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| Knee Deep in Beats, Part 2 (Women in Music feat. @splashrecordz & @msvameproductions) | 10 Dec 2025 | 00:50:23 | |
Welcome back to Knee Deep in Beats, Part 2 — our continued conversation with Sacramento’s very own audio engineers/producers @splashrecordz and @msvameproductions. This episode gets into:
We also talk about Ms. Vame’s exciting new role with We Make Noise Sacramento, Sam’s shark-tracking side quests, and why community is the real engine behind innovation. Follow our guests & their counterparts:
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| Knee Deep in Beats, Part 1 (Women in Music feat. @splashrecordz & @msvameproductions) | 26 Nov 2025 | 01:22:11 | |
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, hosts Cady Moore and Sharilyn Wester sit down with Sacramento-based producers and engineers Sam Splash and Ms. Vame (Vanessa Neves-Jackson) for a deep dive into queerness, feminism, and identity in today’s music industry. They break down what it means to be AFAB behind the boards, how queer artistry has shifted mainstream sound, and why community-centered collectives like ComposeHer are reshaping music from the inside out. You’ll hear conversations about:
Plus, all the GayDHD goodness you expect: ovulation metaphors, historical rants, Naked Brothers Band lore, and even a detour into whale dildos. Follow our guests & their counterparts:
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| Knee Deep in Punicillin, Part 1 feat. Guest Dr. Thalia McCann aka @supplementhal | 12 Mar 2025 | 01:20:55 | |
In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with Dr. Thalia McCann, an infectious disease specialist, for a deep dive into the messy, fascinating world of public health and medicine. From the dangers of C. diff to the promise of phage therapy, they unpack the latest in infectious disease research and policy. The conversation explores the human side of healthcare - how intersectionality shapes patient experiences, the critical role of mentorship for marginalized communities, and the challenges of navigating medical systems. Dr. McCann also breaks down the importance of antimicrobial stewardship in fighting superbugs, the impact of climate change on disease spread, and cutting-edge advancements in HIV prevention. If you've ever wondered how public health policies shape our everyday lives - or just love a good science-meets-social-justice discussion - this one's for you! 🚑💊🔥 Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in a Virtual Reality | 26 Feb 2025 | 01:13:51 | |
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn hit start on a deep dive into the intersection of gaming and identity. From childhood nostalgia to the ways video games shape self-expression, they explore how gaming serves as both an escape and a tool for self-discovery. They share personal stories about growing up with The Sims, getting lost in World of Warcraft, and navigating the evolving landscape of online gaming communities. Along the way, they unpack the impact of gender norms in gaming culture, the challenges of balancing gaming with adulthood (and even parenthood), and the joy of rediscovering play as grown-ups. Whether you're a lifelong gamer or just love a good story about the transformative power of play, this episode is for you. Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in Syphilis | 12 Feb 2025 | 01:10:19 | |
🎙️ Syphilis, Sex Ed, and Waffles, Oh My!—With Epidemiologist Stephanie Booth 🍁 In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with epidemiologist Stephanie Booth to unpack the alarming rise in syphilis cases across the U.S. and the urgent need for improved public health strategies—especially for LGBTQ2S+ communities. They dive into the barriers queer folks face in accessing accurate sexual health information, the importance of inclusive risk communication, and how misinformation fuels disparities in care. Beyond the science, the conversation explores the quirks of Canadian identity, the challenges of navigating bureaucratic health systems, and the power of data (and its frustrating limitations). They discuss why better funding, education, and outreach are essential to closing knowledge gaps and promoting health equity. Of course, it wouldn’t be Knee Deep without some laughs! Expect reflections on musical theater obsessions, favorite cities, and the joy of community traditions like Waffle Wednesday. This episode is a perfect blend of insight, advocacy, and fun—don’t miss it! 🍽️🎭💜 Referenced in this episode: Lorals - Use code AGEOFSEXPLORATION for 10% off your first order! JVN podcast episode about New Orleans Organizations to Support: Rainbow Railroad is a North American charitable organization that helps lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and intersex (LGBTQI) individuals escape violence and persecution in their home countries. Camp fYrefly is a leadership retreat for queer and trans youth ages 14 - 24 in Alberta, Canada Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in the Pleasuresode | 29 Jan 2025 | 01:20:15 | |
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn take a deep dive into the world of pleasure—what it means, why it matters, and the barriers that keep us from fully embracing it. From the science of how stress and guilt hijack joy to personal anecdotes about navigating purity culture and inadequate sex education, they unravel the societal layers that fuel shame around pleasure. The conversation explores the role of body image, patriarchy, and economic inequality in shaping our access to pleasure and offers practical tips for finding joy in the everyday. It also highlights the medical community’s neglect of pleasure in health conversations and emphasizes the power of self-care and body autonomy. To wrap things up, the hosts switch gears and discuss their love (and critiques!) of book-to-screen adaptations, sharing their favorites and least favorites and explaining why representation matters in storytelling. Start Your Pleasure Journey:
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| Knee Deep in the Trenches, Part 2 feat. Guest MJ Hetland aka @uterusnurse | 15 Jan 2025 | 01:05:44 | |
Buckle up for a deep dive into the highs and lows of reproductive healthcare with special guest MJ Hetland (aka @uterusnurse)! From the behind-the-scenes realities of labor and delivery nursing to the systemic challenges around abortion access and maternal mortality, we’re unpacking it all. MJ joins us to chat about the critical role of midwives, the overlooked significance of the APGAR score, and the fight for reproductive autonomy in a world full of healthcare hurdles. But don’t worry—it’s not all heavy! We mix in humor, personal stories, and some lighthearted fun, including book talk and playful Q&A to round it out. Catch this episode for real talk, laughs, and a whole lot of heart. Referenced in this Episode:
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| Knee Deep in Cybertruck Shade: Our 2024 Recap Episode | 02 Jan 2025 | 01:22:07 | |
Cady & Sharilyn are back with a ✨juicy✨ rundown of their Top Ten Lists for 2024 and a peek into their Ins & Outs for 2025 (spoiler: boundaries are IN). This episode takes a thoughtful look at the highs and lows of the past year—caregiver burnout, the joy of creativity and cosplay, and the vital role of queer community—and sets the stage for an intentional and empowered year ahead. We explore themes of self-compassion, the transformative power of art, the importance of nourishing our bodies, and the art of detachment, all while celebrating personal growth and connection. Whether you’re reflecting on your own year or planning for what’s next, this conversation is full of insight, inspiration, and a touch of humor. Tune in to set the tone for your 2025! 🎧✨ Referenced in this Episode:
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| Knee Deep in the Trenches, Part 1 feat. Guest Jill Lissner aka @sexedprincess | 12 Dec 2024 | 01:14:13 | |
In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with Jill Lissner—educator, content creator, and student—to dive deep into reproductive justice and abortion care. Together, they unpack systemic barriers to access, the power of personal stories, and how misinformation impacts abortion rights. But that’s not all! The conversation takes a creative turn as they explore the sapphic vibes in Wicked, polar bears (!! 🐾), and the connections between compassion, sustainability, and advocacy.
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| Knee Deep in Gay Switzerland | 27 Nov 2024 | 00:58:11 | |
This week, Cady and Sharilyn take you on a whirlwind ride through the worlds of non-monogamy, queer identity, ADHD life hacks (or lack thereof), and all that jazz (yes, we’re talking musicals). 🎶 Expect spicy takes on relationship dynamics, chaotic tangents that only ADHD kids can deliver, and heartfelt discussions on what it means to be queer and thriving. Tune in for laughs, feels, and the kind of conversations that feel like a night with your besties—weed optional, chaos guaranteed. Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in Session Zero | 20 Nov 2024 | 00:11:08 | |
In which Sharilyn and Cady realize that they yapped too much in their first episode and that they’d have to split the episode or alienate their ADHD ass fanbase before they even got started. Translation: Our first episode was 90 minutes long, so we yanked some stuff and made Episode 0, which, if you’re not a D&D kid, is a term that refers to the session before you start your campaign where you get together with your party and make characters, get the lore, etc. So, please enjoy our lore 💕 Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in Sesbian Lex feat. Eva Bloom @whatismybodydoing | 12 Nov 2025 | 01:16:50 | |
This week, Cady and Sharilyn get knee deep in queer sex ed and are joined by Eva Bloom (@whatismybodydoing) — queer and trans late bloomer coach, inclusive sex educator, and host of Out in Bloom — for a cozy and frankly, charming, conversation about what it means to come into your queerness later in life, how to unlearn compulsory heterosexuality, and why sex ed should be way gayer. Together, they unpack:
🛠️ Resources & Links: Eva Bloom: @whatismybodydoing | Out in Bloom Podcast | Late Bloomer Support Club Queer 🌽 Recs: QueerCrush.com | Pink Label TV | Crash Pad Series | Books Mentioned: Every Step She Takes by Allison Cochran | Can’t Spell Treason Without Tea by Rebecca Thorne - BONUS: Find Eva’s post for cozy sapphic fall reads HERE. Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in De-Nesting | 29 Oct 2025 | 00:42:08 | |
What happens when you love your partner but living together just isn’t working? Cady and Sharilyn dive into the concept of de-nesting — choosing to live apart while staying together — and how it can reshape what commitment looks like. Cady shares her personal story of de-nesting with her husband Navarre after nearly a decade of cohabitation, revealing what led to the decision, how neurodivergence played a role, and how they maintain connection and intimacy across two homes. Later, Navarre joins for a candid conversation about how de-nesting strengthened their marriage, improved communication, and reignited appreciation for intentional time together. In this episode:
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| Knee Deep in Non-Monogamy | 15 Oct 2025 | 01:11:21 | |
Welcome back to Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, your favorite GayDHD podcast hosted by Cady and Sharilyn. This week, we’re taking the scenic route through non-monogamy: how we practice it, what it means to us, and how we manage everything from jealousy to joy (and all the chaos in between). 💬 In this episode, we talk about:
You’ll also hear about our D&D-inspired polycule (yes, there’s a D20 on our imaginary coat of arms), a spontaneous Pokémon metaphor, and why it’s totally valid to both cry over your luteal phase and fight God on a Tuesday. 🎧 Listen if you’ve ever wondered how people “make poly work,” if you’ve struggled with jealousy, or if you just want to eavesdrop on two queer femmes laughing their way through love, logistics, and the human experience. Referenced in this Episode: Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in Spooky Season | 01 Oct 2025 | 00:55:51 | |
It’s officially spooky season, and we’re bringing the chills, laughs, and queer chaos straight to your ear holes! In this “minisode”, Cady and Sharilyn get real about their complicated relationships with horror, swap hilarious Halloween stories, and dig into why spooky season feels so special. From haunted house trauma to legendary costumes (hello, Big Naturals Gandalf!), this episode is part nostalgia trip, part queer nerd-out, and part cultural commentary. We’ll talk about what makes gothic horror so alluring, how true crime can shift from exploitative to empowering, and why D&D is the ultimate way to reconnect with your inner child. What you’ll hear in this episode:
Whether you’re here for the laughs, the lore, or the Halloween vibes, this episode will have you cackling and cringing in all the right ways. 👉 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! And don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe so you never miss a ride in the passenger seat. Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in Artistic Rope | 17 Sep 2025 | 01:16:54 | |
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn welcome Lindy — a powerhouse in the Kansas City rope community and the foundress of the Sisterhood of Artistic Rope (SOAR). Together, we unravel the art of Shibari: its rich history, its role in queer culture, and how rope can be both sensual expression and radical empowerment. Lindy opens up about building safer, more inclusive spaces for femme-identifying folks in the rope scene, shares moving success stories from SOAR participants, and takes us behind the curtain of their newest venture blending burlesque and rope performance. You’ll also hear practical advice for newcomers curious about rope, reflections on community and connection, and plenty of laughs as we tie it all together (pun intended). ✨ Whether you’re rope-curious, a seasoned rigger, or simply here for the stories, this episode invites you to reflect on identity, expression, and what it means to feel empowered in your body. NOTE FROM OUR GUEST AND ROPE PRO: Rope can be potentially very dangerous, so it's always recommended to do research, go to classes, etc. before diving in. ALSO, any body can be a rope body, but what each person is capable of may vary and that's ok! Explore safely, y’all! Referenced in this Episode:
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| Knee Deep in Maasive Tits | 03 Sep 2025 | 01:18:53 | |
Welcome to Season 2!! In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn journey into the realm of fantasy. Together, they unpack its origins, representation, and how gender bias has shaped the genre. They tackle the Bechdel Test and shine a light on why romance deserves more respect in fantasy storytelling. The conversation celebrates under-recognized voices, highlighting the importance of diversity, strong female characters, and inclusive narratives. Along the way, Cady and Sharilyn share their own childhood and young adult favorites, reflecting on how those stories shaped their identities. They also explore the transformative role of fan fiction and small creators in pushing the genre forward. Of course, it wouldn’t be Knee Deep without some giggles. The gworls get delightfully silly with a juicy (and mildly unhinged) “hear me out.” Find our book list below! Queer + BIPOC Authors:
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| Knee Deep in Season One: A Recap Episode | 07 May 2025 | 00:58:55 | |
Buckle up for a season finale ride! In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, your hosts Cady and Sharilyn get personal (per usual) - talking about the chaos of moving, what they’ve learned from season one, and why community really is everything. We dig into the power of storytelling, the harm of medical misinformation, and why centering diverse voices is non-negotiable when it comes to reproductive justice and healthcare. Plus, we break down our top takeaways from the season and our silliest moments. Finally, we treat you to a little tease of what’s coming next - think: neurodivergent joy, non-monogamy realness, and queer history that deserves the spotlight. You don’t wanna miss this one, kids! Follow Us:
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| Knee Deep in Punicillin, Part 2 feat. Guest Dr. Thalia McCann aka @supplementhal | 24 Mar 2025 | 00:52:03 | |
In this episode, we finish our crucial conversation with Dr. Thalia McCann, an infectious disease specialist, about the power of trust and communication—especially for queer patients navigating the medical system. We unpack the impact of anti-science propaganda on public health and why effective science communication is more important than ever. But that’s not all—we also discuss an exciting new project aimed at educating the public about healthcare and supplements, the representation of women and marginalized communities in both medicine and literature, and the need for strong, well-rounded female characters. And because we can’t resist a little fun, we wrap up with a lighthearted chat about cryptids and some of our favorite (and most cringe-worthy) literary tropes. Join us for an episode full of insights, laughs, and just a little bit of Bigfoot talk. 🎙️✨ Referenced in this Episode:
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