Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024

• - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  

• - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.
• - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

1. 1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
   2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
   3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

• - “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”

• We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.

• • 10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)
  • 9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)
  • 8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)
  • 7: Lack of education (Jon)
  • 6: A culture of pressuring people to go further than they are comfortable or want. (Ben)
    • 6A: Culture of “breaking slaves and subs”
  • 5: Lack of education by partner (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 4: Partner’s feelings about the safety of your relationship (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 3: Predators and the protection of predators by the community
  • 2: Relationship issues
  • 1: People are crazy

• Important Links:
  1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522
  2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
  3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org 
  4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
  5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
  6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 
  Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
  Kuldrin Entertainment
  257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
  Alcoa, TN      37701
  • - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
  • - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
  • - Master Producer ($50/month): 
  • - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
  • - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
  • - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
  • - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
  Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
  • - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
  • - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
  • - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
  • - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
  Contact info:
  • Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
  • Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
  • Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
  • Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024

• - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  

• - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
• - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

1.  Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2.  KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3.  “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

1. - “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”
   1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
   1. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder 
   1. https://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20self 
   2. Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense, unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. The word “histrionic” means “dramatic or theatrical.”
   1. “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
   2. Cleveland Clinic
   3. Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)

For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn’t come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don’t realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic.

1. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of the following (Diagnosis Criteria):
   1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
   2.  Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
   3.  Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
   4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
   5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
   6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
   7.  Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
   8.  Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
2. What are the signs and symptoms of histrionic personality disorder?
   1. Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, are among the least understood mental health conditions.
   2. Studies that have been done about histrionic and other personality disorders have identified several factors that may lead to the development of histrionic or other personality disorders:
   3. Genetics: Histrionic personality disorder tends to run in families, so scientists think there may be a genetic (inherited) link.
   4. Childhood trauma: Children may cope with trauma, such as child abuse or the death of a family member, that later as an adult may be disruptive or problematic in their life and become part of a personality disorder.
   5. Parenting styles: Children who experience parenting styles that lack boundaries, are over-indulgent or inconsistent may be more likely to develop histrionic personality disorder. In addition, parents who display dramatic, erratic, volatile or inappropriate sexual behavior put their children at risk for developing this condition. Some researchers think that problems in parent-child relationships lead to the characteristic low self-esteem in people with HPD.
3. How is histrionic personality disorder diagnosed?
   1. Past history.
   2. Relationships
   3. Previous work history.
   4. Reality testing.
   5. Impulse control.
   1. Personality continues to evolve throughout child and adolescent development. Because of this, healthcare providers don’t typically diagnose someone with histrionic personality disorder until after the age of 18.
   2. Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, can be difficult to diagnose since most people with a personality disorder don’t think there’s a problem with their behavior or way of thinking.
   3. When they do seek help, it’s often due to conditions such as anxiety or depression due to the problems created by their personality disorder, such as divorce or lost relationships, and not the disorder itself.
   4. When a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, suspects someone might have histrionic personality disorder, they often ask broad, general questions that won’t create a defensive response or hostile environment. They ask questions that will shed light on:
   5. Because a person suspected of having histrionic personality disorder may lack awareness of their behaviors, mental health professionals might ask to collect information from the person’s family and friends.
   6. Mental health providers base a diagnosis of histrionic personality disorder on the criteria for the condition in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.
4. To learn about “Management and Treatment, “Prevention”, “Outlook / Prognosis / Complications” visit Cleveland Clinics website:: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder 

Important Links:

1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522
2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org 
4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 

Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701

• - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
• - Pro Producer ($100/month): 
• - Master Producer ($50/month): 
• - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
• - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
• - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, Maria, and Miss Troi
• - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea

Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)

• - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
• - http://whippingstripes.com

Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: Nov 30, 2023

- - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.

- - In this episode, we are all learning together as this was something I never heard of until last night. Depth Play?!?!?!
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- - “What is BDSM Depth Play?-S05E13”
- “What Is Depth Play: The Ultimate Guide”
- by J Station X: Sports, Video Games and More
- https://jstationx.com/what-is-depth-play/
Exploring the world of BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling journey for individuals who are open to exploring their deepest desires. Within the realm of BDSM, there are numerous activities and practices that cater to various interests, one of which is depth play. In this article, we will delve into the concept of depth play, its purpose, and common FAQs associated with it.
What Is Depth Play?
Depth play is a term used to describe a specific type of BDSM activity that focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It involves delving into the depths of one’s mind and emotions to create intense connections and sensations. Depth play can encompass a wide range of activities, such as intense role-playing scenarios, mind games, sensory deprivation, and more.
The Purpose of Depth Play:
The primary purpose of depth play is to challenge and explore the psychological and emotional aspects of BDSM. It allows participants to push their boundaries, experience intense emotions, and develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners. Depth play can create a strong sense of vulnerability, trust, and connection between individuals involved.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):

- Is depth play only for experienced BDSM practitioners? No, depth play can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience. However, it is crucial to have open and honest communication with your partner(s) and establish clear boundaries before engaging in any depth play activities.
- Is depth play safe? Like any BDSM activity, safety is paramount. It is crucial to engage in depth play with a trusted partner(s) who respects your limits and consent. Establishing a safe word and practicing aftercare are essential aspects of ensuring a safe and consensual experience.
- Are there any risks associated with depth play? While depth play can be emotionally intense, it is essential to engage in activities that are within your emotional and psychological limits. Pushing boundaries is encouraged, but it should be done gradually and with the utmost care, ensuring the well-being of all involved parties.
- Can depth play be done in a long-distance relationship? Yes, depth play can be adapted to long-distance relationships through various means such as virtual role-playing, intense messaging, or webcam sessions. However, it is crucial to establish clear communication channels and ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved.
- What are some common activities involved in depth play? Common activities may include intense role-playing scenarios, psychological mind games, sensory deprivation, humiliation play, consensual non-consent, and more. The possibilities are extensive and depend on the interests and boundaries of the participants.
- How can one prepare for depth play? Preparation for depth play involves open communication, establishing boundaries, and discussing desires, limits, and potential triggers with your partner(s). Engaging in aftercare activities, such as emotional support and debriefing, is also crucial for a positive experience.
- Can depth play be therapeutic? For some individuals, depth play can be therapeutic, as it allows them to explore and process deep-seated emotions and desires in a safe and consensual environment. However, it is important to approach depth play with the understanding that it is not a substitute for professional therapy.
- How can one ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved? Open communication, consent, and aftercare are key to ensuring the emotional well-being of all parties involved. Regular check-ins, creating a safe and non-judgmental space, and establishing trust are crucial aspects of engaging in healthy depth play.
- Can depth play be combined with other BDSM practices? Yes, depth play can be combined with a wide range of other BDSM practices, such as bondage, impact play, or sensory play. The key is to communicate and negotiate boundaries and desires with your partner(s) to create a mutually satisfying experience.
- Are there any resources available for learning more about depth play? Yes, there are numerous resources available, including books, online forums, and educational workshops that delve into the concept of depth play. It is important to research and educate yourself before engaging in any new BDSM activity.
- Can depth play be enjoyed by individuals who are not interested in pain or physical sensations? Yes, depth play is not solely focused on pain or physical sensations. It primarily focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It can be tailored to suit the interests and boundaries of all individuals involved.
- Is depth play only for romantic partners? No, depth play can be enjoyed any individuals who have established trust and consent. It is not limited to romantic partners and can be experienced with friends or other trusted individuals.
- Can depth play lead to long-term psychological effects? When practiced responsibly, depth play should not lead to long-term psychological effects. However, it is essential to be aware of personal limits, communicate openly, and prioritize self-care and emotional well-being during and after engaging in depth play activities.
In conclusion, depth play is a captivating and intense form of BDSM that focuses on exploring psychological and emotional experiences. It can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience, as long as there is open communication, consent, and a focus on personal and emotional well-being. Engaging in depth play can create profound connections, trust, and self-discovery, making it a powerful and fulfilling aspect of the BDSM world.

Important Links:

- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/513
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal
Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701


- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)

- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
Contact info:

- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275

Recorded: 1/10/2020 / Published: 08/22/2021

- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to spice things up and talk about some of our favorite and least favorite BDSM toys.

- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “17 Best BDSM Toys to Spice Up Power Play” By Gina Vaynshteyn, Jan 7, 2021
- https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/17-best-bdsm-toys-spice-211421334.html
1: Lynx Satin Mask/Blindfold
2: Bordeaux & Chocolate Massage Candle
3: Sportsheets S&M Kinky Pinky Cuffs
4: Love Egg Vibrator
5: Dark Side of the Rainbow Kit
6: Spanking paddle
7: Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE Tassel Flogger
8: CalExotics Advanced Nipple Suckers
9: Spartacus Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps
10: Black Feather Tickler Toy
11: Sportsheets Saffron Leash & Collar
12: Bondage Rope
13: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Pleasure Tape
14: New Sensations Novelties Sinful Ball Gag
15: Under The Bed Restraint System
16: Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench with Restraint Straps
17: Please Arousal Cream

- Mayfair’s LIst of Favorites:
1: Hair Pulling/Growling/Breathe Play (Primal)
2: Rope
3: Knives
4: Barehanded spanking apparently

- Least
1: Buffalo floggers
2: 12th gate
3: Thing Tommy made for you IDK name.

Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/327
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic

Show Producers:
- Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
- Master Producer ($50/month):
- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, and Toredon
- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, LilRedRose, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, and Anthony
- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilf
Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon

Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/

Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 12/20/2020 / Published: 08/13/2021

Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contact

In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to dive into the little know behind the scenes aspect of the movie “Secretary” and hear what Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader had to say about BDSM and some unexpected onset aftercare needs.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- “‘Secretary’: Maggie Gyllenhaal Once Broke Down on the Set After Her Infamous Spanking Scene With James Spader” By Laura Dorwart, December 14, 2020

- https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/secretary-maggie-gyllenhaal-once-broke-down-on-the-set-after-her-infamous-spanking-scene-with-james-spader.html/

- Maggie Gyllenhaal, Jake Gyllenhaal’s sister, had already appeared in movies like Mona Lisa Smile and Donnie Darko when she landed the lead role of Lee Holloway in the 2002 erotic dark comedy Secretary. But it was this starring role, alongside James Spader as E. Edward Grey (yes, another Mr. Grey!), that made then-24-year-old Gyllenhaal a breakout star.
Secretary – which was written by Erin Cressida Wilson, directed by Steven Shainberg, and based on a short story by Mary Gaitskill – became a critically-acclaimed cult classic after it premiered at the Sundance Film Festival. The film follows Lee, a shy secretary who was recently hospitalized for self-harm and depression, through her journey of self-discovery amid an intense relationship based around power exchange and BDSM practices with her boss (Mr. Grey, a dominant and eccentric attorney).

- Gyllenhaal said ‘Secretary’ allowed her to explore a hidden side of herself

- Spader thought the spanking scene was done tastefully and ‘with great care’

- Gyllenhaal once felt ‘overwhelmed’ after one take of the scene

Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/326
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic

Show Producers:
- Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
- Master Producer ($50/month):
- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, and Thorn
- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, and Subx13
- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilf

Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon

Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
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Recorded: 12/20/2020 / Published: 8/03/2021

In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss the joys of adult movies and 2 articles about the latest screw-up by the adult website Pornhub.

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2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- Why Pornhub Might Get Shut Down-S03E25

- “Pornhub removes most of its videos in effort to purge illegal content” By Noah Manskar, December 14, 2020 https://nypost.com/2020/12/14/pornhub-removes-millions-of-videos-in-illegal-content-purge/
Pornhub appears to have removed most of the smutty videos from its site, apparently taking down more than 10 million of them as part of its recent crackdown on illegal content.
The purge marked a massive shift in the porn site’s approach to content moderation amid pressure from

- “Ex-Pornhub moderator details ‘weird excuses’ to keep sick videos online” By Nicolas Vega, December 17, 2020 https://nypost.com/2020/12/17/ex-pornhub-moderator-details-weird-excuses-to-keep-videos-online/
A former Pornhub moderator has come forward to reveal the lax policies and unusual measures the smut site took to enable illegal and disturbing content to flourish.
In an interview with Business Insider, an ex-moderator for parent company MindGeek said

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Recorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 7/12/2020
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In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss another article published by Cosmopolitan about BDSM switches

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- What is a BDSM Switch by Cosmo-S03E24
“Let's Discuss What You Need to Know About Being a BDSM Switch: It's like a lil bit of dominant + a lil bit of submissive” by Rachel Varina, Nov 20, 2020
- https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a34740571/what-is-a-switch-bdsm/
- “A top is simply someone who leads/guides the scene and the bottom is there to receive the experience,” explains Mistress Rogue, professional dominatrix and headmistress of The Dom House. (The dominant and submissive terms can also be used when there’s a power dynamic as well.) And while you might be most familiar with what a dominant and submissive do, there’s another term you might not be as familiar with: a switch. Let's dive deeper.

- What is a BDSM switch?

- How do you know if you're a switch?

- What are the perks of switching?

- Are there any downsides or risks?

- Now, here's how to try switching for the first time

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Recorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 6/25/2021

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In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about a letter of experience and caution sent in by a listener telling his personal recent experience with red flags and respecting boundaries.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23
- A listener message titled “Want to Say Thank You” sent to me by CourtsDom69 on December 6, 2020.
- Kuldrin,
I wanted to take a minute and say thank you. I grew up ultra vanilla and found myself at age 44 in a relationship with a more experienced partner, OopsCourtDidIt exploring areas of sexuality I never knew existed.
Courtney had been expressing a desire for BDSM play and told me about her past experiences in the lifestyle. Being eager to please her, I began to do research and learn what I could. I was blown away by the amount of BDSM stuff available on the web (I have never watched 50 shades!)
Thankfully, I came across your Podcast which has been my predominant source of information.
Court and I discussed options for play and learning and were both interested in being dominated by a male and a female, I wanted to experience being a bottom/submissive to fully appreciate that aspect from a multisensory perspective.
We both had reached out to perspective dominant types to engage them in discussion to see if there was an interest, we found one person that was local. The relationship started by Courtney expressing our desires and my willingness to learn and this couple had a dominant husband who liked the idea.
We decided to meet for dinner one evening a couple of weeks ago to talk and exchange thoughts. The dominant's wife would not be joining the dinner and had started a new relationship with another dominant outside of their marriage, she wasn't able to connect to her husband as a complete submissive and wanted to explore this dynamic.
I expressed to Courtney that I still wanted to remain focused on what we initially discussed regarding both being dominated. Will, the dominant suggested another female play partner attend the dinner to see what developed.
In the first meeting with Will, he brought Courtney a dozen roses, an app-controlled vibrator, a handmade wooden paddle, and a professionally bound BDSM contract. The dinner went okay and I had good conversations with both Will and Sasha whom Will had invited.
Will appeared very confident in his domination experience and I could see Courtney was excited at this prospect, so I remained open-minded. Will also had an app that he used with Courtney called Obedience, complete with goals, rewards, and punishments, I found it very interesting and it helped me understand some of the beneficial psychology of a Dom/Sub dynamic and it helped me understand how to start, progress and end a scene.
I was not overly comfortable with the dynamic Will wanted with Courtney, I did remain open-minded and in good communication with Courtney. The first time I sat down to review the "contract" I physically got sick to my stomach. I hated just about everything that was in there and as much as I tried, I couldn't shake the feeling. I wrestled with exactly what I was feeling and knew what some of my reservations were and could only describe my feelings as "being put onto a rollercoaster that had previously crashed on me twice, killing two relationships".
I was married twice before (a major no-no in my uber-religious upbringing) and both marriages ended based largely on the advice my ex-wives received from counselor's. In fact, my first wife remarried our marriage counselor, so my distrust was justifiable.
I respected the psychology of the Dom/Sub dynamic and viewed it from a more of a therapeutic aspect and have an appreciation of the superior/inferior dynamic and this dynamic is what made me nervous.
Courtney made Will aware of my hesitations and concerns and we agreed to meet again for dinner.
...Read the entire letter at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/323
Much love and respect,
CourtsDom69 (Ps you have our permission to read this on your cast, just not my last name please)

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Recorded: 11/29/2020 /  Published: 6/11/2021
In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about four BDSM myths that simply are not true.
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- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2) KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3) “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- Four Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22

- Original Article by Canela López and Julia Naftulin Nov 16, 2020

-(https://www.insider.com/myths-about-bdsm-according-to-kink-specialists-2020-2?fbclid=IwAR3-QNCNawRCIv0MZe0pRZQknCIh3zg8UdBzSybgRIwdVGIzipz0beTxMjo)

Here are some of the biggest myths about BDSM, according to kink experts. 

1: Myth: People who like BDSM are sexual deviants and freaks.
- Whether they're the butt of the joke on shows like "Skins" or openly condemned by the general public, people who engage in BDSM, kink, and fetish sex have historically been seen as weird or grotesque.

2: Myth: People who like BDSM are traumatized.
- One of the most common misconceptions about BDSM and kink sex is that people who enjoy it must have been victims of childhood abuse or trauma. 

3: Myth: All BDSM has a dominatrix and a submissive.
- BDSM sexual and lifestyle practices vary greatly beyond the dominatrix and submissive dynamic, including humiliation (being mocked by degrading language), electroplay (being shocked by an electrical source), and gagging. 

4: Myth: BDSM is just about sex.
- While sexual dynamics are oftentimes between two people, people who engage in BDSM or fetish sex can form larger communities of support — making their sexual practices go beyond sex. 

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Recorded: 11/22/2020 / Published: 5/24/2021
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In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new Dom, sub, or play partner.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- Five Questions to ask a potential Dom/sub or Play Partner-S03E21
- Before knowing what you want in someone else you have to know yourself.
- What are the primary characteristics of my Dom/sub/play side?
- Respectfulness
- Playful
- Obedient
- Friendly
- Demanding
- Nurturing
- Sadistic
- Exhibition
- What characteristics do I want in a Dom/sub/play partner?
- Respect
- Obedience
- Thoughtfulness
- Communication
- Enjoys erotic humiliation/degradation
- Masochist
- Alpha sub
- Loyalty
- Community service
- What are characteristics in others that turn you off?
- Lack of communication
- Brats
- Doormat subs
- Arrogance

- Now that you have a little better understanding of yourself it’s time to find out a little more about that potential Dom/sub/play partner.
1: What kinds of scenes turn you on?
2: What characteristics do you find sexy in a Dom/sub/play partner?
3: What experience do you have in power exchange?
4: What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant/play partner?
5: What are things that you haven’t tried but would like to?

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- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
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