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| 305: Questions You’re Too Afraid to Ask About Sex | 14 Sep 2026 | 00:23:04 | |
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Tune into this Q&A episode as the KS Team talks candidly about sex when you are exhausted, building "pounding" stamina, navigating postpartum sex drive changes, and how to have deep conversations if your spouse has a hard time with them.
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Pubic hair episode
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Out Of Sync Audio Course
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:08 — Welcome & Community Invitation
01:02 — Today’s Verse: Matthew 6:34
01:32 — Q&A: Intimacy for Tired Parents
06:21 — Out of Sync Course Break
07:32 — Q&A: Stamina and Lasting Longer
10:29 — Q&A: Talking About Sex and Deep Emotions
12:48 — Q&A: Postpartum Desire and Connection
16:45 — Q&A: Rewaiting for Marriage
18:20 — Q&A: Navigating Grooming Preferences Tactfully
19:54 — Closing Prayer
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| 304: Q&A! When Sex Isn’t Going the Way You Expected | 07 Sep 2026 | 00:18:59 | |
SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow.
Ending off the summer with a few Q&A's the KS team tackles YOUR questions! They chat through painful sex, collaborating when one of you wants change in the bedroom and the other doesn't, and what to do when sex doesn't really feel good. You won't want to miss this series!
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Our Episodes:
Episode 143 - Painful Sex, Vaginismus with Jess Seitz
Episode 190 - Intimacy Without Intercourse
Episode 162 - Meet Me Under The Mistletoe
Episode 112 - Deep Dive Into Anatomy
Episode 203 - Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Our Products:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Yes No Maybe
Resources:
Orgasm Course Waitlist
Come As You Are
Gift Of Sex
My Counselor Online
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Welcome & Fruit of the Spirit
01:37 — Patreon & Sponsor Break
02:20 — Painful Sex After Marriage
05:17 — Making Out When One Partner Isn’t Interested
06:52 — When Sex Doesn’t Feel Good
10:17 — Work and Travel Boundaries
12:00 — Collaborating When Partners Want Different Things
15:13 — Will the Spouses Join the Show?
16:16 — When Both Partners Have Responsive Desire
16:48 — Closing Prayer
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| 303: Ladies Q&A! When Motherhood Changes Your Sex Life | 31 Aug 2026 | 00:41:40 | |
In this special ladies-only Q&A, Tiera and Alana tackle the big, awkward, real-life questions women actually ask about sex, shame, pleasure, and postpartum changes!!
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Our Episodes:
Losing the Lover in the Mother
Kim & Darlene Unrau episode 292
Our Products:
Orgasm Course Waitlist
His Pleasure
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Ladies’ Q&A intro
01:43 — Welcome back + patron shoutout
03:45 — Opening scripture
04:16 — Pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood questions begin
06:02 — First-time mom fears and feeling unqualified
09:26 — Breastfeeding, feeling touched out, and body changes
13:12 — Confidence after prolapse and sex after pregnancy
18:09 — Creative ways to be intimate postpartum
21:11 — Reconnecting with your body sexually
28:20 — Libido postpartum and keeping your husband feeling loved
37:50 — Finding time for sex when exhausted
42:27 — Sex scheduling with more kids and teenagers
46:32 — Closing thoughts and prayer
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| 302: Ladies Q&A! Moving from Purity Culture to Pleasure | 24 Aug 2026 | 00:28:52 | |
This ladies-only Q&A gets practical fast. You’ll hear encouragement for retraining your brain to see sex as good, not dirty, plus what to do when arousal disappears on the pill, why penetration is not enough for orgasm, and how to stop feeling like your pleasure is a burden to your husband! Ladies, tune in!!
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Our Episodes:
Birds & Bees Episode
The Higher Desire Wife
Menstrual Cycle Episode
Thoughts During Sex episode
Our Products:
Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Resources:
Orgasm Course Waitlist
KS Sex Challenges
Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
Birds and Bees Courses: Use code KINGDOM20 for 20% off the course
Awaken Love
Cycle Syncing Resource
The Eden
Feeling Sexy book
My Counselor Online
Better Help
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Approximate Time Stamps:
0:01 — Intro / ladies’ Q&A setup
0:59 — Verse of the day
1:23 — Topic overview: purity culture, pleasure, and random questions
1:56 — How to retrain your brain to enjoy sex instead of seeing it as dirty
4:14 — Resource: Hannah Ward / The Eden
4:59 — Feeling sexy for my husband feels sinful
8:13 — How to talk to your kids about sex
9:30 — Married a year and still don’t know what I like
10:45 — Retraining your brain after purity culture
11:03 — Not seeing my pleasure as a burden to my husband
14:18 — Shame about having desire at all
16:28 — Wanting lovemaking to be more interesting
18:07 — Loss of arousal on the pill
18:46 — How to tell my husband I’ve been faking it
20:07 — Orgasm only on top / grinding
20:30 — Types of touch based on your cycle
22:01 — Why penetration alone doesn’t lead to orgasm
23:17 — Is it lust to want pleasure?
25:06 — How to stay present and not let your mind wander
26:40 — Closing prayer
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| 301: Extra Spicy Q&A: Spouse is Kinkier, Body Augmentation, is Reading Smut Okay? | 20 Aug 2026 | 00:29:06 | |
This spicy Q&A episode gets honest about the stuff couples actually wrestle with: mutual orgasms, body image, exploring positions, and all the awkward sex questions people usually avoid. You asked, and we answered!!
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Our Episodes:
Fellatio episode
Anatomy Episode
Anal Sex episode part 1
Anal Sex episode part 2
Our Products:
Yes No Maybe Freebie
Orgasm Course Waitlist
Resources:
Passionista
Flirtation Experiment
Feeling Sexy
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Christian Friendly Sex Positions website
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Spicy Q&A: Smut, Porn, and Bedroom Ideas00:40 — Welcome, Instagram Update & Verse of the Day01:10 — Advice for Partners with Different Kink Levels04:20 — When Orgasm Feels Unequal06:26 — When a Spouse Doesn’t Enjoy Oral Sex09:07 — Is Reading Smut Okay?11:44 — Is Anal Sex Okay in Christian Marriage?12:15 — Exploring New Positions as a Couple13:20 — Is Masturbation Okay?14:36 — Does a Man Need to Ejaculate Every Day?15:08 — Breast Augmentation, Aging & Body Image19:54 — Overcoming Selfishness in Marriage25:46 — Closing Prayer
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| 300th Episode! Sharing Your Kingdom Sexuality Testimonies | 10 Aug 2026 | 00:29:00 | |
In this special 300th episode, we reflect on the years of ministry, sharing heartfelt voice memos sent in from listeners whose lives have been transformed through the power of these faith-based conversations around sex, marriage, and intimacy. To all our faithful listeners- THANK YOU!!
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Our Episodes:
Kyle's Sextimony- Episode 94
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" Episode 96
"The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me" Episode 97
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 - Introduction and celebration of 300 episodes
00:26 - Empowering listeners to share this content with friends and family
01:25 - Reflection on God's mercy from Lamentations 3
02:03 - First listener voice memo: overcoming struggles with porn in marriage
03:50 - Testimony of renewed intimacy and gratitude for Kingdom Sexuality's impact
04:16 - Listener appreciation for deepening marriage connections
05:03 - The role of couple’s conversations and recovery stories
06:33 - Special acknowledgment of longtime listeners and their stories
07:44 - Listener from Minnesota shares how infertility and postpartum became part of her journey
08:59 - Impact of the resource during significant life events like pregnancy and infertility
11:15 - Broader perspective on building healthy, joyful sexuality within faith
12:30 - Transformation from shame and broken trust to confidence and pleasure
14:13 - The ripple effect: sharing with church groups and community
15:40 - Listener celebrating overcoming sexual struggles within marriage
17:08 - Personal stories of growth through podcasts and therapy
18:30 - The normalization of sexual joy in Christian marriage
22:23 - A journey from purity culture to enjoying sex as God designed
25:42 - Closing thoughts on sharing testimonies and upcoming community initiatives
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| 299: Butt Stuff- All About Anal Sex Part 2 | 03 Aug 2026 | 00:35:20 | |
Huge thank you to Dwell Bible App who sponsored today’s episode! Get it for 25% off now!
Today's conversation is the continuation of last week's episode, all about anal sex and the Christian perspective. If you missed part one, go start there first, since that's where we lay the foundation. In this episode we tackle questions that you guys had around the topic of butt stuff! Tune in!
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Our Episodes:
Butt Stuff episode part 1
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Welcome & episode framing
01:06 — Health considerations
06:41 — Sanitation & preparation
08:48 — Types of anal play
14:05 — Pain, comfort & going slow
15:47 — Sponsor message
17:24 — Safety & hemorrhoids
19:01 — Orgasm, prostate stimulation & shame
24:33 — Grooming preferences
26:08 — Anal vs. vaginal sex
26:38 — Trying again after a painful experience
27:41 — Pegging
29:52 — Finishing, cleanup & safety
31:33 — Closing thoughts & prayer
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| 298: Patron's Choice! Butt Stuff - All About Anal Sex Part 1 | 27 Jul 2026 | 00:29:19 | |
Tune in as the KS team chats about one of the most requested topics... butt stuff. In part one of this conversation (part 2 is coming next week!) the team discusses anal play and where biblical wisdom fits into the conversation. It’s a practical conversation about how couples can navigate boundaries, consent, and curiosity without losing connection.
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Resources:
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Opening teaser
00:34 — Welcome and episode introduction
01:07 — Why this conversation matters
04:57 — Setting expectations and disclaimer
06:11 — What the Bible says
10:26 — A biblical framework for decision-making
12:34 — Defining anal play and sexual boundaries
17:40 — Why couples may explore this topic
19:54 — How to start the conversation with your spouse
22:09 — Consent, boundaries, and respecting a no
25:39 — Closing thoughts and next episode preview
26:13 — Closing prayer
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| 297: Different Drives Q&A: Is It Reasonable To Masturbate? How To Get My Spouse To Want Sex More? How Can I Up My Drive? | 21 Jul 2026 | 00:31:26 | |
Have a different drive than your spouse? Tune in as we answer follower questions around the desire gap! Whether you're the high or low desire spouse, this episode is packed with insights to help you connect and communicate better!
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Our Episodes:
Dr. Morgan Cutlip episode
Our Products:
OUT OF SYNC Audio Course!
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Figuring Out What I Like Guide
Resources:
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Bible Verse Discussion - 1:02
Listener Questions Introduction - 1:33
Question: Lower Drive Concerns - 2:01
Medical and Medication Advice - 2:35
Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 4:27
Tips for Spontaneous Spouses - 6:38
Overcoming Guilt in Relationships - 11:46
Productive Conversations - 17:08
Masturbation and Marriage - 21:03
Course Promotion and Conclusion - 26:49
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| 296: Q&A! Can You Have Too Much Sex? Pushing Through Exhaustion To Connect | 13 Jul 2026 | 00:21:16 | |
You asked. We answered. In this Q&A episode, nothing is off-limits- from low desire and postpartum sex to foreplay, boundaries, and the questions everyone’s Googling but not saying out loud.
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Our Episodes:
What’s Not Allowed In The Bedroom
Resources:
Just Between Us App
Awaken Love
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Esense app website
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Overview - 0:22
Product Promotion - 0:50
Verse of the Day - 1:27
Q&A Introduction - 1:49
Question 1: Tips for Connecting with Spouse - 2:13
Question 2: Ideas for Couples with Low Drive - 5:28
Question 3: Sex with a Newborn - 7:14
Question 4: Fun Pillow Talk Options - 7:43
Question 5: Husband's Lack of Interest - 8:49
Question 6: Bedroom Boundaries - 11:10
Question 7: Convincing Wife about Foreplay - 12:41
Question 8: Lasting Longer During Different Activities - 13:25
Question 9: Squirting - 14:20
Question 10: Arthritis and Sex - 16:49
Question 11: Wife's Lack of Interest in New Intimacy - 18:09
Closing Prayer - 19:10
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| 295: Q&A! Spicy Sex Positions, Where To Buy Sex Toys, & Mind Wandering During Sex | 06 Jul 2026 | 00:23:33 | |
Got questions about intimacy that you’re not sure who to ask? The KS team is diving into listener-submitted questions about safe places to buy toys, initiating with more confidence, sex positions, and more!! Tune in now!
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Our Episodes:
Initiation 101
Intimacy Without Intercourse
Resources:
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Flirtation Experiment book
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:11
Sharing and Support - 0:38
Bible Verse Discussion - 1:04
Q&A: Buying Lube or Toys - 1:14
Intimacy After C-section/Postpartum - 5:23
Initiation and Lingerie - 9:10
Mind Wandering During Sex - 14:19
Feeling Disconnected from Spouse - 16:19
Closing and Prayer - 20:07
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| 294: Sex When You Have Chronic Pain with Brook & Elizabeth Mosser | 29 Jun 2026 | 00:39:07 | |
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Join part two of our conversation with Brooke and Elizabeth Moser as they candidly explore the challenges of marriage intertwined with chronic pain, intimacy, and faith. If you haven't listened to part one- go do that first!
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Our Episodes:
Last weeks episode with Brook and Elizabeth
Past interview with Brook Mosser
Resources:
Intentional Parents.org
Raising Passionate Jesus Followers book
Intentional Parents Podcast
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Guest Introduction - 0:20
Discussion on Body and Intimacy - 0:59
Chronic Pain and Marriage Dynamics - 5:28
Navigating Intimacy Challenges - 9:38
Communication and Understanding - 12:20
Faith and Perseverance - 15:45
Grief and Lament in Marriage - 28:23
Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:42
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| 293: Sex When You Have Special Needs Kids & Tough Seasons Of Life with Brook & Elizabeth Mosser | 22 Jun 2026 | 00:32:24 | |
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In this episode, Brooke and Elizabeth Moser open up about their journey through chronic pain and their children's diagnoses, revealing how these challenges reshaped their marriage and faith. Don't miss this raw and inspiring look at how love and faith can endure through life's toughest trials.
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Our Episodes:
Past interview with Brook Mosser
Resources:
Intentional Parents.org
Raising Passionate Jesus Followers book
Intentional Parents Podcast
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:31
Guest Introduction: Brooke and Elizabeth Moser - 1:07
Intentional Ministry Overview - 2:04
Family and Parenting Journey - 6:07
Health Challenges and Impact - 8:26
Marriage and Relationship Dynamics - 17:31
Finding Strength and Unity - 24:39
Conclusion and Teaser for Part Two - 29:32
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| 292: The Surprising Power Fathers Have to Shape Their Kids’ Views on Sex with Kim and Darlene Unrau | 15 Jun 2026 | 00:31:07 | |
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In part two of our chat with Kim and Darlene, they dive into the transformative power of faith and connection in marriage. They explore the intriguing "two brains" theory, the role of fathers in shaping their children's views on love, and how aging can positively influence attraction. Don't miss it!
Our Episodes:
Episode 136: Creating a Radical Relationship with Kim and Darlene
Last weeks episode with Kim and Darlene
Resources:
Kim's book: Talking With Jesus
RadicalRelationship.love
The 5 Sex Needs of Men and Women Gary and Barbara Roseberg
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Importance of Parental Guidance - 0:00
Interview with Kim and Darlene Unrau - 0:28
The Concept of Two Brains - 1:22
Attachment and Monogamy - 2:31
Shame and Marriage - 9:36
The Six Second Kiss - 14:00
Public Display of Affection - 18:26
Father's Influence and Heart Necklace - 22:15
Book Recommendations and Resources - 25:58
Closing and Prayer - 27:47
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| 291: What Every Father Needs to Hear with Kim and Darlene Unrau | 08 Jun 2026 | 00:34:01 | |
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We’re joined by Kim and Darlene Unrau to talk about emotional connection, healing, and what really helps marriages feel close again. We chat Father’s Day, emotional orphancy, how Jesus meets our unmet needs, and they share simple, practical tools to help couples build deeper emotional intimacy.
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Our Episodes:
Past episode with Kim and Darlene
Resources:
Awaken Love book
Connection Codes
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Expectations - 0:00
Welcome to Kingdom Sexuality Podcast - 0:19
Verse of the Day - 0:54
Introduction of Guests: Kim and Darlene - 1:26
Discussion on Father's Day and Encouragement - 3:25
Emotional Orphancy and Fatherhood - 4:28
Intimacy and Connection in Marriage - 6:14
The Role of Jesus in Relationships - 8:15
Practical Steps for Emotional Connection - 10:31
The Connection Code Exercise - 20:33
Emotional Intimacy and Vulnerability - 28:16
Conclusion and Prayer - 30:34
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| 290: Patron's Choice! Quickie Sex | 01 Jun 2026 | 00:33:28 | |
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Quickies get a bad rap, but they might be exactly what your marriage needs in busy seasons. In this episode, we talk about when quickie sex works, when it doesn’t, and how to make it connecting instead of rushed. If you’ve got kids, jobs, and about five spare minutes, this one’s for you.
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Patreon Support - 0:00
Episode Topic: Quickies - 1:45
Sponsor Message - 2:12
Tease Listener Bloopers - 2:24
Bible Verse Discussion - 2:55
Defining Quickies - 4:11
Pros and Cons of Quickies - 5:18
Making Quickies Intentional - 8:07
Common Quickie Mistakes - 19:53
Listener Bloopers Continued - 25:32
Closing Prayer - 30:22
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| 289: Having A Confident Wedding Night | 25 May 2026 | 00:19:58 | |
Getting married is an exciting milestone, but the wedding night often comes with a mix of anticipation and uncertainty! From managing expectations to embracing those awkward moments, this episode will help guide you through making your special night unforgettable.
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When Sex Is Painful
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Overview: The Wedding Night - 0:20
Bible Verse Discussion - 0:50
Importance of Communication - 2:50
Expectations vs. Reality - 5:14
Common Wedding Night Surprises - 7:07
Understanding the Female Cycle - 10:04
Prayer and Spirituality in Marriage - 13:41
Guide Introduction and Details - 14:45
Closing and Prayer - 17:09
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| 288: Patron's Choice! How To Say What You Like In Bed | 18 May 2026 | 00:21:49 | |
Want better sex but don’t know how to say what you like? This episode breaks down how couples can communicate sexual preferences with kindness and confidence. Not sure what you like in the bedroom? Don't worry- we cover that too!
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Overview - 0:20
Verse of the Day - 0:45
Sponsor Break - 1:13
Why We Don't Talk About Preferences - 1:38
Purity Culture and Desire - 2:11
Communication in Marriage - 3:07
Exploration and Self-Discovery - 4:15
Guidance and Communication Levels - 8:24
Challenge for the Week - 17:11
Closing Prayer - 18:33
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| 287: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman | 11 May 2026 | 00:48:31 | |
What if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom!
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Resources:
The Sex Talk You Never Got
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Sam Jolman’s Substack
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Discussion on Sexuality and Faith - 1:20
Sam's Personal Journey - 3:08
Exploring Masculine Sexuality - 6:24
Arousal and Desire - 13:41
Sensuality and Spirituality - 15:52
Shame and Evil - 33:49
Conclusion and Prayer - 44:25
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| 286: Losing The Lover In The Mother | 04 May 2026 | 00:37:07 | |
Ever feel like you love your kids and your marriage, but you’re exhausted and wondering where you went? In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension between motherhood, marriage, and identity, and how to get back into "lover" mode.
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Our Episodes:
Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? With Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Our Products:
Her Turn Sex Challenge
After Hours: Parents Edition Sex Challenge
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Verse of the Day: Proverbs 31 - 1:17
Losing Identity in Motherhood - 1:39
Balancing Motherhood and Marriage - 3:00
The Mental Load of Motherhood - 4:09
Postpartum Changes and Challenges - 8:40
Husbands' Role in Supporting Wives - 14:39
Reclaiming Identity and Intimacy - 21:30
Practical Tips for Couples - 25:01
Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:57
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| 285: Patron's Choice! Sexual Dreams: Why Do They Happen and What About Wet Dreams? | 27 Apr 2026 | 00:28:24 | |
Ever woken up from a sexual dream and thought, “What does this mean??and should I be worried?” Tune in as the KS team unpacks why sexual dreams happen, what they do (and don’t) say about your heart, marriage, and faith.
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Episode Overview - 0:00
Verse of the Day - 0:38
Discussion on Sex Dreams - 1:19
Dreams and the Continuity Hypothesis - 2:13
Inside Out Movie Reference - 2:35
Dreams and Emotional Processing - 4:31
True or False: Sexual Dreams - 8:22
REM Sleep and Emotional Brain Activity - 8:51
Psychotherapist Erin Walsh's Insights - 9:17
Understanding Sexual Dreams - 10:08
Dreams and Relationship Dynamics - 11:36
Wet Dreams and Nocturnal Emissions - 19:37
Conclusion and Prayer - 25:06
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| 284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!" | 20 Apr 2026 | 00:38:13 | |
Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the open communication to create a thriving sex life.
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Approximate Episode Timestamps
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Overview - 0:21
Sponsor Break - 1:18
Discussion on Mismatched Libido - 1:25
Understanding Desire Types - 6:01
Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 7:29
Dual Control Model - 19:26
Communication and Compromise - 23:23
Course Information and Conclusion - 34:09
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| 283: Q&A! Screen-Obsessed Spouse, Oral Sex, Period Sex, Dry Seasons, & More! | 13 Apr 2026 | 00:34:47 | |
Orgasm help, screen-obsessed husbands, dry seasons, and everything in between- nothing is off-limits in this Q&A episode! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera answer real questions from Christian couples about mismatched libidos, period sex, how to talk about sex with friends, oral sex, and more!
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Getting out of a slump
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Landon Hairgrove’s episode
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:14
Q&A Session Announcement - 0:33
Patreon Shoutout and Benefits - 0:56
Verse of the Day: Romans 12:9 - 1:35
Sponsor Break - 1:46
Dealing with Dry Periods in Marriage - 1:51
Handling Different Sex Drives - 4:11
Tips for Enjoying Different Positions - 8:01
Sex During Menstruation - 10:38
Tension During Intercourse - 12:59
Talking About Sex in Christian Circles - 14:36
Dealing with Screen Obsession - 19:00
Idolizing Future Spouse - 25:51
Best Practices for Oral Sex - 28:17
Closing Prayer - 31:36
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| 282: Secrets Will Destroy Your Marriage & Why It's Time To Talk To Your Kids About Porn with Greta and Aaron Eskridge | 06 Apr 2026 | 00:55:00 | |
Tune in as Greta and Aaron Eskridge share their journey from pain and betrayal to renewal and hope!! Their story emphasizes the importance of honesty and community in overcoming difficult seasons, especially around topics like pornography and marriage. Don't miss it!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Verse Reading - 0:00
Guest Introduction - 0:31
Discussion on Isaiah 43:19 - 1:08
Greta's Background and Passion - 2:44
Aaron's Background and Ministry - 3:55
Their Story: Meeting and Early Life - 4:42
Challenges in Marriage - 10:35
The Bombshell: Confession and Aftermath - 14:11
Support and Healing - 16:49
Journey to Recovery - 20:02
The Turning Point - 25:19
Writing the Book - 36:01
Importance of Parental Involvement - 44:30
Creating a Porn Plan for Kids - 46:45
Closing and Prayer - 51:19
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| 281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation | 30 Mar 2026 | 00:31:23 | |
Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been stealing your joy, this conversation is for you!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:23
Today's Verse - 1:18
Sponsor Break - 1:30
Main Topic Introduction - 1:38
Premature Ejaculation Discussion - 2:17
Strategies and Techniques - 5:59
Pelvic Floor Exercises - 10:30
Mindfulness and Breathing - 13:25
Relational Dynamics - 18:24
Foreplay and Time Management - 22:32
Professional Help and Devices - 24:27
Conclusion and Prayer - 27:28
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| 280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause | 23 Mar 2026 | 00:47:48 | |
Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpful in this season. We want to help you feel equipped and encouraged as you enter this time of life!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Overview - 0:00
Discussing Menopause - 0:30
Understanding Menopause Terms - 2:06
Perimenopause Symptoms - 4:19
Hormonal Changes and Effects - 6:13
Blood Work and Diagnosis - 11:00
Common Symptoms and Treatments - 14:20
Vaginal Changes and GSM - 17:09
Libido and Hormone Therapy - 23:15
Testosterone Therapy Discussion - 27:34
Positive Outlook on Perimenopause - 35:04
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| 279: Q&A: Morning Erections, My Wife's Body Hair, & Do Pillows Improve Sex? | 16 Mar 2026 | 00:38:39 | |
Tune in as the KS team tackle real questions straight from IG followers- everything from body hair preferences and pursuing your spouse, to what’s actually going on with things like morning erections. Don't miss it!
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Level Up Your Sex Life
Add A Little Bit Of Spice episode
Setting Up Your Future Marriage For Success
Dispelling Wedding Night Fears
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Birth Control episode
Foreplay episode
Lindsey Maestas episode
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Overview - 0:12
First Question: Body Hair Discussion - 1:31
Spicing Up Marriage - 10:19
Lift Pillows and Positions - 15:16
Helping Newlyweds Feel Comfortable - 16:59
Family Planning During Engagement - 19:18
Foreplay in Long-term Marriages - 21:41
Edging Explained - 24:03
Divorce Trends Discussion - 26:13
Morning Erections Explained - 32:50
Closing Prayer - 35:24
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| 278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip | 10 Mar 2026 | 00:47:02 | |
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Ever feel like you’re carrying the invisible to-do list for your entire household? Tune in as Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us to unpack the mental load in marriage- why it causes so much tension and how couples can start sharing it better to make sex great again!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Opening and setup — 0:00–1:12
Sponsor break and guest intro — 1:12–2:04
Guest background and motivation — 2:04–7:01
Defining the mental load and its three domains — 7:01–12:54
The triple threat and implications for home life — 12:54–15:58
Externalizing the mental load and renegotiation as a team — 15:58–16:56
Mental load and sex dynamics — 16:56–23:07
Practical fairness conversations and communication — 23:07–28:03
Narration experiments and practical tools (appreciation, storytelling, and experiments) — 28:03–41:13
Closing, resources, and prayer — 41:52–44:27
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| 277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas | 02 Mar 2026 | 00:48:35 | |
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Tune in as Lindsey Maestas opens up about her journey through the ups and downs of marriage, sharing real-life tips on how to reconnect with your spouse and keep the spark alive. Lindsey's insights are super practical, so whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship or just need a little encouragement, this conversation is for you!
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Sponsor Break - 0:28
Introduction of Guest: Lindsey Maestas - 0:34
Lindsey's Background and Book Introduction - 1:25
Discussion on Marriage and Relationships - 2:04
Lindsey's Personal Story and Challenges - 4:27
Marriage Challenges and Overcoming Them - 6:15
Importance of Intimacy and Connection - 12:24
Practical Tips for Marriage - 13:12
The Role of Prayer in Marriage - 16:54
The Impact of Technology on Relationships - 37:18
Final Thoughts and Closing Prayer - 47:56
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| 276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other | 23 Feb 2026 | 00:31:27 | |
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Can having sex when you're in the middle of a disagreement be a helpful tool...? Is "make-up sex" actually better than normal sex? Tune in as the KS team explores how heart posture affects intimacy and practical ways to foster connection amidst ongoing conflicts.
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Title and Listener Engagement - 0:35
Verse of the Day - 1:03
Disclaimer on Conflict and Abuse - 1:28
Setting the Scene: Conflict and Intimacy - 2:19
Initial Reactions to the Episode Topic - 2:37
Discussion on Sex During Conflict - 3:05
Story from "Awaken Love" - 4:01
Personal Experiences and Reactions - 5:14
Exploring Anger and Intimacy - 10:38
Physical and Emotional Responses - 11:07
Conflict Resolution Strategies - 18:21
Compromise and Communication - 20:48
Makeup Sex and Emotional Intensity - 23:32
Sex as a Relationship Glue - 26:48
Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 27:46
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| 275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove | 16 Feb 2026 | 00:58:58 | |
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Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares his personal journey of healing from trauma, balancing leadership in church planting, and intentionally leading his family. He shares practical advice on nurturing emotional health, fostering deep relationships as men, and becoming the man God has called you to be!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Podcast Introduction by Kyle - 0:39
Introduction of Guest, Landon Hargrove - 1:27
Landon's Background and Story - 1:36
Journey into Church Planting - 4:01
Challenges and Personal Struggles - 7:31
Realization and Change - 9:21
Importance of Family and Personal Health - 10:19
Balancing Career and Family - 12:05
Leading from a Place of Identity - 13:06
Steps for Men to Start Leading - 18:10
Finding Balance and Managing Tension - 22:32
Importance of Community and Friendship - 40:10
Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 52:27
Where to Find Landon and Resources - 54:29
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| 274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser | 09 Feb 2026 | 01:00:49 | |
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In this episode, we explore how generational patterns and wounds impact our understanding of sexuality, marriage, and family life. Brook Mosser shares insightful perspectives on recognizing these cycles, involving God in the healing process, and practical steps to create a legacy of health and wholeness for the next generation!!
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Approximate Episode Timestamps
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Guest Introduction: Brooke Mosser - 1:02
Discussion on Generational Patterns - 2:41
Brooke's Personal Story and Family Background - 3:10
Understanding Generational Sin and Curses - 5:21
Epigenetics and Trauma - 8:09
The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex - 10:16
Creating a Healthy Sexual Culture in Families - 12:01
Balancing Parental Influence and Personal Responsibility - 24:16
Practical Steps for Healing and Involving Christ - 31:17
The Role of Therapy and Overcoming Financial Barriers - 38:09
Supporting a Spouse Through Generational Challenges - 40:54
Advice on Changing Legacy and Staying Committed - 47:42
Recommended Books and Resources - 50:24
Final Thoughts and Encouragement - 53:36
Closing Prayer - 57:12
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| 273: Christians Are Missing God's Design for Sex, Food, and Rest with Justin Whitmel Earley | 02 Feb 2026 | 00:50:51 | |
Unlock the secret to growth with Justin Whitmel Earley as he reveals how everyday physical practices like breathing and eating can transform your spiritual life! Dive into this episode to discover how your body can teach your soul, leading to a life full of gratitude and joy.
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Approximate Time Stamp:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Guest Introduction: Justin Whitmel Earley - 1:34
Discussion on Habits and Spirituality - 2:38
The Importance of Physical and Spiritual Disciplines - 5:09
Breathing and Its Spiritual Significance - 8:06
The Metaphor of the Body as a Garden - 15:16
Feasting as a Spiritual Discipline - 20:28
Date Night and Its Importance - 27:35
Ordinary Fare and Eating for Love - 30:14
Discussion on the Chapter about Sex - 35:05
The Importance of Sleep - 40:41
Closing and Prayer - 46:25
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| 272: The Love Language That Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman | 26 Jan 2026 | 00:47:29 | |
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Join us for an enlightening episode with Dr. Gary Chapman as we explore the profound impact of the Five Love Languages on relationships worldwide. Discover how personalizing how you love on your spouse can transform your connection, and why his latest book is set to be a game-changer for couples everywhere!!
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Approximate Episode Timestamps
Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast - 00:45
Getting to Know Dr. Gary Chapman - 11:02
The Origin of the Five Love Languages - 23:05
Impact and Reach of the Five Love Languages - 43:13
Understanding Love Language Fluency - 58:55
Exploring the Five Love Languages - 78:27
The New Book's Central Premise - 92:58
Final Thoughts and Closing - 109:20
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| 271: Have A Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis | 19 Jan 2026 | 00:47:35 | |
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In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis join the KS team to discuss the importance of prioritizing marriage during the many seasons of life. They share insights on maintaining intimacy, debunk myths about marriage, and so much more. Want a marriage that is naked in every way? Tune in!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 00:45
Special Guest Introduction- 01:05
Guest Background and Introduction- 01:38
Discussion on Marriage Ministry- 02:48
Origin of Naked Marriage- 05:55
Current Challenges in Marriages- 07:32
Addressing Spiritual Differences in Couples- 09:32
Myths in Christian Marriages- 11:28
Changes in Marriage Over Time- 18:37
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| 270: The Theology of Sex with Bryan & Bonnie Pue | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:55:30 | |
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In this episode, we dive into a heartfelt discussion with Bryan and Bonnie Pue about the intersection of faith, sexuality, and relationships. They explore the theology of sex, the impact of cultural narratives, and practical ways to live out the gospel in everyday life. You won't want to miss it!
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Approximate Episode Timestamps
Introduction and Welcome - 00:00
Special Guests Introduction- 02:30
Discussion on Sexuality and Marriage- 05:00
The Union's Mission and Ministry- 10:00
Theology of Sex- 15:00
Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality- 20:00
Sex as Worship- 25:00
Historical Context of Sexuality- 30:00
Practical Ways to Live the Gospel- 35:00
Discussion on Parenting and Sexuality- 40:00
Final Thoughts and Closing Prayer- 45:00
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| 269: Some BIG NEWS, Our Favorite Episodes of the Year, & Setting Up A Successful Marriage This Year! | 06 Jan 2026 | 00:37:46 | |
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Join us as we kick off the new year with a casual and light-hearted chat about our favorite moments from the past year and exciting plans for the future! We dive into our marriage resolution guide, share personal highlights, and reflect on the growth of our podcast. Don't a special offer to the listeners + some secret news about what's coming in 2026!
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220: The Why Behind This
230: Higher Drive Wife
239: Can Music Make Sex Better
243: Car Sex
249: Justin Whitmel Earley
256: Erin Walsh
264: Joey Odom
268: Jay Stringer
228: Level Up Your Sex Life
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and New Year Plans- 00:00
Welcome Back to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 41:22
Verse of the Day: 2 Corinthians 5:17- 83:61
Sponsor Break- 93:89
Light and Casual Episode Chat- 99:00
Marriage Resolution Guide Questions- 124:33
Favorite Episodes of the Past Year- 152:46
Year Highlights- 648:27
Marriage Resolution Questions- 814:03
Podcast Plans for Next Year- 1553:36
Year-End Reflections- 1837:56
Closing Prayer- 1957:86
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| 268: What If Your Struggles Are Trying to Tell You Something? with Jay Stringer | 29 Dec 2025 | 00:45:45 | |
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Tune in as the KS team interviews Jay Stringer to explore the profound impact of childhood on adult behaviors. Jay shares insights from his book "Unwanted," discussing how understanding our past can lead to healing and growth. You're in for a candid conversation that blends personal stories with expert advice!
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Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 00:41
Guest Introduction: Jay Stringer- 01:05
Verse of the Day: Psalm 139:17- 01:14
Jay's Background and Work- 03:04
Discussion on Childhood and Behavior- 04:51
Jay's Journey to Becoming a Counselor- 09:22
Overview of Jay's Book 'Unwanted'- 13:34
From Shame to Curiosity to Healing- 16:30
Counseling and Childhood Influence- 24:41
Closing Prayer- 41:02
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| 267: Have A Spicy Christmas + Get To Know The Team! | 22 Dec 2025 | 00:38:23 | |
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Curious how to keep things spicy over the holidays?? We share how YOU guys keep things spicy and intentional despite the busyness of the Christmas season. Plus we share some of our own Christmas traditions and even how we all met!
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[00:36] Introduction and Welcome
[01:04] Verse of the Day
[01:12] Christmas Episode Ideas
[01:19] Listener Suggestions
[02:00] Practical Tips[02:06] Past Episode Reference
[02:40] Personal Stories
[10:52] Christmas Traditions
[10:59] Favorite Christmas Movies and Songs
[11:30] Christmas Cookies and Traditions
11:40] Closing Prayer
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| 266: Ask A Pastor! with Phil Collins | 15 Dec 2025 | 00:58:25 | |
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You asked, and a pastor answered! Join Tiera and Alana as they dive into an enlightening conversation with Pastor Phil Collins, exploring the intersection of faith, intimacy, and personal growth. Discover how sex can be a form of worship, the importance of mutual care in marriage, and the role of the church in addressing sensitive topics.
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Approximate time stamps:
00:43.3 - Introduction and Welcome
02:30.8 - Phil Collins' Background
05:54.6 - Pastors and Sexual Intimacy
08:31.3 - Church and Sexuality
14:09.3 - Sex as Worship
20:27.9 - Convictions About Sexual Acts
40:51.6 - Mutual Care in Marriage
46:10.9 - Intimacy Beyond Intercourse
48:29.2 - Incorporating Spiritual Practices
51:46.1 - Common Counseling Issues
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| 265: Christmas Q&A: Making Christmas PJs Sexy, Disagreeing About Family Time, and The Post-Holiday Letdown | 08 Dec 2025 | 00:38:27 | |
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Christmas is all fun and games until you realize you haven’t had sex since the Elf on the Shelf showed up. In this special Q&A we dive into holiday stress, low desire, full houses, and how to actually prioritize each other during the chaos. Cozy up, this episode is real and super helpful!
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(00:00:00) Introduction and Episode Overview
(00:03:00) Impact of Family Dynamics on Intimacy
(00:09:00) Managing Holiday Stress and Expectations
(00:15:00) Creative Ways to Maintain Connection
(00:21:00) Balancing Family Obligations and Personal Traditions
(00:27:00) Post-Holiday Letdown and Planning Ahead
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| 264: Less Phone, More Intimacy - with Joey Odom | 01 Dec 2025 | 00:47:22 | |
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Is your phone stealing more from your marriage than you realize? Joey Odom from Reclaimwell joins us to unpack the data, the spiritual side of self-control, and how couples and churches can use tech without losing intimacy. Such a needed conversation in a world that never stops buzzing.
Note: Joey & his team have moved on from Reclaimwell/Aro and we have included his new info below.
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(0:00) Introduction
(1:31) Verse Discussion
(3:01) Guest Introduction
(4:01) Joey's Story
(10:01) Reclaimwell's Journey
(15:01) Cultural Impact
(20:01) Spiritual Implications
(30:01) Practical Advice
(40:01) Impact on Relationships
(50:01) Final Thoughts and Prayer
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| 263: She Got Her PhD in Purity Culture with Ashley Hudson | 24 Nov 2025 | 00:56:00 | |
Purity culture shaped a lot of us… but what happens when those old messages start showing up in your marriage? In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson breaks down how shame, fear, and performance pressure sneak into intimacy and what healing can actually look like. If you’ve ever wondered why sex still feels complicated even though you’re married, this one’s going to hit home.
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My Counselor Online (Christian sex therapy): You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
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| 262: Can One Weekend Transform Your Marriage? | 17 Nov 2025 | 00:54:41 | |
Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram like:
- what actually happens at a retreat?
- how much does it cost?,
- what if your spouse doesn't want to go?
- how were our marriages impacted from this weekend away?
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| 261: How Often Are Couples Having Sex? | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:37:51 | |
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.
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Opposites: Wants
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Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex
Sex & Stress episode
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| 260: Surrendering Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:48:03 | |
In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life.
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Previous episode with Juli
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| 259: How Stress Impacts Your Sex Life | 27 Oct 2025 | 00:31:06 | |
Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons.
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Sleep & Sex Episode
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| 258: Breaking The Vanilla Cycle | 20 Oct 2025 | 00:32:15 | |
Feeling like your sex life’s stuck on repeat? In this episode, we’re talking about how to break out of the “vanilla cycle” and bring excitement, creativity, and fun back into the bedroom. Let's make intimacy feel adventurous again!
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| 257: Testosterone: How It Affects Sex For Men and Women | 13 Oct 2025 | 00:44:10 | |
Think your testosterone levels are off? Tune in as we unpack how this powerful hormone affects sex drive, energy, and connection- for both men and women. Learn the signs of imbalance, what testing looks like, and how hormones impact your marriage and intimacy!
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| 256: Overcoming Sexual Trauma with Psychotherapist Erin Walsh | 06 Oct 2025 | 01:06:32 | |
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In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpack how past sexual wounds can affect intimacy, marriage, and faith. Whether you’ve personally experienced trauma or love someone who has, this episode is a gentle reminder that God’s healing reaches even the most broken places- and that real intimacy is still possible!
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Resources Mentioned In The Episode:
Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot by Mo Isom
The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Scientific American Book of Love, Sex, and the Brain by Judith Horstman
Erin’s email: ek.walsh22@outlook.com
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