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In this episode of Sexplicit, join Anisa as she dives deep into the topic of sexual confidence for heterosexual men with Cam Fraser, a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Together, they explore the barriers men face when it comes to sexual confidence and provide practical strategies to overcome them.

Topics Covered:

• Insecurities and anxieties men commonly experience in the bedroom
• The influence of social norms and masculine identity on sexual confidence
• How sexual education (or lack thereof) shapes men's sexual experiences
• Practical tips and resources to build lasting sexual confidence

About Our Guest: Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, and former Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work blends scientifically validated sexual health information with sacred sexuality teachings. Cam helps men move beyond surface-level sex to experience full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free from anxiety and shame. You can learn more about his work at cam-fraser.com.

In this episode Anisa has a conversation with Ella Shannon, the National Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists, for a candid conversation about sexual confidence after trauma. They explore strategies to reclaiming sexual confidence following traumatic experiences, offering hope and guidance to those on the path to healing.

Key Topics Discussed:

• What is Sexual Confidence? A
• Is it Possible to Feel Confident Again? 
• Practical Tips for Reconnecting with Safety and Pleasure.
• The Role of Therapy
• How to Find the Right Therapist.

Whether you've experienced trauma yourself or are supporting someone who has, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to reclaim their sexual confidence.
For more information about Ella Shannon and her work, visit her website at ellashannon.com.

In this episode you will hear Anisa Varasteh Clinical Sexologist discuss:

•  7 common blocks to erotic confidence
• Specific tips and suggestions for addressing each of these obstacle

Link to Discover Your Erotic Self: https://www.relatesexology.com/sexuality-workshop-erotic-self

In this episode Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologist discusses:

·       The impact of sexual assault on relationships

·       Why sex and intimacy can be very challenging after sexual assault

·       How to re-build intimacy if you find any sexual or physical activity triggering 

·       What partners can do to support their loved one 

·       Strategies to enjoy intimacy again

·       What type of therapist can help with intimacy related issues post trauma

Submit your questions anonymously here: https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/DNMZV75

In this episode Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologist discusses:

• What is narcissism? 
• Identifying narcissism in relationships 
• Early signs and red flags for narcissism in romantic and sexual relationships
• The impact of long-term relationships with a narcissist
• Leaving a toxic relationship with a narcissist

In this episode, Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologists will discuss: 

What the 5 Love Languages are

Why they may be hurting your relationship

Tips for healthy relationships

Managing conflicts in a relationship 

Submit your questions anonymously here: www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/DNMZV75

More about Relate Sexology: www.relatesexology.com

In this episode Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologist answers your questions about pornography:

-What is pornography?
-Can watching porn impact your mental health, sexual functioning or relationship?
-What is ethical pornography?
-Can porn be helpful?
-Does violent porn lead to violent behaviour?
-I am a non-violent person but interested in BDSM, does it mean I have an underlying desire to hurt others?
-Can you develop porn addiction by watching porn?
-How can I identify if I am addicted to porn?

In this episode, you will hear: 

Why do people choose open relationships?

How common is non-monogamy?

What do I/we need to do if we want to explore an open relationship?

Essential skills you need for a successful relationship

Different relationship structures

Links to resources mentioned in this episode:

Submit your questions here: https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/DNMZV75

Worksheet:

https://www.relatesexology.com/resources

Books:

Polyamory by Martha Kaupi

Polysecure by  Jessica Fern,

The Ethical Slut, Dossie Easton

In this episode:

•            Healing attachment wounds in therapy

•            Listen to Anisa using Internal Family Systems to support someone who has anxiety around dating

What your sexual fantasies say about you

In this episode, you will hear: 

• The origin of sexual fantasies
• The most common sexual fantasies and why people have them
• The psychology of sexual fantasies
• Difference between fantasy and desire
• How to communicate with your partner about sexual fantasies

Links to resources mentioned in this episode:

Submit you questions here: https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/DNMZV75

Healing Through Kink online training: www.relatesexology.com/healing-through-kink