Explore every episode of the podcast They Talk Sex
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| The Female Pain and Pleasure Episode | 23 Dec 2025 | 00:58:00 | |
Suzannah Weiss is an American sexologist and author of “Eve’s Blessing”, which discusses how people with vulvas can lead pleasurable lives in a world that normalizes their pain, specifically related to sex, childbirth and menstruation. This book is for gender diverse people, and is not a critique of the Bible, but a more sex-positive re-imagining of it. 3:00 chronic lyme disease, pain or no-gasm 7:00 stories from others 10:00 what is “the female experience” 13:00 medical forms and language can make it confusing 15:00 gaslighting example 18:00 PAXIL may mess up your vag 21:00 hormonal birth control side effects 25:00 CONDOMANIA.COM - code THEYTALKSEX 10% off first order 28:00 the Bible’s pain of child-raising? 32:00 wine is not the answer in this case 36:00 side effects of sexual violence 40:00 OF Bible Passages 43:00 advocate for yourself during doctor visits 45:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 46:00 about 5% of people have endometriosis? 50:00 should periods be so painful? 53:00 reminder, she’s a sex therapist in CA 56:00 sex tips! FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @suzannahwise FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The ASK US ANYTHING - Sex Educator Episode 3 | 08 Dec 2025 | 01:06:00 | |
Your questions on STIs, dating, and pleasure, answered by Mariah Caudillo of @SexedFiles of IG. She's worked in schools for a decade and is an online program creator for a major health care clinic. Let's talk health and fun sex stuff. 3:00 day and night jobs! 7:00 teaching in schools for a decade 10:00 bacterial vs virtual STIs 14:00 M.Gen is a new STI! Fun! 16:00 Qs for a new partner? 22:00 HPV info 25:00 THEYTALKSEX for 15% off first order Condomania.com 27:00 Bacterial Vaginosis is an STI? 34:00 the vagina is like a sleeping bag 37:00 how much is too much masturbation? 43:00 Sponsored by LoveBlanket.com - get 10% off via theytalksex.com 45:00 cock ring questions 48:00 hallucinations while orgasming? 51:00 what to do about a chronic UTI? 54:00 how to stay motivated as a teacher 57:00 NY Post is trash 1:01:00 more on online harassment 1:03:00 sex tips!
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| The Attachment-Trauma and Sexuality Episode | 07 Jul 2025 | 00:58:00 | |
Ready for some inner child work? Our guest was tired of talking about their traumatic incidents and was ready to feel better in their body and relationships again - let’s talk dealing with attachment trauma and healing methods with Mx Harris Hill. 3:00 heal your PTSD faster? 7:00 inner child work 11:00 if you can feel you 14:00 hypersexuality and substances, PTSD 16:00 golden rules for working with people 19:00 inherently traumatized + trans? 22:00 jealousy triggered 25:00 stop relying on them for so much Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com 33:00 core wound therapy 36:00 dating three and power dynamics 39:00 more advice power dynamics Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com 45:00 on dating an avoidant 48:00 on being anxiously attached 51:00 co-dependency and materials 54:00 future plans and corporate influencing? FIND YOUR GUEST: at MxHarrisHill.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Foreskin and Male Circumcision Episode | 01 Nov 2021 | 01:04:00 | |
Foreskin removal and reconstruction: guest Eric Cunningham shares history and medical knowledge relating to penis-altering procedures around the world. 1:00 language disclaimer 5:00 penis circumcision is fairly rare, worldwide 8:00 circumcision in the US originated due to misbeliefs 11:00 war and enslavement and the marking of genitals 15:00 Alexander the great wanted to stop genital cutting 20:00 the Olympics relates to circumcision 30:00 chastity devices 32:00 surgeries conducted on genitals to prevent sexual function 38:00 you have frenulums all over 42:00 ribbed condoms mimic foreskin 47:00 circumcision doesn’t seem to reduce STI transmission 57:00 resource recommendations 1:00:00 animals have foreskins too FIND YOUR GUEST: Foregen.org FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Curvy Sex and Fatphobia Episode | 25 Oct 2021 | ||
For all genders: size anxiety, euphoria, acceptance, and individuality is explained to us by author Elle Chase, CSE. 1:00 this is about body acceptance, not love 5:00 the burden of negative cultural influences 10:00 gender roles for body image 15:00 how are bigger bodied people treated differently? 20:00 FOSTA/SESTA has hurt fat people 25:00 how can straight-sized sex workers help? 31:00 Listener Questions 35:00 fat jiggling is really sexy to a lot of people 45:00 elle’s tips for anxiety and masturbation 50:00 what IS restrictive eating? 54:00 share what you love about your partner’s bigger body? 58:00 elle loves scissoring 1:02:00 more book resources and breathing reminders FIND YOUR GUEST: ellechase.com FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Internet Pornmaking Episode | 17 Oct 2021 | 00:54:00 | |
Learn some behind-the-scenes secrets and production tricks as we talk to a xxx performer who has been making adult content for a decade. 1:00 Gem makes porn - meet your guest 5:00 nude model contracts can be weird 10:00 would you prefer to let your spouse manage your OnlyFans? 13:00 likes/dislikes about adult content creation 17:00 chafed labias are a downside of a busy calendar 23:00 this stuff isn’t always easy! 26:00 on setting boundaries during live shows 30:00 filming feedback and mishaps 36:00 it sucks getting your period on camera 40:00 how to not get your IG deleted by OnaArtist 43:00 how we feel about anti porn people who claim they fight trafficking 48:00 what could change about the web porn industries? 52:00 sex tips and advice from Gem
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| The Gay History of Fitness Episode | 12 Oct 2021 | 01:00:00 | |
Gay and bisexual men have been hugely impactful on modern fitness and gym culture, and our writer and fitness expert explains how. 2:00 meet your guest 5:00 a famous bisexual sex worker flexing was one of the first film clips 7:00 beefcake magazines 9:00 excessive carbs can lower your libido? 14:00 men, what keeps you closeted? 18:00 discrimination prevents success 22:00 hormones and steroid use 27:00 ethical steroid use and applications 33:00 how often do you come out to people? 38:00 homophobia/misogyny/racism in fitness on social media 45:00 the Proud Boys and Vice relationship 49:00 labial and scrotal wax can HURT 53:00 carnivals and wrestlers and strippers 1:00:00 good hygiene is good sex advice FIND YOUR GUEST: https://peterdbaker.com FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Anti-Sex Trafficking Episode | 04 Oct 2021 | 01:10:00 | |
How do current laws and beliefs perpetuate opportunities for sexual abuse of people, specifically children, immigrants, trans people, BIPOC, and sex workers? Let’s talk with an Executive Director for a nonprofit that supports survivors and offers resources, the Cupcake Girls. 2:00 meet our guest - why does a civilian work in anti-trafficking? 5:00 police abuse in oregon 10:00 *deep breath reminder* 13:00 doctors, lawyers, nurses might Out or report sex workers to police 17:00 examples of how criminalization hurts people 20:00 critically question your spirituality 21:00 more examples of how criminalization hurts people 25:00 domestic violence can link to sex trafficking 29:00 generational trafficking is more common than you might think 35:00 resource for secondary trauma - emma sullivan 39:00 tips for talking with a partner about trauma 43:00 sex workers are taxpayers too, LOL 50:00 most anti-trafficking organizations require people to quit sex work to receive services 55:00 How to donate 1:00:00 planes and flights with people being transported 1:05:00 gender myths and trafficking FIND YOUR GUESTt cupcakegirls.org FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Masturbation Education Episode | 27 Sep 2021 | 00:59:00 | |
Let’s talk about genital self-touch with author Vic Liu and learn from Bang For All - their inclusive book on masturbation. 2:00 why write a sex ed book on masturbation 10:00 how masturbation can be good for you 13:00 masturbation myths 20:00 how to increase sensitivity in your vulva 25:00 be mindful of your anal play 27:00 anal numbing creams are so dangerous 32:00 vibrator dependency - why the brain can rely on simple methods 40:00 elle asked listeners: what have you masturbated with? 47:00 why teach sex education to k-12? 49:00 child sexual abuse *trigger* 52:00 resources FIND YOUR GUEST at https://www.vic-liu.com FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Queering Up Sex Episode | 20 Sep 2021 | 01:05:00 | |
Which sexual scripts and stereotypes do you follow, even if they don’t feel good or make sense? Dr Chris Donaghue explains how to have sex outside the lines and expand your skills and attitudes with yourself and partners. 5:00 throw out your expectations about what sex “should” be like 12:00 approach a partner’s body with curiosity regardless of gender 18:00 controversial idea: fluid and expansive educators will understand sexuality better 25:00 trying new things all the time 30:00 goth kids do it in the cemetery 33:00 dirty talk tips 39:00 everybody likes different things, sexually 44:00 using toys: our entire bodies can be stimulated 52:00 on “heteroflexible” as a term 57:00 other examples of sexual scripts 1:00:00 resource requests FIND YOUR GUEST: https://www.drchrisdonaghue.com FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Kink and Trauma Episode | 13 Sep 2021 | 01:05:00 | |
What can it mean to be kinky and how can we play more safely and creatively? Domina Franco M.Ed has two decades of experience and gives advice and info about kink play and trauma. 4:00 what is kink? 8:00 how some types of play and relationships are pathologized 12:00 on being a joyful sadist and human furniture 20:00 slut play 28:00 a theory on why some people love submission 32:00 Consensual Non-consent play or “rape role play” 40:00 how to screen for safer dominant partners 45:00 topping is a sacred responsibility 54:00 mint green bandanas mean mommy kink 1:00:00 book recommendations on kink and BDSM
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| The Jealousy and Relationships Episode | 06 Sep 2021 | ||
We all experience jealousy and feel it on a spectrum: learn how to manage it with relationship-building expert Dr Joli Hamilton. 3:00 different relationship styles 6:00 why call it CNM instead of ENM 14:00 what purposes does jealousy serve? 18:00 people don’t like identifying they are jealous - feeling shame about feeling jealous 19:00 how mismanaged jealousy can do great harm 24:00 how do I ask to open up an existing relationship? 29:00 I hate my partner’s partner - what to do? 38:00 how to own your jealousy 48:00 germophobes and sharing 52:00 celebrities who can’t be open 55:00 polyamorous and parenting rights? 1:00:00 stories can be helpful FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Stripper and Hustle Episode | 30 Aug 2021 | ||
How to run yourself as a more sustainable, cheerful and profitable business: business coach Carmen Santos from Racks-to -Riches offers advice for veteran strippers, baby strippers, and civilians. 1:10 most of us auditioning have zero or little knowledge of how to do the jobs 4:00 communication and sales skills matter 7:00 viewing yourself as a business 10:00 intergenerational and gender issues relating to financial education 15:00 employee vs contractor status 17:00 annoying things that clients do - don’t do these! 24:00 how to deal with those same old questions 36:00 alcohol wears people down 40:00 how to reframe aging in sex industries 45:00 privacy and disclosure advice 49:00 social media use is energy 53:00 bad legislation and laws 55:00 what makes a good club 59:00 business advice resources Follow your host on Patreon.com/strangebedfellows for just $1 a month FIND YOUR GUEST: RackstoRiches.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) 1:03:00 on dating yourself | |||
| The Book of Whoredom Episode | 23 Jun 2025 | 00:59:00 | |
Vada Everlove is a Certified DV Survivor’s Advocate and poet of erotica. She survived sexual abuse and grooming and discusses the connections between purity culture, misogyny and abuse. We reframe some bad narratives and talk connections between polyamory and trauma-healing. 3:00 17 and 30 years old 8:00 some symptoms of CPTSD 10:00 vaginismus and vulvodynia 13:00 numbing your vagina with lidocaine 15:00 pleasure after abuse 17:00 anatomy and consent for kids 19:00 @ BookofWhoredom - our guest on IG 22:00 Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com 24:00 maintaining sanity while online 27:00 more on that ^ 30:00 dating after escaping that 35:00 polyamory and feminism relating 38:00 tradwife fantasy 42:00 Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com 45:00 Trump proposed birth bonus 49:00 a poem reading 53:00 afraid to fall in love with more than one person 57:00 a few of our favorite things, cucking and gay boys FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Herpes and Relationships Episode | 23 Aug 2021 | 01:01:00 | |
Facts, FAQs and communication about a common virus that many of us live with, with herpes educator and suicide-prevention organizer Courtney Brame. 2:00 - herpes diagnoses can make people suicidal 7:00 - shame about COVID and herpes 12:00 - skin friction is how herpes is transmitted, sexually or not 19:00 - mental health and sexuality 26:00 - disclosure: when should I? 30:00 - the three most common responses to “I have herpes” 38:00 - different ways to disclose to partners 42:00 - therapists should be herpes literate 52:00 - immune system support is critical 1:00:00 - what's' it like telling strangers you have herpes, regularly? FIND YOUR GUEST: SPFPP.org FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Guide to Threesomes Episode | 17 Aug 2021 | 00:00:01 | |
Sex coach and author Stella Harris offers advice and tips on how to prep, plan and practice pleasure with three or more partners. 4:00 why do people want to have threesomes? 8:00 conflict is perhaps more likely with more people interacting 12:00 having sex positive friends creates more opportunity for pleasure 17:00 on web options or paying for it 24:00 how do you meet people for a third? 27:00 sci-fi and fantasy nerds often engage in sexual diversity 35:00 options for play that don’t involve fluid exchange or penetration 45:00 perks of being a unicorn 50:00 most porn is not education 59:00 bisexuality in men isn’t as supported 1:03:00 fantasy is not the same as reality 1:07:00 more resource recommendations FIND YOUR GUEST at StellaHarris.net FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Compulsive Sexual Behaviors Episode | 09 Aug 2021 | 01:13:00 | |
Clinician and author Silva Neves explains common misconceptions about so-called “sex addiction” and gives help to folks navigating distressing concerns about their own sexualities. 4:00 Lack of sexuality training with sex workers 7:30 sex addiction type treatment is shaming of people 9:40 why “sex addiction” is not an accurate term 11:00 your body doesn’t withdraw from lack of sex, and can’t OD on sex 19:00 trauma and attachment 20:00 non-monogamy 25:00 sex positivity includes body positivity Fetishes, poly, kinky, sex workers, disability, queer, asexual all need to be included in sex therapy 27:00 what sex-positive really means 29:00 asexuality is real 31:00 conversion “therapy” 36:00 How to share a trauma story with partners 40:00 porn doesn't make people violent 47:00 relational trauma is common 51:00 what is digisesxuality? 53:00 what is chemsex? 59:00 how to surf your emotions 1:11:00 monogamy is a christian concept FIND YOUR GUEST: https://silvaneves.co.uk FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Trans Masc and Porn Episode | 01 Aug 2021 | 01:05:00 | |
On loving the work, being attacked by haters, trans man adult performer Trip Richards shares his experiences with pornmaking, dating, and censorship. 8:00 we are a mish-mosh of identities 12:00 perks of the work 18:00 trans porn resources 25:00 trip was deactivated on IG shortly after this recording 28:00 on cis women + trans man porn demand 32:00 most of us can’t be authentic in capitalism 40:00 dating as a performer 43:00 what was the pornhub scandal about? 46:00 there’s more child abuse material uploaded to facebook than pornhub 53:00 shame around desires causes violence 57:00 he’s a cat dad
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| The Youth and Sex Education Episode | 09 Jun 2025 | 00:59:00 | |
Tara Jones is the founder and Executive Director of a small, grassroots non-profit called The Youth Sexpert Program. If you have kids or tweens or teens, there may be some tips in here for you! Let’s talk about youth and education 2:00 building her own curriculum based on needs 5:00 first tampon experience 8:00 talking to your kids, concerns 11:00 continued – 15:00 workshops that they offer 18:00 NetherlandsWax.com 22:00 it happens earlier than you might expect 26:00 how to ask about your kid’s activity 30:00 masturbation is the healthiest 34:00 what if your kid’s friend’s parents are transphobes? 38:00 InstituteforSexuality.com 40:00 Heartstopper is highly recommended 45:00 people mobilizing, recommendations 49:00 Arkansas and high teen birth rates 53:00 amplifying stories and connecting youth people FIND YOUR GUEST: theyouthsexpertprogram.org/ and theyouthsexpertprogram.org/ See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Tales from the Strip Club Episode | 02 Jun 2025 | 00:59:00 | |
Kali is a longtime stripper and photographer based in California and can currently be found on IG’s @TalesfromtheStrip17. Let’s talk strip club culture and horror stories, dressing room dogs and Juggalos. Join two “lifers” for safety tips, rants and advice for newbies and curious club-goers. 4:00 ageism and aging in the club 7:00 states and cities where she worked 11:00 PDX has different requirements for clubs 14:00 personal life things 16:00 movie recommendation The Last Showgirl 20:00 @talesfromthestrip17 25:00 security cameras - yes or no? 30:00 involving yourself with other drama 34:00 don’t flash your money 38:00 Sponsored by InstituteForSexuality.com 44:00 friends with your exes 46:00 HB 2743 55:00 asexuality and strippers 58:00 safety things FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Sensible Sex Toys Episode | 20 May 2025 | 01:04:00 | |
Find your guest at EversenseToys.com Find your host at ElleStanger.com This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com and InstituteForSexuality.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows 2:00 everyone should work in an adult store 5:00 who are these toys being designed for? 8:00 trans-forward toys 11:00 toy preview 14:00 can be used by any body! 17:00 gender affirming surgery 20:00 I wish I’d had a trans person to talk to 24:00 try a butt plug for your vag Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 28:00 how to clean your toys? 32:00 diff uses for your toys! 37:00 how to know if a cockring fits 41:00 trial and error Sponsored by the Intimacy Experiment at instituteforsexuality.com 47:00 the baggie and the toothbrush combo 51:00 hearing from online folks 54:00 trans and isolated? 59:00 sober sex series in PDX 1:02:00 how to find Elle on the chat app Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Perimenopause Episode | 12 May 2025 | 00:57:00 | |
Our sex education and self-help podcast is back and talking blood! Rebel-doctor Evelin Dacker returns to give advice and info about the periods of time that we stop getting our periods. Let’s talk about pre-menopause. 4:00 2-15 year range of perimenopause! 8:00 examples of symptoms 10:00 “old lady vulva” 13:00 a link to your mother’s history 16:00 menopause means you’ve been period-free for a year 18:00 sponsored by Intimacy Experiment Retreat - 20:00 elle’s free consultation with the Doc 21:00 an overview of yeast infections in the vagina 23:00 silicone lube is better for your vaginal health? 25:00 Momotaro Apotheca recommended! 28:00 birth control discussion 34:00 sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 36:00 what to ask your doctor to test for? 41:00 pumps and other holistic options 44:00 pelvic floor things 47:00 testosterone checks in people 50:00 be a good listener 53:00 how Dr. Dacker and Elle met :) FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com FIND YOUR GUEST: WildWoman-Wellness.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| ASK US ANYTHING - Sex Worker Edition 2 | 17 Feb 2025 | 01:03:00 | |
Elle and Valentine are friends and partners in life and the adult industry! We take your questions about dating, self care, sex and work. Thank you for a great four years talking sex and season 5 will return in the spring. 1:00 Guest IG @ xValentine_vonbettieX 5:00 find her Casa Diablo now! 7:00 dating another SW has baseline perks 10:00 dating issues for SWs 14:00 the work can be “bad” for some people’s health 16:00 “Concussion” movie 19:00 Condomania.com - - code THEYTALKSEX for 15% off first order 22:00 tips on building your SW website 24:00 tips for long term pros 36:00 tips for slow seasons 40:00 GetTheLayer.com - code ELLE for 10% off 42:00 how to balance work and life with sleep? 50:00 youthism and SW 55:00 how to ask for STI testing/results 59:00 our sexualities are different 1:03:00 travel is a perk 1:06:00 oral sex tips for vulvas
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| The Intimacy and Sexuality Episode | 10 Feb 2025 | 00:58:00 | |
How does intimacy relate to sex and self worth? Our guest has years of family and marriage therapy under her belt, and she runs the sex education program your host attended. Let’s talk intimacy, sex tips and and ideas between Elle and her mentor, Dr. Roz Dischiavo. 2:00 marriage and family therapist, sexual health program director 5:00 cell phones are messing 7:00 broken heart syndrome? Takotsubo cardiomyopathy 11:00 is eye contact creepy? 15:00 cell phones and lower sex interactions 18:00 connection prepares you for intimacy 22:00 consultations with Gen Z 25:00 Man Vs Bear 30:00 online dating 35:00 examples of ways to show intimacy 38:00 when they won’t make eye contact during sex 43:00 touch body before genitals 47:00 how to practice intimacy without sex 50:00 GetTheLayer.com - ELLE for 10% OFF 53:00 preserve the relationship for later 56:00 intimacy workshops in Phoenix, AZ
FIND YOUR GUEST: instituteforsexuality.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Hands-On Kink Episode | 03 Feb 2025 | 01:00:00 | |
What can hands do? Let’s talk with pleasure expert and coach Jennifer Rahner about kink and communication. Learn some basic tips and some safety practices, plus creative ideas for self pleasure and partner play. 1:00 Dr. Ruth started it 4:00 a mid-life career switch 7:00 teaches non-monogamy, BDSM, masturbation and more 10:00 CNS vs ENM discussion 13:00 will the United States block Tryst? 16:00 PH ban from states 19:00 basic spanking tips 22:00 more spanking tips 26:00 slapping safety tips 29:00 choking safety tips 33:00 why don’t hit or squeeze the front of the throat 36:00 OkCupid for kink dating? (not sponsored, I wish!) 40:00 if someone goes non-verbal 45:00 GETTHELAYER.com - sex blanket! Discount code ELLE 49:00 leftists tend to like kink more? 54:00 monthly CNM discussion group - peer support 57:00 #mommyknowsbest
FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Brothel Keeping Episode 2 | 16 Dec 2024 | 01:01:00 | |
Let’s talk with a European brothel manager: Catherine de Noire works the overnight shift in one of the biggest venues in her part of the world, and hear the pros and cons of a legal system and how the workers navigate it. 2:00 working the night shift 6:00 how the club operates for the workers 9:00 no middle-management 12:00 no violent incidents in years 15:00 crossing borders to work 18:00 radical feminists and conservative christians 23:00 no charge for first timers 26:00 how Domestic violence relates to sex work 29:00 be wary of being an ATM to the people in ur life 32:00 taxes and police 36:00 condoms and testing 40:00 “I’m clean” 43:00 quantity vs quality? 47:00 Nevada brothels compared to European 50:00 American stigma 54:00 sexuality is playful 58:00 just enjoy the sex FIND OUR GUEST: Catherine De Noire on Threads and on IG @ Catherine_de_noire FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Veteran Strippers Episode | 16 Nov 2025 | 01:15:00 | |
Phoenix Rising met your host as a newbie stripper in the previous decade - and she rejoins Elle to reflect in the podcast, years later. What has changed or been learned? This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care. I first interviewed Phoenix Rising as a newbie stripper, in our previous decade - and she rejoins your host as a thriving veteran, years later. This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care. 3:00 animal rescue 5:00 club experience 8:00 shoutout to PUMPS in NY 12:00 Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com 17:00 shoutout to @yourtoxicaddiction on IG 20:00 club conflict with peers 23:00 how to avoid burnout 25:00 mental capacity and energy 28:00 on music and branding 34:00 common stripper injuries 38:00 balls to the wall pain 40:00 TheyTalkSex.com has discount codes for cool gifts :) 43:00 on the terms “baby stripper and veteran” 47:00 aging in the industry 50:00 body hair removal 53:00 body hair and strippers 56:00 quizzed on Charlie Kirk during dances? 1:02:00 stripper documentary “Cheers:PDX” FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @motherlucifer FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Sexuality and Mormon Influence Episode | 25 Nov 2024 | 01:00:00 | |
What's it like being a dominatrix to the devout AND to the de-constructing Mormons? Mx Novatrix serves and teaches in the SLC area of Utah, which is arguably the most sex-negative region in the United States. Let’s talk to them! 2:00 episode begin 5:00 Utah/Idaho mormons more intense than outside states 10:00 mass exodus from Church in some ways 15:00 Joseph Smith was a known con man 18:00 yes these are problematic terms “indian” and “savages” 22:00 return with honor ewwww 26:00 what are Bishop’s interviews? 30:00 confession or worship sessions 33:00 Sisters and sissification 36:00 be gay in quiet 39:00 the magic underwear 43:00 what are Blue Laws? 46:00 trans masculine people in drag? 50:00 No confession needed 54:00 film - Touch of the Master’s Hand 58:00 BDSM fear in therapists FIND YOUR HOST: ExMormonDomme.com and also at MadazonCanCan.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Portland Stripper and Author Episode | 11 Nov 2024 | 01:00:00 | |
Alexa Van danced in Portland stripclubs and wrote a novel one decade later - not as a memoir but as a way of processing alcoholism and unhealthy relationships. Why is it that the very thing that attracts so many people to ‘us’ is the thing they end up hating and wanting to change? Let’s talk stripclubs, dating, and art. 2:00 - never worked at Sassy’s 4:00 - why is it that these men want to change me? 9:00 - she is a raging alcoholic 12:00 - double standard of working 15:00 - a lap dance is not disrespectful 20:00 - what makes a good shift? 23:00 - negative impact of stigma 28:00 - use cheap makeup 33:00 - stripper warehouses of Vegas 36:00 - nice partners do exist 41:00 - on being a “minor” 18-20years old 47:00 - social media suppression 51:00 - ‘Seggs” is absurd 55:00 - owner favoritism 59:00 - sex tip!
Your guest is www.alexavan.com @thebadalexavan IG @alexavanauthor tiktok FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The God, Sex, and Rich People Episode | 28 Oct 2024 | 01:07:00 | |
Are you a current or former Christian still learning how to have guilt-free sex? Mattie Jo Cowsert is a recovering Evangelical who moved to New York City to find her husband - and then learned the world is bigger and more diverse than she had been raised to believe. Meet a shameless oversharer who wrote about her experiences with God, Sex, and Rich people. 3:00 evangelical and moved to NYC 7:00 sex and shame 10:00 rich people were unexpected 13:00 white, blue eyed woman privilege 18:00 where my Evangelicals at? 20:00 abuse dismissed as sin 25:00 jesus defended cheaters from death 29:00 further reading for hip Christians 34:00 what are “misogynist daywalkers” 37:00 how to give yourself permission to have good sex 41:00 disordered eating mention 44:00 on spirituality now 49:00 DOGMA was a weird movie 52:00 a confession from Mattie Jo 55:00 red flags 57:00 “sex ghosts” is a weird orgy 1:01:00 progress and pushing forward 1:06:00 have sex with people who respect you FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Soft Cock Episode | 21 Oct 2024 | 01:07:00 | |
What does penis health have to do with heart health? A lot! Erica Leroye was a teacher and a lover when a tragic death led her to a new calling: teaching people about penile health, and doing touch work around pleasure and healing. You’re invited to November’s ‘Soft Cock Week’, and listen here now to learn about the penis in its most common state: soft.
8:00 - sex is outercourse and intercourse 12:00 - retrograde ejaculation and ED - common symptoms of undiagnosed diabetes 16:00 - go to the Genital Gym 19:00 - “you have to train for what you want to be good at” 22:00 - how do I help men tap into the erotic self? 25:00 - pleasure mapping 29:00 - her fave way to play with a softie 33:00 - what is Soft Cock week? 37:00 - what else can you learn? 42:00 - what to eat? 46:00 - create a scavenger hunt for a treat 49:00 - trouble with orgasm 52:00 - “is gooning bad?” 54:00 - disconnect between brain and penis 59:00 - fear of penis in medical systems 1:03:00 - am i normal? VISIT and JOIN https://www.softcockweek.com/ Your guest can be found at https://www.softcockweek.com/soft-cock-blog/welcome-from-your-new-2024-hostess FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Stalking and Victim’s Advocate in Media Episode | 30 Sep 2024 | 00:58:00 | |
Lenora Claire was a business owner and public figure in Los Angeles before her stalker incidents led her to becoming a private investigator and media consultant. Learn how survivors and perpetrators of stalking can be handled smarter, by a person who teaches better practices for true-crime coverage. 2:00 - reality shows and progressive parents 5:00 - crime show producers don’t know how to treat survivors 7:00 - Batman and Superman to the rescue! 10:00 - why blocking isn’t always best 14:00 - risk assessment 18:00 - “what did you do to upset them?” 23:00 - her current work 25:00 - Private investigator things 28:00 - women producers and empathy 31:00 - British production companies doing it better 34:00 - treated like dogshit by cops when reporting 38:00 - how to help people open up? 41:00 - disclosure tips 45:00 - being judged on appearance 51:00 - what to NOT do to survivors in interview 56:00 - what is the guiding purpose of the media? 58:00 - a sex tip? Maybe :) FIND YOUR GUEST: lenoraclairellc.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Working Guys Episode | 23 Sep 2024 | 01:01:00 | |
Jack Parker has been doing sex work since just before he was an adult, and he’s now a writer and publisher of an anthology of stories from other trans-masculine sex workers. Let’s talk about how queerphobia makes unique spaces and options for some working guys in the arts and adult industries. 3:00 sex work before 18, before public 7:00 making $4 an hour? WHAT 10:00 not enough options for advertising or undies 14:00 how to transition without them knowing? 17:00 any port in a storm 23:00 my favorite part is strange bookings 26:00 nightmare coworkers can make it hard 28:00 enjoyable client sex 32:00 age gaps with clients 36:00 clients objectifying us, their own insecurities 41:00 where to find the book! 45:00 how to find trans masc providers 50:00 targeting for homosexuality 54:00 criticisms of jack’s work 57:00 resources for more reading FIND YOUR GUEST on JackViolet.com and @mxjackparker on all socials. FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Intimacy Coordinator and Film Episode | 02 Sep 2024 | 00:58:00 | |
If you’ve ever watched mainstream tv or movies with sex scenes in them, you can appreciate the people who make them look more realistic, while helping the performers be safest. Let’s talk with our guest Jamie Monahan, who works as an Intimacy Coordinator and Director. 3:00 #MeToo history 6:00 actors are taught to Say Yes 8:00 sexual alignment on film 11:00 there is a lack of lube in film 14:00 history behind intimacy coordinator 17:00 scenes that stuck in your mind 21:00 other memorable scenes 25:00 kissing on film 28:00 elle’s preference on oral sex visuals/contact 31:00 prosthetics are not common 35:00 more rules and regulations 40:00 the sounds of sex on film 45:00 don’t copy movies and that includes Titanic 49:00 have you ever mimicked a film? 54:00 SAG requirement to become IC
IG/Facebook/X: @Jmemonahan FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Sober Sex Work Episode | 26 Aug 2024 | 01:12:00 | |
Elizabeth Foreman works sober in New Orleans strip clubs these days. Here she shares her experience with sex work and sobriety which has given her insight, tactics and coping mechanisms while she continues to share her healing journey with others. 4:00 disclaimer - experiential and not academic 6:00 dancing instead of full-service 9:00 confusing laws around sw and trafficking 13:00 NOLA vs PDX stripper economics 17:00 how she got started in sobriety self-help 20:00 alcoholism in the family and the club 24:00 tips to not get drunk at the strip/club 27:00 check-ins reminders 29:00 AD - getthelayer.com - discount code ELLE 32:00 why do you use while working? 37:00 mental strain of sobriety 40:00 why we numb out or use it to enhance performance 48:00 practicing setting boundaries 54:00 don’t stop drinking abruptly 57:00 what happens when you stop drinking? 1:01:00 do you have the wrong prescription? 1:05:00 resource share 1:08:00 the downsides of AA 1:12:00 ADHD and sex tips, slow down Tip Elizabeth for her sobriety help to CASHAPP $liz4mannola
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| The Purity Culture Drop-Out Episode | 19 Aug 2024 | 00:59:00 | |
Erica Smith is a sex educator specializing in purity culture trauma and recovery. Let’s talk about dealing with shame and some tips for better sexual health and lives. 4:00 a controversial event in 2000 7:00 working in abortion clinic, juvenile justice system 10:00 youth in sex work or experiencing trafficking 14:00 how purity culture relates to juvenile justice 17:00 the Army of God loves fake anthrax 20:00 sexually active teens 23:00 she who is without shame! 27:00 how to tell my partner I’m queer? 30:00 use your hands more 33:00 chronic health disclosures to partner? 37:00 herpes shaming, we hate it 40:00 purity culture grossness 43:00 social media and sex education 47:00 who is her clientele? 50:00 tradwife trend will have impacts later - @missgingerlocks on IG 53:00 confessions 57:00 sex advice FIND YOUR GUEST: purityculturedropout.com
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| The Sexual Objectification Episode | 12 Aug 2024 | 01:03:00 | |
Have you ever been made to feel like an object instead of a person? Do you objectify others? What does objectification mean, how can we take our power back, make the best of it, or get off on it? Let’s talk with Suzannah Weiss, author of “Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject”
6:00 growing breasts made people treat her differently 9:00 sexuality healed her disordered eating! 13:00 people being degrading at cam models 16:00 this economy making me do more 18:00 if a SW takes advantage! 21:00 examples of objectification from others 24:00 “I don’t do bareback with someone I just met” 28:00 former sex worker(?) 30:00 examples of objectification in language 33:00 Nina Menkes + film POV 36:00 we need to see what women desire, more often 39:00 it is a turn-on for me, being objectified 42:00 anxiety about fantasies in relationship 46:00 Stoya started hitachi reading! 50:00 less respect happens for escorts 55:00 work stress - stigma 59:00 examples, more 1:02:00 sex tips from suzannah and elle
FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Silver Sexuality Episode 2 | 28 Oct 2025 | 01:00:00 | |
Not your average grandma…better! Ruby Lynne of The Granny Panty podcast started sex work at the age of fifty three and today she’s a prolific media creator with a background in public health. Let’s learn some marketing and professional’s tips while discussing better practices for self care and health of yourself and your loved ones. 2:00 public health and porn! 5:00 M.Gen is a new STI 8:00 podcasting and networking with oldies 12:00 on being outed by a family ‘friend’ 16:00 high school reunions 20:00 being stalked via Paypal 24:00 $500 a month to STI test! 27:00 studio work 30:00 sexting apps and etiquette 33:00 more ^^^ 37:00 losing friends and family 41:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 45:00 roleplay and moods 48:00 we need an award category! 56:00 what keeps us young? FIND YOUR GUEST
See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Psilocybin and Sexuality Episode | 29 Jul 2024 | 00:57:00 | |
How can intentional psilocybin use help people heal from big life events, or create a better understanding of theirselves? Let’s talk with “trauma queen” expert and educator Jimanekia Eborn. 4:00 policing to psychology 7:00 numbing vs pushing through 15:00 what has changed for you? 17:00 tripping tips 20:00 how did shrooms impact you? 23:00 AD - FeministTrash.com discount code STRIPPERWRITER 27:00 more advice for tripping 30:00 sensory play ideas 34:00 small vs big trauma 37:00 germ transfer overload 41:00 AD GetTheLayer.com - discount code ELLE 44:00 that medication might not work for you! 48:00 dating a survivor class 52:00 you're going inside, not outside 55:00 sex advice Check out Cintima.co and FIND YOUR GUEST: TraumaQueen.love FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Abortion Healthcare Episode | 23 Jul 2024 | 00:57:00 | |
What’s it like to go to a clinic to receive an abortion? Our guest has been escorting patients for years and talks about the science of medical abortion, care tips and how to advocate for yourself when you need one. Meet the Executive Director of Nebraska Healthcare Resource, Shelley Mann. 3:00 patient to clinic escort to executive director 6:00 why people need abortions 8:00 known as the abortion lady 12:00 pointless to argue with these people 15:00 why are you so obsessed with me? 18:00 AD: GetTheLayer.com - sex blanket! 20:00 how to tell my boyfriend I need an abortion? 23:00 find out as early as you can 25:00 TRAP laws and “cardiac activity” 28:00 more on clinics getting shut down 31:00 “late term abortion” is not a medical term 34:00 99% of abortions prior to 21 weeks 37:00 what can you do to prepare for an abortion? 40:00 how to care for yourself after? 43:00 what about a bad experience? 49:00 pregnancy and birth is 13.5x more deadly than legal abortion 53:00 www.plancpills.com, www.ineedana.com, www.abortionfunds.org 55:00 sex tip
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| The Amish Stripper Episode | 01 Jul 2024 | 00:55:00 | |
Naomi left the strict Amish at seventeen, and worked for twenty years in adult entertainment, and wrote an erotic memoir about that time. We talk about dating, parenting, boundaries and sex clubs. 1:00 raised as strict Amish, left at 17 4:00 literally pushed to audition by friends 10:00 financial advice from a coworker 14:00 the regret was having to hide it 18:00 online use 21:00 being OUT to family? 24:00 dark days and substance abuse 28:00 coercive partner sex 31:00 leaving the situation 33:00 parenting a kid now 37:00 I know that sex club! 40:00 everybody is different! 45:00 how to prevent sexual assault in small communities? 48:00 communication 53:00 try new things! FIND YOUR GUEST: @AmishInspiration on IG, TikTok FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Sex Work and Political Organizing Episode | 24 Jun 2024 | 01:07:00 | |
Miss Mei is a political organizer in Miami Florida and talks sex work, explains what can help prevent trafficking and police abuse, and gives tips on how to look for bad-actor organizations.
6:00 - they prefer in-person work 9:00 Slutwalk helped lead to #MeToo 12:00 reclaiming the word Whore 15:00 Amber Rose did not invent Slutwalk 19:00 women’s spaces and nonbinary ppl 22:00 no arrests YET 26:00 when the client follows your Other Work 30:00 THEYTALK20 for 20% off MayerLabs.com condoms and lube 32:00 child labor laws in Florida 37:00 a long road ahead about record expungement 40:00 I grew up as a young whore 47:00 @ Jonni_qwest is a pal 50:00 In-fighting 54:00 “Sex Workers and the Left: Pass The Mic” Tryst.Link article 58:00 AOC endorsed anti-SW and homophobic organization NCOSE 1:01:00 “we cannot defeat what we cannot define” 1:04:00 should strippers be able to work at 18? 1:07:00 fibromyalgia and cops
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| The Journalism and Sexuality Episode | 17 Jun 2024 | 01:07:00 | |
Mike Stabile is a journalist and documentary filmmaker and ol’ gay activist who has written about and advocated for sex workers and sexual speech for twenty years. 2:00 - I was an anonymous hand once 6:00 - why Twitter is relevant to free speech and liberties 8:00 - Polari - slang speak of gay sailors and sw’s 10:00 gay porn film history and Chuck Holmes 15:00 - what is KOSA and why should we hate it? 18:00 do u want the government to see your searches? 21:00 age verification doesn’t work 25:00 THEYTALK20 for 20% off MayerLabs.com 29:00 do journalists fear cops? 32:00 more fear about retribution? 35:00 why journalists are fooled by cop press releases 40:00 Tim Ballard and Operation Railroad is a scam 42:00 “ending modern slavery” is a red flag 46:00 protecting safety and privacy 49:00 if a journalist contacts you as a SW 53:00 GetTheLayer.com - ELLE code for 10% off 54:00 haters? 58:00 conspiracy theories AGAIN 1:02:00 be your own expert on your life 1:04:00 Lorelei Lee tweet (they/them) FIND OUR GUEST: IG @fauxjob and Twitter/X @mikestabile and https://www.freespeechcoalition.com/staff FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX
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| The Trauma Healing and Sex Therapy Episode 2 | 10 Jun 2024 | 01:01:00 | |
Born in India, neurodivergent, non monogamous, a New York sex therapist who loves sex-positive spaces, let’s talk healing with Nikita Fernandes MHC-LP and learn some healing tips for life and sex. 1:00 meet our guest 3:00 women’s gender studies classes were key to critical thinking 6:00 assimilation as a safety mechanism 9:00 tips for therapeutic movement 12:00 dance, hiking, kink, gym 15:00 medical issues 19:00 The People’s Book of Human Sexuality - Laureano 23:00 coping tips 26:00 more tension release tips 28:00 fantasies around sexual assault 40:00 needing to offload or share to others 43:00 what if I’m not responding to trauma? 50:00 DBT (dialectical behavior therapy) 55:00 partner jealousy and disclosure 58:00 working all the time makes healing harder FIND OUR GUEST: healingwithnikita.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Pornographer and Cuckolding Episode | 03 Jun 2024 | 00:58:00 | |
He’s telling his life story besides the two random events that led to him working in the xxx industry as a Bull in the cuckold scene. “Thrash: “Penetrating the Business” author talks about filming and life. 4:00 Brickhouse Magazine 6:00 the pros of accessible technology 9:00 @brickhousemag on Twitter 13:00 there’s levels to it 18:00 THEYTALK20 for 20% off lube/condoms at MayerLabs.com 20:00 what is the best part of being a bull? 24:00 filming vs real life 29:00 a one man show on stage 33:00 GetTheLayer.com code ELLE for 10% 37:00 reflecting on the cuck episode 40:00 does Thrash have preferences? 43:00 trends in porn? 47:00 becoming ambivalent to porn 54:00 sex tips Find our guest on: FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Internet Pornmaking Episode 3 | 27 May 2024 | 01:06:00 | |
Pomma is a xxx content creator who tirelessly informs followers on news, legislation, harm reduction practices, and hazards related to online sex work and adult industry work. Let's talk! 4:00 what kind of work? 7:00 money is tight for many 10:00 socialized to be performative as youth 13:00 banned from social media ooops 16:00 FOSTA SESTA 19:00 facial recognition and TSA 22:00 will this get me evicted? 27:00 when your beloved sugar daddy dies 30:00 the athletes of sex workers 35:00 thick models like London Andrews, Valentine Von Bettie 39:00 some advice for receiving shibari ties 42:00 please do not ask to meet us while on paysites 48:00 STRIPPERWRITER 20% OFF FeministTrash.com 50:00 UNICEF supported bad legislation FOSTA and SESTA 54:00 law enforcement raiding Backpage.com owners 57:00 Decrim305, Cupcake Girls, SWOPBehindBars.org 1:00:00 organizations we like 1:03:00 sex tips for our audience? Find our guest on: IG: @onlypomma@notonlypomma FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Penis Augmentation Episode | 20 May 2024 | 00:58:00 | |
His nickname is The Dick Whisperer and he’s spent years perfecting his penis-injections services and science: Meet the founder of PhalloFill . Let’s talk about why some men want to augment theirselves and why you should always follow post-procedure advice! 3:00 - hair removal and penis augmentation 4:00 - the P shot began 7:00 porn, peer comparison, indirect teasing 11:00 how to talk to youth about media 14:00 confidence in the workplace 18:00 let’s talk about complication rates 21:00 increase in sensitivity 25:00 what is Hyaluronic acid? 28:00 explaining the filler and amount 31:00 Phalloboards.info - forum 34:00 he’s the penis master 38:00 more science on filler 41:00 what is fascia? 46:00 example patient who needed a fixjob 52:00 discussing costs 55:00 width vs girth
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| The Sexuality and Sports Episode | 13 May 2024 | 01:02:00 | |
She’s a model, full contact fighter and martial arts instructor, genderfluid princess and more: lets meet Sybilla Bakzaza. 3:00 martial arts, baseball, football, sailing, relay racing, US NAVY 5:00 a commentary on Marine culture or US Navy 8:00 (devil dock is a penis joke) 9:00 cross-dressing as an entry 12:00 American assimilation 18:00 what can suck about gym environments 22:00 she has a team of Hulks on her side 25:00 how to screen employers/venues? 29:00 advice on showing up as trans in cis spaces? 32:00 you gotta project confidence 34:00 red flags for clients 39:00 on bullying in the workplace 43:00 what is your support network? 49:00 perception is more powerful than truth sometimes 53:00 some people are only as good/bad as their commanders 55:00 sex tips! 59:00 some inspo and support from our guest FIND OUR GUEST: TikTok, OF, and Twitter and IG @ https://www.instagram.com/sybillabakzaza/ FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :) | |||
| The Safer Slut aka Herpes 3 Episode | 06 Oct 2025 | 00:51:00 | |
Tricia Wise is a full time herpes educator and visual artist, and we talk about how to be a safer slut, and stay happier while being mentally ill. Get some updated HSV information, and get connected with her Shadownbanned podcast and upcoming zine project. 2:00 meet your shadowbanned host 5:00 SEGGS instead of sex 8:00 it’s disheartening to get flagged 12:00 HSV 1 vs 2 16:00 symptoms that we experience 19:00 take the herpes survey study!SPFPP.ORG 23:00 dating red flags? 28:00 dating tips and anxiety texting 32:00 getting the ICK for protection 35:00 reframing the scare 38:00 code THEYTALKSEX for 10% off Love-Blanket.com 42:00 harness that OCD in healthier ways 45:00 1 in 5, or 1 in 8 people have herpes 48:00 sex tipssss FIND YOUR GUEST safeslut.shop FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) | |||
| The Masturbation and Sexuality Episode | 06 May 2024 | 01:09:00 | |
Let’s explore the history behind masturbation misinformation, pseudoscience and shaming, with clinical psychologist and author Dr Eric Sprankle. 3:00 how he got here 7:00 a vast conspiracy to teach education (elle has worked with PH tho) 10:00 history repeating on anti-porn 13:00 misinformation is the same 16:00 exploring negative online comments 20:00 be a man - destroy your lungs 23:00 how do people feel about the word? 27:00 does ejaculation impact hormone levels? 32:00 what do “sex rehab programs” look like? 36:00 how can masturbation be harmful? 38:00 chemical castration 40:00 high libido does not equal offensive behavior 45:00 sperm vs semen vs female ejaculate 48:00 more about ejaculate fluid 51:00 events causing shame 56:00 online communities and hate groups 1:01:00 white genocide conspiracy 1:06:00 a cute childhood anecdote 1:09:00 Dr Drew - how could you?!?
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