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“When you stop mothering and start embodying, you become unforgettable.”

We went there with Leola. Straight into the shadows. Into pussy as the temple, the mystery school. Into the raw alchemy of rage, grief, lust, and power. Into the line between being a man’s coach or his priestess, and why only one will unlock real intimacy.

This isn’t theory. This is the truth about tantra, about the shame wired into our bodies, about the centuries-long war on the dark feminine. Leola doesn’t soften it, because she knows: the dark feminine is the portal. To sovereignty. To radiance. To sex that doesn’t just scratch an itch, but changes who you are.

If you’ve ever felt split between the “good girl” mask and the wild one clawing underneath, this episode is your permission slip to burn the script and take back your fire.

Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Nervous system regulation as the gateway to power & pleasure
• What it really means to “descend into your pussy”
• Light feminine, dark feminine, and their shadows explained
• The 3 gifts of the dark feminine: sensuality, emotional alchemy & oracular power
• How culture demonized women’s magic (and how we reclaim it)
• Real talk on tantra beyond the sexual stereotypes
• Why most sex in media & porn distorts reality for women
• Loving men well: priestess vs coach energy in relationship
• Parenting, sex ed & raising kids in a sex-positive home

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“I love wanting you so badly I could tear your skin off — and slowing down enough to feel it in my whole body.”

We didn’t set out to make this an “experiment.” We just had sex one night, remembered how fucking good it is, and said: what if we did this every day for a week?

So this is the real story of what happened when two new-ish parents, with a one-year-old co-sleeping, two businesses under one roof, and not a lot of free time… decided to make sex a daily devotional practice.

Some nights were primal and filthy, some nights tantric and slow, one night was just a blowjob (with all the frills), and one night flopped completely. But every single day cracked something open. More play. More hunger. More aliveness in the house.

We’re not handing out prescriptions here. We’re just telling you the truth of what happened when we made sex non-negotiable for seven days straight.

Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Day 1 in Jacob’s teenage bedroom (Father’s Day sex, primal as hell)
• The reality of parenting + co-sleeping and why intimacy gets shoved aside
• “The tantric night”,  soaking, breathing, and being with what is
• Blowjobs as ceremony (why Meg refuses to do them without the frills)
• The dark masculine: ravishing, claiming, and holding hunger with consciousness
• How anal only works when there’s deep surrender and turn-on
• The night that didn’t work, and why forcing sex never feels good
• What seven days taught us about variety, discipline, and devotion

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"Devotion to love will ask you to put down the sword and pick up presence."

In today’s episode, we’re sharing a real and raw story straight from our recent road trip, baby meltdowns, car seat chaos, and all the feelings. What unfolded was a powerful reflection on devotion, forgiveness, and the quiet ways resentment creeps into relationships.

We’re talking about the difference between preference and truth, how to stay connected in discomfort, and why letting go is sometimes the most loving thing you can do.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a power struggle, holding onto the small stuff, or feeling like you need to be right… this one’s for you.

🔥 Here’s what we get into:

• Why forgiveness isn’t about words—it’s an energy
• How holding onto "small things" kills intimacy
• The truth about letting go without repressing yourself
• The difference between preference and truth in love
• Why your nervous system holds the key to deeper connection
• How devotion shifts the dynamic from “winner/loser” to interdependence
• Parenting, power struggles, emotional triggers… all of it.

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We’re going to take you on a journey.

This is a lot about healing and learning to love the parts of you that are scared.

In this episode we’re talking to the high achiever’s out there who have maybe been struggling with a difficult time in their life where they don’t feel like they’re getting th A+’s that they strive for.

We dive into…

• Meg’s high school and uni days as a ‘high achiever’
• Tying your worth into external achievements
• Societal expectations and navigating perfectionism
• Consciously meeting the shadow parts of you
• How business allows Meg to hold space for the little girl that had to get an A+
• Navigating the fear of failure in business
• The conditioning of women to find their value in beauty
• The season of business that we’ve been in recently and feeling really wobbly in life
• Seeing an invitation back to faith in something greater than ourselves
• And so much more!

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Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

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We all want relationships that are unfuckwithable, but we don’t know what it takes to get there.

How do we build trust and truth in relationships and deepen into them when society normalises contempt and avoiding challenges.?

The core piece here is a devotion to love and opening.

In this episode, we will explore depth, intimacy, letting love in and becoming ruthlessly devoted to leaning in.

We dive into…

• Going beyond a transactional type relationship
• Embracing your truth as an asset rather than a liability
• Truth as a non-negotiable in our relationship
• How terrifying trust and truth can be in a long term relationship
• Deepening your relationship through a ruthless devotion to love
• The 3 stages of relating
• Allowing all parts of you and your partner into the relationship
• Why it’s not about always getting it right
• And so much more

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Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

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Today we want to talk about one of the biggest paradoxes of long-term relationships:

We want spontaneity, energy, mystery, the unknown.

AND

We want comfort, safety, certainty, continuity.

So how can you hold space for BOTH in your long-term relationships?

In this episode, we will explore how to navigate a season of 'monotony' in long-term relationships, and also share how we keep the more spontaneous energy alive.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The mundane things we find sexy in each other
• Moving through anxiety in your relationship
• What it looks like to be on autopilot within your relationship
• How to avoid sabotaging or creating drama
• The safety in peaceful love and how to be content in tranquility
• Creating significant moments of love and connection
• How to create intensity, spontaneity or creativity in your relationship
• And so much more!

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Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

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If you’re a woman in a relationship with a man… this episode is a MUST listen.  

We often hear A LOT about how men should love and treat women, but what about the other way around? 

How can we as women really love up on our men? 

Not in the way we want to be loved. But truly honour & understand how they desire to be loved. 

In this episode, we will explore the art of loving a man and offer some practical tips and insights for women who want to deepen their connection with their man. 

We dive into…

• A man’s desire to serve something greater than himself
• Having patience for the emotional process
• Redefining vulnerability and courage for men
• The overarching narrative of “boys don’t cry” in our culture
• Bringing awareness to tension in the body through physical touch
• Your man is not a hairy woman
• Offering your love to a man through non sexual touch
• Creating a sense of nourishment and safety
• Offering respect
• Creating experiences for your man to honour you and show you his gifts
• Celebrating your man for the things that he already does
• Being playful in service of love
• Why we used to do “single saturdays”
• Giving space to your man
• And so much more

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The feminine comes alive when she gives herself fully to whatever wants to move through her whether that’s deep sensitivity, tenderness, grief or any other feeling.

There is an art to loving a woman and providing her with the safe, emotional space that she needs to open her heart and fully be in the moment.

This is for anyone who has been, is or will be in a relationship with a woman or as a woman.

We dive into…

• The different operating systems of men and women
• Providing information to your man
• The heart as the doorway to a woman’s p*ssy
• Emotionally holding space for a woman
• Bein willing, as women to open your heart and speak into the relationship
• Why f*cking with closed hearts is a no for our relationship
• Owning your needs and desires
• Staying attuned to whether your woman’s heart is there
• The responsibility of a man in a relationship
• The goal of orgasm inhibiting a man’s ability to inhabit his body
• Meeting your partner in the experience
• Honouring your woman’s emotional range
• How to stay with an love a woman in her emotions
• Releasing distractions and offering a depth of presence
• And much, much more!

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It’s time for another juicy Q & A session.

Here’s a taste of the questions that we dive into in this episode:

• “How often do you guys have sex each week? And is it something that ebbs and flows?”
  • We are all about quality over quantity
  • The amount of sex and when we have it is something that changes as Meg’s cycles and our lives change too
• “How do you make space for sex?”
  • For us this is more about making space for deep moments of intimacy and quality time
• “How do you have anal sex?”
  • This answer is a brief one, but lube!

We also chat about:

• Having technology free nights
• Speaking your fears around trying new things
• Factors that influence sex in a relationship, especially over time
• Cock worship and BJ’s
• Honouring the energy before having sex
• Making space for sexual polarity
• And much, much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

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Often in relationships we withhold or lean back in moments of tension and when we feel disconnected and wait until the storm passes. And this becomes a cycle that leads to resentment or a neutral relationship.

If you want a long term relationship that reaches the depths of intimacy and cracks your heart open this is for you.

Join us for this juicy conversation and a little story from us about leaning back into your partner and into your relationship in moments of tension.

We dive into…

• Consciously building a relationship with discomfort
• Why rites of passage and initiations are important in modern day culture
• Jacob’s relationship with authority
• Expectations around sex
• Being present and attuning to the truth of the moment
• Expressing how you feel in the moment
• Why we teach that someone doesn’t have to be right and someone wrong in tension
• Releasing the part of you that wants to be right
• Seeing your partner as a teammate
• Jacob’s journey to communicating in the moment or shortly after
• Feeling conflicted emotions simultaneously
• What to do when you lean in and your partner leans back
• Staying with your heart open even when it hurts
• Finding your edge
• A practice to break the cycle of leaning back
• And much, much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here.