Me And My Tiny Human – Details, episodes & analysis

Hello there! My name is Rachel Corbett and I’m a solo mum…by choice.

I know what you’re thinking “Was it really a choice or did you have no other option, you sad pathetic single woman who got left on the shelf?”

It’s ok. Even if polite society says you can’t say that to my face you’re more than welcome to think it coz, I get it.

We’re supposed to all want that perfect two-partner family and anything short of that is really just a consolation prize.

But I never really thought that way.

And I’ve noticed, when I tell people I’m a solo mum I usually get a few responses…

“Oh God I wish I’d done that” from anyone in a less than ideal co-parenting situation OR anyone who is in a relationship with someone but may as well be doing it solo because their partner is MIA both emotionally and physically.

“Oh, that’s nice” from people who think it’s honestly a bit sad and that, despite me saying I’m fine, I’m probably holding it together for their benefit and I’ll pop home for a quick cry later while thinking about all the ex’s I should have had a baby with so I wasn’t in this mortifyingly embarrassing position.

And finally, “Oh, I could never do that” from people who genuinely think they couldn’t do it solo.

And if you’ve ever thought that, but you really want kids and you haven’t found a partner who would make your life infinitely better and you’re wondering, “Could doing it by myself be an option for me?”, then this show is for you.

Even if you couldn’t care less about the words that are coming out of my mouth and you just want to use it as proof of life, to see that someone doing it solo can make it through a week, I’ll be here for you.

This show isn’t about giving advice, because honestly, every family and baby is so different I think it’s a bit weird to think you’ve got the all the answers.

Especially when, like me, you’ve muddled your way through this once.  And you’re still only at the beginning bit.  

But there's plenty of stuff I’ve worked out, or found really helpful doing it by myself, so I thought I’d share it in case it helps you too.

I’ll also be going back through some of my audio and written journal entries from the early days because, in all honesty, that bit was such a miserable blur that I’m quite fascinated to relive it from a safe distance, coz, I’m not gonna lie.  I really hit the skids.

But I can say that in an amusing tone now because it really does get INFINITELY better.

And thank GOD because otherwise why would anybody do this?  It’s hell!

So come and join me for Operation Tiny Human, coming to your ears soon.

If you’ve got any questions, even if it’s as brutal as “Why the hell have you done this you idiot?” I’d love to answer them on the show and you can submit them here.

And I hope you’ll join me for Operation Tiny Human, coming to your ears soon.

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Josh Newth

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Welcome to the very first episode of Me And My Tiny Human!

A show that's been a LONG time coming...for me. Not so much for you.

You probably saw it five minutes ago and thought I'll give this a go, meanwhile I'm over here thinking for the last year and a half, "I should really do this podcast."

But unfortunately, I had set everything up and the plan was to put it together during mat leave.

HA!

Can you pick the person who's never had a baby before?

But I'm here now and that's the main thing. 

And in this inaugural episode I'm answering a question I get asked A LOT and that is "Why the hell would you do this, you idiot?"

Seems harsh?  Well, not really.

I'm a single person with no family around and no help, other than the help I pay for (which ain't cheap...bye bye savings).

So, I understand why people don't know why I'd make the leap and do it solo, because looking after a baby isn't easy, even when you've got a lot of support around.

In this episode I talk about why I decided to go it alone and why the idea of having a baby on my own has never felt like a consolation prize. 

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Josh Newth

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Want to create a podcast of your own? Check out my podcasting course, PodSchool

Email me: rachel@meandmytinyhuman.com

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Is the juggle doable as a solo mum? Technically, yes. But it might break you a little.

In this final episode of this season, I talk about how I'm trying to keep everything going and the importance of not forgetting about yourself in that mix.

I also explain why I’m taking a short break from the podcast (don't worry, it's not for long!) and why sometimes you just need to take something off your plate before you fall to bits.

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Josh Newth

LINKS & OTHER IMPORTANT STUFF:

Click here to submit a question to the show

Want to start your own podcast? Check out my online podcasting course, PodSchool.

Email me: rachel@meandmytinyhuman.com

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This week I'm answering a question about whether I've ever been judged for my parenting.

This came into my inbox at the perfect time because I'd had someone judge me that very same week.

And let's just say, I wasn't that jazzed about it.

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

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Today I'm answering this question from Anonymous...

"I’m currently doing IVF to become a solo mum and while I’m super hopeful and optimistic it will work out, the realities are starting to dawn on me that it may not. And I may have to make peace with that at some point. So I guess my questions are - Did you think about this? Did you have a limit on how many round you would do? How did you handle the IVF rollercoaster once you decided you were ready to be a mum? Do you know anyone who tried without success (because this needs to be normalised as much as solo motherhood imo)?"

I was 42 when I had my daughter so if there was one thing I was definitely across and that was the fact that, at my age, becoming a mum was more unlikely than it was likely.

Every fertility appointment I went to (and there were a lot of them) I was reminded of the statistics.

So I knew, no matter how much I wanted to be a mum, there were absolutely no guarantee it would happen.

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Josh Newth

LINKS & OTHER IMPORTANT STUFF:

Click here to submit a question to the show

Want to start your own podcast? Check out my online podcasting course, PodSchool.

Email me: rachel@meandmytinyhuman.com

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Today I'm answering this question from Carly...

"Do you ever feel any level of guilt for your daughter that because of your (our) choice, she won’t have a father (one of the good ones - engaged, mature, loving) in her life? Yes it was the right decision for me but i do question myself on that sometimes." - Carly (& my little one, Gracen)

Do I ever think about whether I should have gone down a different path? You'll have to listen to find out!

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Josh Newth

LINKS & OTHER IMPORTANT STUFF:

Click here to submit a question to the show

Want to start your own podcast? Check out my online podcasting course, PodSchool.

Email me: rachel@meandmytinyhuman.com

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Before I became a parent, I had no idea how judgey people could be about parenting.

It seems that when there's a baby involved, everyone has an opinion and the biggest thing people seem to have opinions on? Breastfeeding.

I've been amazed at the willingness of strangers to share their two cents when they've got no idea about the circumstances of somebodies life.

So what's with all the judgement? And why do people care?

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance:

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Click here to submit a question to the show

Want help starting your own podcast? Check out my online podcasting course, PodSchool.

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Today, I'm answering a question from Samantha: "Do you think there are any qualities that you have that have been helpful in being a solo mum? I'm really disorganised and can be kinda lazy at times and I'm worried those qualities are probably going to suck if I'm thinking about having a baby on my own."

Firstly, Samantha, if you do decide to go down the solo mum path, I think you'll surprise yourself.

It's amazing what we're a;; capable of getting done when there's a tiny human howling at you and probably sh*tting their pants at the same time 😂

Ultimately, the only trait you need to be a great mum, of any description, is the ability to love your kid.

Everything outside of that is just logistics but as for traits I've found handy doing it solo, there are a few, and in this episode I'm going to share the qualities I believe have really helped me.

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Lize Ratliff

LINKS & OTHER IMPORTANT STUFF:

Click here to submit a question to the show

Want to create a podcast of your own? Check out my podcasting course, PodSchool

Email me: rachel@meandmytinyhuman.com

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Let me preface this episode by saying this is MY experience and NONE of this is advice.

Sleep is a very sensitive topic for parents, mostly because we're getting bugger all of it but I wanted to share my experience so you can take from it what you need and ignore what you don't.

Every baby is different so it's likely that none of the stuff that worked for me will work for you and vice versa.

Welcome to the punish of teaching your kid to sleep!!

In this episode I chat about my experience with sleep training, the Snoo, co-sleeping and the phrase that will haunt you in your dreams: "Drowsy but awake."

If I had a list of priorities when I became a parent, sleep was top of the list.

Mostly because I had no one else to hand this little person off to so if I was getting no sleep I knew that was a recipe for disaster.

So, I did everything I could to create an environment where my daughter had the best possible chance of learning how to do it because that's really all you can do.

The rest is up to them and you have no idea how they're going to take to it.

But I knew I didn't want to take short cuts early (even though it would have been SO MUCH easier at the time) because I didn't want to be fixing bigger problems later.

I wanted to try and tough it out as best I could in the hopes that we could get the hard stuff out of the way early and then course correct later.

So this is what worked for me.

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Lize Ratliff

LINKS & OTHER IMPORTANT STUFF:

Click here to submit a question to the show

Want to create a podcast of your own? Check out my podcasting course, PodSchool

Email me: rachel@meandmytinyhuman.com

Follow me: Instagram, Facebook, X, LinkedIn, YouTube, TikTok or check out the website.

Today, I'm answering a question from Anthea:"I notice you don't really put your daughter on social media and I was interested in the thinking behind that and what you feel about other parents who do it?"

Brave is the person who genuinely admits what they think of other parents 😂

But in this instance, even though I can't get myself comfy with posting my kid on social media, I'd happily watch videos of your kids all day!

Tiny humans are excellent content so I understand why people post about them but my lack of social media content is really just my way of ensuring I'll have a legitimate rebuttal for when my daughter eventually asks me for Instagram (or whatever platform is around when she's older).

That's right.

My approach to putting my kid social media is about planning for a conversation that's potentially ten years away.

Nothing weird about that, right?

This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Wangal people, of the Eora Nation.

I pay my respects to Elders past and present.

EPISODE CREDITS:

Host: Rachel Corbett

Editing Assistance: Lize Ratliff

LINKS & OTHER IMPORTANT STUFF:

Click here to submit a question to the show

Want to create a podcast of your own? Check out my podcasting course, PodSchool

Email me: rachel@meandmytinyhuman.com

Follow me: Instagram, Facebook, X, LinkedIn, YouTube, TikTok or check out the website.