Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

This is a set of 5 poems and painting descriptions from the audio version of The Path Through: A Book of Paintings and Poetry on the Subject of Trauma.  The book is available in hard copy at amazon at the link below:

The Path Through on Amazon

Additionally there is an option to purchase a signed copy of the paperback with a custome inscription of your choice here:

The Path Through - Signed

Original Artworks and Prints by Judith Brassard Brown are available here:

Original Artwork and Prints

Join Ezra as he shares a big announcement about the future of the Ask Ezra Podcast.  We are taking a break from posting new episodes for a little while.  Thank you to all the dedicated listeners.  Big thanks to all my guests and show supporters.  Keep up on developments and upcoming events by following socials Intsagram: @Ask_Ezra_ and Twitter: @HouseOfAlgos.  Check out the new book The Path Through with the link below or my first book Mindfucking Mindfully.

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Join Ezra as he chats with Finn Deerhart LGBTQ+ Speaker, Writer, and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor.  We chat about people are always projecting.  What Finn's coaching practice looks like.  What parts trust and time plays in a coaching practice, how he makes space for clients and how hard things can be productive.  We also talk about developing curiosity in challenging situations and how to invite your challenging emotions closer.  We hear what Finn means by "unfuck your sex life".  We discuss his work with Himerose, and how Finn supports porn actors in holding boundaries and negotiating scenes. 

    We also dive into an intimacy coaching session and hear about his challenge to stop trying to change his dad's mind and to recruit his partner in the personal development work.  Hear about Finn's "magic treasure chest" and what he decided to do with it.

 

https://www.finndeerhart.com/

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     Join Ezra as they talk with Azalea, who participated in the Radical Sexual Acceptance Research Study.  In this first of its kind episode of the Ask Ezra Podcast, we will hear from a research participant before participating in the research project in the first half, then we will hear from her again after participating in the study.  Learn about her thoughts on the project after having completed participation.

     In part 1 hear about why she's excited, dysmorphia and being 9-months on hormones, needing more foreplay after transition, her exploration around kink, safewording and changing activities, cultural shame around kink, what is challenging about BDSM, neurodivergence, her feral squirrel analogy, kink and hormone changes, selfishness in the bedroom, the power of saying no, and what they hope to get out of the research project.

     In part 2 hear about how she was able to "craft what she needed, a game analogy of MMO and self work, applying RSA to other challenges, group sessions and how they remind you that you're not alone, her goal of looking cute and not broke, the quality of growing versus condition of growing, compassion and pacing, conditioning for compassion, and finally how to get the e-book, sign up for group session, weekend workshop, or the research study.

Links for Weekly Group Sessions, Weekend Workshops, One-on-One Coaching, and no cost Weekly Webinars are here: https://www.askezra.info/archive

Join the Radical Sexual Acceptance Research Study Here: Tinyurl.com/startrsa

 

Join Ezra as he talks again with Raj of the Fart Fetish Podcast.  We talk about living with misconceptions from porn, cross over to all bathroom fetishes, humor to fetish pipeline, farts to reconnect with juvenility " farting with friends", humor from insecurity, helping people feel not alone, infrared goggles, cartoon facesitting, degradation and its connection to the fetish, woman farting and cooking YouTube show, and MLMF men who love men's farts.  

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     The 46th episode has been removed at the request of the guest for personal reasons.  It is my policy to honor the wishes of the guest when they feel uncomfortable with an episode even after it airs.  Instead of leaving a blank space or replacing it with another episode, I have decided to replace it with a brief explanation and a sneak peek at some upcoming projects.

Pre-order the poetry and paintings book:

https://houseofalgos.gumroad.com/l/ThePathThrough

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https://houseofalgos.gumroad.com/l/RSA

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Listen as we meet Lily Danger, an audio porn actress, currently single and loving life.  Lily has adopted a "Yes and" attitude and is working through her views on monogamy and what a partnership could really look like.  We look as monogamy verses polyamory through a few analogies and also consider what role jealousy plays in her love life.  

 

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     Join Ezra as he chats with Mark and Lynetta, the Soulmate Coaches.  In this episode we learn about what Mark and Lynetta are dealing with in their relationship AND what they offer as coaches.  We learn what soulmate coaches are and what is this soulmate? We learn about the  four steps to love.  Then Ezra asks: What's getting in the way?  Turns out there are some challenges around menopause for Lynetta and lower libido for both partners.  Lynette is feeling stuck in performance mode while Mark just asks her to be present.  Lynetta took a sex sabbatical to help figure things out.  We hear how six year old Lynetta left feeling crushed by her mom and how Lynetta now shuts down due to criticism or even perceived criticism.  Mark owns being greedy for Lynetta.  And Lynetta says "all my doors are open for Mark".

     Ezra discusses why he is hesitant to receive coaching on the show.  They talk about the value of self compassion, and rejection sensitive dysphoria.  Lynetta shows us her capacity for compassion for sharing her compassionate feelings for her mother who must never have gotten approval either.

     We explore a few strategies for Lynetta to use when she feels stuck in her head.  We also explore role play opportunities that can shift the focus away from performance for Lynetta.  Lynetta shares her concern with what a lack of erection or sustain erection "means".

     Mark and Lynetta share an experience of almost miraculous intimate connection they call soul touching.

 

https://www.markandlynetta.com/coaching-with-mark-and-lynetta

 

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Join Ezra as they talk with Sox, a sadomasochistic Goth who works as a dungeon monitor and plays with blood.  Learn about Sox's relationships, sensual versus sadistic, Sox as a sub not bottom, blood play, hook suspension, needle play experience and cutting, what her relationships look like, how Sox meet her blood play partner, Sox's bottom, Vanilla Partner, goth girl and golden retriever boy, how sox manages trauma response, being upfront about faults, play style is not source of conflict for her, her job at Sanctuary, Sox and Ezra working together, how Sox become a Dungeon Monitor, and more.

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This episode follows an interview format with Dr. Patti Britton. Dr. Patti Britton has led 55 SAR programs over the past ten years in seven countries to over 1,500 people. She is the author of the only SAR training manual (Routledge Press, 2017). Britton is a nationally board-certified Clinical Sexologist and world renown as the Pioneer of the profession of Sex Coaching. She's the author of hundreds of articles, book chapters, forewords, and five major books in sexology; a popular speaker to consumers and a seasoned professional trainer for her peers. Dr. Patti has hosted over 40 DVD programs on sexual enhancement. Her media record speaks for itself—with appearances on over 200 television shows, as the featured guest on over 250 interviews for radio, podcasts and media, such as Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, Women's Health, celebrity podcasts and popular sexual health-related websites.   Dr. Patti is the very top leadership globally and is a well respected pioneer in the field of sexology. Britton possesses a Ph.D. and Masters in Public Health, both in Human Sexuality. Dr. Patti is a Certified Sex Coach. Her stellar credentials include: Past President of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT); AASECT Sexuality Educator of the Year 2016; Clinical Fellow, American Academy of Clinical Sexologists; Diplomate, American Board of Sexology; AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator/Supervisor; Lifetime member and Advisory Council for the American College of Sexologists International; Member of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality; National Advisory Board Ambassador of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation; Elected member of the Advisory Committee for the World Association for Sexual Health. She is also a former Academic Dean and Associate Professor of Sexology for the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality; and former Adjunct Faculty at The Chicago School (TCS) of Professional Psychology, Saybrook and Pacifica Institutes. In her capacity as professor, she has chaired more than 30 doctoral dissertations in sexology studies. Dr. Patti has a private practice in Los Angeles area and online via zoom worldwide. Dr. Patti is the Co-Founder of Sex Coach U, the world's premier training and credentialing organization for sex coaches.   Each year, Dr. Patti conducts professional trainings, speaks at major events, participates in national magazine/news/website interviews, speaks on radio shows/podcasts, is a featured expert at various virtual summits, and appears on camera for documentaries, webinars, and DVD programs for couples' sexual enhancement. Dr. Patti believes that women and men have a divine birthright to experience their full erotic and sexual potential.   Sex Coach U   https://drpattibritton.com/   AskEzra.info