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Embracing Vulnerability & Connection - Christopher Veal

In this episode of Safe Harbour, with the challenge of a dodgy Internet connection...

Host Jamie Robins and guest Christopher Veal engage in a heartfelt conversation about the importance of vulnerability and connection for men.

They discuss the challenges men face in seeking help, the significance of emotional intelligence, and how to navigate grief and personal growth. Through their personal experiences and reflections, they explore how societal norms and personal narratives shape male behavior, and the importance of authentic connections for emotional well-being.

They also touch on the role of fathers in modeling healthy behaviors for their children. As the episode unfolds, they emphasize the need for men to support each other, seek therapy without stigma, and embrace their full emotional spectrum. The episode concludes with a mention of Christopher’s upcoming book on inclusive leadership. 00:00 Introduction to Safe Harbor Podcast 01:22 Meet Christopher Veal 02:49 Discussing Vulnerability and Grief 09:22 The Importance of Connection 15:48 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth 18:29 Navigating Fatherhood and Personal Growth 18:50 The Importance of Therapy and Friendship 20:17 Breaking the Stigma Around Men's Mental Health 23:18 Emotional Intelligence and Gender Norms 26:14 Modeling Healthy Masculinity for the Next Generation 29:06 The Role of Accountability and Integrity 31:28 Upcoming Projects and Reflections 33:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Christopher Veal

A former Marine officer, combat veteran, and black man with 25 years of experience in talent development, Christopher supports leaders to embrace the vulnerability, courage, and compassion required in elevating their leadership influence and creating leaders with greater impact and results. He has worked in government, healthcare, tech, and banking to help grow internal leadership talent and capacity.

He is the author of The Whole Man, and host of The Vulnerable Man podcast.LinkedIn: 

https://www.linkedin.com/in/christopherveal/

The Whole Man: https://www.wholemanjourney.com/

The Vulnerable Man podcast: https://www.vulnerable-man.com/

Navigating Fatherhood & Modern Masculinity - Ken Mossman

In this episode of Safe Harbor, host Jamie welcomes Ken Mossman, a seasoned men's coach, to discuss the complexities and realities of modern fatherhood and masculinity. They delve into the importance of having real conversations with your children, the impact of social media on relationships, and the cultural loss of eldership and rites of passage. They also touch on the challenges of guiding young men in a world filled with negative influences. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, Jamie and Ken offer a heartfelt dialogue on what it means to be a man today.

00:00 Introduction to Safe Harbor Podcast

01:40 Welcoming Ken Mossman

03:12 The Importance of Eldership

07:09 Dad's Camp and Fatherhood

11:56 Challenges Facing Young Men Today

20:52 The Role of Rites of Passage

25:06 Creating Open Conversations with Kids

32:52 Ken's Personal Story on Parenting

37:47 Conclusion and IAM Program

39:20 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

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In today's episode, Jamie and Phil bring this age-old topic into the spotlight for a closer look. Exactly what is it that men struggle with when it comes to talking authentically? They offer up some tangible ways that we can encourage and support the men in our lives to dare to share more readily.

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This week, Jamie and Phil reflect on the changing season, how to psychologically prepare for winter, and some great ways to reconnect to yourself in order to stay present, mentally strong and grounded.

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In this show Phil and Jamie look at joy, exploring the struggles we often face in giving ourselves permission to experience joy. They then go on to offer up ways that you can act on what brings you alive right now, as opposed to waiting for the perfect day.
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In this episode, Phil and Jamie talk about overwhelm, describing how this powerful feeling can affect us and hijack our thinking. They also offer up some different ideas for you to try out that could help alleviate it in your own life.
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Phil and Jamie explore how 2020 has been so far, what expectations they had at the beginning of the year and how things have subsequently transpired. Looking forwards, how can we approach 2021 with all that we've experienced?
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Safe Harbour is a brand new podcast from Phil Askew and Jamie Robins, two coaches living in England, who acted on their urge to launch a Podcast in the thick of the global 2020 pandemic. The intention is to create a series of conversational shows exploring a wide range of topics from mental health and wellbeing through to purpose, mission and direction. 

Join Phil and Jamie in this very first episode as they talk about their journey’s to becoming coaches, the life circumstances and critical events that coloured their interpretation of the world and what that meant for their futures.
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Radical Changes and Nature Connection with Sam Adams

In this episode of Safe Harbor, host Jamie welcomes guest Sam Adams who shares an extraordinary personal journey of transformation. After a near-fatal accident, Sam made a significant life change from landscaping to becoming a nature connection guide and personal development coach. Highlights include Sam's courageous decision to follow his calling, the importance of rewilding in modern society, and practical insights into deepening one's connection with nature. The episode also explores the unique challenges and therapeutic benefits of reconnecting with nature, especially for urban dwellers. Jamie and Sam discuss the critical need for men to embrace both their masculinity and femininity, providing inspiration for men to lead more authentic and connected lives. Sam shares his upcoming projects and events with First Men, a nature-based men's group focused on personal growth and rewilding practices.

00:00 A Near-Death Experience and a Wake-UpCall

00:39 Welcome to Safe Harbor Podcast

01:29 Introducing Sam Adams

02:01 Sam's Radical Honesty and Life Transition

02:54 The Courage to Follow Your Calling

04:39 The Pilgrimage and New Beginnings

05:34 Launching the Nature Connection Coaching

06:32 Jamie and Sam's Shared Experiences

09:26 Embracing the Death of Old Ventures

11:36 The Importance of Nature Connection

22:46 Challenges and Solutions in Reconnecting with Nature

31:27 First Men: A Unique Men's Retreat

34:16 Conclusion and Farewell

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In this episode, we'll discuss the significance of Beginner's Mind in our lives and how a lack of an open and curious mindset can impact our mental well-being. We'll also reflect on our own relationship with Beginner's Mind and explore why it can be hugely challenging to cultivate depending on the circumstance.

We'll share strategies for developing Beginner's Mind in our daily lives and offer tips and ideas to get you started.

Join us as we share insights and personal experiences on the topic of Beginner's Mind, and learn how this mindfulness principle can help us achieve a greater sense of peace and well-being.

Remember, if you or someone you know is struggling with mental health, don't hesitate to seek professional help. You are not alone.

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