Explore every episode of the podcast Kelly Oliver Dougall
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| Sandie Peggie Vs NHS Fife Part 2 - the reactions, discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall | 12 Dec 2025 | 00:19:15 | |
Summary The conversation delves into the controversial case of Sandie Peggie, a nurse who faced discrimination for her gender critical beliefs in the context of a tribunal ruling regarding her employer, NHS Fife. The discussion highlights the complexities of gender identity, the implications of the tribunal's judgment, and the broader societal impact on women's rights. Legal experts weigh in on the compatibility of the ruling with existing laws, while reactions from unions and advocates underscore the ongoing debate surrounding gender and sex in public spaces. Takeaways Sandie Peggie's case highlights the tension between gender identity and women's rights. The tribunal's judgment has been criticized for its implications on women's safety. Legal experts argue that the ruling contradicts previous Supreme Court decisions. The concept of gender identity remains contentious and poorly defined in legal contexts. There is a growing concern about the impact of transgender ideology on women's rights. The ruling suggests new criteria for access to female-only spaces based on appearance and transition status. Many believe that the judgment places the burden of objection on women in compromising situations. The conversation reflects a broader societal debate about sex, gender, and rights. Support for Sandie Peggie is strong among various unions and advocates for women's rights. The discussion calls for more awareness and dialogue about the implications of transgender policies. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk | |||
| Sandie Peggie Outrageous Outcome Discussed by Kelly Oliver Dougall | 12 Dec 2025 | 00:13:38 | |
Summary The conversation delves into the Peggy vs NHS case, exploring the tribunal's findings, public reactions, and the broader implications for women's rights and healthcare. It highlights the contentious nature of the case, the financial burden on NHS Fife, and the cultural impact of the ruling on women's rights Takeaways The tribunal upheld four of Peggy's claims against NHS. The ruling suggests a balance of rights between trans women and biological women. NHS Fife has spent significant public funds on the case. Public opinion is deeply divided on the issue. The case has broader implications for gender rights in the UK. Critics argue the ruling is muddled and unclear. The cultural impact of the case is significant and ongoing. There are calls for clearer guidance from Westminster. The case has become a focal point for discussions on women's rights. The conversation reflects a growing tension in society regarding gender identity. | |||
| Investing in ourselves is a hard lesson - Kelly Oliver Dougall talks to Sarah Elizabeth | 12 Mar 2025 | 00:48:57 | |
Find Sarah Here - https://www.sarahelizabeth.icu/#/https://www.facebook.com/Beautifully.free.entirely.capable/https://substack.com/@bysarahelizabeth?utm_source=user-menuhttps://www.amazon.com/White-Picket-Fence-Longer-Enough-ebook/dp/B0DKTQQBPN?ref_=ast_author_mpbSummaryIn this conversation, Sarah shares her journey of self-discovery and healing through various modalities, including Reiki. She discusses the challenges of motherhood, the pressures of balancing career and family, and the importance of self-care. Sarah reflects on her experiences with writing as a therapeutic outlet and the vulnerability that comes with sharing her story. The conversation emphasizes the need for women to invest in themselves and navigate societal expectations while embracing their unique paths. In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Sarah Elizabeth explore the importance of seeking support, understanding trauma, and the relative nature of pain. They discuss the lessons learned from clients, the grieving process after divorce, and the significance of co-parenting. The dialogue emphasizes self-reflection in relationships, the role of vulnerability in building connections, and the challenges of isolation in a digitally connected world. They also touch on the importance of community, home schooling, and encouraging outdoor play for children.TakeawaysReiki can be a profound healing experience.Self-care can be integrated into daily life.Motherhood brings unique challenges and growth opportunities.Personal experiences shape our understanding of healing.The journey to self-discovery often begins with major life changes.Balancing career and family is a common struggle for women.Home schooling can provide tailored learning experiences for children.Writing can serve as a therapeutic outlet for self-reflection.Vulnerability in sharing our stories can create connections with others.Investing in oneself is essential for personal growth. Support should be sought before reaching a crisis point.Pain is relative; everyone deserves support regardless of their situation.Clients often teach counsellors valuable lessons about self-care.Grief can occur even after a chosen life change like divorce.Rebuilding community after a significant life change is challenging but necessary.Co-parenting can be done amicably for the sake of children.Self-reflection is crucial in understanding relationship dynamics.Vulnerability is key to forming deeper connections.Isolation can be exacerbated by social media despite increased connectivity.Encouraging children to play outdoors fosters independence and resilience. | |||
| There's nothing wrong with you - Kelly Oliver Dougall talks to Trista Guertin | 12 Mar 2025 | 00:43:13 | |
SummaryIn this conversation, Trista Guertin shares her journey from humanitarian aid work to life coaching, emphasizing the importance of self-care and mental health. She discusses the challenges faced while working in conflict zones, the emotional toll of helping displaced individuals, and the insights gained from coaching women worldwide. Trista highlights the common struggles women face regarding self-worth and the power of group dynamics in coaching. In this conversation, Trista Guertin shares her journey as a new entrepreneur, discussing the challenges and learning curves she faces while building her business. She emphasizes the importance of redefining failure, embracing growth, and the power of perspective in coaching. Trista encourages women to dream big and explore endless possibilities while celebrating their achievements along the way. The discussion highlights the rewarding nature of coaching and the significance of community support in personal and professional growth.TakeawaysTrista Guertin is a life coach helping women transition in their lives.She has extensive experience in humanitarian aid, working in over 75 countries.Humanitarian work can be emotionally taxing and requires strong self-care practices.Self-care techniques like yoga and journaling are crucial in high-stress environments.Coaching emerged as a response to personal challenges in a long-distance relationship.Many women feel there's something wrong with them, which is a common theme in coaching.Understanding the reasons behind our thoughts can lead to personal growth.Neuroplasticity allows us to rewire our brains for better mental health.Group coaching can provide powerful insights and support.Responding to situations rather than reacting is key to empowerment. Trista is focused on growing her business and exploring possibilities.Entrepreneurship involves a steep learning curve and many challenges.Redefining failure can lead to a healthier mindset.Mistakes are essential for learning and growth.Coaching helps clients shift their perspectives and think differently.Women should be encouraged to dream big and explore their potential.Celebrating small wins is crucial for maintaining motivation.The journey of entrepreneurship is rewarding despite its challenges.Community support plays a vital role in personal growth.Focusing on positive achievements expands opportunities for success. | |||
| Activism Through Fiction: With Drew Augustine | 12 Dec 2024 | 00:45:06 | |
In this conversation, Drew Augustine discusses her journey as a writer and activist, focusing on the impact of gender recognition reform and the challenges faced in the publishing industry. She emphasizes the importance of free speech, the role of universities in perpetuating gender ideology, and the effects of these ideologies on children. Drew also highlights the significance of satire in activism and the need for community collaboration to combat cultural Marxism and identity politics. | |||
| Activism Through Fiction: With Drew Augustine | 11 Dec 2024 | 00:45:06 | |
In this conversation, Drew Augustine discusses her journey as a writer and activist, focusing on the impact of gender recognition reform and the challenges faced in the publishing industry. She emphasizes the importance of free speech, the role of universities in perpetuating gender ideology, and the effects of these ideologies on children. Drew also highlights the significance of satire in activism and the need for community collaboration to combat cultural Marxism and identity politics.00:00 Introduction to Drew Augustine and Her Work02:51 The Impact of Gender Recognition Reform in Scotland05:46 Research and Activism: The Journey to Writing08:28 Challenges in the Publishing Industry11:13 The Threat to Free Speech and Hate Speech Legislation14:06 Experiences in Academia and Censorship17:03 The Broader Implications of Gender Ideology19:50 Creative Responses: Satire and Community Engagement24:52 Cultural Marxism and Identity Politics27:32 The Impact of Cancel Culture on Free Speech29:17 The Role of Parents in Trans Rights Activism32:02 The Emotional Manipulation in Trans Discussions33:15 Heartbreaking Stories from Affected Families35:46 Raising Awareness Through Fiction36:49 The Intersection of Sports and Gender Ideology37:43 Political Accountability and Women's Rights39:53 Concerns for Vulnerable Children41:44 Activism Against Inappropriate Literature43:51 The Fight for Free Speech and Cultural InstitutionsFind Drew here - https://drewaugustine.com/The book is available on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Twenty-Murders-Drew-Augustine/dp/B0D55QQ5LP/ (it's free on Kindle Unlimited)The free advent calendar of flash fiction is here: https://drewaugustine.com/christmas-appeal/To get the "Murder at the Clinic" murder mystery dinner party game half price, use the code terf5 | |||
| Humans Can Change Sex - Kelly talks to Sall Grover | 06 Feb 2025 | 00:56:50 | |
In this conversation, Sal Grover shares her journey of creating an app for women and the backlash she faced before it even launched. She discusses her awakening to gender identity issues, the legal battles with the Australian Human Rights Commission, and the impact of these experiences on her trust in institutions. Sal reflects on the role of women in activism, the cultural changes in Hollywood, and the importance of diversity of thought in political discourse. The conversation highlights the challenges and resilience of women fighting for their rights in a changing landscape. In this conversation, Sall Grover and Kelly Oliver Dougall discuss the alarming rise in violence against women, the complexities surrounding women's organizations, and the impact of gender ideology on language and identity. They explore the challenges of engaging in rational discourse amidst the chaos of social media and the influence of LGBTQIA+ rights on societal norms. The discussion also touches on the importance of education, the potential of home education, and the cultural influence of America on global perspectives. Legal battles surrounding gender rights are highlighted, along with the significance of community support and fundraising efforts in the fight for women's rights.You can donate to Sall's crowdfunder here - https://gigglecrowdfund.com/You can find Sall on X here - https://x.com/salltweets | |||
| From Nursing to Advocacy: Heather Ince’s Insights on Women’s Rights | 30 Sep 2024 | 00:37:52 | |
In this episode of 'In the Therapy Room' podcast, hosted by Kelly Oliver Dougall, we are joined by guest Heather Ince, a 65-year-old retired nurse and foster carer and former election agent for Liz Panton. Heather shares her experiences working as a nurse and foster care worker, discusses her involvement in women's rights activism, and delves into her views on gender identity and issues related to transgenderism. The conversation touches on the impact of changing language, implications for women's rights, and the challenges faced by children and society regarding gender ideology. | |||
| Reclaiming Voice: The Intersection of Politics, Personal Triumph, and Advocacy | 11 Nov 2024 | 00:55:29 | |
Standing Tall: Katherine Margaret Murphy's Journey of Political Activism and Personal StruggleIn this episode, Katherine Margaret Murphy shares her riveting journey as a candidate for the Party of Women in the Finchley and Golders Green area during the UK general election. She discusses the doors this experience opened, her passion for political engagement, and the importance of being a voice against injustices. Katherine also touches on her life in Spain, the election campaign, her encounters with political resistance, and the harsh realities she faced, including harassment both online and in her community. The conversation delves deeply into her personal history of surviving sexual abuse and the complicated path to healing, along with her activism against the transgender ideology's impact on women's rights. Katherine offers a raw insight into the intersections of her political work, personal healing, and the broader cultural battles she continues to fight. | |||
| They see women as holes with a pulse - Kelly talks to Jenny Kimmel | 10 Sep 2025 | 00:55:56 | |
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall speaks with Jennifer Kimmel, a trans widow, who shares her personal experiences and insights regarding the complexities of gender identity, abuse, and the societal implications surrounding these issues. Jennifer discusses the emotional and legal challenges she faced, the impact on her children, and the importance of community and activism in navigating her situation. She emphasizes the need for women to trust their instincts and protect themselves while advocating for recognition and support for those in similar circumstances. | |||
| Kicked out of the Australian Breastfeeding Association for Advocating for Breastfeeding Women | 13 Aug 2025 | 01:19:06 | |
You can support Jasmine by donating to her crowdfunder here - https://www.hrla.org.au/stand-with-jasmine?utm_campaign=2507_eappeal_3&utm_medium=email&utm_source=hrla | |||
| You have to make fun of it, you can't change your sex | 02 Apr 2025 | 01:14:14 | |
SummaryIn this conversation, Janet Murray discusses her journey of navigating the complexities of gender identity, women's rights, and the backlash she faced for speaking out on these issues. She reflects on her personal experiences, the impact of social media, and the challenges of maintaining relationships while advocating for women's rights. The discussion also touches on the role of intersectionality in feminism and the importance of empathy in understanding differing perspectives. In this conversation, Janet Murray and Kelly Oliver Dougall discuss the challenges faced by women in business regarding gender issues, the awakening to these issues through personal experiences and media, and the impact of social media on awareness. They explore the Tavistock and trans health, the role of woke culture in creative industries, and the generational shift in perspectives on these topics. The discussion also touches on the backlash faced in online discourse and the reassessment of political views influenced by media. In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Janet Murray discuss the complexities surrounding gender issues, activism, and the impact of political changes on women's rights. They explore the challenges of navigating personal relationships amidst controversy, the importance of free speech, and the necessity of open dialogue in addressing gender identity. The discussion highlights the confusion in public discourse and the need for clarity and knowledge in advocacy, while also touching on the humour found in serious discussions.TakeawaysJanet's journey into understanding gender identity issues began later than many others.She expresses concern over the language used in discussions about sex-based rights.The backlash against women who speak out on these issues can be severe.Janet emphasizes the importance of sex-based language for protecting women's rights.She shares her personal experiences with pregnancy and loss, highlighting the emotional weight of these discussions.The support she received from women in private contrasted with public backlash.Janet discusses the role of intersectionality in feminism and its implications for women's rights.She reflects on the challenges of motherhood and the empathy required in these discussions.The conversation highlights the impact of social media on activism and public perception.Janet stresses the need for open dialogue without fear of harassment or abuse. Everyday stories of women often go unheard.Women in business fear speaking out due to potential backlash.Awakening to gender issues can be a gradual process.The Tavistock's approach to trans health raises concerns.Reconnecting with journalism can provide support and community.Social media plays a significant role in raising awareness.Online discourse can lead to backlash and personal attacks.Woke culture influences creative industries significantly.Younger generations may rebel against prevailing ideologies.Political views are being reassessed in light of current events. There was a big campaign about mixed sex changing rooms.Trump's presidency has shaken up political dynamics.Activism requires significant energy and commitment.Women are facing challenges in public spaces.The importance of free speech in democratic societies.Personal relationships can be affected by activism.Navigating gender identity discussions is complex.There is a need for clarity in conversations about gender.Humour can be a tool in serious discussions.Understanding different perspectives is crucial in activism.Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsello | |||
| Everyone is Lying about Sex - Kelly talks to Ute Heggen | 09 Dec 2025 | 01:59:34 | |
Featuring @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Originally posted on 6th August 2025 - this version is less edited as feedback was that the original was "jumpy". Takeaways Ute Heggen shares her experience as a trans widow. The psychological impact of cross-dressing on relationships is profound. Therapists often affirm gender identity without addressing underlying issues. Childhood trauma can significantly influence gender identity. Custody battles can be complicated by a partner's gender transition. Post-traumatic stress can arise from relationship challenges. Social contagion plays a role in the rise of gender identity issues. Cognitive behavioural therapy can help in managing negative thought patterns. The ethics of gender affirmation in therapy is a contentious issue. Nature and gardening can be therapeutic for mental health. Children are burdened by societal lies. Physical activity can aid mental health. Healing requires addressing trauma. Family relationships are impacted by social dynamics. Self-protection is essential in changing times. Nature can provide solace and joy. Education plays a crucial role in development. Motherhood is a complex journey. Family dynamics can be complicated. Finding joy in community is vital. Summary In this conversation, Ute Heggen shares her journey as a trans widow, discussing the profound psychological impact of her ex-husband's cross-dressing on their relationship. She explores the role of therapy in gender identity, the influence of childhood trauma, and the complexities of custody battles. Ute emphasizes the importance of cognitive behavioural therapy and the healing power of nature and gardening, while also addressing the ethical considerations surrounding gender affirmation in therapy. In this conversation, Ute Heggen and Kelly Oliver Dougall explore the complexities of parenting, trauma, and the impact of societal changes on family dynamics. They discuss the burden of lies that children face, the importance of physical and mental well-being, and the strategies for healing from trauma. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of self-protection, the joy found in nature and community, and the role of education in child development. Ute shares personal anecdotes about motherhood, the challenges of family relationships, and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ute Heggen and Her Journey 02:06 The Impact of Cross-Dressing on Relationships 05:16 Exploring the Role of Therapists in Gender Identity 09:28 Childhood Trauma and Its Effects on Gender Ideation 13:34 Navigating Custody Battles and Parenting Challenges 18:08 The Development of PTSD and Healing Journey 24:59 The Role of Nature in Healing and Recovery 28:23 Challenges in Mental Health and Therapy Practices 35:49 Understanding Biological Sex and Gender Identity 38:04 Navigating Professional Challenges and Activism 41:13 Mental Health and the Impact of Detransitioning 45:40 The Role of Therapy and Support for Trans Widows 49:15 Finding Balance Through Nature and Wellness 54:14 The Burden of Lies and Family Dynamics 58:29 Physical Health and Mental Well-being 01:02:28 Coping with Trauma and Building Resilience 01:08:58 Navigating Family Dynamics in a Changing World 01:11:44 The Impact of Social Media and Online Trolls 01:14:58 Protecting Oneself: Legal and Emotional Strategies 01:17:43 Finding Community and Normalcy 01:18:33 Child Development and Gender Identity 01:23:59 Reflections on Parenting and Life Lessons 01:29:19 The Importance of Sharing Stories and Experiences 01:42:49 May 2025 YouTube Intro m.mp4 Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling | |||
| My legacy is how I live my life - not a house or in bricks and mortar. | 19 Mar 2025 | 00:54:57 | |
summaryIn this conversation, Lindsey Elms shares her journey of self-discovery and empowerment, particularly focusing on the challenges women face in recognizing their strengths. She discusses her personal crisis following her divorce, the impact it had on her family, and the importance of community support during difficult times. Lindsey emphasizes the significance of self-care and healing, reflecting on her experiences and the lessons learned throughout her journey. The conversation highlights the resilience of women and the transformative power of embracing change. In this conversation, Lindsey Elms shares her journey through emotional turmoil following a significant life change, exploring the impact on her children and her own healing process. She discusses the challenges of navigating parental relationships, understanding autism and ADHD, and the importance of finding contentment in simplicity. Lindsey also reflects on her unexpected journey to authorship, driven by her desire to share her experiences and insights with others, while challenging societal expectations placed on women.takeawaysLindsey emphasizes the importance of helping women uncover their strengths.Self-care is crucial; you must fill your cup first.Reaching out for support can be a daunting but necessary step.Community support can provide essential scaffolding during tough times.Writing became a therapeutic outlet for Lindsey during her crisis.Divorce can lead to profound personal transformation and growth.Children may experience emotional turmoil differently during family changes.It's important to recognize and address emotional distress before it escalates.Lindsey's journey illustrates the power of resilience and self-discovery.Finding peace after a tumultuous relationship is possible and rewarding. Lindsey felt the need to process her emotions away from her children.She aimed to be strong for her kids during tough times.Molly's reaction to her father's decisions highlighted the emotional impact on children.Understanding autism and ADHD has been crucial for Lindsey and her daughter.Home education provided a nurturing environment for Molly's growth.Lindsey's son took on responsibilities after his father's departure.Writing became a cathartic outlet for Lindsey during her healing process.Societal expectations can create pressure and confusion about identity.Lindsey found her legacy in how she lives and teaches her children.Contentment comes from appreciating small joys in life.Buy Lindsey's book, Guided by Lover here https://www.amazon.co.uk/Guided-Love-first-broken-heart/dp/1916529348/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0 | |||
| They're trolling us aren't they? Kelly Oliver Dougall talks to Terri Lee-Shield | 24 Feb 2025 | 00:58:52 | |
You can find Terri here - Facebook www.facebook.com/tleeshieldLove School is www.loveschool.uklink tree https://linktr.ee/snowdrops.sunsetsSummaryIn this conversation, Terri Lee-Shield shares her journey of overcoming trauma, navigating mental health challenges, and discovering her authentic self. She discusses the impact of societal conditioning on personal instincts and the importance of unlearning harmful narratives. Terry emphasizes the significance of body awareness, life design, and the patterns of manipulation observed during the COVID-19 pandemic. The conversation highlights the human cost of lockdowns and the need for genuine connection and understanding in a world filled with propaganda. In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Terri Lee-Shield explore the complexities of reality, control dramas, and societal expectations. They discuss the impact of the media and government on individual perceptions, the struggle for authenticity, and the challenges faced by women in a patriarchal society. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, the dangers of labelling, and the need for rest and self-care in a world that often demands conformity. Ultimately, they advocate for a more authentic way of living that honours individual experiences and choices.TakeawaysTapping into natural instincts can be life-changing.Societal conditioning often suppresses our true selves.Unlearning harmful narratives is essential for recovery.Mental health struggles can stem from unresolved trauma.Life design involves strategically planning for recovery.Body awareness is crucial for understanding personal needs.COVID-19 revealed patterns of manipulation and control.The lockdowns had a profound impact on vulnerable populations.Recognizing the human cost of fear is vital.Authenticity is key to navigating life's challenges. Disengaging from societal illusions can lead to a more authentic life.Control dramas manipulate perceptions of victimhood and power.The Drama Triangle illustrates societal roles of victim, perpetrator, and saviour.The benefit system often reinforces victimhood rather than empowerment.Focusing on inadequacies can perpetuate a cycle of negativity.Rest and self-care are essential for mental well-being.Women face unique challenges in a society that demands conformity.Labels can trap individuals in limiting narratives.Authenticity requires questioning societal norms and expectations.Individual experiences should guide personal understanding and choices. | |||
| I am a trans widow - Kelly Oliver Dougall talks to Ute Heggen | 13 Feb 2025 | 01:20:14 | |
Find Ute Heggen here -https://www.youtube.com/@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Substack blog is uteheggen.substack.comMemoir is In the Curated Woods, True Tales from a Grass Widow(iuniverse.com/bookstore, eBook and soft cover, 50 nature photos, 2022)SummaryIn this conversation, Ute Heggen shares her profound experiences as a trans widow, detailing the unraveling of her marriage to a husband who revealed a hidden cross-dressing identity. Ute discusses the emotional turmoil of betrayal, the challenges faced in therapy, and the broader implications of gender identity on women's rights. Through her memoir and survey insights, she sheds light on the unique struggles faced by women in similar situations, advocating for better understanding and support. In this conversation, Ute Heggen discusses her experiences and the broader implications of unwanted sexual experiences, financial abuse, and the influence of clergy on family dynamics. She highlights the psychological impact on children and the societal changes regarding gender identity and language. The conversation sheds light on the challenges faced by trans widows and the complexities of navigating relationships and societal expectations. In this conversation, Ute Heggen discusses the complexities surrounding gender identity, the impact of transitioning on mental and physical health, and the often overlooked experiences of trans widows. She reflects on the societal pressures and censorship faced by those who speak out against mainstream narratives, emphasizing the need for open dialogue and support for individuals navigating these challenging issues. Ute also shares her personal journey towards healing and wellness, highlighting the importance of community and understanding in the face of adversity.TakeawaysUte Heggen identifies as a trans widow, having escaped an abusive marriage.Her memoir, 'In the Curated Woods', details her experiences.The unraveling of her marriage began with her husband's cross-dressing revelation.Ute emphasizes the emotional impact of betrayal and infidelity.She highlights the challenges women face in therapy regarding gender identity.Ute's experiences reflect broader societal issues surrounding women's rights.She developed a survey to gather insights from other trans widows.Ute advocates for better mental health support for women in similar situations.The conversation touches on the risks women face when leaving abusive relationships.Ute's story is a call for awareness and understanding of trans widow experiences. 28 women sexually assaulted by their husband when he's pretending to be a woman.Financial abuse is common in relationships with trans individuals.Clergy often suggest women should accommodate their husband's identity.Children are negatively impacted by parental transitions.The language around gender is changing and affecting societal norms.Many women feel isolated in their experiences as trans widows.Financial fraud is often committed by ex-husbands during divorce.Religious institutions may not support women in these situations.The concept of motherhood is being challenged in society.Women are often blamed for the trauma caused by their husband's transitions. J.K. Rowling's comments sparked significant backlash and discussion.Health risks associated with transitioning are often overlooked.Finding community support is crucial for those affected by gender transition.Trans widows face unique challenges and vulnerabilities.Censorship and fear prevent open discussions about transitioning.Mental health professionals often avoid discussing detransitioning.Personal wellness practices can aid in recovery from trauma.The narrative around detransitioning i | |||
| I feel politically homeless - Kelly Oliver Dougall, Party of Women Candidate talks to Bev Woodburn | 29 Jan 2025 | 00:51:16 | |
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall interviews Bev Woodburn, a hypnotherapist and life coach, discussing her activism, particularly in relation to gender ideology and housing issues. They explore the impact of political polarization, cultural appropriation, and personal experiences during lockdowns. Bev shares her journey into hypnotherapy and emphasizes the importance of honesty and community support in addressing social issues. In this conversation, Bev Woodburn and Kelly Oliver Dougall discuss the profound impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic on society, including the effects of lockdowns, the role of fear in public health, and the controversies surrounding vaccines. They reflect on their personal experiences during the pandemic, the challenges faced by the healthcare system, and the emergence of grassroots movements advocating for change. The discussion emphasizes the importance of community, connection, and critical thinking in navigating these unprecedented times.TakeawaysBev Woodburn is a hypnotherapist and life coach with a background in activism.Honesty is crucial, especially when communicating with young people.Awareness of gender ideology has evolved over time, with personal experiences shaping perspectives.Housing crises in London highlight the need for community activism.Political polarization has left many feeling politically homeless.Cultural appropriation discussions can lead to divisive attitudes.Lockdowns provided unexpected opportunities for personal connection and reflection.Hypnotherapy can empower individuals to access their own answers and intuition.The use of repetition in messaging can manipulate public perception.Community support is vital in addressing social issues and fostering change. The pandemic led to significant public protests against mandates.Healthcare workers faced immense pressure and stress during the pandemic.The right to refuse treatment is a fundamental aspect of healthcare.Lockdowns created a surreal and alien experience for many.Fear has been a powerful tool in shaping public health narratives.Vaccine controversies have sparked widespread debate and concern.The healthcare system faced unprecedented challenges during COVID-19.Grassroots movements have emerged in response to government actions.Community connections have strengthened through shared experiences during the pandemic.Mental health has been adversely affected by fear and uncertainty. | |||
| Standing Up: Linzi Smith's Story of Resistance and Justice | 26 Nov 2024 | 00:57:22 | |
Navigating Controversy: Linzi's Fight for Free Speech and JusticeIn this episode, Linzi shares her personal journey after being banned from attending Newcastle United football matches for three years due to her outspoken views on gender ideology. She details her confusing and harrowing experiences with Newcastle United and Northumbria Police, including being falsely investigated for hate crimes. Linzi elaborates on the emotional and legal battles she has faced, as well as the support she has received from figures like Harry Miller and organizations like the Free Speech Union. Through it all, Linzi speaks about the resilience and determination that keep her going amid personal loss and public scrutiny. | |||
| Money is very forgiving - Kelly talks to Shari Rash | 13 Nov 2025 | 00:38:10 | |
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| Healing the Feminine: Catherine Ewing on Empowerment, Intuition & Spiritual Growth | 01 Jan 2025 | 00:45:05 | |
In this conversation, Catherine Ewing, a women's psychotherapist and transformational coach, discusses her journey towards women's empowerment and healing. She emphasizes the importance of healing the feminine wound and the integration of spiritual practices into psychotherapy. The discussion explores various themes including the Akashic Records, the evolution of feminism, cultural shifts, and the balance of masculine and feminine energies. Ewing shares her insights on navigating change and personal growth through life's challenges, ultimately advocating for a more equitable and inclusive world. In this conversation, Catherine Ewing shares her profound journey of healing and intuition, discussing the impact of personal trauma and the societal suppression of women's gifts. She emphasizes the importance of connecting with one's intuition and the spiritual realm to facilitate healing and empowerment. The discussion also touches on the challenges women face in expressing their truths and the need for community support in overcoming these obstacles. Catherine outlines her transition from traditional therapy to coaching, focusing on helping women embrace their spiritual gifts and leadership roles.takeawaysCatherine Ewing is a women's psychotherapist and transformational coach.Healing the feminine wound is crucial for individual and collective empowerment.Reiki and energy healing have been significant in Ewing's journey.The Akashic Records provide insight into one's soul path.Feminism has evolved and now encompasses a broader understanding of women's rights.Cultural narratives often shift meanings, impacting women's identities.Navigating change can be both frightening and fertile for growth.Balancing masculine and feminine energies is essential for healing.Personal growth often comes through facing life's challenges.Creating a more equitable world requires re-anchoring the divine feminine. Catherine's journey began with deep personal loss and trauma.Intuition is a powerful tool that connects us to our instincts.The witch wound represents the historical suppression of women's gifts.Many women struggle with people-pleasing and fear of speaking up.Catherine's healing centre aimed to empower women through spirituality.The patriarchy has systematically suppressed women's power.Men also suffer from the toxic aspects of patriarchy.Catherine is transitioning to a coaching model to empower women.Her upcoming membership program will focus on intuition and community.Catherine integrates various modalities, including EFT, in her work.titlesChapters00:00Introduction to Women's Empowerment and Healing05:57Exploring the Akashic Records12:04Cultural Shifts and the Reclamation of Feminine Power17:50The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energies27:51The Journey of Healing and Intuition40:26Empowerment Through Spirituality and Community52:08Closing Thoughts and Future Directions | |||
| The Media is Still Against Women - Kelly talks to Angie Jones | 24 Oct 2025 | 00:55:23 | |
In this conversation, Angie Jones, a prominent gender critical feminist, discusses her experiences and activism surrounding women's rights in Australia. She reflects on the Melbourne event, the challenges faced by activists, and the impact of media representation on public perception. Angie emphasizes the importance of grassroots activism, citizen journalism, and community support in the fight for women's rights. The conversation also touches on cultural and social issues, mental health, and the ongoing political challenges faced by activists in Australia. | |||
| The world needs you - Kelly talks to Emily Brearley | 24 Oct 2025 | 00:37:20 | |
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall interviews Emily Brearley, a development economist with extensive experience in the global South. They discuss Emily's new book, which critiques the failures of international aid and the World Bank, while also addressing the impact of gender ideology on development work. Emily emphasizes the need for humility and realistic approaches in aid, advocating for empowerment and local expertise over paternalistic interventions. The conversation also touches on class issues, the importance of education, and the challenges of speaking out against prevailing ideologies. | |||
| "He copies my mannerisms, everything. The inflection of my voice. I find that really creepy" | 29 Sep 2025 | 01:04:32 | |
Joy shares her journey as a trans widow, reflecting on the challenges and emotional turmoil she faced. From the initial shock to navigating societal perceptions, Joy opens up about her experiences, the impact on her family, and the importance of speaking out. Join Joy and Kelly Oliver Dougall as they delve into the complexities of identity, relationships, and resilience. | |||
| Menopause Myths Doctors Won't Tell You - Kelly talks to Amita Sharma | 10 Dec 2025 | 00:23:37 | |
summary In this conversation, Amita Sharma discusses the often-overlooked topic of hormonal transitions in women, particularly focusing on menopause and perimenopause. She highlights the lack of understanding and resources available for women experiencing these changes and emphasizes the importance of diet and lifestyle in managing symptoms. Amita introduces her app, Nourish Talk, designed to provide holistic wellness support for women navigating these transitions, and advocates for better education and awareness around women's health issues. Takeaways Most women are unaware of the symptoms of menopause. Chronic conditions are prevalent among women over 60. Diet and lifestyle changes can mitigate menopause symptoms. Personal experiences with perimenopause are often shocking. Women need better resources for hormonal transitions. Menopause education is lacking in medical training. Women can still contribute significantly in their 40s and beyond. The stigma around menopause needs to be addressed. Holistic approaches to health are essential for women. Women should have access to credible health information. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk | |||
| "Everybody is Lying" - Ute Heggen talks to Kelly about her experience of marrying a trans woman | 20 Aug 2025 | 01:43:00 | |
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| Clash of Views - Kelly interviews DEI Expert Dr Victoria Mattingly | 10 Jul 2025 | 00:31:37 | |
I recently joined a platform to help me find more guests for my podcast, called Podmatch. One of the first people to approach me on there was this woman, who claims to be an expert in DEI but fails to understand what a trans widow is and hasn't considered the impact of trans ideology on children, women's sports or women's rights. | |||
| MoMa - no men allowed into new breastfeeding support organisation for mothers and babies. | 03 Jul 2025 | 00:48:29 | |
Ruth Lewis (along with other women) was cancelled from a breastfeeding support organisation because she raised safeguarding concerns about the expansion of their policy to support men to chest feed babies with chemically induced milk. | |||
| You need permission to dream - Featuring Monica Kaufman | 26 Jun 2025 | 00:53:16 | |
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| Women asked to leave on International Women's Day - all in the name of inclusion | 15 Apr 2025 | 00:58:14 | |
SummaryThe conversation explores the events surrounding an International Women's Day event in Darlington, focusing on the challenges faced by women advocating for sex-based rights. Delyth Rennie shares her experiences of organizing the event, the confrontations with local authorities, and the broader implications of gender identity politics on women's rights. The discussion highlights the importance of free speech, public engagement, and the complexities of navigating social and legal frameworks in the context of women's rights activism.TakeawaysThe event aimed to promote women's sex-based rights and raise awareness about gender identity issues.Local authorities expressed concerns over the materials being distributed at the event.Public engagement through leafleting and canvassing opinions was a key part of the event.The confrontation with local authorities raised questions about safety and free speech.The public sector equality duty was cited as a reason for limiting certain expressions of opinion.The conversation emphasized the importance of free speech, even when opinions are contentious.There is a growing concern about the implications of gender identity politics on women's rights.The event brought together diverse groups advocating for women's rights, despite political differences.The need for better training and understanding of equality issues among local authorities was highlighted.The discussion concluded with a call to action for continued advocacy and engagement in women's rights issues. | |||
| It's a big lie - I talk to Ian Dougall (my husband) about my election campaign | 02 Apr 2025 | 00:51:38 | |
In this engaging conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and her husband Ian discuss her recent experience running for election, the challenges faced during the campaign, and the broader implications of women's involvement in politics. They reflect on the support received, the hurdles encountered, and the importance of addressing gender issues in society. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of political events, the significance of voting, and the future of political engagement.takeaways
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| Lesbians Forced to Include Men in their Events by the Australian Government | 12 Mar 2025 | 00:41:31 | |
Find the Lesbian Action Group online here - https://lesbianactiongroup.org.au/And the Lesbian Club here - https://thelesbianclub.org.au/Donate to the crowd funder here - https://lesbianactiongroup.org.au/donate-to-lagSummaryIn this conversation, Nicole from the Lesbian Action Group discusses the evolution of the lesbian community in Australia, the challenges faced by young lesbians today, and the impact of corporate LGBTIQ+ culture on lesbian spaces. She shares her experiences of coming out and the importance of having safe spaces for lesbians. The discussion also covers the legal challenges the group faces in their fight for single-sex spaces and the implications of recent changes in legislation regarding gender identity. In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Nicole discuss the divisions within the lesbian community regarding the inclusion of trans women, the implications of consent in single-sex spaces, and the broader shifts in LGBTQ+ movements. They express concern over the corporatization of the LGBTQ+ movement and the impact of gender ideology on women's rights. Nicole shares insights on building an underground community for lesbians who feel excluded from the mainstream LGBTQ+ narrative, emphasizing the importance of reclaiming the LGB identity and fostering safe spaces for women.TakeawaysNicole has been involved with the Lesbian Action Group since its revival.The lesbian community has changed significantly over the past 40 years.Young lesbians today face challenges in finding safe spaces.Corporate LGBTIQ+ culture has forced lesbians underground.There is a lack of single-sex events for lesbians.Young lesbians report experiences of harassment in mixed-sex spaces.The push for trans inclusion has complicated the landscape for lesbians.Nicole believes that the current climate is akin to conversion therapy.The Lesbian Action Group is pursuing legal avenues to secure their rights.The fight for lesbian spaces is ongoing and faces significant legal hurdles. The lesbian community is experiencing significant divisions over the inclusion of trans women.Consent is a crucial issue regarding single-sex spaces for women.The LGBTQ+ movement has shifted from its grassroots origins to a corporatized entity.Many lesbians feel excluded from the current LGBTQ+ narrative.There is a growing underground community of lesbians seeking to reclaim their identity.Gender ideology is seen as harmful to women and children.The conversation highlights the complexities of consent in discussions about gender and sex.Nicole emphasizes the importance of mentorship for young lesbians.The current climate is described as dark and concerning for women's rights.Activism is necessary to push back against the prevailing narratives in the LGBTQ+ movement.Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my youtube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - https://unisus.org.uk/wellbeing/counselling/ | |||
| Māori language is being appropriated - Kelly Oliver Dougall talks to Katrina Biggs and Di Landy | 22 Jan 2025 | 01:25:15 | |
Links to contact Katrina and Di Katrina Biggs Substack: A B'Old Woman https://aboldwoman.substack.com/YouTube: Katrina Biggs https://www.youtube.com/@katrinabiggs6672/videosX: @KatrinaBiggs2 https://x.com/KatrinaBiggs2Caitlin's story, written in the immediate aftermath of being at the Let Women Speak rally in Auckland, March 2023. She was three months pregnant at the time. https://aboldwoman.substack.com/p/trans-activists-make-women-terrifiedThe story of how four ol' terfs got kicked out of a restaurant https://aboldwoman.substack.com/p/four-ol-terfs-walk-into-a-barDi LandySubstack: Mana Wāhine Kōrero (Sovereign Women Speak) https://manawahinekorero.substack.com/YouTube: Mana Wāhine Kōrero https://www.youtube.com/@manawahinekorero9534/videosX: Di = @CallMeAl_KPSS https://x.com/CallMeAl_KPSS; Mana Wāhine Kōrero = @MKorero https://x.com/MKoreroArticle in Quillette, by Di Landy, refuting that gender ideology ever had a place in pre-colonial Māori history. https://quillette.com/2023/05/04/fictionalizing-indigenous-history-in-the-name-of-gender-activism/In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall hosts Katrina Biggs and Di Landy to discuss the pressing issues surrounding gender ideology in New Zealand. They explore the impact of this ideology on women's safety, particularly in prisons, and the appropriation of Māori language in legitimizing these changes. The discussion also touches on the role of education in shaping public perception, the media's representation of these issues, and the influence of organizations on policy. The guests express their concerns about the erosion of cultural authenticity and the class issues that complicate public awareness of these matters. The conversation delves into the intersection of class issues and gender identity, exploring how societal divides shape perceptions and experiences. The speakers discuss the implications of fetishism in gender identity, the challenges of language in identity politics, and the importance of activism and community engagement in addressing these issues. They also highlight the legal challenges faced by activists and the role of public discourse in shaping societal norms. In this conversation, the speakers discuss the challenges surrounding puberty blockers, the implications of gender ideology on women's rights, and the violence faced by women during protests. They express concerns about the safety of women in public spaces and the infiltration of women's organizations by gender ideologies. The conversation highlights the need for activism and the hope for change in the current landscape of women's rights. | |||
| Reparenting the Inner Child: A Path to Self-Discovery #Narcissim #innerchild #trauma #healing | 15 Jan 2025 | 00:55:09 | |
In this conversation, Tina shares her journey of healing from childhood trauma, exploring the patterns of relationships with narcissistic partners, and the spiritual awakening that led her to write her memoir, 'Finding My Sovereignty.' She discusses the importance of understanding generational trauma, the power of boundaries, and the process of reparenting the inner child. Tina emphasizes the significance of triggers in personal growth and the transformative power of self-discovery through affirmations and emotional healing. In this engaging conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Tina explore the intricate themes of personal development, the dynamics of cults, and the impact of fear-based religions. They delve into the loss of identity and dreams due to strict upbringing, the challenges of navigating relationships after leaving a controlling environment, and the energy dynamics involved in interactions with narcissistic individuals. Tina shares her insights on protecting one's energy and the importance of finding sovereignty in a world filled with emotional vampires.Find Tina on the internet here - Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-My-Sovereignty-Memoirs-Empath/dp/1068956402Author website: www.sovereignandsage.comTakeawaysTina's memoir explores her childhood trauma and healing journey.She discusses the impact of childhood abuse on adult relationships.Understanding narcissism helped Tina recognize her relationship patterns.Spiritual healing played a crucial role in her recovery.Generational trauma influences behaviour and relationships.Triggers can be powerful tools for personal growth.Setting boundaries is essential for empaths.Reparenting the inner child is a vital healing process.Positive affirmations can reshape self-perception.Self-discovery is a continuous journey that requires reflection. Personal development can happen unconsciously.Our instincts guide us towards healing.Cult dynamics often involve separation and isolation.Fear-based religions can manipulate and control individuals.The loss of identity can stem from strict upbringing.Breaking free from control is a significant step in healing.Narcissists often act as energy vampires.Protecting your energy is crucial for empaths.Meditation and grounding can help reclaim energy.Finding sovereignty is essential for personal empowerment.Sound Bites"I buried my childhood trauma.""I thought this one was the one.""You need to do your own healing.""Boundaries are super important.""This isn't my stuff, it's hers.""Our spirit is always guiding us.""We're here to learn and ascend.""Jesus's whole message was love.""Most of Christianity is a cult.""Cut cords, protect your energy.""Every control freak has trauma." | |||
| Manifesting your best year yet | 31 Dec 2024 | 00:09:16 | |
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall discusses her approach to personal growth through the concept of a 'Word of the Year' instead of traditional New Year's resolutions. She reflects on her past experiences, the impact of media narratives, and her journey towards emotional healing. Additionally, she shares insights on the effectiveness of manifestation and vision boards, emphasizing the importance of taking action towards one's goals. The conversation concludes with a call for audience engagement regarding their own intentions for the upcoming year. | |||
| Navigating Grief and Loss after Terminal Brain Cancer Diagnosis - Featuring JoBeth Pooley | 21 May 2025 | 00:56:44 | |
SummaryJoBeth Polley shares her profound journey through grief after losing her husband to glioblastoma. She discusses her struggles with infertility, the challenges of navigating life as a widow, and the steps she took to rebuild her life. JoBeth emphasizes the importance of self-care, community support, and the role of faith in her healing process. She also shares her experience of remarriage and the lessons learned about love and partnership after loss. JoBeth now works as a grief coach, helping others navigate their own journeys of healing.TakeawaysJoBeth emphasizes the importance of community support during grief.She believes in the power of self-care and intentional healing.JoBeth's faith played a crucial role in her recovery process.She learned to embrace her grief rather than avoid it.Finding joy again is possible, even after deep loss.JoBeth highlights the importance of life insurance for financial security.She encourages others to ask for help when needed.JoBeth made a list of non-negotiables for her next relationship.She shares the empowering experience of learning new skills post-loss.JoBeth's journey illustrates that love can be found again after loss.Keywordsgrief, healing, loss, remarriage, community support, self-care, empowerment, life insurance, mental health, adoptionSound bites"I wanted to be somebody who thrived.""I had to learn how to drive a tractor.""I didn't want to ask for help."Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey02:32 Navigating Grief and Loss05:20 Rebuilding Life After Loss07:54 Intentional Healing and Self-Care10:48 Facing Fears and Gaining Independence13:21 Empowerment Through New Skills15:37 Finding Community Support18:14 Reflections on Grief and Moving Forward28:23 Navigating Gun Culture and Personal Safety30:38 Team Dynamics in Relationships32:33 The Importance of Asking for Help35:06 Financial Planning and Life Insurance38:12 Coping with Illness and Decision-Making40:00 Unexpected Paths to New Relationships47:17 Grief, Love, and Moving Forward50:39 Supporting Others Through GriefBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling | |||
| Reflecting on 2024: Personal Highlights | 31 Dec 2024 | 00:04:48 | |
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall reflects on her experiences in 2024, highlighting her achievements such as starting a podcast focused on women's rights, participating in a general election, and managing her counselling business. She shares personal stories of empowerment, including supporting a friend in an abusive relationship, and discusses her journey of self-discovery through travel. Kelly also hints at future topics like vision boards and personal goals for 2025, inviting listeners to share their own experiences. | |||
| Grief, Healing, and Hope Helen’s Journey After Loss and the Power of Open Conversations | 26 Dec 2024 | 01:11:37 | |
In this conversation, Helen shares her profound journey through grief after losing her husband to suicide at a young age. She discusses the challenges of navigating life after such a traumatic event, the isolation that often accompanies grief, and the importance of support from friends and family. Helen highlights her experiences with travel as a means of healing, her educational pursuits in social work, and the transformative impact of therapy, particularly EMDR. She emphasizes the need for compassionate workplaces that understand the complexities of grief and bereavement, aiming to create supportive environments for those affected by loss. In this conversation, Helen shares her profound journey through grief after losing her husband to suicide. She discusses the complexities of grief, the impact of suicide on families and communities, and the importance of support and understanding. Helen emphasizes the need for open conversations about mental health and the stigma surrounding suicide, as well as the changes in language used to describe it. The discussion also touches on the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic on mental health and the long-term implications of isolation and loss.takeawaysHelen started her own company to provide bereavement training.Grief can lead to isolation and loss of friendships.Traveling helped Helen cope with her grief.Education changed Helen's perspective on life and grief.Therapy, especially EMDR, was crucial for Helen's healing.Self-care became a priority for Helen after therapy.Compassionate workplaces can support grieving employees.Practical support is more helpful than words of wisdom.Helen's experiences have turned into assets for helping others.Finding peace after trauma is a journey, not a destination. Moving away can provide a fresh start after loss.Suicide often comes without warning, complicating grief.Survivors of suicide attempts often regret their decision.Suicide is often a transient feeling, not a permanent solution.Support groups can provide essential understanding and connection.Language around suicide can perpetuate stigma and shame.Grief from suicide is a unique and complex experience.The pandemic has exacerbated mental health issues for many.Community support is crucial in times of loss.Understanding estrangement can help in processing grief.titlesChapters00:00Introduction to Grief and Bereavement Training06:04Navigating Grief and Isolation18:45The Impact of Education and Career Changes29:53Finding Peace and Self-Care40:01Creating Compassionate Workplaces48:03Navigating Grief and Moving Forward56:42The Role of Community and Support01:02:44The Stigma and Shame Surrounding Suicide01:10:33The Long-Term Effects of the Pandemic01:19:41Finding Understanding in Estrangement and Loss | |||
| Crafting Change: How Exalt Jewellery Supports Women in the Congo and Redefines Entrepreneurship | 18 Dec 2024 | 00:45:36 | |
In this conversation, Chance, the owner of Exalt Jewellery, shares insights about her brand, which donates a portion of proceeds to the Panzi Foundation, an organization supporting women and girls in the Congo. She discusses her journey into the jewellery business, the challenges of entrepreneurship, the importance of business planning, and personal development. The conversation also touches on the significance of mental health in business and the fascinating complexities of the human brain.TakeawaysExalt Jewellery donates 10% of proceeds to support women in the Congo.The Panzi Foundation provides medical support and counselling for women and girls.Chance emphasizes the importance of quality in jewellery design.Feedback from friends is crucial for improving product quality.Starting a business requires extensive research and planning.Entrepreneurship involves wearing many hats and managing various roles.Setting goals is essential for personal and business growth.Mental health plays a significant role in entrepreneurship.Understanding the complexities of the human brain is fascinating.Personal development is key to navigating business challenges.TitlesEmpowering Women Through JewelleryThe Journey of Exalt JewellerySound Bites"I believe in the bigger picture.""I was a teenage parent.""I can't do my taxes."Chapters00:00Introduction to Exalt Jewellery and Its Mission02:56The Panzi Foundation: Empowering Women and Girls05:30Quality and Sourcing of Jewellery08:12The Journey into Jewellery Business11:02Challenges of Balancing Business and Life13:51Business Planning and Support Systems16:43Setting Goals and Reflecting on Progress24:46Setting Intentions and Vision Boards27:53Balancing Multiple Goals and Life Experiences30:53Journey into the Vulnerable Sector36:11Working with Dementia and Alzheimer's Patients40:26The Importance of Intuition and Personal DevelopmentFind Chance on her website - https://weareexalt.comThe organization she donates to - https://panzifoundation.orgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/exaltjewelry?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== | |||
| From Egypt to Equality: Exploring Femininity and Societal Expectations with Suha Deeb | 28 Nov 2024 | 00:59:30 | |
Exploring Feminine Identity, Societal Pressures, and the Impact of CultureIn this deep dive discussion, femininity mentor and self-concept coach Suha Deeb joins Kelly to explore complex topics surrounding femininity, mental health, and modern societal pressures. They discuss the effects of the 'Red Pill' culture, the problematic nature of hookup culture, and the pervasive impact of pornography on relationships. Suha highlights her work with daughters of dysfunctional parents, and they share experiences regarding gender roles, the feminization of men, and the loss of traditional masculine role models. The conversation also touches upon Suha's life in Egypt compared to Western norms and challenges the effects of modern feminism on women's well-being. This episode is a thought-provoking exploration of the nuanced challenges facing both men and women in today's society.00:00 Introduction and Guest Background01:26 Discussing Women's Issues and Societal Expectations04:31 Impact of Red Pill Culture and Masculinity07:13 Therapy and Gender Dynamics17:23 Cultural Experiences in Egypt and Morocco22:13 Critique of Modern Feminism28:31 The Dark Side of Casual Hookups29:01 The Emotional Impact of Casual Sex31:43 The Normalization of Pornography37:06 The Consequences of Porn Addiction40:57 The Influence of Porn on Society50:59 The Role of Healthy Boundaries58:20 Concluding Thoughts and ResourcesFind Suha on Facebook here - https://www.facebook.com/suha.deebSuha's group on facebook is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefemininewoman | |||
| A Journey with Infertility and Self-Rediscovery: Hazel's Story | 11 Oct 2024 | 00:40:06 | |
In the Therapy Room: A Journey Through Infertility and Hysterectomy with Hazel SmithJoin host Kelly Oliver Dougall in this enlightening episode of 'In the Therapy Room' where she sits down with reflexologist and Indian head massage therapist Hazel Smith. Hazel shares her personal 20-year journey with infertility, fibroids, and undergoing a hysterectomy, offering advice and insight into her experiences. This candid discussion highlights the importance of mental health, personal well-being, and finding joy through change, and supplements like reflexology. Tune in to learn more about Hazel's path to self-acceptance, her decision to pursue various therapies, and the significant life transitions she navigated along the way, including ending a marriage and embracing a new life after surgery. | |||
| Rooted in Resilience Louise Woodward Styles on Overcoming Trauma and Fighting for Women's Rights | 03 Oct 2024 | 00:52:01 | |
In the Therapy Room: Women's Rights and Personal Struggles with Louise Woodward StylesIn this episode of the 'In the Therapy Room' podcast, host Kelly Oliver Dougall interviews Louise Woodward Styles, a mother and women's rights activist. They delve into sensitive topics including Louise's journey into feminism stemming from her upbringing in 90s Salford, her experiences with a lack of feminist role models, and the impact of Spice Girls' 'girl power' era. Louise also shares her personal hardships, including surviving childhood trauma, sexual abuse, and growing up in an environment of emotional and physical abuse. Further, they discuss the challenges of feminist activism, the gender ideology affecting women and girls, and the importance of sustaining women's rights movements. The conversation emphasizes the significance of advocating for women's safety, dignity, and the need for sex-specific spaces. | |||
| Challenging the Status Quo: Women's Voices in Turbulent Times | 26 Sep 2024 | 00:29:32 | |
In the Therapy Room Podcast: My Journey and the Importance of Free SpeechJoin host Kelly Oliver Dougall in the premiere episode of 'In the Therapy Room' podcast as she delves into her motivations for starting the podcast and what listeners can expect. Kelly shares her personal journey starting from the 2000s when she stopped watching the news, through her experiences during the 2020 lockdowns, attending various protests, and discovering alternative viewpoints. She discusses her concerns about the policing of protests, her involvement with the 'Let Women Speak' events, and her advocacy for women's rights and free speech. Kelly's story underscores her commitment to providing a platform for women to share their experiences through her podcast and her counselling service, Unisus. | |||
| Social media can amplify cancel culture - Kelly speaks to Janet Murray about Cancellation and Cancer | 13 Nov 2025 | 01:15:02 | |
If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. | |||
| "Be More Karen" - Kelly talks to Reasa Selph | 01 Oct 2025 | 00:29:10 | |
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| Lily Phillips and the differences between men and women | 19 Dec 2024 | 00:16:11 | |
In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall discusses the controversial actions of OnlyFans creator Lily Phillips, who engaged in sexual activities with 100 men in 24 hours. The discussion delves into the complexities of consent, the differences in sexual behaviour between men and women, the impact of pornography on society, and the dynamics of financial independence in relationships. Dougall emphasizes the importance of recognizing gender differences and the responsibilities that come with personal freedoms.takeawaysLily Phillips' actions sparked a debate on consent and responsibility.Consent is more complex than just agreement; it involves emotional and societal factors.Men and women have evolved differently regarding emotional connections in sex.Society often pressures women to behave in ways that may not be beneficial to them.The prevalence of pornography has changed societal norms around sex.Rape definitions vary by culture, affecting discussions on gender and abuse.Women often seek emotional connections, while men may prioritize physical encounters.Financial independence is crucial for women to escape abusive relationships.Men's online behaviour can distort their understanding of real-life consequences.Rights come with responsibilities towards others in society.Chapters00:00Introduction to OnlyFans and Lily Phillips' Controversy06:09Gender Differences in Sexual Behaviour12:07Understanding Rape and Gender Dynamics17:51The Balance of Rights and Responsibilities | |||
| He wanted complete control - Trans Widow Una-Jane Winfield talks to Kelly | 30 Jul 2025 | 01:12:30 | |
Find Una's website here - https://www.transwidows.com/index.php/transwidows/ | |||
| Whistle blower Fired from His Job over Social Transition of Child by College | 12 Mar 2025 | 00:26:47 | |
Stephen Flaherty was fired from his job in a college for telling a mother that her daughter was being socially transitioned. In this conversation, Stephen Flaherty shares his experience of being dismissed from his position as a learning support assistant at Nottingham College after he disclosed to a parent that the college was socially transitioning her daughter without her knowledge. He discusses the complexities of safeguarding, parental responsibility, and the legal implications of his dismissal, as well as the challenges he faces in seeking employment and navigating the legal system.takeawaysStephen Flaherty was fired for disclosing a child's social transition to her parent.He believes that parental responsibility should not be overridden by educational institutions.The college ignored his safeguarding referral, leading to his decision to disclose to the parent.Flaherty argues that the college's actions constituted a serious safeguarding breach.He is currently pursuing legal action against the college for wrongful dismissal.The disciplinary process he faced was lengthy and complicated.Flaherty's case raises important questions about confidentiality and parental rights.He highlights the challenges of finding employment after being dismissed.Flaherty is seeking support from others who have faced similar situations.The conversation underscores the complexities of gender identity issues in educational settings.If you would like to donate to Stephen's crowd funder you can do that here - https://www.crowdjustice.com/case/fired-for-telling-a-parent-not/ | |||
| The Complexities of Child Loss and Family Dynamics | 08 Jan 2025 | 01:10:04 | |
Summary In this conversation, psychotherapist Georgia Howard discusses her experiences working with families who have suffered the loss of a child. She explores the profound impact of grief on parents and siblings, societal expectations surrounding grief, and the unique challenges faced by women in these situations. The discussion also delves into the complexities of gender dynamics, the importance of women's spaces, and the implications of modern language and identity politics. Howard expresses concern over the medicalization of gender identity and the potential exploitation of women in surrogacy arrangements. The conversation concludes with reflections on the future of family and the need for women to reclaim their power in society. Takeaways Grief is a unique and personal journey that varies for each individual. The loss of a child profoundly impacts the entire family unit. Societal expectations can hinder the grieving process. Women often bear the emotional burden of grief and support. Language and identity are evolving, affecting societal norms. The medicalization of gender identity raises ethical concerns. Surrogacy can exploit vulnerable women and complicate family dynamics. Women’s spaces are essential for emotional safety and support. The future of family structures is at risk due to societal changes. Women must reclaim their power to influence societal norms. Sound Bites "It's a very high trauma place to work." "Women need their own space." "We can never lose the word woman." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Grief and Loss Therapy 05:38 Societal Attitudes Towards Grief 11:24 The Changing Language Around Gender 17:09 Cultural Shifts and Family Structures 26:06 Perceptions of Body Image and Reality 31:43 Navigating Social Norms and Boundaries 37:08 The Dangers of Gender Ideology 44:19 The Influence of Media on Gender Perception 49:31 Collective Pain and Women's Empowerment 55:59 The Importance of Women’s Spaces 01:02:17 The Erasure of Women in Society | |||
| Beyond the Big Lie Conversations in Feminism and Hypnosis | 24 Oct 2024 | 00:59:55 | |
Journeys Through Hypnosis, Advocacy, and Societal Reflections with Lisa MorganJoin Kelly Oliver Dougall as she interviews Lisa Morgan, a hypnotist and feminist activist, for a captivating conversation. Lisa shares her experiences with hypnosis, her advocacy for women's rights, and the public backlash she faced after a controversial speech. The discussion spans topics such as gender roles, societal expectations, the power of propaganda, and the intriguing impact of hypnosis on personal identity and therapy. Lisa also reflects on her political candidacy, support from the community, and the resilience required to navigate criticism. Additionally, the episode explores deeper philosophical questions about reality, interconnectedness, and future opportunities for local communities. Tune in to gain insights into the intersection of hypnosis, political activism, and the broader societal changes shaping our world today. | |||
| They called me a NAZI for Quoting Mein Kampf - Kelly Talks to Lisa Morgan | 08 Oct 2025 | 00:52:09 | |
In this conversation, Lisa Morgan shares her journey as a feminist, hypnotist, and political activist. She discusses her early experiences in the feminist movement, her insights into hypnosis and its influence on politics, and her reactions to contemporary gender ideology. Lisa reflects on the backlash she faced for her views, the importance of community support, and her perspectives on the future of society. The conversation delves into the themes of identity, propaganda, and the need for a return to local communities as a means of fostering change. | |||