Suburban Sex with Remy and Addy – Details, episodes & analysis

Part 2 with Rene encourages us to think about the quality of our orgasms. Addy was on the edge of her seat for this one, as so often moms feel like they have to carve out time and mental energy for sex but don’t take the time to fully enjoy what a gourmet orgasm could offer. That’s right, ladies - we want gourmet all the way! 

https://goodmenproject.com/author/rene-schooler/

https://medium.com/@kwcoachingpress

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/kendal-williams

https://www.facebook.com/reneschooler11?mibextid=LQQJ4d 

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Settle in for a two-part series with a local sex coach: Rene. Check out her websites below. She’s a 20 year established sex coach who has worked with over a thousand couples, writer of hundreds of articles/blogs, and author of an upcoming book “Empowered, But Empty.”

In this first part with Rene, we hear what vanilla couples can learn from polyamory couples in the way of open communication and trust. But there’s a dark side to everything; and we get curious about the drawbacks Rene found from the polyamory lifestyle and how that’s shaped her current monogamous relationship today.

But wait … there’s more! Check out part 2 to hear about the quality of sex: “both partners actually getting into each other not just getting off on each other.”

https://goodmenproject.com/author/rene-schooler/

https://medium.com/@kwcoachingpress

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/kendal-williams

https://www.facebook.com/reneschooler11?mibextid=LQQJ4d 

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This week we talk all about solo play. We all do it, especially when our partners aren’t around or in the mood. But instead of keeping it to ourselves, we get real about how we like it, when we do it and how often it happens. We also discuss how men and women think differently about self pleasure. Lastly, we confess whether or not we openly discuss self pleasure with our partners.

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History buffs: unite! Who’s interested in hearing the history of the vibrator? Addy ran “extensive research” (aka watched movies) to drop some knowledge on the interesting beginnings of what has become so mainstream in the bedroom (ok - HER bedroom).

Then hear how Brad and Addy attempt a role play, acting as strangers, during their stay-cation. Did Brad have enough game to eventually get Addy home with him? Listen in to find out!

Fun Movies:

Hysteria (2011 - Maggie Gyllenhaal) - https://shorturl.at/siYTK

Kinsey (2004 - Liam Neeson) - https://shorturl.at/BD6rt

Fun Vibes:

Mini Microphone - https://shorturl.at/WQR53

Hitachi Magic Wand - https://shorturl.at/3j7qK

Massage Gun - https://shorturl.at/0Jq0t

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We’re riding the coattails of the Hawk Tuah Girl: reminiscing about our drunken 20’s to get in the mindset of this new phenomenon. The 40 year olds in us think it’s the modern pornification of America, but you tell us where it came from. Any spitters out there? Then we join in on the fun with more “would you rather” questions - the sexy suburban version. 

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Our friend Josh gives it to us straight about not being straight - married to a woman for 25 years before he came out of the closet. Now he’s living his best life and has great wisdom (and crazy stories) to share that you won’t want to miss!

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Mistress Monroe joins us to discuss her new obsession: smutty, dirty books. She reads her daily dose of smut and romance which has turned her last year into the best sex of their 13 year marriage! Read that again. 

Her genres build up in dirtiness that empower her to talk more about sex and ask for what she wants. Her list of lustrous books are below to help you get revved up. Keep reading, my friends!

Monroe’s Recommendations in order of spice: 

Tame:

Strictly Business by Carrie Elks

Dear Grumpy Boss by Julia Wolf

Puck Pact, Heart Trick, and Odd Man Rush by Kristin Grenata (the male/female/female book she mentions)

Mid level just based on trigger warnings. Spice can be high but the characters are not amoral:

Irresistibly Broken by J.Saman (the butt sex book) Part of a 5 book series.

High spice and/or high trigger warning books - characters do what it takes to get the girl even if it’s severely questionable:

The Pucking Wrong Number by C.R. Jane. This is the hockey book based in Dallas. Part of a 4 book series. 

Not Yours to Keep by Ella Jacobs (explores Dom/Sub relationships)

Pretty Little Tease, Pretty Little Killer, and Pretty Little Monster by AJ Merlin (the series with serial killers)

Reverse Harem options:

Rebel Bloom is an author I read a lot in this space. Very cheesy but she has a lot of good reads for spice but light.

Puck One Night Stands by Emma Foxx (4 in the series)

Double Pucked by Lauren Blakely

All of the trigger warnings:

Blood Ties Series by A.K. Rose. There are 9 books - the first is titled Mine. It is very dark so know what you’re getting into.

Restraint fun:  https://a.co/d/aT09YTw

Booty fun:  https://shorturl.at/A2kQw

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Remy’s fabulous wife, Reagan, joins the show as we discuss the husbands’ least favorite topic: sexual ruts and dry spells. Booooooo! But, hey - that’s reality. We dig into the theory that men want sex to feel like everything is okay and women don’t want sex until everything is okay. Sound familiar? Listen in to hear how we see a light at the end of every dry spell tunnel. 

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When married, you either have a core set of sex positions that you default to or “you get what you get and you don’t throw a fit!” This week we take a page out of comedian Jim Jefferies’ standup and list out our “core four” (or in some cases core two or three) and compare against our friends. Is married sex that predictable? Spoiler alert: it is. But, that’s exactly why we sprinkle in more to keep things spicy!

Watch the Jim Jefferies clip about the Core Four: https://youtu.be/ZigUT1nPIWU?si=gIyOHxJ4w_Ne_D_7

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In this week’s episode, we answer the age-old question: is porn considered cheating? Note: we accepted zero bribes for this episode ;)

Porn is so easily accessible and yet seen as such a faux pas in the suburbs. Most long-term, everyday couples aren’t talking about it - and definitely most friends aren’t talking about it - but we know it exists. Does porn have a place in your marriage? Tune in as we get into the male and female perspectives and where we draw the line in our own relationships. 

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