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My podcast creates a safe, open space for women whose voices are often silenced, dismissed, or ignored. I speak with guests who bring lived experience, honesty, and courage to conversations that matter.
I’m especially interested in speaking with women who:
- Have been bullied, cancelled, or harassed online or in their communities, and want to share their story of resilience.
- Are “trans widows” – women whose male partners transitioned and who experienced loss, coercion, or abuse in that process.
- Have trans-identifying family members, and are navigating the grief, isolation, or pressure to self-censor that often comes with it.
- Want to shed light on the impact of coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and the broader culture of silencing women’s realities.
This podcast aims to amplify stories that are too often kept in the shadows — giving voice to truth-tellers, survivors, and women who have faced backlash for speaking openly.
If your experience touches on these themes and you’re ready for a thoughtful, respectful, and empowering conversation, I’d love to hear from you.
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Sandie Peggie Vs NHS Fife Part 2 - the reactions, discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall
vendredi 12 décembre 2025 • Duration 19:15
Summary The conversation delves into the controversial case of Sandie Peggie, a nurse who faced discrimination for her gender critical beliefs in the context of a tribunal ruling regarding her employer, NHS Fife. The discussion highlights the complexities of gender identity, the implications of the tribunal's judgment, and the broader societal impact on women's rights. Legal experts weigh in on the compatibility of the ruling with existing laws, while reactions from unions and advocates underscore the ongoing debate surrounding gender and sex in public spaces. Takeaways Sandie Peggie's case highlights the tension between gender identity and women's rights. The tribunal's judgment has been criticized for its implications on women's safety. Legal experts argue that the ruling contradicts previous Supreme Court decisions. The concept of gender identity remains contentious and poorly defined in legal contexts. There is a growing concern about the impact of transgender ideology on women's rights. The ruling suggests new criteria for access to female-only spaces based on appearance and transition status. Many believe that the judgment places the burden of objection on women in compromising situations. The conversation reflects a broader societal debate about sex, gender, and rights. Support for Sandie Peggie is strong among various unions and advocates for women's rights. The discussion calls for more awareness and dialogue about the implications of transgender policies. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk
Sandie Peggie Outrageous Outcome Discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall
vendredi 12 décembre 2025 • Duration 13:38
Summary The conversation delves into the Peggy vs NHS case, exploring the tribunal's findings, public reactions, and the broader implications for women's rights and healthcare. It highlights the contentious nature of the case, the financial burden on NHS Fife, and the cultural impact of the ruling on women's rights Takeaways The tribunal upheld four of Peggy's claims against NHS. The ruling suggests a balance of rights between trans women and biological women. NHS Fife has spent significant public funds on the case. Public opinion is deeply divided on the issue. The case has broader implications for gender rights in the UK. Critics argue the ruling is muddled and unclear. The cultural impact of the case is significant and ongoing. There are calls for clearer guidance from Westminster. The case has become a focal point for discussions on women's rights. The conversation reflects a growing tension in society regarding gender identity.
Investing in ourselves is a hard lesson - Kelly Oliver Dougall talks to Sarah Elizabeth
mercredi 12 mars 2025 • Duration 48:57
Find Sarah Here - https://www.sarahelizabeth.icu/#/https://www.facebook.com/Beautifully.free.entirely.capable/https://substack.com/@bysarahelizabeth?utm_source=user-menuhttps://www.amazon.com/White-Picket-Fence-Longer-Enough-ebook/dp/B0DKTQQBPN?ref_=ast_author_mpbSummaryIn this conversation, Sarah shares her journey of self-discovery and healing through various modalities, including Reiki. She discusses the challenges of motherhood, the pressures of balancing career and family, and the importance of self-care. Sarah reflects on her experiences with writing as a therapeutic outlet and the vulnerability that comes with sharing her story. The conversation emphasizes the need for women to invest in themselves and navigate societal expectations while embracing their unique paths. In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Sarah Elizabeth explore the importance of seeking support, understanding trauma, and the relative nature of pain. They discuss the lessons learned from clients, the grieving process after divorce, and the significance of co-parenting. The dialogue emphasizes self-reflection in relationships, the role of vulnerability in building connections, and the challenges of isolation in a digitally connected world. They also touch on the importance of community, home schooling, and encouraging outdoor play for children.TakeawaysReiki can be a profound healing experience.Self-care can be integrated into daily life.Motherhood brings unique challenges and growth opportunities.Personal experiences shape our understanding of healing.The journey to self-discovery often begins with major life changes.Balancing career and family is a common struggle for women.Home schooling can provide tailored learning experiences for children.Writing can serve as a therapeutic outlet for self-reflection.Vulnerability in sharing our stories can create connections with others.Investing in oneself is essential for personal growth. Support should be sought before reaching a crisis point.Pain is relative; everyone deserves support regardless of their situation.Clients often teach counsellors valuable lessons about self-care.Grief can occur even after a chosen life change like divorce.Rebuilding community after a significant life change is challenging but necessary.Co-parenting can be done amicably for the sake of children.Self-reflection is crucial in understanding relationship dynamics.Vulnerability is key to forming deeper connections.Isolation can be exacerbated by social media despite increased connectivity.Encouraging children to play outdoors fosters independence and resilience.
There's nothing wrong with you - Kelly Oliver Dougall talks to Trista Guertin
mercredi 12 mars 2025 • Duration 43:13
SummaryIn this conversation, Trista Guertin shares her journey from humanitarian aid work to life coaching, emphasizing the importance of self-care and mental health. She discusses the challenges faced while working in conflict zones, the emotional toll of helping displaced individuals, and the insights gained from coaching women worldwide. Trista highlights the common struggles women face regarding self-worth and the power of group dynamics in coaching. In this conversation, Trista Guertin shares her journey as a new entrepreneur, discussing the challenges and learning curves she faces while building her business. She emphasizes the importance of redefining failure, embracing growth, and the power of perspective in coaching. Trista encourages women to dream big and explore endless possibilities while celebrating their achievements along the way. The discussion highlights the rewarding nature of coaching and the significance of community support in personal and professional growth.TakeawaysTrista Guertin is a life coach helping women transition in their lives.She has extensive experience in humanitarian aid, working in over 75 countries.Humanitarian work can be emotionally taxing and requires strong self-care practices.Self-care techniques like yoga and journaling are crucial in high-stress environments.Coaching emerged as a response to personal challenges in a long-distance relationship.Many women feel there's something wrong with them, which is a common theme in coaching.Understanding the reasons behind our thoughts can lead to personal growth.Neuroplasticity allows us to rewire our brains for better mental health.Group coaching can provide powerful insights and support.Responding to situations rather than reacting is key to empowerment. Trista is focused on growing her business and exploring possibilities.Entrepreneurship involves a steep learning curve and many challenges.Redefining failure can lead to a healthier mindset.Mistakes are essential for learning and growth.Coaching helps clients shift their perspectives and think differently.Women should be encouraged to dream big and explore their potential.Celebrating small wins is crucial for maintaining motivation.The journey of entrepreneurship is rewarding despite its challenges.Community support plays a vital role in personal growth.Focusing on positive achievements expands opportunities for success.
Activism Through Fiction: With Drew Augustine
Season 1 · Episode 15
jeudi 12 décembre 2024 • Duration 45:06
In this conversation, Drew Augustine discusses her journey as a writer and activist, focusing on the impact of gender recognition reform and the challenges faced in the publishing industry. She emphasizes the importance of free speech, the role of universities in perpetuating gender ideology, and the effects of these ideologies on children. Drew also highlights the significance of satire in activism and the need for community collaboration to combat cultural Marxism and identity politics.
00:00 Introduction to Drew Augustine and Her Work
02:51 The Impact of Gender Recognition Reform in Scotland
05:46 Research and Activism: The Journey to Writing
08:28 Challenges in the Publishing Industry
11:13 The Threat to Free Speech and Hate Speech Legislation
14:06 Experiences in Academia and Censorship
17:03 The Broader Implications of Gender Ideology
19:50 Creative Responses: Satire and Community Engagement
24:52 Cultural Marxism and Identity Politics
27:32 The Impact of Cancel Culture on Free Speech
29:17 The Role of Parents in Trans Rights Activism
32:02 The Emotional Manipulation in Trans Discussions
33:15 Heart breaking Stories from Affected Families
35:46 Raising Awareness Through Fiction
36:49 The Intersection of Sports and Gender Ideology
37:43 Political Accountability and Women's Rights
39:53 Concerns for Vulnerable Children
41:44 Activism Against Inappropriate Literature
43:51 The Fight for Free Speech and Cultural Institutions
Find Drew here -
https://drewaugustine.com/
The book is available on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Twenty-Murders-Drew-Augustine/dp/B0D55QQ5LP/ (it's free on Kindle Unlimited)
The free advent calendar of flash fiction is here: https://drewaugustine.com/christmas-appeal/
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Activism Through Fiction: With Drew Augustine
Season 1 · Episode 15
mercredi 11 décembre 2024 • Duration 45:06
In this conversation, Drew Augustine discusses her journey as a writer and activist, focusing on the impact of gender recognition reform and the challenges faced in the publishing industry. She emphasizes the importance of free speech, the role of universities in perpetuating gender ideology, and the effects of these ideologies on children. Drew also highlights the significance of satire in activism and the need for community collaboration to combat cultural Marxism and identity politics.00:00 Introduction to Drew Augustine and Her Work02:51 The Impact of Gender Recognition Reform in Scotland05:46 Research and Activism: The Journey to Writing08:28 Challenges in the Publishing Industry11:13 The Threat to Free Speech and Hate Speech Legislation14:06 Experiences in Academia and Censorship17:03 The Broader Implications of Gender Ideology19:50 Creative Responses: Satire and Community Engagement24:52 Cultural Marxism and Identity Politics27:32 The Impact of Cancel Culture on Free Speech29:17 The Role of Parents in Trans Rights Activism32:02 The Emotional Manipulation in Trans Discussions33:15 Heartbreaking Stories from Affected Families35:46 Raising Awareness Through Fiction36:49 The Intersection of Sports and Gender Ideology37:43 Political Accountability and Women's Rights39:53 Concerns for Vulnerable Children41:44 Activism Against Inappropriate Literature43:51 The Fight for Free Speech and Cultural InstitutionsFind Drew here - https://drewaugustine.com/The book is available on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Twenty-Murders-Drew-Augustine/dp/B0D55QQ5LP/ (it's free on Kindle Unlimited)The free advent calendar of flash fiction is here: https://drewaugustine.com/christmas-appeal/To get the "Murder at the Clinic" murder mystery dinner party game half price, use the code terf5
Humans Can Change Sex - Kelly talks to Sall Grover
jeudi 6 février 2025 • Duration 56:50
In this conversation, Sal Grover shares her journey of creating an app for women and the backlash she faced before it even launched. She discusses her awakening to gender identity issues, the legal battles with the Australian Human Rights Commission, and the impact of these experiences on her trust in institutions. Sal reflects on the role of women in activism, the cultural changes in Hollywood, and the importance of diversity of thought in political discourse. The conversation highlights the challenges and resilience of women fighting for their rights in a changing landscape. In this conversation, Sall Grover and Kelly Oliver Dougall discuss the alarming rise in violence against women, the complexities surrounding women's organizations, and the impact of gender ideology on language and identity. They explore the challenges of engaging in rational discourse amidst the chaos of social media and the influence of LGBTQIA+ rights on societal norms. The discussion also touches on the importance of education, the potential of home education, and the cultural influence of America on global perspectives. Legal battles surrounding gender rights are highlighted, along with the significance of community support and fundraising efforts in the fight for women's rights.You can donate to Sall's crowdfunder here - https://gigglecrowdfund.com/You can find Sall on X here - https://x.com/salltweets
From Nursing to Advocacy: Heather Ince’s Insights on Women’s Rights
Season 1 · Episode 2
lundi 30 septembre 2024 • Duration 37:52
In this episode of 'In the Therapy Room' podcast, hosted by Kelly Oliver Dougall, we are joined by guest Heather Ince, a 65-year-old retired nurse and foster carer and former election agent for Liz Panton. Heather shares her experiences working as a nurse and foster care worker, discusses her involvement in women's rights activism, and delves into her views on gender identity and issues related to transgenderism. The conversation touches on the impact of changing language, implications for women's rights, and the challenges faced by children and society regarding gender ideology.
Reclaiming Voice: The Intersection of Politics, Personal Triumph, and Advocacy
Season 1 · Episode 11
lundi 11 novembre 2024 • Duration 55:29
Standing Tall: Katherine Margaret Murphy's Journey of Political Activism and Personal StruggleIn this episode, Katherine Margaret Murphy shares her riveting journey as a candidate for the Party of Women in the Finchley and Golders Green area during the UK general election. She discusses the doors this experience opened, her passion for political engagement, and the importance of being a voice against injustices. Katherine also touches on her life in Spain, the election campaign, her encounters with political resistance, and the harsh realities she faced, including harassment both online and in her community. The conversation delves deeply into her personal history of surviving sexual abuse and the complicated path to healing, along with her activism against the transgender ideology's impact on women's rights. Katherine offers a raw insight into the intersections of her political work, personal healing, and the broader cultural battles she continues to fight.
They see women as holes with a pulse - Kelly talks to Jenny Kimmel
mercredi 10 septembre 2025 • Duration 55:56
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall speaks with Jennifer Kimmel, a trans widow, who shares her personal experiences and insights regarding the complexities of gender identity, abuse, and the societal implications surrounding these issues. Jennifer discusses the emotional and legal challenges she faced, the impact on her children, and the importance of community and activism in navigating her situation. She emphasizes the need for women to trust their instincts and protect themselves while advocating for recognition and support for those in similar circumstances.
Takeaways
Jennifer is a trans widow, sharing her unique perspective.
She highlights the manipulative tactics used by some men in relationships.
The conversation addresses the emotional and legal challenges faced by trans widows.
Jennifer emphasizes the importance of community support and activism.
She discusses the impact of her ex-husband's actions on their children.
The need for women to trust their instincts is a recurring theme.
Jennifer reflects on her personal growth and resilience throughout her experiences.
She advocates for the recognition of women's voices in discussions about gender identity.
The conversation sheds light on the societal implications of gender identity issues.
Jennifer encourages women to protect themselves and seek help when needed.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Trans Widowhood
02:51 Understanding the Motivations Behind Transitioning
05:23 Personal Experiences of a Trans Widow
08:17 Legal and Social Implications of Transitioning
10:47 Impact on Children and Family Dynamics
13:45 Navigating Support Systems and Mental Health
16:19 The Struggle for Women's Voices
19:04 Confronting Societal Norms and Expectations
21:35 Reflections on Healing and Community Support
29:11 The Dynamics of Local Narratives
32:40 Community Reactions and Pride Parades
35:23 The Struggle for Understanding and Acceptance
37:53 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries
41:26 The Role of Activism and Public Speaking
45:03 The Complexity of Gender and Violence
48:25 Finding Support and Community
51:51 The Importance of Speaking Out
55:44 august 2025 YouTube Intro.mp4
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