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Episode 121: Be His Priestess Not His Coach W/ Leola 01 Oct 202501:08:54

ā€œWhen you stop mothering and start embodying, you become unforgettable.ā€

We went there with Leola. Straight into the shadows. Into pussy as the temple, the mystery school. Into the raw alchemy of rage, grief, lust, and power. Into the line between being a man’s coach or his priestess, and why only one will unlock real intimacy.

This isn’t theory. This is the truth about tantra, about the shame wired into our bodies, about the centuries-long war on the dark feminine. Leola doesn’t soften it, because she knows: the dark feminine is the portal. To sovereignty. To radiance. To sex that doesn’t just scratch an itch, but changes who you are.

If you’ve ever felt split between the ā€œgood girlā€ mask and the wild one clawing underneath, this episode is your permission slip to burn the script and take back your fire.

Here’s What We Dive Into:

  • Nervous system regulation as the gateway to power & pleasure
  • What it really means to ā€œdescend into your pussyā€
  • Light feminine, dark feminine, and their shadows explained
  • The 3 gifts of the dark feminine: sensuality, emotional alchemy & oracular power
  • How culture demonized women’s magic (and how we reclaim it)
  • Real talk on tantra beyond the sexual stereotypes
  • Why most sex in media & porn distorts reality for women
  • Loving men well: priestess vs coach energy in relationship
  • Parenting, sex ed & raising kids in a sex-positive home


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Episode 120: Our 7 Days of Sex17 Sep 202501:13:58

ā€œI love wanting you so badly I could tear your skin off — and slowing down enough to feel it in my whole body.ā€


We didn’t set out to make this an ā€œexperiment.ā€ We just had sex one night, remembered how fucking good it is, and said: what if we did this every day for a week?

So this is the real story of what happened when two new-ish parents, with a one-year-old co-sleeping, two businesses under one roof, and not a lot of free time… decided to make sex a daily devotional practice.

Some nights were primal and filthy, some nights tantric and slow, one night was just a blowjob (with all the frills), and one night flopped completely. But every single day cracked something open. More play. More hunger. More aliveness in the house.

We’re not handing out prescriptions here. We’re just telling you the truth of what happened when we made sex non-negotiable for seven days straight.

Here’s What We Dive Into:

  • Day 1 in Jacob’s teenage bedroom (Father’s Day sex, primal as hell)
  • The reality of parenting + co-sleeping and why intimacy gets shoved aside
  • ā€œThe tantric nightā€,Ā  soaking, breathing, and being with what is
  • Blowjobs as ceremony (why Meg refuses to do them without the frills)
  • The dark masculine: ravishing, claiming, and holding hunger with consciousness
  • How anal only works when there’s deep surrender and turn-on
  • The night that didn’t work, and why forcing sex never feels good
  • What seven days taught us about variety, discipline, and devotion

šŸ”„ Love this episode?Ā 

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šŸ”„ Let's stay connected:

Follow Meg: @the.meg.o

Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill

Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween

šŸ”„ Want more?

⚔ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie

⚔ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion

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⚔ Join Jacob in The Gathering of Men: https://theembodiedmaninstitute.org/tgom2025


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Ep 111: How to forgive quickly in relationship w/ Meg & Jacob 01 May 202500:59:55

"Devotion to love will ask you to put down the sword and pick up presence."

In today’s episode, we’re sharing a real and raw story straight from our recent road trip, baby meltdowns, car seat chaos, and all the feelings. What unfolded was a powerful reflection on devotion, forgiveness, and the quiet ways resentment creeps into relationships.

We’re talking about the difference between preference and truth, how to stay connected in discomfort, and why letting go is sometimes the most loving thing you can do.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a power struggle, holding onto the small stuff, or feeling like you need to be right… this one’s for you.


šŸ”„ Here’s what we get into:

  • Why forgiveness isn’t about words—it’s an energy
  • How holding onto "small things" kills intimacy
  • The truth about letting go without repressing yourself
  • The difference between preference and truth in love
  • Why your nervous system holds the key to deeper connection
  • How devotion shifts the dynamic from ā€œwinner/loserā€ to interdependence
  • Parenting, power struggles, emotional triggers… all of it.

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Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween


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Ep 21: Healing the 'high achiever' + business as an initiation24 May 202300:49:37

We’re going to take you on a journey.


This is a lot about healing and learning to love the parts of you that are scared.


In this episode we’re talking to the high achiever’s out there who have maybe been struggling with a difficult time in their life where they don’t feel like they’re getting th A+’s that they strive for.


We dive into…

  • Meg’s high school and uni days as a ā€˜high achiever’
  • Tying your worth into external achievements
  • Societal expectations and navigating perfectionism
  • Consciously meeting the shadow parts of you
  • How business allows Meg to hold space for the little girl that had to get an A+
  • Navigating the fear of failure in business
  • The conditioning of women to find their value in beauty
  • The season of business that we’ve been in recently and feeling really wobbly in life
  • Seeing an invitation back to faith in something greater than ourselves
  • And so much more!



LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - @sexloveeverythinginbetween
Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

Join Hot F*cking Love here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



Ep 20: Deep partnership = Being ruthlessly devoted to love17 May 202301:31:54

We all want relationships that are unfuckwithable, but we don’t know what it takes to get there.


How do we build trust and truth in relationships and deepen into them when society normalises contempt and avoiding challenges.?


The core piece here is a devotion to love and opening.


In this episode, we will explore depth, intimacy, letting love in and becoming ruthlessly devoted to leaning in.


We dive into…

  • Going beyond a transactional type relationship
  • Embracing your truth as an asset rather than a liability
  • Truth as a non-negotiable in our relationship
  • How terrifying trust and truth can be in a long term relationship
  • Deepening your relationship through a ruthless devotion to love
  • The 3 stages of relating
  • Allowing all parts of you and your partner into the relationship
  • Why it’s not about always getting it right
  • And so much more






LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - @sexloveeverythinginbetween
Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

Join Hot F*cking Love here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 19: How to navigate 'monotony' in a long term relationship15 May 202301:12:00

Today we want to talk about one of the biggest paradoxes of long-term relationships:

We want spontaneity, energy, mystery, the unknown.

AND

We want comfort, safety, certainty, continuity.

So how can you hold space for BOTH in your long-term relationships?

In this episode, we will explore how to navigate a season of 'monotony' in long-term relationships, and also share how we keep the more spontaneous energy alive.

In this episode, we talk about:

  • The mundane things we find sexy in each other
  • Moving through anxiety in your relationship
  • What it looks like to be on autopilot within your relationship
  • How to avoid sabotaging or creating drama
  • The safety in peaceful love and how to be content in tranquility
  • Creating significant moments of love and connection
  • How to create intensity, spontaneity or creativity in your relationship
  • And so much more!



LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - @sexloveeverythinginbetween
Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

Join Hot F*cking Love here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 18: The art of loving a man10 May 202301:21:37

If you’re a woman in a relationship with a man… this episode is a MUST listen. Ā 

We often hear A LOT about how men should love and treat women, but what about the other way around?Ā 

How can we as women really love up on our men?Ā 

Not in the way we want to be loved. But truly honour & understand how they desire to be loved.Ā 


In this episode, we will explore the art of loving a man and offer some practical tips and insights for women who want to deepen their connection with their man.Ā 


We dive into…

  • A man’s desire to serve something greater than himself
  • Having patience for the emotional process
  • Redefining vulnerability and courage for men
  • The overarching narrative of ā€œboys don’t cryā€ in our culture
  • Bringing awareness to tension in the body through physical touch
  • Your man is not a hairy woman
  • Offering your love to a man through non sexual touch
  • Creating a sense of nourishment and safety
  • Offering respect
  • Creating experiences for your man to honour you and show you his gifts
  • Celebrating your man for the things that he already does
  • Being playful in service of love
  • Why we used to do ā€œsingle saturdaysā€
  • Giving space to your man
  • And so much more





LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - @sexloveeverythinginbetween
Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

Join Hot F*cking Love here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 17: The art of loving a woman 03 May 202301:15:35

The feminine comes alive when she gives herself fully to whatever wants to move through her whether that’s deep sensitivity, tenderness, grief or any other feeling.


There is an art to loving a woman and providing her with the safe, emotional space that she needs to open her heart and fully be in the moment.


This is for anyone who has been, is or will be in a relationship with a woman or as a woman.


We dive into…

  • The different operating systems of men and women
  • Providing information to your man
  • The heart as the doorway to a woman’s p*ssy
  • Emotionally holding space for a woman
  • Bein willing, as women to open your heart and speak into the relationship
  • Why f*cking with closed hearts is a no for our relationship
  • Owning your needs and desires
  • Staying attuned to whether your woman’s heart is there
  • The responsibility of a man in a relationship
  • The goal of orgasm inhibiting a man’s ability to inhabit his body
  • Meeting your partner in the experience
  • Honouring your woman’s emotional range
  • How to stay with an love a woman in her emotions
  • Releasing distractions and offering a depth of presence
  • And much, much more!


LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

Join Hot F*cking Love here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



Ep 16: Q+A: How often do you have sex? + Anal 10126 Apr 202300:55:10

It’s time for another juicy Q & A session.

Here’s a taste of the questions that we dive into in this episode:

  • ā€œHow often do you guys have sex each week? And is it something that ebbs and flows?ā€
    • We are all about quality over quantity
    • The amount of sex and when we have it is something that changes as Meg’s cycles and our lives change too
  • ā€œHow do you make space for sex?ā€
    • For us this is more about making space for deep moments of intimacy and quality time
  • ā€œHow do you have anal sex?ā€
    • This answer is a brief one, but lube!


We also chat about:

  • Having technology free nights
  • Speaking your fears around trying new things
  • Factors that influence sex in a relationship, especially over time
  • Cock worship and BJ’s
  • Honouring the energy before having sex
  • Making space for sexual polarity
  • And much, much more!




LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



Ep 15: Leaning back in after tension19 Apr 202301:17:04

Often in relationships we withhold or lean back in moments of tension and when we feel disconnected and wait until the storm passes. And this becomes a cycle that leads to resentment or a neutral relationship.


If you want a long term relationship that reaches the depths of intimacy and cracks your heart open this is for you.


Join us for this juicy conversation and a little story from us about leaning back into your partner and into your relationship in moments of tension.


We dive into…

  • Consciously building a relationship with discomfort
  • Why rites of passage and initiations are important in modern day culture
  • Jacob’s relationship with authority
  • Expectations around sex
  • Being present and attuning to the truth of the moment
  • Expressing how you feel in the moment
  • Why we teach that someone doesn’t have to be right and someone wrong in tension
  • Releasing the part of you that wants to be right
  • Seeing your partner as a teammate
  • Jacob’s journey to communicating in the moment or shortly after
  • Feeling conflicted emotions simultaneously
  • What to do when you lean in and your partner leans back
  • Staying with your heart open even when it hurts
  • Finding your edge
  • A practice to break the cycle of leaning back
  • And much, much more!


LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



Ep 14: The Nice Guy, emasculation & wanting your man to 'be more Masculine'12 Apr 202301:18:49

This is for the woman who aches for her man to ā€˜be more Masculine’.
Ā 

For the woman who so deeply desires to feel her man as an unshakably trustworthy force in their relationship & the world.Ā 

When we met, and in the early stages of our relationship, Jacob was the nice guy, which on the surface level often seems like a great thing, but since then, as our relationship evolved and grew we’ve been on a journey away from Jacob being the nice guy, and that’s what we’re sharing today.


We dive into…

  • A woman’s role in emasculation
  • The dynamics of our early relationship
  • Meg the puppeteer
  • How Jacob being the nice guy made him willing to go against his internal compass
  • The archetype of a nice guy
  • The belief that a woman knows better
  • Meg’s discovery that she wanted a man who she could push and he wouldn’t fall over
  • Finding ā€œnoā€ sexy
  • Moving beyond the surface level of what you want in a partner
  • Wanting your man to lead
  • Jacob standing his ground and following his calling
  • How Meg allows space for Jacob to be a man that leads
  • Following through and trust in yourself
  • Honouring all parts of yourself at once
  • And much, much more!


LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



Ep 13: From 'good sex' to mind-blowing sex05 Apr 202301:01:11

There is a BIG difference between ā€˜good sex’ & sex that cracks your fucking heart wide open. One is simply about the body and the genitals. The other requires SO MUCH MORE. And today we talk ALL about it.Ā 


Join us for a very deep & juicy conversation.


We riff on… 

  • Meg’s recent ā€˜dark night of the Soul’
  • Big shifts in Meg’s business/ brandĀ 
  • Being devoted to the truth of the momentĀ 
  • How to have sex that ā€˜cracks your heart open’ 
  • The importance of letting your heart arrive during sexĀ 
  • The #1 practice for women who desire mind-blowing pleasureĀ 
  • Staying in the darkness to find liberation
  • Allowing space for partners self-pleasure
  • The stigma around sharing your emotions as a man
  • Releasing the end goal of sex
  • Why women often struggle to orgasm
  • The sex that is possible when a man brings safety to the relationship
  • Carnal desire and animalistic sex
  • Being devoted to being honest and releasing resentment in yourself and relationship
  • The importance of accessing vulnerability
  • And much much more!




LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 12: Monogamy + navigating desires outside of our relationship 29 Mar 202301:08:50

Join us for this beautiful, juicy and full conversation as we begin unpacking so much around desire.

This conversation starts with the question ā€œHave either of you ever desired another man or woman whilst in the relationship?ā€

The short answer is yes.

There is so much around desire that needs to be unpacked that can allow you to bring yourself more fully into your relationships and ultimately choose each other in a deeper way without becoming a running commentary of everything you desire.

We dive into…

  • Acknowledging that desire happens in monogamous relationships
  • Bringing desire for someone else into your relationshipĀ 
  • Creating distorted channels to have needs met
  • Meg feeling safe to speak about her desire towards someone else
  • Choosing each other in a deeper way
  • Our different experiences with contact dance
  • Navigating jealousy with an open heart
  • Beginning conversations so your partner feels seen
  • And so much more!Ā 


LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



EP 110: Parenting, Business & life updates, with Meg & Jacob03 Apr 202501:20:32

"I refuse to f*** with any of those stories."

This episode is a wake-up call.Ā 

We’re ditching outdated expectations and talking about what it really means to step into your power as a woman, a mother, an entrepreneur.Ā 

No fluff, no filters—just the raw, unfiltered truth about balancing ambition, identity, and sensuality without losing yourself in the process.Ā 

If you've ever felt torn between who you are and who the world expects you to be, this conversation is for you.

šŸ”„ Here’s what we get into:

  • Why ā€œhaving it allā€ is a lie (and what you should focus on instead)
  • The identity shift of stepping into motherhood & leadership
  • How to reconnect with your sensuality (even when life feels chaotic)
  • The silent ways pregnancy & birth reshape pleasure and desire
  • What true success looks like—without sacrificing your body or soul
  • The power of owning your truth, no matter who it makes uncomfortable


šŸ”„ Love this episode?Ā 

Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners!

šŸ”„ Let's stay connected:

Follow Meg: @the.meg.o

Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill

Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween

šŸ”„ Want more?

⚔ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie

⚔ Join CLAIMED: https://learn.meg-oneill.com/claimed-waitlist-thank-you-page-1

⚔ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date

⚔ Join Full Spectrum Woman: https://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman

Ready to dive deeper?Ā 

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Ep 11: Strip teases, awkwardness & leaning into vulnerability in relationship22 Mar 202301:00:52

Join us for a sexy conversation about the first time Meg did a strip tease for Jacob. HINT: It was kinda awkward.

We dive into…

  • An edge of our relationship that Meg is NOT keen to lean into
  • Where Jacob’s desire for privacy and space comes from
  • The first time Meg stripped for Jacob
  • Feeling awkward as a rite of passage on the way to becoming a fully expressed human
  • Vulnerability being different for each person
  • Stretching into the edges of your relationship
  • Getting clear on what you REALLY want
  • Jacob’s resentment
  • The gift of Jacob being direct and Meg softening
  • Attuning to the desires of your partner
  • And so much more



LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

ONE WEEK LEFT TO APPLY: Get all the juicy details and join Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 10: Porn, masturbation & the art of self pleasure 15 Mar 202301:11:29

From porn & masturbation to trying to have sex in Jacob’s childhood home & our relationship to self pleasure… this is one juiiiiiicy conversation.Ā 

Meg & Jacob take you on a behind the scenes look into their own journey of exploring their bodies & pleasure as teens to what ā€˜touching themselves’ looks like these days.

We cover:

  • Jacob’s childhood bathroom
  • How our journey with porn and masturbation has changed
  • Conscious prom consumptionĀ 
  • Understanding sexual energy and how to use it
  • Our commitment to quantity over quality
  • How we cultivate the hunger for sexual exploration
  • Meeting shame on the journey to becoming a SEXUALLY ALIVE HUMANĀ 
  • And so much more!




LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

ONE WEEK LEFT TO APPLY: Get all the juicy details and join Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



Ep 9: Is it bringing "ALL OF YOU" or is it projection? 14 Mar 202301:06:29

If you desire a relationship where ALL OF YOU is seen & celebrated… you must BRING ALL OF YOU.Ā 

Yes. This is true. Very true.Ā 

AND… 

This is not a permission slip to ā€˜vomit’ your projections all over your lover.Ā 


This is about learning to bring ALL OF YOU with an open heart.Ā 

In this episode we explore:

  • How bringing ā€œall of youā€ can play out in relationships in an unhealthy way
  • What the healthy expression of bringing ā€œall of youā€ looks like
  • How this can bring deeper intimacy and connection
  • Embracing the messier and darker sides of being a full spectrum woman
  • Where anger and rage can detract from connection
  • Why you can’t force your partner to celebrate all of you
  • How Meg welcomes all emotions and moves with them
  • And so much more!




LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

ONE WEEK LEFT TO APPLY: Get all the juicy details and join Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 



Ep 8: Our trip to a sex dungeon 08 Mar 202301:09:53

Our trip to a sex dungeon

Join us as we sip wine & tell the story of how Meg surprised Jacob with a trip to a sex dungeon at 10am on a Thursday.Ā 

Note: This episode is intense. NSFW and definitely not suitable for little ears. You’ve been warned ;)Ā 

Get ready for a play by play of Jacob's experience being dominated + all that arose for him along the way.
We explore…

  • Creating safety in spontaneity
  • Bringing your sexual energy out in the daytime
  • How to hold space for your partner to surrender and lose control
  • Confronting your fears and edges
  • Managing expectations in the bedroom
  • Communication and trust as the pathway to epic sexual experiences
  • Getting out of your head and releasing judgement of yourself
  • The dark masculine & dark feminine energies
  • Moving through shame
  • And so much more!



LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 7: From conflict to deeper connection 01 Mar 202301:11:34

Here's the truth... Tension is unavoidable in a relationship. When you're living & building a life with someone... of course there are going to be moments of hurt, disagreement, discomfort, stickiness.Ā 


This episode is devoted to learning how to lean into those moments of conflict & use them as a portal to DEEPER CONNECTION.

And as always we share the real, raw, honest behind the scenes of conflict & tension in our relationship.Ā 


We explore...Ā 

  • The inconvenient times Meg likes to 'process' tension
  • Meg's NEED for physical comfortĀ 
  • Embracing and owning your ā€œtoo muchnessā€ as a woman
  • Being Jacob & Meg as individuals in a deep relationship
  • Seeing your partner as an important part in your evolution
  • Jacob growing up feeling responsible for other people’s feelings
  • Meeting your own shadows and taking ownership of your feelings
  • Coming together as a team on the other side of conflict
  • Why we practice ā€œCan I have another go of that?ā€
  • And much more!




LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 6: Q+A (Babies, becoming parents & our love story) 22 Feb 202301:03:16

It’s time for another Q+A episode. You’ve submitted a bunch of saucy questions. And we spend time answering them.Ā 

Here’s some of what goes down in this episode:Ā 

  • ā€œFeels on having children?ā€Ā 
    • Jacob’s VERY enthusiastic about this one!!!!Ā 
    • Our deeper WHY around desiring childrenĀ  Ā Ā 
  • ā€œHave you guys discussed what your days would look like when you become parents?ā€Ā 
    • Our deep devotion to creating a family and being together and present as parents
    • Meeting the changes to our relationship and sex life when we get there
  • ā€œDo you feel pressure to keep up appearances in being seen as having an amazing relationship because of what you guys have built?ā€
    • Jacob’s feelings of shame around abandoning himself
    • Our work on becoming more resilient in our relationship
    • Why we’re so unfiltered with our relationship
  • ā€œHow did you guys get to know each other?ā€
    • The lighthearted and playfulness at the beginning of a journey
    • Meg’s enthusiasm and hand shaking
    • Where our lives were at when we met each other
  • And much more!



LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill And DM us with questions for our future Q+A episodes.Ā 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of MenĀ  here.Ā 

Ep 5: Polarity or the Patriarchy?15 Feb 202300:56:17

ā€œIf I hear another man in the online space telling a woman to ā€˜just surrender’… I’m going to lose it.ā€ - Meg

Buckle up, my friends. Meg gets REALLLLLL, REALLLLLL fired up in this one. šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„

Join us for a BIG conversation around… 

  • The harm dogmatic ā€˜sexual polarity’ teachings can have on womenĀ 
  • The Feminine is NOT just about ā€˜surrender’ 
  • Weaponising the ā€˜Masculine’ & ā€˜Feminine’
  • The importance of attunement & embodimentĀ 
  • The ā€˜uninitiated’ manĀ 
  • Porn + MasculinityĀ 
  • The importance of men’s workĀ 
  • It is NOT just the Masculine that leads in relationshipĀ 
  • And much more.Ā 


LINKS:

The Unfuckwithable Feminine

The Gathering of Men





Ep 4: "I didn't like my engagement ring." - Our imperfect engagement story08 Feb 202301:13:52

"I didn't like my engagement ring." - Our imperfect engagement storyĀ 

Okay, friends. This is a vulnerable one.Ā 

We got engaged back in December 2021. It was beautiful & magical. And VERY IMPERFECT.

Meg DID NOT like her engagement ring. And for the first time, we share the full story of how it all unfolded. And why it brought us even closer together.


LINKS:

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Ep 3: Q+A (the art of anal sex, desire in long term relationships & more)01 Feb 202301:13:27

Welcome to our first Q+A episode. You’ve submitted a bunch of saucy questions. And we spend time answering them.Ā 

Here’s some of what goes down in this episode:Ā 

  • ā€œTips for keeping a long term relationship fresh & fertile.ā€
    • Our realisation of spending too much time togetherĀ 
    • Deciding not to talk to each other one day a weekĀ 
    • The Feminine urge to spend every single moment with her partnerĀ 
  • ā€œButt stuff. Yay or nay?ā€Ā 
    • Why Meg loves anal sex
    • The shame + tabooness of exploring butt stuff as a hetero man
  • ā€œWhat makes you feel most sexy?ā€Ā 

  • ā€œHow to communicate what you want when dating without being OTT?ā€Ā 
    • The fear of being too much while dating/ in a relationship.Ā 
    • Holding your standards whilst datingĀ 
    • Cultivating deep trust in Life while ā€˜finding’ your personĀ 
  • ā€œWhat is cock worship?ā€Ā 
    • Falling in love with blow jobsĀ 
    • Tit-for-tat energy in sexĀ  Ā 
  • ā€œDo you go through slow periods with sex? So many ppl in the polarity space seem like sexy, happy rabbits ALL THE TIME?ā€ Ā 
    • Quality vs. Quantity of sexĀ  Ā Ā 
    • Feeling the pressure to have lots of sexĀ 
  • And much more.Ā 


ā€œWe expect one person to give us what once an entire village used to provide, and we live twice as long.ā€ - Esther Perel
Ā 

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

And DM us with questions for our future Q+A episodes.Ā 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men here.




Ep 2: Let's talk about sex01 Feb 202301:01:47

Let’s talk about sex.

We’ve been together over 8 years now and our sex life has expanded & evolved A LOT during this time. We spend this episode diving into the many, many ways our sex life has changed (for the better!) & how we meet the ā€˜practice of sex’ differently these days. Ā 

We talk about….Ā 


  • The first time we had sex
  • Sex as a performative action for women vs for pleasure
  • Expanding our definition of sex
  • Male-centric sex + pleasureĀ 
  • Porn
  • How a linear view of sex can leave women feeling broken
  • Female arousal
  • The emotional experience of sex
  • Jacob’s learning around holding space for Meg’s emotions and heart
  • Moving from having sex for pleasure to having sex for intimacy
  • The importance of a self-pleasure practice
  • Sex born from expectations and pressure
  • Meeting your partner in an intimate moment
  • Confusing neediness with desire
  • And much, much more



LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

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Ep 109: From Maiden to Mother in Business: The Evolution No One Talks About w/ Meghan Lee31 Mar 202501:17:54

"Motherhood in business isn’t about doing less—it’s about leading from a deeper place."


In this soul-shifting episode, Meg dives deep with Meghan into the unspoken initiation from Maiden to Mother in entrepreneurship. Whether you’re a literal mother or stepping into a new era of leadership, this transformation isn’t just about adding more responsibility—it’s about embodying a whole new version of yourself.

We’re breaking down the emotional, energetic, and strategic shifts that happen when you move beyond the hustle-and-grind approach and start leading from deep wisdom, presence, and power. If you’ve ever felt like you’re outgrowing old ways of doing business but don’t know what’s next, this episode is your permission slip to step into your next level.

Meg and Meghan also riff on:Ā 

  • The hidden initiations every woman goes through when stepping into leadership
  • Why ā€œdoing it allā€ is a trap (and what actually moves the needle)
  • How motherhood (literal or energetic) reshapes your business and creativity
  • The power of slowing down to speed up in business growth
  • Why softening into your feminine doesn’t mean losing your edge
  • The nervous system shifts required for sustainable success
  • How to stop making decisions from fear and start leading from intuition


šŸ”„ Connect with Meghan Lee:

Instagram: @thegroundedvisionary

Website: www.presencemedia.co


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Ep 1: When your man isn't 'stepping up'31 Jan 202301:12:50

This is for the woman who has ever thought… 

"I just want a man to melt into. "

ā€œWhere are all the conscious men.ā€Ā 


If you’ve felt frustrated etc.Ā 

This conversation is for you.Ā 


We talk about….
+ The importance of feeling connected before we have sexĀ 

+ The desire to be deeply met by a manĀ 

+ Becoming a woman willing to be heldĀ 

+ Relationships as an initiationĀ 

+ Typical husband-wife dynamic in pop culture - we’ve been conditioned to ā€˜nag’ 

+ Emasculation NEVER worksĀ 

+ Jacob’s history of being a YES man

+ Offering our partner grace while he learns to ā€˜hold us’ 

+ The ā€˜dark side’ of polarityĀ 

+Ā  How we nearly broke up 6 months into our relationship

+ Vulnerability as the portal to deeper partnershipĀ 

+ And much, much moreĀ 



LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men here.



Welcome to Sex, Love & Everything In Between25 Jan 202300:11:10

Welcome to Sex, Love & Everything in between.Ā 

We’re Meg & Jacob O’Neill and what a gift to have you here.Ā 

This podcast has been a long time cummmmmming.Ā 

This is going to be the place where we have allllll the very, very, very real & unfiltered conversations about sex, love & everything in between.Ā 

In this first episode we introduce ourselves & give you a bit of a taster of what this show is all about.Ā 

Big love!Ā 


LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneillĀ 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men here.


Ep 108: Becoming an Irresistible Invitation for Him to RISE w/ Jamie Elizabeth Thompson05 Mar 202501:05:44

A king doesn’t rise from pressure—he rises from your invitation.

What if the very thing you're doing to get your man to lead... is the exact thing blocking him from rising?

In this soul-stretching episode, Meg sits down with intimacy coach Jamie Elizabeth Thompson to unravel the lost feminine art of becoming an irresistible invitation—the kind of woman who inspires a man's devotion and leadership without ever needing to push, demand, or manipulate.

They dive into the three biggest shadows women bring into relationships—entitlement, manipulation, and affectation—and how they silently kill intimacy without you even realizing it.

If you're craving a relationship where your man steps up, claims you, and meets you in devotion—this episode will crack you open.


Meg and Jamie also riff on:

  • Why controlling your man actually weakens him
  • The myth of the "ready-made king" (why no man comes fully formed)
  • The difference between preferences vs. true feminine desire
  • The biggest mistake women make when trying to get a man to change
  • Why real masculine leadership requires you to surrender your ego
  • The secret to being claimed without forcing it
  • How to inspire a man’s devotion by fully embodying your feminine power


šŸ”„ Connect with Jamie Elizabeth Thompson:

Instagram: @_awakened_woman

Honeypot (Free live training to embody your turn-on and liberate your sensual aliveness): https://awakenedwoman.life/honeypot/


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#DivineUnion #FeminineEnergy #SacredRelationships #MasculineAndFeminine #ConsciousPartnership #PodcastForWomen #SpiritualRelationships #EmbodiedFeminine #IntimacyAndPolarity



Ep 107 - These types of men will NOT make you orgasm & more w/ Elena Rossi 26 Feb 202501:06:05

Your body already knows if a man is safe—are you listening to it?

Meg sits down with female libido specialist Elena Rossi to talk about the unspoken truth of women’s pleasure: safety is everything. If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t let go in the bedroom, why your libido is fading, or why some men just don’t do it for you—this episode will hit home.

Elena breaks down the 27 types of men women won’t orgasm with (yes, she made a list!) and how women confuse attraction with safety. They get into spiritual gaslighting, the illusion of conscious men, and why safety isn’t about muscles, words, or Instagram captions—it’s about how a man actually shows up.

Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode will change the way you think about sex, intimacy, and the kind of men you let into your body.


Meg and Elena also riff on:

  • What is the purpose of sex in a relationship?
  • Why so many women feel used in sex (and how to change it)
  • The illusion of ā€œsafeā€ men and why attraction ≠ safety
  • Why spiritual men aren’t always what they seem
  • The 27 types of men women won’t orgasm with
  • How resentment kills desire (and how to bring it back)
  • Three areas of safety every woman needs to check
  • The real reason your libido is disappearing


šŸ”„ Connect with Elena Rossi:

Instagram: @elenarossiofficial_

Website: https://elenarossiofficial.com/


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#FemalePleasure #SafeLove #ConsciousRelationships #FeminineEnergy #IntimacyMatters #SexualEmpowerment #WomenDeserveSafety



EP 106: Which Sacred Feminine Archetype Are You Ready to Reclaim?19 Feb 202500:44:37

"If a woman pushes down any part of her, she pushes down her power."

In this solo episode, Meg dives deep into the Sacred Feminine Archetypes Quiz—a tool designed to reveal the part of you that’s been suppressed the most and is now calling for reclamation. These aren’t just personality types; they’re portals to your liberation.

Whether you resonate with the fiercely expressed woman, the deeply feeling woman, the erotically alive woman, or the body-led woman, this episode will illuminate the archetype you’re most needing to step into for deeper embodiment, power, and feminine liberation.

Meg unpacks why these archetypes have been demonized for centuries, how they’ve shaped the way women experience their bodies and voices, and how reclaiming them can radically shift your life. If you’ve ever felt like you’re too much or not enough, this conversation is your invitation to remember who the f*ck you are.

Meg also riffs on:

  • Why you’re not just breaking cycles—you’re remembering ancient wisdom.
  • The women in your lineage who were once revered for their feminine power.
  • A plant medicine journey that cracked open a new level of embodiment.
  • How feminine energy isn’t something to ā€œlearnā€ but something to unleash.
  • The micro-decisions that make you a chain breaker every single day.
  • Why owning your voice, sexuality, and wild feminine fire changes everything.
  • How your liberation ripples through generations to come.

TAKE THE SACRED FEMININE ARCHETYPE QUIZ HERE


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Ep 105: Redefining Motherhood, Business & Sex - A New Paradigm w/ Kat River12 Feb 202501:12:45

"You can be it all, just not all at once."

Motherhood, business, intimacy—how do you hold it all without burning out or feeling like you’re constantly failing at one of them? In this raw and deeply honest episode, Meg sits down with Kat River to unpack the realities of juggling business, relationships, and motherhood without losing your sense of self.

Kat shares her unfiltered journey of stepping away from traditional business structures, redefining success, and creating a life where motherhood and creativity work together instead of competing. From sex and intimacy after kids to launching in a way that doesn’t drain your soul, this episode is a must-listen for any woman wanting to build a family-centered life and business—without sacrificing her own joy.


Meg and Kat also riff on:

  • Kat’s journey: From relationship coach to creative entrepreneur & mother
  • The myth of ā€œhaving it allā€ and why we need to stretch our timelines
  • Sex & intimacy after kids: Letting go of pressure & redefining connection
  • Balancing business & motherhood without feeling like you’re failing
  • Why fast launches burn moms out (and how to do it differently)
  • Redesigning your business to fit your family—not the other way around


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- Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill

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šŸ”„ Connect with Kat:

Instagram: @the.kat.river @themothermakers


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#MotherhoodAndBusiness #RedefiningSuccess #WorkLifeBalance #IntimacyAfterKids #FeminineLeadership #CreativeEntrepreneurship #SelfCareForMoms

Ep 104: For all the chain-breaking women06 Feb 202500:34:00

You are the woman rewriting what it means to be a woman in your lineage. You are the chain breaker."

Still getting used to solo episodes, Meg sits down for an intimate deep dive into what it means to be the woman who says, ā€œNo more.ā€ No more shrinking. No more silencing. No more carrying generational shame. This one’s for the women rewriting the rules, reclaiming their bodies, and remembering the power that has always been theirs.

This isn’t just about ā€œhealingā€ — it’s about remembering. About waking up the parts of you that generations before had to suppress. About standing in your full-spectrum feminine, untamed and unapologetic. Whether you’ve felt this awakening brewing inside or you’re just starting to recognize the weight of what you’re breaking free from, this episode will land deep.

Meg also riffs on:

  • Why you’re not just breaking cycles—you’re remembering ancient wisdom.
  • The women in your lineage who were once revered for their feminine power.
  • A plant medicine journey that cracked open a new level of embodiment.
  • How feminine energy isn’t something to ā€œlearnā€ but something to unleash.
  • The micro-decisions that make you a chain breaker every single day.
  • Why owning your voice, sexuality, and wild feminine fire changes everything.
  • How your liberation ripples through generations to come.

šŸ”„ Love this episode? Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners!

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- Follow Meg: @the.meg.o
- Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill
- Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween

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#ChainBreaker #FemininePower #GenerationalHealing #ReclaimYourPower #WildFeminine #BreakTheCycle #OwnYourVoice #UntamedWoman #AncestralWisdom #LiberatedWoman

Ep 103: Stop Weaponising the Masculine and Feminine29 Jan 202500:30:44

"Polarity isn't a weapon to get what you want - it's an art of moving through life together" - dive into this raw conversation about how masculine and feminine dynamics are meant to liberate, not control.

Still learning how to do podcast quickies, Meg and Jacob sits down and discusses the misuse of polarity in relationships. From Instagram gurus to red pill ideology, they break down why using masculine and feminine concepts to control your partner isn't just ineffective - it's missing the whole damn point of conscious partnership.

This isn't your typical polarity talk - it's a vulnerable exploration of how these energies can either liberate or suffocate your relationship. Whether you're deep in the polarity world or just curious about masculine-feminine dynamics, this episode offers fresh perspectives on creating authentic connection beyond rigid rules and roles.

They also riff off on:
- Why weaponizing masculine/feminine terms kills intimacy
- The difference between surface-level and deep polarity
- How to create safety instead of demanding change
- Understanding both light and dark aspects of each energy
- Moving beyond black and white relationship dynamics
- The art of dancing between energies naturally
- Creating space for both partners to be fully expressed
and so much more...

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#consciousrelationships #polarity #masculinefeminine #intimacy #sacredpartnership #relationships #podcast


Ep 102: Accepting your partner for who they are15 Jan 202500:50:23

ā€œWhat a gift to help your partner heal wounds you didn’t createā€ - get real about the messy, beautiful journey of accepting your partner exactly as they are, even when it triggers the fuck out of you.

Fresh off their accidental holiday break (thanks Christmas chaos!), Meg and Jacob dive deep into what true acceptance looks like in partnership. From those subtle moments of trying to change your partner’s essence to the profound healing that happens when you let them be exactly who they are, this conversation gets raw about the practice of loving someone’s full expression - awkward dance moves, loud laughs, and all.

This isn’t your typical ā€œjust love them for who they areā€ chat - it’s a vulnerable exploration of what happens when we dare to feel our own discomfort instead of trying to change our partner. Whether you’re the one holding back your true self or the one secretly wishing your partner would ā€œjust dress better for family events,ā€ this episode offers real talk about creating a relationship where both people feel free to be their messy, magnificent selves.

They also riff off on:
•The sneaky ways we try to control our partners
•Why saying ā€œI accept youā€ is the easy part
•How to handle your triggers when your partner is fully expressed
•Creating safety for the ā€œlittle boyā€ energy in men
•The difference between toxic behavior and authentic expression
•When it’s okay to speak up vs. when to practice acceptance
•The gift of healing through partnership

and so much more…

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#consciousrelationships #authenticity #acceptance #intimacy #healing #partnership #relationships #podcast

Episode 119: Why Men Matter & The Gathering Of Men10 Sep 202500:59:23

ā€œEvery man deserves a place to unravel, to be witnessed, and to remember who he is.ā€


In this episode we go straight into the heart of The Gathering of Men, the four-day immersion that has become a fire in the belly of men’s work in Australia. 200 men, fathers and sons, elders and young ones, leaders from across the country… all circling up to wrestle, to sing, to drum, to weep, to celebrate, and to remember what it really means to be a man.

Jacob shares what fatherhood stripped from him, how it forced him into deeper responsibility, and why suffering through life isn’t noble, it’s avoidance. He talks about the three pillars of the Gathering… challenge, celebration, and camaraderie, and why without brotherhood, none of it sticks.

If you’ve ever wondered what happens when men are willing to be raw, messy, creative, and real together, this is it.

šŸ”„Here’s What We Dive Into:

  • ā€œSuffering isn’t strength. The pain of becoming is.ā€
  • ā€œEvery boy deserves more than one father—he deserves a community of uncles.ā€
  • Why rites of passage matter (and what happens when men never get them)
  • How poetry, music, wrestling, and storytelling all belong at TGOM
  • The three pillars: challenge, celebration, and brotherhood
  • What happens when men stop proving themselves and start remembering themselves
  • Why TGOM is a prayer, not a product

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Ep 101: Conscious Relating: From Solo Poly to Sex Magic with Dane Tomas30 Dec 202401:14:43

ā€œSex magic isn’t just about pleasure - it’s about intentional creation through our erotic powerā€

Join Jacob for a raw and unfiltered conversation with one of the most fascinating voices in conscious sexuality and temple culture. From his journey through open marriage to solo polyamory, Dane Tomas brings a unique perspective that challenges everything you thought you knew about relationships, sexuality, and spiritual growth.

Together they explore how sex magic can be a powerful tool for manifestation, why the nervous system is key to navigating relationships, and what it really means to create authentic intimacy beyond conventional structures.

Whether you're curious about conscious relating, sacred sexuality, or expanding your understanding of intimacy, this episode offers fresh perspectives on creating authentic connections that honor your truth while respecting your nervous system's capacity for growth.

They also riff off on:
• The truth about polyamory vs monogamy
• Understanding your nervous system in relationships
• Creating sacred intimacy beyond sexual connection
• The power of intentional pleasure practices
• How to navigate different relationship structures
• Sex magic as a tool for manifestation
• Building authentic community and connection
• The art of conscious relating
and so much more...

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āš”ļøLet’s Stay Connected:
IG: @the.meg.o @thejacoboneill @sexloveeverythinginbetween

āš”ļøConnect with Dane:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dane.tomas/
The Dark Field - https://dane-tomas.mykajabi.com/the-dark-field
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/2m6mTZGRVkYRewc0PoNlRI

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#sacredsexuality #consciousrelating #sexmagic #intimacy #relationships #polyamory #spirituality #podcast



Ep 100: Celebrating 10 years and 100th podcast episode18 Dec 202401:06:15

ā€œWhen you witness me in my vulnerability, that’s when the real magic happensā€ - celebrating 100 episodes and 10 years of partnership with raw truths about love, growth, and choosing each other again and again.

In this milestone episode, Meg and Jacob get cozy on their infamous Moroccan rug (yes, that $2500 investment that changed everything) to reflect on a decade of conscious partnership. From their first meeting at Ray Organics to becoming parents and podcast hosts, they share the intimate moments, sacred ceremonies, and everyday choices that have shaped their journey together.

This isn’t just another anniversary episode - it’s a deep dive into how 100 episodes of uncensored conversations and 10 years of devoted partnership have taught them what’s possible when you commit to seeing each other’s highest truth.

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting out, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on what’s possible when you allow love to evolve beyond your comfort zone. Get ready for deep insights, vulnerable shares, and practical wisdom about creating a partnership that keeps expanding.

They also riff off on:
• The art of witnessing each other’s evolution
• Why trust is an active practice in partnership
• How to support your partner’s expansion
• Creating safety for vulnerability
• The power of choosing each other daily
• Navigating different seasons of love
• Sacred sexuality and transcendent connection
• Their favorite moments from 100 episodes together
and so much more…

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Ep 99: Our Birth Story - Part 4: Post Partum04 Dec 202400:56:18


ā€œFor me, motherhood feels life-givingā€

Meg shares her raw truths about the sacred transition from maiden to mother in this intimate postpartum conversation.

Join Meg and Jacob as they talk about their first 8 weeks of parenthood, sharing how they’ve created a deeply nourishing postpartum experience through community, sacred partnership, and the art of receiving. From body changes to sleep , they answer your burning questions about the reality of a newborn.

This is a raw, unfiltered look at how intentional preparation and community support can transform those early weeks with a baby, into a time of expansion rather than depletion. Whether you’re preparing for parenthood, supporting new parents, or simply curious about conscious parenting, this conversation will change how you think about the postpartum period forever.


They also riff off on:
• How to create and receive community support
• The truth about postpartum body changes
• Co-sleeping and nighttime parenting
• The transition from maiden to mother
• Creating sacred postpartum rituals
• The power of meal trains and community care
• Navigating relationship changes
• Physical healing and recovery
• Finding rhythm instead of routine
and so much more…

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šŸ”„ Ā Listen to the other episodes here:
Ep 95: Birth story Part 1: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ep-95-our-birth-story-part-1/id1667686687?i=1000675946442

Ep 96:Birth Story Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ep-96-our-birth-story-part-2/id1667686687?i=1000676851388

Ep 98: Birth story Part 3: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ep-98-our-birth-story-part-3-q-a/id1667686687?i=1000678553472

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Ep 98: Our Birth Story - Part 3: Q&A28 Nov 202401:07:57

We're getting deep and real about bringing Oisin earthside, answering all your questions about birth, fear, and how partners can dance together in this sacred ceremony of birth. Meg shares her journey of complete surrender while Jacob reveals how he learned to hold space without getting in the way.

This isn't your typical birth story - it's a raw, unfiltered look at what happens when you trust your body's ancient wisdom and let go of everything you think birth "should" be. Whether you're preparing for your own birth journey, supporting someone who is, or just curious about what unassisted birth really looks like, this conversation will change how you think about birth forever.

They also riff off on:
• Why we chose to birth without fear (and how we got there)
• The delicate dance of masculine presence in birth
• How to support without saving
• What real surrender feels like in labor
• Creating an unbreakable birth bubble
• Building trust before the big day
• The art of holding space (without hovering)
• Preparing your nervous system for birth
• Protecting your sacred space
and so much more...

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šŸ”„ Ā Listen to the other episodes here:
Ep 95: Birth story Part 1: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ep-95-our-birth-story-part-1/id1667686687?i=1000675946442

Ep 96:Birth Story Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/ep-96-our-birth-story-part-2/id1667686687?i=1000676851388

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Ep 97: The Sacred Role of Brotherhood in Modern Fatherhood with Adam Jackson20 Nov 202401:07:13

The mask you wear isn’t the man you are - discover how authentic brotherhood and fatherhood transform modern masculinity in this week's newest episode with Adam Jackson.

Jacob sits down with Adam Jackson, co-founder of Sacred Sons, for an intimate and unfiltered conversation about what it truly means to be a man, father, and leader in today’s world. From birth portals to brotherhood circles, we dive deep into the journey of authentic masculinity.

This episode is a powerful reminder that true strength comes not from doing it all alone, but from having the courage to be seen, supported, and held by your brothers. Whether you’re a father, on your men’s work journey, or simply seeking deeper connection, this conversation will inspire you to step more fully into your authentic power.

They also riff off on:
• The sacred initiation of becoming a father
• Why men need to take off their masks and get real
• How men’s circles create profound transformation
• The power of receiving vs always giving
• Moving from lone wolf to supported brother
• Birth as a ceremonial portal
• The ancient technology of men’s circles
• Learning to ask ā€œis there more?ā€ and ā€œhow can I support you?ā€
• Balancing service to family with service to community

and many more.

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Website: sacredsons.com

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Ep 96: Our Birth Story - Part 213 Nov 202401:40:14

Welcome to this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything In Between! Join Meg and Jacob O’Neill as they share the raw and beautiful story of their unassisted home birth. They take you through every moment, from the gentle flow of early labor to the deep, powerful sounds that welcomed their son, Oisin, into the world.

Meg opens up about how she tapped into the ancient wisdom of her body, fully embracing the intensity of each surge. ā€œLetting the ancient wisdom of my body vocalize through me,ā€ she shares, highlighting the beauty of surrendering to this incredible experience. Jacob reflects on his role as a steady support, creating a safe space for Meg during this transformative journey. Together, they dive into themes of trust, simplicity, and the healing power of being witnessed by another mother.

Whether you’re curious about free birth, what labor really feels like, or the deep connections between birth and ceremony, this conversation is a heartfelt reminder of the strength and intuition that come with bringing new life into the world.

They also riff off on:

  • How Meg’s embodiment practices guided her through labor
  • Meg describes the deep sounds that emerged during labor—not screams, but a guttural expression of her body’s wisdom.
  • The importance of having a supportive birth keeper
  • Jacob’s thoughts on masculinity and supporting a birthing partner
  • The unexpected turns during labor that brought both joy and confrontation.
  • Tips for creating a sacred and distraction-free space for birth

and many more!

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Listen to Part 1 of the Birth Story here:Ā Ep 95: Our Birth Story Part 1

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Ep 95: Our Birth Story Part 1 06 Nov 202401:14:08

In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Meg O’Neill shares the story of her journey to becoming a mom. From finding out she was pregnant to making big choices like having a wild pregnancy (no doctors, no scans, just trusting her body), Meg opens up about what it felt like to prepare for their baby, Oisin, to come into the world.

Meg and Jacob talk about learning to handle their worries, staying strong together, and trusting that everything would be okay. Meg explains how they created a safe, loving space at home to welcome their son, showing that birth isn’t just about the moment he arrives, but the whole journey leading up to it.

They also riffed off on:

•Choosing a Different Path: Why Meg and Jacob decided on a wild pregnancy and free birth.

•Handling Fear with Love: How Jacob faced his worries and stayed present for Meg.

•Staying Calm in the Unknown: Meg’s biggest practice was trusting the timing, even when it was hard.

•Creating a Safe Space: Why having a calm, loving home made all the difference.

•Perfect Timing: The special way Oisin chose to come into their lives, making everything feel just right.

and many more.

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Listen to the Episode: Ep 88: Preparing for Birth as a Rite of Passage

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Ep 94: The healing power of Yoni Massage with Kiki Maree23 Oct 202401:49:55

In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Meg O’Neill sits down with Kiki Maree, a master of Yoni massage and Tantric healing. Together, they explore how these sacred practices can help you reconnect with your body, release hidden pain, and rediscover your own pleasure.


Kiki shares her deep knowledge of Yoni massage—not just as a form of touch, but as a healing practice that allows women to let go of trauma stored in the pelvis. Whether it’s past emotional wounds or the physical aftermath of childbirth, Yoni massage creates space for healing and empowerment in a way that feels natural and intuitive.

Meg and Kiki also dig into the power of Tantric massage. This isn’t about sex—it’s about using sexual energy to balance your emotions, open yourself up, and connect more deeply with yourself and others.


šŸ”„ They also riff off on:

•Yoni Healing: What it means to heal from the inside out and take control of your pelvic health.

•Tantric Rituals: Using sexual energy for emotional and spiritual balance.

•Pelvic Wellness: Why tuning into your pelvic health is key to experiencing deeper pleasure and connection.

•Meg’s Personal Journey: How Yoni massage helped her prepare for childbirth, both physically and emotionally.

•Self-Empowerment: Simple ways to reclaim your body and deepen your relationships.

and many more...

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šŸ”„ Connect with Kiki:
Instagram: @yonilicious @kiki.maree |
Website: https://www.yonilicious.com.au/

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Ep 93: What is your Relationship Archetype w/ Rory Kilmartin16 Oct 202401:02:03

In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill invites relationship researcher Rory Kilmartin to dive deep into the hidden dynamics that drive conflict and connection in our relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you’re caught in the same arguments over and over again, it’s time to explore what might be going on beneath the surface.

Rory has spent over 30 years researching human relationships, uncovering the invisible forces that shape how we relate to others—and ourselves. He’s turned one of life’s great mysteries into a body of knowledge that few have even come close to understanding. Through his years of conversations, interviews, and study with elders from around the world, Rory has decoded why good people sometimes create difficult dynamics—and how to finally make sense of it all.

Could your archetypal nature be dictating your relationship struggles? Rory’s groundbreaking work invites you to discover which archetype you unconsciously embody, and how this shapes your behavior in ways you may not even realize. Find out how knowing your archetype can transform your most important relationships.

šŸ”„ Key points they riff on:

•How uncovering your archetype can explain every argument you’ve ever had

•Why understanding these hidden dynamics leads to instant clarity and harmony

•The difference between reacting from survival vs. responding from maturity

•Why you think you’re being loving—but your partner perceives the opposite

•Moving from confusion to clarity in all your relationships, from romance to family

Rory’s work isn’t just another relationship theory—it’s a practical guide to transforming the way you understand and engage with others. If you’re ready to break free from old patterns, this episode is for you.


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šŸ”„ Connect with Rory:
• Visit Archetypal Relationships: https://archetypalrelationships.com/

• Take the free archetypal quiz here: https://archetypalrelationships.com/quiz
• Email info@rorykilmartin.com to book a call with Rory's team and learn more about their programs, mentioning this podcast for a special deal.
• Go to www.AR-calendar.com to schedule a call with Rory's team, again mentioning this podcast.

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Ep 92: Masculine leadership w/Jose Alejandro - Finding harmony in your vision and your relationship09 Oct 202401:09:15

This isn’t about suppressing what you’re feeling; it’s about expanding your capacity to be with whatever life throws your way.

In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill sits down with life & embodied leadership coach, impact-driven brand strategist, somatic practitioner, men's work facilitator and apprentice rite of passage guide, Jose Alejandro, for a candid conversation on navigating the complexities of modern manhood. They dive deep into what it means to show up fully in relationships and life, even when it feels overwhelming.

Jose opens up about the struggles men face when balancing the demands of relationships and personal growth, and how rites of passage can help cultivate resilience, emotional regulation, and a sense of purpose.


They also riff on:

•Jacob’s raw confession about the anxieties of becoming a father

•Why integrating emotions isn’t just about intellectual understanding, but somatic practice

•Jose’s transformative journey from corporate burnout to embodied leadership

•The dangers of bypassing embodied practices for intellectual solutions

•The power of boundaries as acts of love

•Finding clarity and power through rites of passage

•The importance of checking in with yourself and owning your emotional state

•Why ā€œholding it all togetherā€ doesn’t mean doing it all

And so much more…


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šŸ”„ Connect with Jose:

•Visit his website: www.josealejandro.co

•Instagram: @rjose_alejandro


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Episode 118 - Kill the Nice Guy w/ Traver Boehm 27 Aug 202501:23:32

ā€œWhen good men get their wants and needs met, the whole world benefits.ā€

Meg’s off holding it down at her feminine leadership retreat, so I’ve got the mic today with one of the most solid brothers in men’s work, Traver Boehm from Man Uncivilized.Ā 

We went straight in.Ā 

No tiptoeing, no ā€˜be nice so everyone’s comfortable’ shit.Ā 

We’re talking about how men lose themselves trying to please women, how to stop living as a servant to the queen, and what it actually takes to reclaim your mission.Ā 

We got into the initiations that strip you back to your bones, the kind you don’t buy a ticket for, and why they’re the making of you if you’ve got the balls to stay in them.Ā 

This is about remembering who the fuck you are and leading your life like it matters.

šŸ”„Here’s What We Dive Into:

  • The epidemic of men living as ā€œservants to the queenā€ instead of sovereign leaders
  • Why your ego’s dream life might burn you to the ground, and how to find what your soul actually wants
  • The terrifying leap from control to purpose, and why it’s magnetic as hell
  • How to step into your full power without destroying the people around you
  • Dark nights of the soul as sacred gateways, not tragedies
  • What real initiation looks like (hint: it’s not a weekend workshop)
  • Why the medicine of an initiation has to be integrated back home
  • The role of elders and how to rebuild real community around them
  • Finding joy even in the middle of your deepest tests
  • The dangerous gift: being willing to risk your identity for something bigger


About Traver Boehm

Traver Boehm is the author of the books ā€œToday I Riseā€, ā€œMan UNcivilizedā€ and ā€œ28 Days In Darknessā€.Ā 

He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement.Ā 

He’s helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.

He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.

Connect with Traver: @traverboehm
Website: manuncivilized.com


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Ep 91: From Corporate to Tantra w/ Anthea Balfour02 Oct 202401:15:01

ā€œI can have it all and nothing. I can be it all and nothing.ā€

It’s not about controlling the moment; it’s about surrendering to the tension and letting it transform you.

In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob gets raw and real with the incredible Anthea Balfour,Ā  a somatic psychotherapist and tantric healer, diving into the space where masculine strength meets vulnerability.

Anthea shares how Tantra and shadow work guide us into meeting the scariest parts of ourselves—our deepest fears, desires, and vulnerabilities—and how integrating this helps us heal and create true intimacy with ourselves and others. Through her work, Anthea has witnessed men and women transform their relationship to power, pleasure, and emotional integrity.

They also riff off on:

•Understanding why men struggle to hold space without trying to fix or perform

•The power of Tantra in helping us embrace our shadows and cultivate emotional and energetic integrity

•How men can heal their fear of power and sex through the support of women

•Breaking free from routine and stepping into true discipline—without losing your edge

•How women can invite men into deeper connection without emasculating them

•The fear women secretly harbor around strong men and how we can heal it

•Building emotional integrity that actually fortifies your love life

and many more...


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- The O Room: matryarch.com/anthea
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_theantheabalfour

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Ep 90: Q+A: Kink, keeping the passion alive & communicating desires 25 Sep 202401:06:36

We’re back with another juicy episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between!

In this episode, Meg and Jacob dive deep into a raw, vulnerable conversation about opening up new desires in the bedroom. Whether it's craving some playful kink or yearning for more sensual connection, this episode gets into the nitty-gritty of how to invite your partner into your fantasies in a way that feels aligned and safe for both of you. Let’s talk about being bold, breaking through the "routine," and tapping into what really turns you on—without guilt or judgment.

Meg vulnerably shares her experience navigating her pregnancy with trust and surrender, while Jacob reflects on how personal rituals can deepen the bonds we share. They show us that intimacy goes way beyond the physical—it's about inviting your partner into your inner world.

They riff off on:

  • How to express new desires and fantasies without making your partner feel like they’re doing something ā€œwrongā€
  • Building a foundation of trust and communication that lets you be both wild and vulnerable
  • Leading with curiosity and openness—because that’s where the magic lives!
  • Using everyday moments to create deeper intimacy, even when life is busy
  • The importance of taking ownership of your pleasure and inviting your partner to join you there

and many more...

If you're ready to hear the real, unfiltered truth about birth, surrender, and embracing every aspect of this intense rite of passage, this episode is for you.

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Ep 89: Harmonising humanity, honouring nature and death as our greatest teacher18 Sep 202401:09:30

Hey lovers, welcome back to Sex, Love & Everything in Between!Ā 

This week, Jacob O’Neill sits down with a powerhouse guest, Samson Odusanya, to dive deep into the themes of masculinity, pain, and what it truly means to create harmony in a world obsessed with control and balance.

Jacob kicks off with a heartfelt intro about how he connected with Samson through mutual friends and was blown away by his depth, presence, and the way Samson weaves truth into everything he shares. Together, they explore how modern society’s obsession with quick fixes and control often disconnects us from the natural flow of life—and how true harmony is about embracing change and flowing with the seasons of life.


They riff off on:

•The importance of voluntary discomfort and leaning into challenges as a way to grow as men.

•Samson’s powerful perspective on harmony vs. balance and how the latter is an illusion.

•Jacob’s emotional story of family, legacy, and the strength of the women in his lineage, beautifully illustrating the power of love and resilience through death and rebirth.

•How pain, both physical and emotional, is a necessary part of life’s initiation process, especially for men on their path to becoming fathers, husbands, and leaders.


This episode is a raw, vulnerable, and transformative conversation that will resonate with anyone looking to deepen their connection to themselves, their family, and the world around them.


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• @samsons_strength

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Ep 88: Preparing for Birth as a Rite of Passage11 Sep 202401:02:08

In today’s episode, Meg and Jacob O'Neill dive into the ultimate rite of passage: preparing for the birth of their first child.

As Meg approaches 38 weeks, they reflect on the emotional and physical journey of pregnancy and the intensity of the birth process. This isn't just a logistical challenge—it's a deep, spiritual initiation that’s asking both of them to surrender to the unknown. With Jacob humorously navigating the "holy grail" of nursing chairs and Meg embodying trust in her body’s wisdom, they explore what it really means to meet this moment with presence, humor, and raw authenticity.

They riff off on:

  • The surreal experience of waiting for their lives to change, with no fixed schedule for when the baby will arrive.
  • Meg's powerful intention not to manifest a "perfect" birth, but to fully surrender to whatever comes.
  • The deep trust they’ve developed with their birth keeper, Leslie, and how she nourishes Meg in ways she never knew she needed.
  • The unexpected healing that’s emerging for both of them, especially Jacob as he reflects on the masculine role in the birth process.

and many more...

If you're ready to hear the real, unfiltered truth about birth, surrender, and embracing every aspect of this intense rite of passage, this episode is for you.

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