Hookup Horror Stories with Demi Wylde – Details, episodes & analysis

This week's guest is sexual anthropologist and author of the new memoir 177 Lovers and Counting: My Life as a Sex Researcher, Dr. Leanna Wolfe.

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This week's guest is Leslie Draffin, psychedelic guide, somatic womb healer, transformational
coach & speaker as we discuss sexuality, trauma, and healing through the power of psychedelics.

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In this episode Demi talks to author, licensed mental health counselor, and love and relationship coach, Riana Milne. We discuss how childhood traumas affect our relationships, common childhood traumas, common dating patters that emerge from traumas, cultural differences in choosing partners, plus she shares her own trauma story that catapulted her to success.

Follow Riana.: @coachrianamilne

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Website: rianamilne.com

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Timestamps:

0:00 You control your own reboot

6:10 How childhood traumas influence our dating lives

8:30 13 common childhood traumas

17:10 Common patterns in relationships with trauma

23:01 How to choose differently & cultural differences

25:09 Riana’s trauma story

34:43 Red Flags

Welcome to season 5, deviants! This season kicks off with p*rn addiction recovery specialist and CEO of Elevated Recovery, J.K. Emezi. We discuss why he prefers "reboot" to "recovery," challenges with 12 step programs, the cognitive science behind p*rn addiction, p*rn as intimacy replacement, and he shares a terrifying story of a hookup that may have been a violent setup.

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Timestamps:

0:00 You control your own reboot

6:17 Why “reboot?”

12:00 The cycle of addiction

20:00 Incel culture and the s*xual marketplace

31:56 Dating tips for men

38:28 Email: Chivalry is dead

41:36 J.K.’s Hookup Horror Story

51:52 Red Flags

Another bonus episode, deviants! This episode I talk to author Heather Claus. We discuss being a pioneer of the internet, being "heteroflexible," joining the carnival as a teenager, alternative and k!nky lifestyles, surviving emotional abuse, setting proper boundaries, and so much more! She also shares the story of a date that narrowly ended in a horrifying way, if it weren't for a lucky intervention. Find Heather:  @curiouser  https://my.curiouser.life/ https://www.facebook.com/heatherclaus https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAKfRtjIDzVqOz8OxJKsnhA Socials: https://linktr.ee/hookuphorrorstories Share your stories: ⁠https://forms.gle/QCgnnQsQE2n8rDQeAA Support: https://patreon.com/demitriwylde PodMatch affiliate: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/demitriwylde Theme song is by Byte Story. All music is copyright free courtesy of Pixabay.com and Bensound.com. All sound effects and clips are used for entertainment, education, and/or satirical purposes only. Wylde Heart Media, LLC #podcast #dating #relationships

In a special bonus episode of Hookup Horror Stories, I am joined by dating coach Krista Melanson! We discuss previously working at a p*rn shop, the conection between food and s*x, the evolution of the adult industry, watching the original Pam & Tommy video, dating with yoour kids' approval, the benefits of having a dating coach, and she tells the story of a time a date told her he was willing to do anything for love.... ANYTHING. Find Krista https://krista-marie.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kristadating Socials: https://linktr.ee/hookuphorrorstories Share your stories: ⁠https://forms.gle/QCgnnQsQE2n8rDQeAA Support: https://patreon.com/demitriwylde PodMatch affiliate: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/demitriwylde Theme song is by Byte Story. All music is copyright free courtesy of Pixabay.com and Bensound.com. All sound effects and clips are used for entertainment, education, and/or satirical purposes only. Wylde Heart Media, LLC #podcast #datingpodcast #comedypodcast

It's spooky season, deviants, so this week I am joined by true crime author and novelist, Ryan Winter. We discuss being "New Orleans Mother Goose," his books "Ravish" and "Wake the Devil," living and dating in New Orleans, the queer history of the French Quarter, writing horror and true crime, "The Axe Man" of New Orleans, plus so much more! Plus he shares the story of a time he wound up being the only normie at a vampire party.

Find Ryan:

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https://www.instagram.com/ryanwinterauthor/

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In the season 4 finale, this week I have a double interview with co-authors of the book "Street Smart Safety for Women" Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach. We discuss the helping role Joy played in the 2017 mass shooting at Fort Lauderdale airport, Laura's history as a survivor of domestic violence and her "aha" moment and how it changed her life, and dating red flags. Plus Joy and Laura share their best street smart safety tips!

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This week I sat down with men's dating coach Melanie Curtin! She and I discussed sex abuse in the Jewish community, survivor resilience, why representation matters, "Nice Guys" versus "Bad Guys," plus so much more. Plus she shares the story of a time a time for her when a hookup didn't go quite as well as planned, and why women feel that men are "owed" sexual gratification.

Find Melanie:

https://www.instagram.com/melaniebcurtin/?hl=en

https://www.linkedin.com/in/melaniecurtin/

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This week I'm joined by the host of The Ghost Podcast: Rosemary! We discuss how dating apps date your brain, swipe culture, how app culture changed dating relationships, avoidant attachment, and so much more. Plus she shares a personal ghosting story.

Find Rosemary/The Ghost Podcast:

https://theghostpodcast.com/

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