Weaving Your Reality – Details, episodes & analysis

In this solo update, I expose my own self-judgements around how I show up on social media and the attachment to creating something “successful”. Together, we flip these illusions upside down and go straight where these fears are actually inviting us – intimacy with the Divine and with life itself. 

I also share:

• How this incredible community has held me through one of the biggest transitions I’ve ever been through – separation, divorce and single mamahood

• How I’m seeing this divorce and becoming a single mom from a zoomed out perspective: the lessons that are here FOR me

• How I’m recalibrating my relationship with social media 

• How I am interpreting the lack of growth on my social media pages (despite some big viral moments over the past few years) 

• What I’m called to play with on social media this year 

• Learning to trust my instincts 

• Niche or no niche? 

Related episode: 

• 222 Embodying Main Character Energy (Dropping The “Nice Person” Role)

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• kseniabrief.com

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It’s been almost a year since I’ve released an episode and since then we’ve moved across the country, bought and renovated a house (well, it’s still in progress!), birthed a baby, and welcomed another furry member to our family. I also released my first spoken word song. 

I’ve been hearing very strong inner guidance whispers to come back to the podcast. On the earthly plane, I’ve also experienced incredible synchronistic meetings and conversations that have pointed to the same thing… “get back to the mic!” I share some of these stories in this episode. 

So I’m following the guidance.

In this comeback episode, let’s catch up on life: I share the most memorable bits of my journey from last summer (when we drove across the country to move to the West Coast) to now, as I’m feeling a completion of my postpartum stage and feeling a new way of being, loving and expressing emerging within the expanded constellation of our family. 

 I share about: 

• My initiation into receiving 

• Our weird Airbnb experiences 

• Our road trip from Austin to Reno 

• Choosing to show up and share while the collective is in pain 

• Our annual trip to the Tucson Gem Show with an infant 

• Trip to Southern California and how our new dog Kobe divinely joined our family 

• My Divinely guided and supported first big flight with Zion

• The sign that gave me the courage to release my song, “Who Me?”

Mentioned: 

• Who Me? song by Ksenia Brief

• SpiderERC – our family Employee Retention Credit business

• TaskRabbit – the app we used to find helpers for our move

• Under Canvas – upscale, safari-inspired accommodations outdoors

• Los Poblanos Historin Inn & Organic Farm and Hacienda Spa

• Heart Gardening Podcast 

• Asher Market

• Transportation service I used for our dog Kobe

• Rover – the app I use to find dog sitters  

Content referenced:

• Kauai Babymoon

• Moving from Austin to Reno: Part 1 and Part 2

• Waking up in Zion National Park 

• 6 places I loved in Albuquerque

• Renovation moodboard

• Renovation Update 

• About Employee Retention Credit 

• My garden

Related episodes: 

• 239. I’m 24 Weeks Pregnant! Lessons from My Pregnancy Journey

• 197 Reggie Riverbear: Coming Home To Yourself Through Voice, Finding Your Community and Trusting Spirit As A Business Strategy

• 125 Jasmin Jenkins: Lessons From Ayahuasca Plant Medicine and Alchemizing Grief Into Presence

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• kseniabrief.com

• Ksenia's email list

• Instagram @ksenia.brief

• YouTube Ksenia Brief

• TikTok @ksenia.brief

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• Follow the podcast on Spotify

Thank you for sharing this sacred space with me. 

In a world where everyone is telling us to speed up, we talk about intentionally slowing down to create more of what you love, how to create your own algorithm, we talk about her integrated holistic way of working with sponsors (that i encourage you to borrow), why she stopped selling courses even though they were bringing in crazy money, how to re-frame feelings of jealousy or comparison of other creators, why she’s quitting being an influencer, and stay to the very end and she shares a strategy for connecting with your audience through every digital thing you make.

Rethinking content creator business

Building a sustainable brand on social media 

Finding meaning and longevity in digital self-expression

Relationships over transactions 

Social media as a stepping stone on the way of remembering who you are 

The metrics that actually matter 

Trusting the content you’re “meant to” share over logical strategy 

How to reframe comparison on social media 

Allowing social media to be a mirror of places you are meant to grow

Redefining success 

Seeing triggers as opportunities for growth 

Do you need to create a separate instagram account for your podcast? 

Clearing out your creative shelf 

Give yourself the grace to move through what you’re moving through 

Ways to connect to the joy of creation 

How Ksenia is currently approaching podcast and social media brand sponsorships

225 Retiring From Being An Influencer: Identity Alchemy, Soul Journey As A Public Figure and Releasing Addiction To Hustle

193 Tom Boyd of @bonusfootage: All Things Content Creation, Short Form Video and TikTok Growth

186 Join Me For 11 Days Of Sharing On Social Media | Hyping You Up To Share Your Medicine with The World

Meditation and breathwork challenge on Open 

Social Media Challenge: 11 days of sharing 

Hashtag Mindful class on Skillshare

www.tomboyd.co

Creators are Brands podcast 

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Twitter: @BOYDERyo

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Natalie Miles (@iamnataliemiles) is a Channeler for the Collective, Psychic Medium, Writer, Speaker and Host of the top spiritual podcast on iTunes, “So You Think You’re Intuitive?”.

It’s her mission to make intuition accessible and be the “door opener” for others to connect to their intuition.

See all show notes on wokeandwired.com.

We discuss: 

• How to notice and act on signs
• Balancing intuitive downloads and strategy
• Integrating identify shifts after writing a book
• The energetics of rebranding
• How to not be boxed in when you go viral
• Trusting the intuitive downloads
• Discovering new facets of self-expression on social media 

Mentioned: 

• Igloo video on @athomewithksenia TikTok 
• 5Dmastermind.com
• 43: Natalie Miles – Trust Your Intuition 
• 03: Ruby Warrington of The Numinous
• 125: Jasmin Jenkins – Lessons From Ayahuasca Plant Medicine and Alchemizing Grief Into Presence

Connect with Natalie Miles: 

• @iamnataliemiles
• Natalie-miles.com
• “You Are Intuitive” Book by Natalie Miles

You may also like: 

• Ksenia Avdulova on “So you think you’re intuitive” podcast with Natalie Miles
• 52: Ashley Wood: Stop Worrying About What People Think & Surrender To Your Calling
• 93: ALYSON CHARLES: The Realm where Spirit and Business Co-Exist

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• IG: Lifestyle @athomewithksenia Business @whereisksenia  
• TikTok: @athomewithksenia
• Courses and programs

Heather Lynn Barb (@heatherlynnbee) is an entrepreneur, online business mentor, podcaster, and creator.

See all show notes on wokeandwired.com

We cover: 

• Pivoting from fitness to coaching
• Overcoming imposter syndrome
• Trusting your inner knowing 
• Building your intuition
• Protecting your ideas
• The power of finding and receiving support
• The balance between masculine and feminine in business 
• How to design your first product
• Scaling your business 
• Sales on social media  
• Digital influencer vs digital entrepreneur 
• Heather’s non-dogmatic morning ritual

Connect with Heather Lynn Barb:

• Heatherlynnbee.com
• @heatherlynnbee
• Hustle With Intention podcast

Mentioned: 

• Ksenia's viral igloo series on TikTok
• 5dmastermind.com

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In this conversation, my friend and mentor Amy Jo Martin (@amyjomartin) interviews me. This episode originally aired on the Why not Now podcast.

We cover:

• How to turn intuitive downloads into action and results
• How we moved from New York City to a cabin in the forest
• Trusting the unknown
• Energetically preparing for receiving what you want
• My “brand essence” and how I’ve learned how to clearly communicate what I do 
• How to introduce yourself powerfully
• How to create a healthy relationship with social media
• Are you wired to be a storyteller?
• Social media as an opportunity to connect to your subconscious 
• How to decide what projects to focus on

Mentioned: 

• 5D Mastermind with Ksenia
• Renegade Accelerator with Amy Jo
• Conscious Social Media Program

See all show notes on wokeandwired.com

Tailwind is a brilliant Pinterest scheduling tool (and more!) that helps you grow traffic to your website without spending all day on social media. Tailwind is offering a special deal to my listeners. If you haven’t tried Tailwind yet, go to tailwindapp.com/wokeandwired to get $30 off of your Plus Plan.

Related episodes: 

• 55 Amy Jo Martin: Your Value Is Not In Your Social Media Numbers
• 129 Tiny Cabin and Life Update with My Love Eric Brief
• 74 Ksenia and Eric: We Are Going Nomadic! The Why, How and Where

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If you’re ready to take a leap in your business, joining a mastermind is the way to go. In my experience, it’s the best way to get focused support, streamline your business and offerings, significantly expand your network, and generally uplevel.

In this episode, I share my top 7 takeaways from joining masterminds and how that might apply to you.

Are you called to take the leap? I’m so excited to announce that applications for the Spring/Summer 2021 5D Mastermind are now open.

See all show notes on wokeandwired.com

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After 8 years of building Breakfast Criminals – an acclaimed, profitable brand that I organically built through storytelling on social media – it’s time for a pivot. 

In this solo episode, we take a glimpse into how it started, what impacted the success of Breakfast Criminals, and the 17 lessons I learned about social media, people, digital business and the energetic principles of success. 

See all show notes on wokeandwired.com

Tailwind is a brilliant Pinterest scheduling tool (and more!) that helps you grow traffic to your website without spending all day on social media. Tailwind is offering a special deal to my listeners. If you haven’t tried Tailwind yet, go to tailwindapp.com/wokeandwired to get $30 off of your Plus Plan.

Mentioned: 

• 129: Tiny Cabin and Life Update with My Love Eric Brief
• 96: David Harshada Wagner: Plug Into The Mystical Path In The Midst Of It All
• 01: How Meditation Led Me To Creating An Award-Nominated Social Media Business, Breakfast Criminals

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Cedric Bertelli is the founder and director of the Emotional Health Institute. His work helps people resolve emotional difficulties such as phobias, nervousness, stress, anxiety, panic attacks, depression, rage, jealousy, hypervigilance, anger, worry, rumination and inhibition. 

My personal experience working with Cedric was profound, and I'm excited to share his wisdom with you!

We discuss: 

• What led Cedric to leave his career as a chef and start the Emotional Health Institute
• Cognitive vs somatic therapy
• Why we shut down how we feel 
• The space that opens up when we release painful memories from our bodies
• Why psychedelics have in common with psychosomatics
• Accessing trans-generational memories 
• How your conscious and subconscious mind register trauma
• Responding to what’s happening now instead of the past
• How somatic healing and EmRes apply to entrepreneurship 

See all show notes on wokeandwired.com

What is Emotional Resolution®?

At the base of EmRes® is a precise process which I call viscero-somatic quieting™. Viscero-somatic quieting connects you to the origin of a difficult emotion through your physical sensations and modulates the unwanted emotional response permanently. This simple yet rarely used physiologic capacity is innate to all human beings. The process is used to resolve conditions such as depression, fear, anxiety, PTSD, anger, and grief.

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In this solo episode, I share the journaling prompts I personally use to reflect on the past 12 months and create a vision for the new year. I share my own reflections from the past year, and my vision for the new year.

Last year Katie Hess, Jasmin Jenkins and I had an IRL journaling ritual with these in person and they became a powerful invisible anchor throughout the year.

These journaling prompts are a combination of things I’ve collected over the years. Go through these beginning of a calendar year, or any time of the year!

Tailwind is a brilliant Pinterest scheduling tool (and more!) that helps you grow traffic to your website without spending all day on social media. Tailwind is offering a special deal to my listeners. If you haven’t tried Tailwind yet, go to tailwindapp.com/wokeandwired to get $30 off of your Plus Plan.

Related episodes: 81, 182

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