SEX ED FOR YOU: Where Research Meets Reality – Details, episodes & analysis

Have you ever met someone in their early twenties and found it impossible to connect? Or caught yourself cringing at a young couple’s codependency? If so, this episode is for you! We kick things off by discussing age-appropriate sex education for kids—essential lessons that lay the groundwork for understanding relationships, consent, self-advocacy, and body autonomy. From there, we explore how common relationship stereotypes often stem from a lack of these foundational lessons and examine how this gap impacts adult relationships today.

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SEX ED PREP FOR PARENTS COURSE

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator & Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach.

Between Martha Stewart and the trending TradWife content, there’s been a lot of talk lately about women and their roles in society. Today, we dive into the nuances of what it means to be a bitch who bakes casseroles, despite the chastisement of societal norms.

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator & Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach.

Do you find yourself hating your birthday every year? Maybe you’re used to a heaping sense of disappointment when you allow yourself to anticipate a perfect day that ends up falling short of your unspoken expectations. In this episode, we talk about Lauren’s perfect birthday weekend– celebrating her daughter’s birthday and her own. Lauren gives us her recipe for a perfect birthday– asking for what you want. Then, Holland talks about her most recent disappointing birthday experience that fell short of communicated desires and expectations; proving a relationship was not the right fit. If you’re not yet convinced of how the Wheel of Consent is integrated into every single human experience; this episode may just convince you.

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Well, when you put your life on a podcast you should expect to be held accountable for your actions. We are not perfect, but we do our best to hold ourselves accountable for our actions and impact. Lauren leads us in a game that encourages the players to define themselves apart from their relationships; guiding us to think about how our values shape the lives we lead. We talk through one of our favorite worksheets that walks you through Accidents vs Violations and steps to repair.

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• REPAIR WORKSHEET (CODE: FUCKUP) 
• MX Sizzle

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator & Embodied Coach.

Lauren returns from her training-- Like A Pro: The Wheel of Consent with even more wisdom than before. Lauren breaks down the WOC and tells us more about the basic principles of consent. Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Seasons of change often bring immense discomfort, including bodily discomfort. Lauren takes us through her weekend of detrimental sickness that led to clarity in decisions to close important chapters and move forward into new opportunities.

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

A conversation centered around the JOY that comes from trusting your own intuition and following through for self. Holland talks about being recognized in public for the first time as well as a recent recognition from a friend. Lauren gives her in depth story about how she came into sexuality education and the internal wisdom she had to follow to find it. 

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Episode 43 is at its core, about the fact that self-care, in whatever form you most need, is not villainous. I discuss my most recent experience with revoking consent in favor of self-care and Lauren touches on respecting her own needs when others draw on her energy. We also discuss a new modality that Lauren is learning about in her Embodied Coaching Course: MEBES. Love, H

03:30 Consent & Revoking Consent

08:00 Pleasure Cannot Be Given or Received- Dr. Betty Martin

09:30 Be the Villain in Someone Else’s Story

13:20 Meh Means No

16:00 Schedule Space for Sex

18:30 Willing vs Unwilling

22:30 How Did H Cancel Her DC Trip?26:00 H’s Situationship with Clear Boundaries

32:26 MEBES

40:00 Pls Cancel “Hey How Are You”

44:50 Self Care Isn’t Villainous

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

Follow along as we walk through the process of selecting new values for SEX ED FOR YOU; detailing mine and Lauren’s personal stories of why values are so important to us as business people and just plain ol’ people people. 

Values Blog Post

Sex Ed Prep for Parents 

Find Your Why

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

Here it is!! The most comprehensive list of all the products, games, and tools we recommend to clients and friends alike. This list will give you everything you need to know about the some of the coolest brands available in the field of sex and sexuality.

• We're Not Really Strangers
• The Date Deck
• Intimacy Cards
• The KIWI; code STRETCHY
• OhNuts; code SEXEDFORYOU
• Lauren's OhNuts story in Episode 5
• Intimate Rose Pelvic Wand
• Momotaro Apotheca Salve
• Momotaro Apotheca Suppository
• Emergency Contraceptives: Julie and Winx
• The Future Method, Dr. Goldstein's Butt Seriously
• Dame "Zee" Bullet
• Dame "Eva" Vibrator
• Maude Vibrators and Wellness
• Thump by Bellesa
• The Slippery Stuff Lube
• Snail Dispenser
• SKYN Latex-Free Condoms
• ONE Condoms Sizing Kit
• Lorals Safe Oral Sex Undies
• SEFY Episode on STI Testing

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)