredi 31 mai 2024 • Duration 01:08:14
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💡 Events & Coaching
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66: The Ultimate Guide to Naughty in Nawlins with The Accidental Swingers Podcast
Season 2 · Episode 16
vendredi 17 mai 2024 • Duration 01:20:07
What is Naughty in Nawlins?
"Naughty in Nawlins" is a well-known swingers and lifestyle convention held annually in New Orleans, Louisiana. It's one of the largest events of its kind, attracting couples and singles from around the world who are interested in alternative lifestyles, open relationships, and sexual exploration.
For anyone interested, it's advised to review event details, rules, and codes of conduct on the official Naughty in Nawlins website to ensure a fulfilling and respectful experience.
You can still get your tickets and book the event using my code
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To learn more about Myrenia and Tristan and The Accidental Swingers Podcast make sure you check out their website
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65: Uncovering Shame in Sexuality as a Swinger with Sex and Intimacy Coach Deborah Kat
Season 2 · Episode 6
vendredi 10 mai 2024 • Duration 01:21:20
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64: Sex Work and Human Design with Samantha Zagar
vendredi 3 mai 2024 • Duration 01:04:31
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💡 Events & Coaching
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💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.
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63: Embracing Inclusion in Non Monogamy Communities with DEI expert ThatInclusionLady
Season 2 · Episode 13
vendredi 26 avril 2024 • Duration 01:18:10
In this episode of the podcast, we talk about all things inclusion within the non-monogamy community, featuring the expertise of Ama, affectionately known as "That Inclusion Lady." A renowned Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) Coach, Ama brings a wealth of knowledge, insight, and passion to our discussion, shedding light on the challenges, triumphs, and the often overlooked importance of being inclusive in non-monogamous spaces.
As our community continues to grow and evolve, the conversation around making these spaces welcoming for everyone becomes increasingly crucial. Ama guides us through the importance of recognizing and celebrating diversity in sexual and relationship orientations, racial and cultural backgrounds, and beyond. She offers tangible advice and strategies for individuals and communities to foster an environment of true inclusivity and belonging.
Listeners will come away with a deeper understanding of the significance of DEI principles in non-monogamy, practical tips for creating more inclusive spaces, and the inspiration to champion inclusion in their own lives and communities. Whether you're well-versed in the lifestyle or simply curious about the intersections of non-monogamy and inclusivity, this episode with Ama is a must-listen.
Support Ama’s work by following her on social media
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🎙️ The Pineapple Express Podcast
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💡 Events & Coaching
- Coaching sessions: Book time with me.
💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.
OPEN's Free Peer Support Group
🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You
Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off
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- FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick.
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61: ED Solutions For Men in the Swinger Lifestyle with Dr. Elliot Justin
Season 2 · Episode 11
vendredi 12 avril 2024 • Duration 01:12:19
In this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks with Dr Elliot Justin about Firmtech, Elliot Justin, MD, FACEP is an Emergency Medicine specialist, telemedicine expert and sex toy enthusiast. His goal is to help all men and women sustain their sexual fitness, and if they develop ED to reverse or impede its progression. This will be achieved by providing personal data via scientifically designed under wearables and more effective and comfortable cock rings and vibrators. They talk about the effects of ED in the swinger lifestyle and how Firmtech can be a solution for men and couples dealing with ED.
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If you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you.
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💡 Events & Coaching
- Coaching sessions: Book time with me.
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🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You
Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off
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60: Human Design and Spirituality in Swinger Settings with Aycee Brown
Season 2 · Episode 10
vendredi 5 avril 2024 • Duration 01:09:41
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💡 Events & Coaching
- Coaching sessions: Book time with me.
💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.
OPEN's Free Peer Support Group
🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You
Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off
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- FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick.
- SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic.
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