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The Breakup Debrief Podcast

Kelly H

Society & Culture

Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 60

The Breakup Debrief is your dose of healing truths, mindset shifts & coaching to help you stop waiting for closure & start rebuilding your self-worth. Hosted by Breakup Empowerment & Self Rediscovery Coach, Kelly Hunt, this show is for women ready to turn heartbreak into a whole new chapter. Expect real talk, relatable stories, lightbulb moments & the tools to reclaim the version of you that never needed them to choose you first <3

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#36 Blindsided: When a Breakup Comes Out of Nowhere

Monday, March 9, 2026 • Duration 20:50

In this episode of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly explores the emotional shock of a blindsiding breakup — the kind that feels like it comes completely out of nowhere.

When a relationship ends suddenly without warning, it can disrupt your sense of stability, predictability, and emotional safety. Many people describe this experience as deeply traumatic because there was no time to mentally prepare for the loss.

Kelly discusses why sudden breakups can feel so destabilising, the role your nervous system plays in processing the shock, and why the person ending the relationship may have been emotionally preparing long before the breakup conversation happened.

If you've ever found yourself obsessing over what went wrong, replaying conversations, or searching for the “perfect explanation,” this episode offers practical guidance on how to process the shock, rebuild your self-worth, and begin healing.

Links & Resources

📧 Share your story for the “Where Is She Now?” segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

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#35 When Your Ex Gives the Next Girl Everything You Asked For

Monday, March 2, 2026 • Duration 21:58

In this solo episode of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly dives into one of the most painful and triggering post-breakup experiences: seeing your ex move on.

Whether it’s through social media, mutual friends, or simply knowing they’re treating someone new differently, watching an ex appear happier, more consistent, or more emotionally available can hit your self-worth hard.

Kelly unpacks why this experience hurts so deeply, what it actually means (and what it doesn’t), and the four main reasons an ex might show up differently in a new relationship. She explores the psychology behind ego, comparison, and rejection and reminds listeners that someone else receiving what you once asked for does not mean you weren’t worthy of it.

If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Why couldn’t he do that for me?” this episode will help you reframe the narrative, protect your peace, and continue healing without letting comparison pull you backwards.

📧 Share your story for the “Where Is She Now?” segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

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#26 Should You Get Back With Your Ex? Questions to Ask Before Reconnecting

Monday, December 22, 2025 • Duration 26:15

Christmas week can be a vulnerable time after a breakup — emotions are heightened, loneliness feels louder, and old memories can creep back in. In this solo episode of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly explores one of the most common (and complicated) questions people ask during a breakup: Should I get back with my ex?

Kelly unpacks the difference between missing someone and missing connection, and why reconciliation should never be a reaction to loneliness, nostalgia, or fear. This episode invites listeners to slow down, reflect honestly, and assess whether getting back together would actually create emotional safety, trust, and long-term fulfillment — or simply repeat old patterns.

Kelly walks through the key questions you need to ask yourself before reopening the door to a past relationship, including why the breakup happened, whether anything has truly changed, and how to identify red flags versus green flags in a potential reconnection. She also encourages listeners to define their ideal partner and to prioritise their own happiness, growth, and future — especially during emotionally charged times of year.

This episode is a reminder that choosing yourself is not the same as giving up on love.

📧 Share your story for the “Where Is She Now?” segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

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#25 Breakups to Breakthroughs: Healing After Heartbreak with Caroline McKenna

Season 3 · Episode 3

Monday, December 15, 2025 • Duration 51:01

Heartbreak has a way of shaking your identity, your confidence, and your sense of direction but what if it’s also the beginning of something bigger?

In Episode 25 of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly is joined by Caroline McKenna, author of Breakups to Breakthroughs, to explore how heartbreak can become a powerful catalyst for self-discovery, healing, and personal growth.

Caroline shares her own journey through a painful breakup that forced her to slow down, feel her emotions, and completely re-evaluate who she was outside of a relationship. Together, Kelly and Caroline unpack why breakups can feel as devastating as a bereavement, how identity often becomes entangled with partnership, and why rushing the healing process can do more harm than good.

The conversation dives into attachment styles, how they shape our relationship patterns, and why understanding them can bring clarity and compassion — both for ourselves and our exes. They also explore the theory of the three loves, helping listeners reframe past relationships without romanticising them or seeing them as failures.

This episode is a reminder that being single — especially in your 30s — is not something to “fix,” but something that can be deeply fulfilling. From mindset shifts and emotional processing to trusting the timing of your life, this conversation offers reassurance, perspective, and hope for anyone navigating heartbreak or learning how to thrive on their own.

If you’re going through a breakup, questioning your path, or learning how to trust yourself again, this episode will help you see that healing doesn’t mean going backwards — it often means stepping into something better.

✨ In This Episode, We Cover:

Why breakups can feel as significant as a death
The impact of heartbreak on identity and self-worth
Why feeling your emotions is essential for real healing

#24 Rewriting Your Christmas When You’re Newly Single

Season 3 · Episode 1

Monday, December 8, 2025 • Duration 18:22

In this solo episode of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly Hunt dives into the reality of being single during Christmas—a time when emotions feel louder, memories feel sharper, and comparison hits harder than ever. Whether you’re navigating your first Christmas post-breakup or your fifth, this episode offers the validation, grounding, and practical support you need.

Kelly explores the emotional weight of “this time last year” thoughts, the triggers of festive couple content, and why loneliness tends to spike during the holiday season. She also shares ways to create your own Christmas magic, reconnect with yourself, and soften the sting of missing someone who used to be part of your traditions.

This episode is your warm, honest, no-BS reminder that being single at Christmas is not a failure — it’s a season you can move through with intention, compassion, and even joy.

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#23 How to Cope When Your Ex Moves On Before You (Emotional Healing Tips)

Season 3 · Episode 1

Monday, December 1, 2025 • Duration 31:44

In this episode of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly opens Season Three by tackling one of the most gut-wrenching parts of heartbreak: when your ex moves on before you.

Whether you found out through social media, mutual friends, or pure accident, that moment hits like a punch to the chest. Kelly breaks down why this triggers panic, intrusive thoughts, comparison spirals, and the sudden fear that “I’ve been replaced.”

Rather than focusing on the other person, this episode helps you understand your nervous system, your emotions, and why this moment does not mean you’ve lost, failed, or fallen behind.

Kelly explains:
💛 Why your brain spirals into “what does this mean?”
💛 Why your ex moving on isn’t evidence that they’re happier
💛 How avoidant or unhealed partners often jump into something new as a distraction
💛 Why the person who sits with their pain actually heals deeper
💛 How to avoid making their new relationship about you
💛 And how to re-centre yourself when your confidence is shaken

This episode is your reminder that your healing isn’t a race, your worth hasn’t been touched, and someone else’s relationship is not a reflection of your value.

Links & Resources

📧 Share your story for the “Where Is She Now?” segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

#22 Healing from Toxic Relationships with Orla Foster

Season 2 · Episode 11

Monday, November 24, 2025 • Duration 55:03

In this powerful episode, Kelly sits down with Orla Foster — therapist, coach & specialist in helping women recover from toxic and narcissistic relationships.

Orla opens up about her own journey through toxic dynamics and how it shaped her mission to support women rebuilding their self-worth. Together, Kelly and Orla unpack:

The subtle signs of toxic relationships
What narcissistic traits actually look like in real life
How emotional abuse erodes confidence and identity
Why shame belongs to the abuser, not the survivor
How to stop repeating patterns with emotionally unavailable partners
The role of therapy, coaching, meditation, and support systems in long-term healing

This episode is a reminder that healing is possible, support is available & nobody has to navigate toxic relationship recovery alone.

Links & Resources

📧 Share your story for the “Where Is She Now?” segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

✨ Connect with Orla Foster:
Instagram: Orla_Foster_
Podcast: Because I Loved Myself First

📚 Resources for Support:
• Women’s Aid (Ireland) — https://www.womensaid.ie
• Samaritans — https://www.samaritans.org
• Therapy Directory —

#21 The Post-Breakup Clear Out: How to Let Go, Heal & Take Your Power Back

Season 2 · Episode 10

Monday, November 17, 2025 • Duration 27:06

In Episode 21 of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly dives deep into one of the messiest — but most transformative — parts of healing after a breakup:
the post-breakup clear out.

From physical belongings to photos, social media, and the sentimental bits that keep you emotionally tied to your ex, Kelly breaks down exactly how to navigate the clear-out stage without spiraling… or sobbing over a hoodie.

Kelly shares her own experiences from the end of her marriage and her most recent relationship — the anger, the awkwardness, the redecorating, the archiving, the box-in-the-storage-room era — and the strategies she used to reclaim her space and identity.

You’ll learn why clearing out your ex’s belongings isn’t erasing your past — it’s creating space for your future. She also breaks down why archiving photos is better than keeping them visible, how social media prolongs heartache, why blocking is a form of self-respect, and how your algorithm can either help you heal or keep you stuck.

The episode ends with a powerful Where Is She Now? listener story — a woman blindsided by a breakup who rebuilt her life, found peace, and realised she was never the problem.

This episode is a must-listen if you’re heartbroken, stuck, or procrastinating the clear-out that you know you need to do.

Links & Resources

📧 Share your story for the “Where Is She Now?” segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

#20 Vogue Says Having a Boyfriend Is Embarrassing… Let’s Debrief That

Season 2 · Episode 9

Monday, November 10, 2025 • Duration 23:24

In this episode, Kelly dives into the viral Vogue article titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” and unpacks what this cultural shift really means for women navigating modern dating and healing.

Kelly explores why being in a relationship, something once seen as a badge of honour, now feels complicated or even “uncool” in certain spaces. From social media “soft launches” to the fear of losing your independence, she breaks down how culture, healing, and self-worth intersect when it comes to love.

This episode challenges listeners to question why they want a relationship, whether they’re choosing love from wholeness or from fear, and how to avoid performing relationships for social media validation.

Because at the end of the day- wanting love isn’t embarrassing. Losing yourself for it is.

📖 Read the original Vogue article: Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? (Vogue)

Links & Resources

📧 Share your story for the “Where Is She Now?” segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

Takeaways

💬 The Vogue article explores how “being partnered” no longer defines women the way it once did.
💬 Some women now hide or “soft launch” their relationships due to cultural shifts in how we see commitment.
💬 There’s a fine line between empowerment and emotional avoidance when it comes to staying single.
💬 Being single isn’t automatically “healed” — and being partnered isn’t automatically “lost.”💬 You can want love still prioritise self-awareness, boundaries, and growth.

#19 Navigating Co-Parenting & Breakups with Gráinne

Monday, November 3, 2025 • Duration 50:08

In this heartfelt episode of The Breakup Debrief, Kelly sits down with yoga teacher Gráinne to explore her journey through heartbreak, healing & the realities of co-parenting after separation.

Gráinne opens up about the emotional challenges of her breakup- from anger and hurt to rediscovering herself as both a woman and a mother. She shares how she learned to separate personal emotions from parenting responsibilities, the importance of communication with her ex-partner & how she found joy again through yoga, self-care & moments of independence.

Together, Kelly and Gráinne dive deep into what it really means to rebuild after a breakup when children are involved, how to find balance, create new boundaries & redefine happiness on your own terms.

Whether you’re co-parenting, navigating a separation, or simply learning to start over, this episode is a grounded, hopeful reminder that healing is always possible & you can thrive, not just survive.

Connect

💌 Got a story for the Where Is She Now segment? Email ⁠info@kellyskoaching.com⁠

✨ Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok ⁠@kellyskoaching⁠

🔗 All links: ⁠linktr.ee/kellys_koaching

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