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Today's episode is another classic Q&A episode where we take questions you guys have sent us and we discuss our answers. You won't want to miss this spicy episode!

2:00 How do I help my wife be more confident to initiate more?

8:40 How do you maintain intimacy through stressful times?

11:10 How do I help my wife get out of her head during sex?

14:55 How to not be grossed out by bodily fluids in mouth during oral sex?

19:07 How soon can/should sex be re-introduced postpartum?

20:02 We struggle to communicate what we need/want. Any tips?

25:50 How do I talk to my spouse about doing something new?

28:43 Is filming sex with my spouse okay?

31:37 How to keep sex fresh when TTC for 2 years?

35:16 Advice for a husband and wife that want to finish together?

40:16 How do you know if you’re orgasming?

42:41 Our “long sex” is great but we don’t always have time, how to have good <30min sex w/o warmup?

 

Links from today’s episode:

• Flirtation Experiment- Lisa Jacobson, Phylicia Masonheimer
• Awaken Love- Ruth Buezis 
• My Counselor Online
• Better Sex Through Mindfulness  Dr. Lorri Brotto
• Coconu Lubricant
• Her Turn Sex Challenge
• Anatomy Of Us: Makin’ Sex Tapes

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Tune into this fun Q&A where the Kingdom Sexuality team asks each other some surprise questions they've always wanted to ask each other. Plus, the answer questions followers on Instagram sent in about the future of KS!

Links from today’s episode:

• My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you use our link!)
• 177: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
• His and Hers Sex Challenges
• “It’s Getting Hot In Here” Sex Challenge

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Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly!

• 2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don’t know how/scared”
• 13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities?
• 22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn’t interested in me sexually”
• 25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.”
• 29:04 How do you deal with periods where you’re not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that?
• 34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don’t want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc)
• 38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually?
• 42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life?
• 45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences?

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• My Counsellor Online
• My Counsellor Online YouTube
• Josh Spurlock.com

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It's a long one, but it's a good one. Ruth Joseph joins Kyle and Alana and shares her story of being in an unequally yolked marriage, how it impacts her life, and so much more. Ruth answers big questions like "does being in an unequally yolked marriage have an effect on your sex life?" and "what would your advice be to someone who's considering getting into an unequally yolked relationship?" Ruth’s handle is @iamruthjoseph, check out more of her content!! As always you can find more of our stuff on Instagram @kingdomsexuality!

Today Kyle and Alana have the pleasure of chatting with Tony and Alisa Dilorenzo, hosts of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and authors of an amazing marriage book called 6 Pillars of Intimacy! They discuss emotional intimacy in depth; how emotional intimacy is connected to sexual intimacy, and what to do if only one of the couple in the marriage is putting in the word to cultivate it. They touch on scheduling sex, doing sex challenges, and how sexual intimacy can be a barometer for the rest of your marriage! You're not going to want to miss this one. 

Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly couples challenges, have Wednesday "Hump Day's", and even a day of the week devoted to the men! 

You can check out Tony and Alisa's content here! 

Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out ⁠Covenant Eyes⁠! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!

Here's part two of our episode with Samantha Enns, Kyle's lovely wife! Alana asked her the questions that our followers sent over on Instagram. Sam tackles some big questions like "Did you struggle with comparison, knowing what he'd seen?" and "Did his addiction impact your sex life? How?". Again, we are so sorry for those of you who are going through this. We're praying that Sam's vulnerability and Kyle's testimony will encourage you.  

Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly "hump day" sex positions, content for the men on Thursdays, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!  

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Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? ⁠Use this link to get 10% off your first month!

If you haven't listened to Kyle's Sextimony episode we would highly recommend you do that before listening to this one! In this episode Alana interviews Kyle's wife, Samantha, asking her the questions that our followers sent over on Instagram. Sam tackles some big questions like "How do I check in without accusing him/prying too much?" and "How can you trust him after his struggles with porn?". We are so sorry for those of you who are going through this. Emotions are raw and it’s extremely difficult. But there is so much hope for you! We trust that Sam's vulnerability and Kyle's testimony will encourage you.  This will be a two part series with the next segment coming out next week, so stay tuned for more!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly "hump day" sex positions, content for the men on Thursdays, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!  Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes use the code: KS30 for 30 days free!

Sex is everywhere we turn. Whether it's in a show we're watching, the latest Netflix release, on our feed as we're scrolling Instagram, on a billboard by the highway, or in the book we're reading. So many forms of media give us access to things that can often leave us wondering... does this count as porn? You're not going to want to miss this episode where Paris and Alana chat about: how do we know when the media we are watching goes too far? We might think "Everyone does it. It's not a big deal, it's not like I'm addicted to watching porn or something like that..." BUT, could what you're watching be breaking Holy Spirit's heart? Listen in to hear some ways you can protect yourself from this!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly connect questions, "Hump Day" Wednesday's, share content directed to men on Thursdays, couples challenges, and lots more!!  Links from the episode: Plugged In IMDB VidAngel

Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out ⁠Covenant Eyes⁠! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!

Let's get to know the latest KS team member, shall we? In this episode, Alana chats with Kyle and he shares his journey of overcoming a pornography addiction. Kyle goes into detail explaining his struggles, when he realized he needed to seek professional help, and gives really practical tips to overcome a pornography addiction. Have any porn related questions you'd like answered? Feel free to direct your messages to Kyle on the Kingdom Sexuality Instagram account @kingdomsexuality or shoot him a DM on his personal account @kyleenns.  And if you're not following the KS team already, go check out the Instagram account! That's where they'll share latest episodes, Wednesday "Hump Day" positions, connect questions, Thursday's "for the men", and so much more!  Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!) 30 Prayers For Your Husband Ebook 30 Prayers For Your Wife Ebook

Tune into this episode where Kyle interviews Dr. Cameron Staley to talk about his new porn recovery programs: The Life After Pornography online program and the Life After Pornography Coach app! Dr. Staley has a background in porn research and ACT therapy for overcoming porn addiction. If pornography is a struggle for you, or someone you know this is definitely an episode for you to listen to and share!!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! From weekly connect questions, "Hump Day" Wednesdays, to Thursday's for the men- there will be something for you!  Covenant Eyes is also an incredible program that helps by restricting access to pornographic websites on your devices, helping you to end your pornography addiction! Use to code "KS30" when you sign up to get your first 30 days free!!