Kingdom Sexuality is the Christian sex podcast for married couples who want a thriving, God-honoring sex life.
We’re Alana, Kyle, and Tiera — three friends tackling the questions the church forgot to answer. Through interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q&As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a fulfilling, passionate, and deeply connected sex life.Kingdom Sexuality. The Christian sex podcast that goes where the church won’t.
Because yes, Christians can talk about sex too!
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SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow.
Tune into this Q&A episode as the KS Team talks candidly about sex when you are exhausted, building "pounding" stamina, navigating postpartum sex drive changes, and how to have deep conversations if your spouse has a hard time with them.
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Pubic hair episode
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:08 — Welcome & Community Invitation
01:02 — Today’s Verse: Matthew 6:34
01:32 — Q&A: Intimacy for Tired Parents
06:21 — Out of Sync Course Break
07:32 — Q&A: Stamina and Lasting Longer
10:29 — Q&A: Talking About Sex and Deep Emotions
12:48 — Q&A: Postpartum Desire and Connection
16:45 — Q&A: Rewaiting for Marriage
18:20 — Q&A: Navigating Grooming Preferences Tactfully
19:54 — Closing Prayer
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304: Q&A! When Sex Isn’t Going the Way You Expected
Season 12 · Episode 34
Monday, September 7, 2026 • Duration 18:59
SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow.
Ending off the summer with a few Q&A's the KS team tackles YOUR questions! They chat through painful sex, collaborating when one of you wants change in the bedroom and the other doesn't, and what to do when sex doesn't really feel good. You won't want to miss this series!
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Our Episodes:
Episode 143 - Painful Sex, Vaginismus with Jess Seitz
Episode 190 - Intimacy Without Intercourse
Episode 162 - Meet Me Under The Mistletoe
Episode 112 - Deep Dive Into Anatomy
Episode 203 - Better Sex Through Mindfulness
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Figuring Out What I Like Guide
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Welcome & Fruit of the Spirit
01:37 — Patreon & Sponsor Break
02:20 — Painful Sex After Marriage
05:17 — Making Out When One Partner Isn’t Interested
06:52 — When Sex Doesn’t Feel Good
10:17 — Work and Travel Boundaries
12:00 — Collaborating When Partners Want Different Things
15:13 — Will the Spouses Join the Show?
16:16 — When Both Partners Have Responsive Desire
16:48 — Closing Prayer
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303: Ladies Q&A! When Motherhood Changes Your Sex Life
Season 12 · Episode 33
Monday, August 31, 2026 • Duration 41:40
In this special ladies-only Q&A, Tiera and Alana tackle the big, awkward, real-life questions women actually ask about sex, shame, pleasure, and postpartum changes!!
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Our Episodes:
Losing the Lover in the Mother
Kim & Darlene Unrau episode 292
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Ladies’ Q&A intro
01:43 — Welcome back + patron shoutout
03:45 — Opening scripture
04:16 — Pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood questions begin
06:02 — First-time mom fears and feeling unqualified
09:26 — Breastfeeding, feeling touched out, and body changes
13:12 — Confidence after prolapse and sex after pregnancy
18:09 — Creative ways to be intimate postpartum
21:11 — Reconnecting with your body sexually
28:20 — Libido postpartum and keeping your husband feeling loved
37:50 — Finding time for sex when exhausted
42:27 — Sex scheduling with more kids and teenagers
46:32 — Closing thoughts and prayer
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302: Ladies Q&A! Moving from Purity Culture to Pleasure
Season 12 · Episode 32
Monday, August 24, 2026 • Duration 28:52
This ladies-only Q&A gets practical fast. You’ll hear encouragement for retraining your brain to see sex as good, not dirty, plus what to do when arousal disappears on the pill, why penetration is not enough for orgasm, and how to stop feeling like your pleasure is a burden to your husband! Ladies, tune in!!
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Our Episodes:
Birds & Bees Episode
The Higher Desire Wife
Menstrual Cycle Episode
Thoughts During Sex episode
Our Products:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Resources:
Orgasm Course Waitlist
KS Sex Challenges
Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
Birds and Bees Courses: Use code KINGDOM20 for 20% off the course
Awaken Love
Cycle Syncing Resource
The Eden
Feeling Sexy book
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Approximate Time Stamps:
0:01 — Intro / ladies’ Q&A setup
0:59 — Verse of the day
1:23 — Topic overview: purity culture, pleasure, and random questions
1:56 — How to retrain your brain to enjoy sex instead of seeing it as dirty
4:14 — Resource: Hannah Ward / The Eden
4:59 — Feeling sexy for my husband feels sinful
8:13 — How to talk to your kids about sex
9:30 — Married a year and still don’t know what I like
10:45 — Retraining your brain after purity culture
11:03 — Not seeing my pleasure as a burden to my husband
14:18 — Shame about having desire at all
16:28 — Wanting lovemaking to be more interesting
18:07 — Loss of arousal on the pill
18:46 — How to tell my husband I’ve been faking it
20:07 — Orgasm only on top / grinding
20:30 — Types of touch based on your cycle
22:01 — Why penetration alone doesn’t lead to orgasm
23:17 — Is it lust to want pleasure?
25:06 — How to stay present and not let your mind wander
26:40 — Closing prayer
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301: Extra Spicy Q&A: Spouse is Kinkier, Body Augmentation, is Reading Smut Okay?
Thursday, August 20, 2026 • Duration 29:06
This spicy Q&A episode gets honest about the stuff couples actually wrestle with: mutual orgasms, body image, exploring positions, and all the awkward sex questions people usually avoid. You asked, and we answered!!
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Our Episodes:
Fellatio episode
Anatomy Episode
Anal Sex episode part 1
Anal Sex episode part 2
Our Products:
Yes No Maybe Freebie
Orgasm Course Waitlist
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Passionista
Flirtation Experiment
Feeling Sexy
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Christian Friendly Sex Positions website
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Spicy Q&A: Smut, Porn, and Bedroom Ideas00:40 — Welcome, Instagram Update & Verse of the Day01:10 — Advice for Partners with Different Kink Levels04:20 — When Orgasm Feels Unequal06:26 — When a Spouse Doesn’t Enjoy Oral Sex09:07 — Is Reading Smut Okay?11:44 — Is Anal Sex Okay in Christian Marriage?12:15 — Exploring New Positions as a Couple13:20 — Is Masturbation Okay?14:36 — Does a Man Need to Ejaculate Every Day?15:08 — Breast Augmentation, Aging & Body Image19:54 — Overcoming Selfishness in Marriage25:46 — Closing Prayer
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300th Episode! Sharing Your Kingdom Sexuality Testimonies
Season 12 · Episode 30
Monday, August 10, 2026 • Duration 29:00
In this special 300th episode, we reflect on the years of ministry, sharing heartfelt voice memos sent in from listeners whose lives have been transformed through the power of these faith-based conversations around sex, marriage, and intimacy. To all our faithful listeners- THANK YOU!!
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Our Episodes:
Kyle's Sextimony- Episode 94
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" Episode 96
"The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me" Episode 97
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 - Introduction and celebration of 300 episodes
00:26 - Empowering listeners to share this content with friends and family
01:25 - Reflection on God's mercy from Lamentations 3
02:03 - First listener voice memo: overcoming struggles with porn in marriage
03:50 - Testimony of renewed intimacy and gratitude for Kingdom Sexuality's impact
04:16 - Listener appreciation for deepening marriage connections
05:03 - The role of couple’s conversations and recovery stories
06:33 - Special acknowledgment of longtime listeners and their stories
07:44 - Listener from Minnesota shares how infertility and postpartum became part of her journey
08:59 - Impact of the resource during significant life events like pregnancy and infertility
11:15 - Broader perspective on building healthy, joyful sexuality within faith
12:30 - Transformation from shame and broken trust to confidence and pleasure
14:13 - The ripple effect: sharing with church groups and community
15:40 - Listener celebrating overcoming sexual struggles within marriage
17:08 - Personal stories of growth through podcasts and therapy
18:30 - The normalization of sexual joy in Christian marriage
22:23 - A journey from purity culture to enjoying sex as God designed
25:42 - Closing thoughts on sharing testimonies and upcoming community initiatives
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299: Butt Stuff- All About Anal Sex Part 2
Season 12 · Episode 29
Monday, August 3, 2026 • Duration 35:20
Huge thank you to Dwell Bible App who sponsored today’s episode! Get it for 25% off now!
Today's conversation is the continuation of last week's episode, all about anal sex and the Christian perspective. If you missed part one, go start there first, since that's where we lay the foundation. In this episode we tackle questions that you guys had around the topic of butt stuff! Tune in!
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Butt Stuff episode part 1
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Welcome & episode framing
01:06 — Health considerations
06:41 — Sanitation & preparation
08:48 — Types of anal play
14:05 — Pain, comfort & going slow
15:47 — Sponsor message
17:24 — Safety & hemorrhoids
19:01 — Orgasm, prostate stimulation & shame
24:33 — Grooming preferences
26:08 — Anal vs. vaginal sex
26:38 — Trying again after a painful experience
27:41 — Pegging
29:52 — Finishing, cleanup & safety
31:33 — Closing thoughts & prayer
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298: Patron's Choice! Butt Stuff - All About Anal Sex Part 1
Season 12 · Episode 28
Monday, July 27, 2026 • Duration 29:19
Tune in as the KS team chats about one of the most requested topics... butt stuff. In part one of this conversation (part 2 is coming next week!) the team discusses anal play and where biblical wisdom fits into the conversation. It’s a practical conversation about how couples can navigate boundaries, consent, and curiosity without losing connection.
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Opening teaser
00:34 — Welcome and episode introduction
01:07 — Why this conversation matters
04:57 — Setting expectations and disclaimer
06:11 — What the Bible says
10:26 — A biblical framework for decision-making
12:34 — Defining anal play and sexual boundaries
17:40 — Why couples may explore this topic
19:54 — How to start the conversation with your spouse
22:09 — Consent, boundaries, and respecting a no
25:39 — Closing thoughts and next episode preview
26:13 — Closing prayer
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297: Different Drives Q&A: Is It Reasonable To Masturbate? How To Get My Spouse To Want Sex More? How Can I Up My Drive?
Season 12 · Episode 27
Tuesday, July 21, 2026 • Duration 31:26
Have a different drive than your spouse? Tune in as we answer follower questions around the desire gap! Whether you're the high or low desire spouse, this episode is packed with insights to help you connect and communicate better!
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Our Episodes:
Dr. Morgan Cutlip episode
Our Products:
OUT OF SYNC Audio Course!
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Figuring Out What I Like Guide
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Bible Verse Discussion - 1:02
Listener Questions Introduction - 1:33
Question: Lower Drive Concerns - 2:01
Medical and Medication Advice - 2:35
Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 4:27
Tips for Spontaneous Spouses - 6:38
Overcoming Guilt in Relationships - 11:46
Productive Conversations - 17:08
Masturbation and Marriage - 21:03
Course Promotion and Conclusion - 26:49
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296: Q&A! Can You Have Too Much Sex? Pushing Through Exhaustion To Connect
Season 12 · Episode 29
Monday, July 13, 2026 • Duration 21:16
You asked. We answered. In this Q&A episode, nothing is off-limits- from low desire and postpartum sex to foreplay, boundaries, and the questions everyone’s Googling but not saying out loud.
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Our Episodes:
What’s Not Allowed In The Bedroom
Resources:
Just Between Us App
Awaken Love
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Esense app website
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Overview - 0:22
Product Promotion - 0:50
Verse of the Day - 1:27
Q&A Introduction - 1:49
Question 1: Tips for Connecting with Spouse - 2:13
Question 2: Ideas for Couples with Low Drive - 5:28
Question 3: Sex with a Newborn - 7:14
Question 4: Fun Pillow Talk Options - 7:43
Question 5: Husband's Lack of Interest - 8:49
Question 6: Bedroom Boundaries - 11:10
Question 7: Convincing Wife about Foreplay - 12:41
Question 8: Lasting Longer During Different Activities - 13:25
Question 9: Squirting - 14:20
Question 10: Arthritis and Sex - 16:49
Question 11: Wife's Lack of Interest in New Intimacy - 18:09
Closing Prayer - 19:10
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