They Talk Sex – Details, episodes & analysis

Suzannah Weiss is an American sexologist and author of “Eve’s Blessing”, which discusses how people with vulvas can lead pleasurable lives in a world that normalizes their pain, specifically related to sex, childbirth and menstruation.

This book is for gender diverse people, and is not a critique of the Bible, but a more sex-positive re-imagining of it.

3:00 chronic lyme disease, pain or no-gasm 

7:00 stories from others

10:00 what is “the female experience”

13:00 medical forms and language can make it confusing

15:00 gaslighting example

18:00 PAXIL may mess up your vag

21:00 hormonal birth control side effects

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28:00 the Bible’s pain of child-raising?

32:00 wine is not the answer in this case

36:00 side effects of sexual violence

40:00 OF Bible Passages 

43:00 advocate for yourself during doctor visits

45:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com

46:00 about 5% of people have endometriosis?

50:00 should periods be so painful?

53:00 reminder, she’s a sex therapist in CA

56:00 sex tips!

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Your questions on STIs, dating, and pleasure, answered by Mariah Caudillo of @SexedFiles of IG. She's worked in schools for a decade and is an online program creator for a major health care clinic. Let's talk health and fun sex stuff.

3:00 day and night jobs!

7:00 teaching in schools for a decade 

10:00 bacterial vs virtual STIs

14:00 M.Gen is a new STI! Fun!

16:00 Qs for a new partner?

22:00 HPV info 

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27:00 Bacterial Vaginosis is an STI?

34:00 the vagina is like a sleeping bag

37:00 how much is too much masturbation?

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45:00 cock ring questions 

48:00 hallucinations while orgasming?

51:00 what to do about a chronic UTI?

54:00 how to stay motivated as a teacher 

57:00 NY Post is trash

1:01:00 more on online harassment

1:03:00 sex tips!

FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @sexedfiles

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Ready for some inner child work? Our guest was tired of talking about their traumatic incidents and was ready to feel better in their body and relationships again - let’s talk dealing with attachment trauma and healing methods with Mx Harris Hill.

3:00 heal your PTSD faster?

7:00 inner child work 

11:00 if you can feel you

14:00 hypersexuality and substances, PTSD

16:00 golden rules for working with people 

19:00 inherently traumatized + trans?

22:00 jealousy triggered 

25:00 stop relying on them for so much

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33:00 core wound therapy

36:00 dating three and power dynamics

39:00 more advice power dynamics

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45:00 on dating an avoidant 

48:00 on being anxiously attached

51:00 co-dependency and materials

54:00 future plans and corporate influencing?

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Foreskin removal and reconstruction: guest Eric Cunningham shares history and medical knowledge relating to penis-altering procedures around the world.

1:00 language disclaimer 

5:00 penis circumcision is fairly rare, worldwide

8:00 circumcision in the US originated due to misbeliefs 

11:00 war and enslavement and the marking of genitals

15:00 Alexander the great wanted to stop genital cutting

20:00 the Olympics relates to circumcision

30:00 chastity devices 

32:00 surgeries conducted on genitals to prevent sexual function

38:00 you have frenulums all over

42:00 ribbed condoms mimic foreskin

47:00 circumcision doesn’t seem to reduce STI transmission

57:00 resource recommendations

1:00:00 animals have foreskins too

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For all genders: size anxiety, euphoria, acceptance, and individuality is explained to us by author Elle Chase, CSE.

1:00 this is about body acceptance, not love

5:00 the burden of negative cultural influences

10:00 gender roles for body image

15:00 how are bigger bodied people treated differently?

20:00 FOSTA/SESTA has hurt fat people 

25:00 how can straight-sized sex workers help?

31:00 Listener Questions

35:00 fat jiggling is really sexy to a lot of people

45:00 elle’s tips for anxiety and masturbation

50:00 what IS restrictive eating?

54:00 share what you love about your partner’s bigger body?

58:00 elle loves scissoring

1:02:00 more book resources and breathing reminders

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 Learn some behind-the-scenes secrets and production tricks as we talk to a xxx performer who has been making adult content for a decade.

1:00 Gem makes porn - meet your guest

5:00 nude model contracts can be weird 

10:00 would you prefer to let your spouse manage your OnlyFans?

13:00 likes/dislikes about adult content creation

17:00 chafed labias are a downside of a busy calendar

23:00 this stuff isn’t always easy!

26:00 on setting boundaries during live shows

30:00 filming feedback and mishaps

36:00 it sucks getting your period on camera

40:00 how to not get your IG deleted by OnaArtist

43:00 how we feel about anti porn people who claim they fight trafficking

48:00 what could change about the web porn industries?

52:00 sex tips and advice from Gem

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Gay and bisexual men have been hugely impactful on modern fitness and gym culture, and our writer and fitness expert explains how.

2:00 meet your guest

5:00 a famous bisexual sex worker flexing was one of the first film clips

7:00 beefcake magazines

9:00 excessive carbs can lower your libido?

14:00 men, what keeps you closeted?

18:00 discrimination prevents success

22:00 hormones and steroid use 

27:00 ethical steroid use and applications

33:00 how often do you come out to people?

38:00 homophobia/misogyny/racism in fitness on social media

45:00 the Proud Boys and Vice relationship

49:00 labial and scrotal wax can HURT

53:00 carnivals and wrestlers and strippers

1:00:00 good hygiene is good sex advice

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How do current laws and beliefs perpetuate opportunities for sexual abuse of people, specifically children, immigrants, trans people, BIPOC, and sex workers? Let’s talk with an Executive Director for a nonprofit that supports survivors and offers resources, the Cupcake Girls.

2:00 meet our guest - why does a civilian work in anti-trafficking?

5:00 police abuse in oregon 

10:00 *deep breath reminder*

13:00 doctors, lawyers, nurses might Out or report sex workers to police

17:00 examples of how criminalization hurts people

20:00 critically question your spirituality 

21:00 more examples of how criminalization hurts people

25:00 domestic violence can link to sex trafficking 

29:00 generational trafficking is more common than you might think

35:00 resource for secondary trauma - emma sullivan

39:00 tips for talking with a partner about trauma

43:00 sex workers are taxpayers too, LOL

50:00 most anti-trafficking organizations require people to quit sex work to receive services

55:00 How to donate

1:00:00 planes and flights with people being transported 

1:05:00 gender myths and trafficking
1:10:00 don’t make assumptions 

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 Let’s talk about genital self-touch with author Vic Liu and learn from Bang For All - their inclusive book on masturbation.

2:00 why write a sex ed book on masturbation

10:00 how masturbation can be good for you

13:00 masturbation myths

20:00 how to increase sensitivity in your vulva

25:00 be mindful of your anal play

27:00 anal numbing creams are so dangerous 

32:00 vibrator dependency - why the brain can rely on simple methods

40:00 elle asked listeners: what have you masturbated with?

47:00 why teach sex education to k-12?

49:00 child sexual abuse *trigger*

52:00 resources 

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Which sexual scripts and stereotypes do you follow, even if they don’t feel good or make sense? Dr Chris Donaghue explains how to have sex outside the lines and expand your skills and attitudes with yourself and partners.

5:00 throw out your expectations about what sex “should” be like 

12:00 approach a partner’s body with curiosity regardless of gender

18:00 controversial idea: fluid and expansive educators will understand sexuality better

25:00 trying new things all the time 

30:00 goth kids do it in the cemetery 

33:00 dirty talk tips

39:00 everybody likes different things, sexually

44:00 using toys: our entire bodies can be stimulated

52:00 on “heteroflexible” as a term 

57:00 other examples of sexual scripts

1:00:00 resource requests

FIND YOUR GUEST: https://www.drchrisdonaghue.com

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