Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat – Details, episodes & analysis

Welcome back to Knee Deep in Beats, Part 2 — our continued conversation with Sacramento’s very own audio engineers/producers @splashrecordz and @msvameproductions.

This episode gets into:

• What it really looks like to be AFAB & queer in the music industry
• How streaming platforms shape who “makes it”
• The tension between authenticity + capitalism
• The renaissance of physical media (vinyl supremacy!!)
• How queerness shapes artistry, survival, and sound
• The cutest queer wife stories you’ve ever heard
• K.K. Slider collabs that should exist yesterday
• Our panel’s current unhinged song loops and feminist anthems

We also talk about Ms. Vame’s exciting new role with We Make Noise Sacramento, Sam’s shark-tracking side quests, and why community is the real engine behind innovation.

Follow our guests & their counterparts:

• Sam Splash — @splashrecordz
• Ms. Vame — @msvameproductions
• ComposeHer Collective — @composeher.official
• Virgo & Evette Wav — @virgogabrielle & @evette.wav
• We Make Noise (Sacramento chapter info coming soon!)

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• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, hosts Cady Moore and Sharilyn Wester sit down with Sacramento-based producers and engineers Sam Splash and Ms. Vame (Vanessa Neves-Jackson) for a deep dive into queerness, feminism, and identity in today’s music industry.

They break down what it means to be AFAB behind the boards, how queer artistry has shifted mainstream sound, and why community-centered collectives like ComposeHer are reshaping music from the inside out.

You’ll hear conversations about:

• Overcoming misogyny in engineering and production spaces
• The artists redefining genre and performance (hello, Doechii)
• Authenticity vs. queerbaiting in pop
• How queerness changed the sound of modern music
• Why femme collaboration—not competition—is the future
• The power of community in uplifting independent queer musicians

Plus, all the GayDHD goodness you expect: ovulation metaphors, historical rants, Naked Brothers Band lore, and even a detour into whale dildos.

Follow our guests & their counterparts:

• Sam Splash — @splashrecordz
• Ms. Vame — @msvameproductions
• ComposeHer Collective — @composeher.official
• Virgo & Evette Wav — @virgogabrielle & @evette.wav

New episodes every other Wednesday.

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• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with Dr. Thalia McCann, an infectious disease specialist, for a deep dive into the messy, fascinating world of public health and medicine. From the dangers of C. diff to the promise of phage therapy, they unpack the latest in infectious disease research and policy.

The conversation explores the human side of healthcare - how intersectionality shapes patient experiences, the critical role of mentorship for marginalized communities, and the challenges of navigating medical systems. Dr. McCann also breaks down the importance of antimicrobial stewardship in fighting superbugs, the impact of climate change on disease spread, and cutting-edge advancements in HIV prevention.

If you've ever wondered how public health policies shape our everyday lives - or just love a good science-meets-social-justice discussion - this one's for you! 🚑💊🔥

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• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn hit start on a deep dive into the intersection of gaming and identity. From childhood nostalgia to the ways video games shape self-expression, they explore how gaming serves as both an escape and a tool for self-discovery.

They share personal stories about growing up with The Sims, getting lost in World of Warcraft, and navigating the evolving landscape of online gaming communities. Along the way, they unpack the impact of gender norms in gaming culture, the challenges of balancing gaming with adulthood (and even parenthood), and the joy of rediscovering play as grown-ups.

Whether you're a lifelong gamer or just love a good story about the transformative power of play, this episode is for you.

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• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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🎙️ Syphilis, Sex Ed, and Waffles, Oh My!—With Epidemiologist Stephanie Booth 🍁

In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with epidemiologist Stephanie Booth to unpack the alarming rise in syphilis cases across the U.S. and the urgent need for improved public health strategies—especially for LGBTQ2S+ communities. They dive into the barriers queer folks face in accessing accurate sexual health information, the importance of inclusive risk communication, and how misinformation fuels disparities in care.

Beyond the science, the conversation explores the quirks of Canadian identity, the challenges of navigating bureaucratic health systems, and the power of data (and its frustrating limitations). They discuss why better funding, education, and outreach are essential to closing knowledge gaps and promoting health equity.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Knee Deep without some laughs! Expect reflections on musical theater obsessions, favorite cities, and the joy of community traditions like Waffle Wednesday. This episode is a perfect blend of insight, advocacy, and fun—don’t miss it! 🍽️🎭💜

Referenced in this episode:

Lorals - Use code AGEOFSEXPLORATION for 10% off your first order!

JVN podcast episode about New Orleans

“Fever 1793” Book

Organizations to Support:

Rainbow Railroad is a North American charitable organization that helps lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and intersex (LGBTQI) individuals escape violence and persecution in their home countries.

Camp fYrefly is a leadership retreat for queer and trans youth ages 14 - 24 in Alberta, Canada

Follow Us:

• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn take a deep dive into the world of pleasure—what it means, why it matters, and the barriers that keep us from fully embracing it. From the science of how stress and guilt hijack joy to personal anecdotes about navigating purity culture and inadequate sex education, they unravel the societal layers that fuel shame around pleasure.

The conversation explores the role of body image, patriarchy, and economic inequality in shaping our access to pleasure and offers practical tips for finding joy in the everyday. It also highlights the medical community’s neglect of pleasure in health conversations and emphasizes the power of self-care and body autonomy.

To wrap things up, the hosts switch gears and discuss their love (and critiques!) of book-to-screen adaptations, sharing their favorites and least favorites and explaining why representation matters in storytelling. 

Start Your Pleasure Journey:

• Download your FREE copy of Cady's guide to Building a Self-Pleasure practice here.
• Join the Pleasure Revolution here. 

Referenced in this Episode:

• The Body is not an Apology, by Sonya Renee Taylor
• Burnout by Emily Nagoski
• Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski
• Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown
• Erica Smith on Instagram @ericasmith.educates
• The Pelvic People on Instagram @thepelvicpeople

Follow Us:

• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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Buckle up for a deep dive into the highs and lows of reproductive healthcare with special guest MJ Hetland (aka @uterusnurse)! From the behind-the-scenes realities of labor and delivery nursing to the systemic challenges around abortion access and maternal mortality, we’re unpacking it all.

MJ joins us to chat about the critical role of midwives, the overlooked significance of the APGAR score, and the fight for reproductive autonomy in a world full of healthcare hurdles. But don’t worry—it’s not all heavy! We mix in humor, personal stories, and some lighthearted fun, including book talk and playful Q&A to round it out.

Catch this episode for real talk, laughs, and a whole lot of heart.

Referenced in this Episode:

• Spinning Babies
• Jen Hamilton: @Jen_Hamilton on Instagram
• Dr. Jen Gunter @drjengunter on Instagram
• Jennifer Lincoln, MD, IBCLC @drjenniferlincoln on Instagram
• Bundle Birth Nurses @bundlebirthnurses on Instagram

Connect with MJ:

• Instagram: @UterusNurse
• TikTok: @MJHettie

Follow Us:

• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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Cady & Sharilyn are back with a ✨juicy✨ rundown of their Top Ten Lists for 2024 and a peek into their Ins & Outs for 2025 (spoiler: boundaries are IN). This episode takes a thoughtful look at the highs and lows of the past year—caregiver burnout, the joy of creativity and cosplay, and the vital role of queer community—and sets the stage for an intentional and empowered year ahead.

We explore themes of self-compassion, the transformative power of art, the importance of nourishing our bodies, and the art of detachment, all while celebrating personal growth and connection. Whether you’re reflecting on your own year or planning for what’s next, this conversation is full of insight, inspiration, and a touch of humor.

Tune in to set the tone for your 2025! 🎧✨

Referenced in this Episode:

• Cady’s IG: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn’s new project (‼️) @queerwomenspoetrycollective
• I Am by @anyalincoln

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• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with Jill Lissner—educator, content creator, and student—to dive deep into reproductive justice and abortion care. Together, they unpack systemic barriers to access, the power of personal stories, and how misinformation impacts abortion rights.

But that’s not all! The conversation takes a creative turn as they explore the sapphic vibes in Wicked, polar bears (!! 🐾), and the connections between compassion, sustainability, and advocacy.

Referenced in this Episode:

• TikTok creator Cecilia Blomdahl: @sejsejlija
• Content creator Marlee Liss: Marlee Liss on Instagram
• Tooth and Claw Podcast: Tooth & Claw on Instagram

Connect with Jill Lissner:

• Website: https://jill-lissner.com/
• Instagram: @SexEdPrincess
• TikTok: @SexEdPrincess

Follow Us:

• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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This week, Cady and Sharilyn take you on a whirlwind ride through the worlds of non-monogamy, queer identity, ADHD life hacks (or lack thereof), and all that jazz (yes, we’re talking musicals). 🎶

Expect spicy takes on relationship dynamics, chaotic tangents that only ADHD kids can deliver, and heartfelt discussions on what it means to be queer and thriving. 

Tune in for laughs, feels, and the kind of conversations that feel like a night with your besties—weed optional, chaos guaranteed. 

Follow Us:

• Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast
• TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast
• Cady: @ageofsexploration
• Sharilyn: @queerwomenspoetrycollective

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