Hey Shayla - Judgement Free Motherhood 😅😭😍 – Details, episodes & analysis

071 - Keeping our Children Safe with a Child Sexual Abuse Detective. Online and IRL! @yamipence
Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 071

Guest: Yami Pence (https://instagram.com/yamipence) is a child safety educator and advocate, and former child sexual abuse & child sexual abuse material detective.

She teaches parents how to keep their kids safe in the real world and online. She educates on the reality of sharing our kids online and to real world tactics on how to best keep our kids safe.

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

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*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
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Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 070

Guest: Tiffany Belanger (the safety captain) with @cosleepy on instagram

RESOURCES:
FREE bedsharing guide: https://cosleepy.com/safe-bedsharing-guidelines
James McKenna’s book “Safe infant sleep” https://amzn.to/4bPwWUq
Safe Infant Sleep resources: https://www.safeinfantsleep.org/
HeyShayla Podcast - episode 037 titled “Cosleeping: what no one tells you” 

When Tiffany Belanger became a new parent and her newborn would not sleep in his bassinet, she was shocked at how difficult it was to find reliable information about safe cosleeping!
After two years of research and real-life trial and error, she founded Cosleepy to help other parents keep their babies safe in their beds. She even refers to herself as the safety captain because it’s very important to her that people know how to bed share SAFELY. Even the parents who don’t plan to!  Because inevitably most will, and knowing how to do it safely is crucial.  

Her work has been referenced in several articles discussing the controversy of cosleeping, most notably New York Magazine's viral article "Are We All Secretly Co-sleeping?" She has a super informative and helpful instagram @cosleepy that has become one of the largest communities of cosleeping parents on the web.

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
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Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

Their teeth fall out anyway...

Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 061 Do I Need to Bring MY BABY To The Dentist? With Pediatric Dentist @Doctor_Staci

Doctor Staci Whitman is a Functional Kids’ Dentist in North Portland, Oregon. She is the founder of NoPo Kids Dentistry where she takes a whole-body, holistic, and functional approach with her patients. Her dentistry/practice is grounded by science and powered by love.
She has also created, Fygg, aMicrobiome TOOTHPASTE!

Resources:
Microbiome Test: Brittle (DoctorStaci gets 10% off)
Find a function dentist: AskTheDentist.com
Find a AirWay Specialist: BretheInstitute
AAPMD
BOOK: The Dental Diet Dr. Price and Dr. Stephen Lynn
Chewing Device: Myo Munchie

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
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Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

Season 3 starts NOW!
HEY SHAYLA PODCAST IS BACK!!!! 

Quick update: 
- The Hey Shayla podcast GIVES. ME. LIFE!!!
- We're due with baby #3 at the end of the summer (keeping gender a surprise)
- We're headed to Hawaii soon - wish us luck
- When we get back we have the girls birthday party
- I'm also planning my sister's baby shower (she's due 10 days before me!) and I'm planning on doing meal prep! 

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
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Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

Sorry I ghosted you... this is what's up
Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 059
 
Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! If you love listening I'd be so grateful if you left a review!

Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right.  I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
 ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
Go to heyshayla.com/codes if a code isn't working

*California Beach Co: Travel Playpen
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
*LoveBug Probiotics: Pre and postnatal probiotics
*My Little Eaters: Guide to Baby Led Weaning
*Kindred Bravely: Maternity Sports Bra code: HeyShayla15
*Clearly Filtered: Filtered water bottle pitcher code: Welcome10
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
 *hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery

Let's Connect!
 Instagram (@heyshayla),
YouTube (Hey Shayla)
Website (www.heyshayla.com)
Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/shop/heyshayla)

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Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
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Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

How does NY compare to New Zealand?!
 
New York Vs New Zealand Pregnancy, Birth and Postpartum with Becca Loveless

Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 058
Guest: @becca.loveless

It's no secret that general care the United States is sub par at best when it comes to labor and postpartum.  Becca Loveless and her husband moved to NZ when their first was just 10 months old. 
While living in New Zealand they became pregnant with their second. I've been eager to talk with her about the similarities and differences in her pregnancy, labor and delivery and postpartum experience each place!

Check out Becca's YouTube channel here

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast a judgement free Motherhood podcast!  Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right.  I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
 ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
  Go to heyshayla.com/codes if a code isn't working

*California Beach Co: Travel Playpen
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
*LoveBug Probiotics: Pre and postnatal probiotics
*My Little Eaters: Guide to Baby Led Weaning
*Kindred Bravely: Maternity Sports Bra HeyShayla15
*Clearly Filtered: Filtered water bottle pitcher
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
   *Iksplor: Wool base layer
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Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
http://heyshayla.com/podcastemail

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

Do you ever question your own screen time or time on social media? Have you ever considered deleting your social media accounts? This Influencer (with over half a million followers) did. 
Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 057

Guest: Lynzy Coughlin PA-C is a Physician Associate in a Level 1 Trauma Center ED for the past 14+ years. She I created her blog, Lynzy + Co. back in 2008 as a creative outlet from her career. And after spending the 7 (or so) years on social media , she decided to delete it all! She now communicates with her community via newsletters only as well as through her podcast, Motherhood Meets Medicine.

She was overwhelmed with the amount of information online and how toxic it could be. And now shares the immense value of limiting your time online and expanding your life by soaking up more time in solitude.

I asked her to be on the podcast to talk about life AFTER instagram and what it has brought to her life to encourage some of us to get off the app and connect in real life!

Resources Mentioned:
Blog about why she left IG

Lynzy's EMAIL LIST HERE

Lynzy's podcast "Motherhood Meets Medicine" here

Podcasts Lynzy mentions:
1. https://www.richroll.com/podcast/cal-newport-447/

2. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/balancing-the-tech-world-as-a-small-business/id1553782780?i=1000554179473

3. Jaron: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfTZ82SxvHg
Jaron's books: https://amzn.to/43gcXuh

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast!  Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right.  I'd love to connect on Instagram

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
http://heyshayla.com/podcastemail

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

Have only 5 min or a full day to declutter? Doesn't matter these tips will ACTUALLY help!

Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 056

Is your house getting out of control?  "Decluttering at the Speed of LIfe" by Dana White, (@aslobcomesclean)  is such an  incredibly easy to digest book with simple tips!

Dana K. White @aslobcomesclean is (much to her own surprise) a Decluttering Expert and is the creator of the five step No Mess Decluttering Method.
Dana is the author of: Organizing for the Rest of Us, Decluttering at the Speed of Life (a Wall Street Journal bestseller) and How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind.
Dana teaches her strategies through her blog, where you can also find her podcast, and videos.

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast!  Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right.  I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
 ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
Go to heyshayla.com/codes if a code isn't working

*California Beach Co: Travel Playpen
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
*LoveBug Probiotics: Pre and postnatal probiotics
*My Little Eaters: Guide to Baby Led Weaning
*Kindred Bravely: Maternity Sports Bra HeyShayla15
*Clearly Filtered: Filtered water bottle pitcher

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
http://heyshayla.com/podcastemail

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

If you can barely find "me time" with 1 child this mom of 6 shares her secrets!

Finding "ME TIME" with 6 kids! @meghanjoytoday
Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 055
Guest: Meghan Joy Yancy @meghanjoytoday is a mom of six! She has home schooled for 10 years and has multiple business.  So I had to know... where does she find "me time" and her answer was both surprising and liberating!! 

A must listen if you're struggling to find self care in motherhood!

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast!  Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right.  I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay
Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
 ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
Go to heyshayla.com/codes if a code isn't working

*California Beach Co: Travel Playpen
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
*LoveBug Probiotics: Pre and postnatal probiotics
*My Little Eaters: Guide to Baby Led Weaning
*Kindred Bravely: Maternity Sports Bra HeyShayla15
*Clearly Filtered: Filtered water bottle pitcher
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
 *hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery

Let's Connect!
 Instagram (@heyshayla),
Y

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
http://heyshayla.com/podcastemail

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...

How would you answer these questions:
Do you want pictures? Do you have a funeral in mind? Do you want time with your baby?

Stillbirth

Hey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 054

Guest: Hannah @hannah.eyl a teacher living in Minnesota. 
In 2021, her husband and her got pregnant and lost their first child.
The stillbirth of their son, Jospeh, was a life changing event that they were not prepared for.

Now, over a year later she's given birth to her second son, Amos.
She shares what she's learned, how she's coped and some of the questions that caught her off guard.

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast!  Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right.  I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Resources mentioned:
Photos in MN: nowIlaymedowntosleep.com
Support: starlegacyfoundation.org
Weighted Bear: https://www.mollybears.org
Change pigment in photos: https://www.babyangelpics.com
BOOK: Grieving the child i never knew

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
 ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
Go to heyshayla.com/codes if a code isn't working

*California Beach Co: Travel Playpen
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
*LoveBug Probiotics: Pre and postnatal probiotics
*My Little Eaters: Guide to Baby Led Weaning
*Kindred Bravely: Maternity Sports Br

Thank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast! Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family.. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right. I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshayla

Xo Shay

Join the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!
http://heyshayla.com/podcastemail

Companies I work with and am an affiliate for
ALL DISCOUNT CODES ARE HEYSHAYLA unless specified
*Expecting and Empowered: Pregnancy and Postpartum workouts
https://www.heyshayla.com/expectingandempoweredpod
*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier
https://www.heyshayla.com/tushbabypod
*Iksplor: Wool base layer
http://heyshayla.com/iksplorPod
*hypnobabies: hypnosis for labor and delivery
http://heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesPod
*PlushBeds: NonToxic Mattress (no discount)
http://heyshayla.com/plushbedsPOD
*GoDiaperFree...