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Time to Lean
Laura Danger and Crystal Britt
Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 103

On the Time to Lean podcast with Laura Danger and Crystal Britt, we dig into the often-overlooked realities of domestic labor, care work, and household inequity. Through sharp cultural critiques and discussions on trending topics, we explore the systemic issues that shape our homes and lives. In each weekly episode, we tackle the topics that impact our lives, challenge the status quo, and uncover the hidden dynamics that influence how we live and work. Join us as we make time to lean into these crucial conversations and advocate for the value of the work that truly keeps the world turning.
Laura, @thatdarnchat, is an educator and advocate. Crystal Britt, @itscrystalbritt, is a coach and licensed therapist in California. Find us on IG or join us on Patreon @ timetoleanpod for Ad-Free episodes, resources, book clubs, weekly virtual meet-ups and so much more!
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Three year olds are fine on their own, right?
Season 1 · Episode 95
mercredi 15 janvier 2025 • Duration 54:45
In this episode of Time to Lean, we share a wild story about a woman who had a three-year-old dropped into the seat next to her on a flight—without a word from the parents. 😳 This unbelievable situation had us thinking about the intense pressures of parenting in public spaces like airplanes. We dive into the anxiety of trying to "prepare for anything," the mental load we carry as parents, and how societal expectations shape the way we navigate these moments. We also explore the implications of neglecting child safety and how weaponized incompetence shows up in unexpected ways. Buckle up for this one—it’s a ride!
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Domestic Violence Resources
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is this mother-in-law the a-hole?
Season 1 · Episode 94
mercredi 8 janvier 2025 • Duration 48:52
In this episode, Laura and Crystal discuss the complexities of family dynamics, particularly in the context of a viral gender reveal and the emotional labor involved in navigating relationships. They explore the concept of the 'mama's boy' dynamic, the importance of setting boundaries, and the cultural contexts that influence these interactions. The conversation also touches on the emotional toll of familial expectations and the need for self-awareness in managing relationships, especially during the holiday season.
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Domestic Violence Resources
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am I the a-hole for being upset he forgot my 40th birthday?
Season 1 · Episode 85
mercredi 23 octobre 2024 • Duration 42:57
In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss Birthday Blues, expectations for partners, and how to move forward if they let you down.
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Domestic Violence Resources
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am i wrong for freaking out over a looming natural disaster?
Season 1 · Episode 84
mercredi 16 octobre 2024 • Duration 01:00:30
In this conversation, Laura and Crystal explore the dynamics of a viral video that highlights the emotional labor women often experience in relationships, particularly during crisis or stressful situations. Have you ever felt gaslit by a calmer partner? This one's for you.
Links:
Time to Read Book Club for October: Ace by Angela Chen!
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Domestic Violence Resources
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how can we build a village in a nuclear-family-obsessed culture?
Season 1 · Episode 83
mercredi 9 octobre 2024 • Duration 58:20
In this episode, we interview Jessica Daylover, polyamorous storyteller, educator, mother of two and so much more - including Chief Executive Officer of the Nuclear Fusion App! Jessica shares her journey through motherhood, the challenges of raising a medically complex child, and her vision for community building through the Nuclear Fusion network. The conversation explores the importance of chosen families, the struggles of modern parenting, and the need for vulnerability and emotional intelligence in building connections. It's time to rethink traditional family structures and the value of community support in raising children.
Join us as we discuss the question that's constantly on our minds - how do we connect with people and build the community connections we so desperately want?
Check out the Nuclear Fusion App here!
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Domestic Violence Resources
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i'm considering divorce - am i overreacting?
Season 1 · Episode 82
mercredi 2 octobre 2024 • Duration 01:06:12
In this week's episode, Crystal reads Laura a story from a woman who faces a disastrous situation while recovering from abdominal surgery and heads to the internet to ask if she's overreacting for being upset. We don't want to spoil it... but she's definitely not overreacting.
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Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
i'm fine, so why are you mad? - REPLAY
Season 1 · Episode 81
mercredi 25 septembre 2024 • Duration 43:30
In this REPLAY episode, we revisit a discussion we had about common commentary along the lines of, "I'm not sure why you're so upset! I do what you ask. I never make demands of you. I'm fine, so it kind of seems like you're maybe just mad... to be mad." Oh, and the ole' "You're no fun anymore." EEk!
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Domestic Violence Resources
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am i asking too much for them to follow through on their word?
Season 1 · Episode 80
mercredi 18 septembre 2024 • Duration 58:59
In this episode, we respond to a listener email from someone who is feeling stuck. Their partner says they're on board, but actions don't reflect those commitments. We explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the mental load, communication dynamics, and the concept of domestic equity. They discuss the challenges default partners face, the importance of setting boundaries, and the role of systems like Persist and Fair Play in managing household responsibilities.
What do you do when you're feeling gridlocked and considering options? We talk about the power of community support and self-care - REAL self-care.
Use code DANGER15 for a 15% discount to access the Persist web app.
Get yourself a copy of Fair Play here!
For AD FREE episodes, resources and SO MUCH MORE; Join our Patreon!
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Time to Lean on social media @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
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am i the a-hole for refusing to wake him up?
Season 1 · Episode 79
mercredi 11 septembre 2024 • Duration 45:11
Is it your partner's job to make sure you get to work on time? In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss a Reddit post about a woman who refuses to wake up her boyfriend in the morning, which has caused him to almost lose his job. They explore the dynamics of the relationship and the expectations placed on each partner. They also touch on the importance of allowing children to experience failure and develop problem-solving skills. The conversation highlights the need for self-advocacy and discernment in navigating relationships and personal growth. The conversation revolves around the dynamics of responsibility and accountability in a relationship where one partner has ADHD. The discussion highlights the challenges faced by the partner with ADHD in managing time and tasks, as well as the impact on the other partner. It explores the importance of self-awareness, communication, and mutual understanding in navigating these challenges. The conversation also touches on the need for individual independence and the potential consequences of relying too heavily on a partner for basic responsibilities.
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Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
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Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
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am I the a-hole for divorcing over tightened lids?
Season 1 · Episode 78
mercredi 4 septembre 2024 • Duration 01:14:20
This week's episode, we cover an absolutely WILD RIDE of an Am I The Asshole where a woman runs to the internet to ask if she's the asshole for divorcing her husband over lids that are too tight. This may be a spoiler... but in this episode, we also delve into the topic of GASLIGHTING!!
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Wikihow resource on gaslighting
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Domestic Violence Resources
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