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Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield,Carly Harris

Kids & Family

Frequency: 1 episode/8d. Total Eps: 138

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com NEW EPISODE EVERY THURSDAY PATREON EPISODE EVERY MONDAY https://linktr.ee/Notasweplanned Producer: Tristan Hehir

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53. My Husband Had an Affair With a Lesbian

Season 1 · Episode 53

jeudi 25 juillet 2024 • Duration 44:52

When he’s playing away from home with 3 different women, finding out your husband is having an affair with a lesbian, and the continued abuse from the ex wife. Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

52. Not Just Another One… Another 3

Season 1 · Episode 52

jeudi 18 juillet 2024 • Duration 42:04

Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

43. I Want to Store You In My Basement In a Duffle Bag

Season 1 · Episode 43

jeudi 16 mai 2024 • Duration 49:01

TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Abuse and Rape We talk about self sabotaging a good thing after dealing with a toxic relationship, the strangest messages you’ve received on dating apps and the sad reality of continuing to stay in a relationship where you see no change. Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

42. A 3 Year Age Gap Between your Daughter and Mistress

Season 1 · Episode 42

jeudi 9 mai 2024 • Duration 47:33

When she finds out her partner is cheating on the other woman with another one, the cheating husband whose dating a 21year old when he has a 19 year old daughter, and sharing an experience that allows her to go no contact Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

41. The Home Wrecking Teenage Work Colleague

Season 1 · Episode 41

jeudi 2 mai 2024 • Duration 50:50

When your best friend of 25years starts having sleepovers with your baby daddy, your man finally changes but is it too late and the teenage work colleague who loves a country lane! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

40. The Live Podcast

Season 1 · Episode 40

jeudi 25 avril 2024 • Duration 45:44

Marking episode 40 with our first ever live podcast with an audience! We never would have dreamed we could get here and this quickly and that’s because of all our amazing listeners so thank you! We talk about the other woman meeting your kids, how to give a blowjob and being invited to a threesome you weren’t aware of. Here’s to the first of many live events! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

39. He's Literally a Walking Talking Red Flag

Season 1 · Episode 39

jeudi 11 avril 2024 • Duration 56:23

We talk about second chances and if they really work, befriending the ex girlfriend and girl boss energy vibes only. Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

38. One of the Confessions Is Mine!

Season 1 · Episode 38

jeudi 4 avril 2024 • Duration 48:35

It's another dating episode and this might be the most shocking one yet! The stories had us on the edge of our seats, in fits of laughter and then a surprise confession from one of the hosts! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

37. Good Luck to the New Woman

Season 1 · Episode 37

jeudi 28 mars 2024 • Duration 50:21

We share your bad scenarios in your relationships which you found yourself in but still stayed! Normalising staying and it’s not always easy to leave. Witnessing Tash’s new glow and hearing from a now happy couple who took on our advice Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

36. You Make Your Bed, You Lay In It

Season 1 · Episode 36

jeudi 21 mars 2024 • Duration 50:34

For the first time we share some updates with you from previous stories we have shared and showing that there is light at the end of the tunnel Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/