It's Complicated – Details, episodes & analysis

We're diving into the world of British reality TV with a deep dive into the UK version of Love is Blind. Join us as we dissect the cultural nuances, casting choices, and the drama that unfolds in this transatlantic take on the popular dating show. From the gentlemanly manners of British contestants to the heartfelt connections and inevitable heartbreaks, this episode covers it all. Will the British approach to love and dating bring about more genuine connections, or is it just another reality TV spectacle? Tune in to find out!

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We dive deep into the whirlwind romance of Bennifer! From their early 2000s engagement to their recent rekindling and the latest rumors, we break it all down. Recorded just before their divorce was filed and made public, we posed the question: does this breakup mean that any couple who breaks up should stay that way?

We also explore the timeline of their relationship, the media's role in their love life, and the impact of their public personas. Is JLo's career ambition what drove a wedge between them, or is there more to the story?

And of course, we can't discuss celebrity relationships without mentioning the Kardashians, Tom Brady, and other famous love stories. Are celebrities fast-tracking their weddings because they can afford to, and does this impact the longevity of their relationships? Let's get into it!

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As your trusted village in the realm of dating and relating, this episode is a treasure trove of insights inspired by the hits and misses of Netflix's Love is Blind. We dissect pivotal conversations to have with your partner—from the necessity of location sharing for trust to the weighty matters of handling finances as a couple. Do you need to share your past relationship history, or is that best left behind? And how do you navigate the tricky waters of conflict resolution styles? It's not just about the drama on screen; it's about applying these scenarios to your own love life. Whether it's spotting red flags through discussions about exes or aligning on core values like politics and family planning, we're serving up a reality check that's as entertaining as it is educational.

So, whether you're single, taken, or it's complicated, tune in, learn, and laugh with us. And remember, subscribing and sharing is caring—help us grow our village even further by spreading the word.

Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob:

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What is ‘self love,” and aren’t we supposed to love ourselves for who we truly are?? In today’s world, loving yourself can be harder than ever. It seems like every man, woman, and occasional child has found some sort of new filter. How are us normal people supposed to compete? And how far do we take the lies to get ahead on social media and dating apps? Today we’re asking where do you draw the line between self love, and self promotion?

Our guest, Robert Mack, a positive psychology expert, celebrity happiness coach, executive coach, and author, is here to teach us lessons and inspiration for loving ourselves, our lives, and each other.

Get some love in with Rob:

@robmackofficial

https://www.coachrobmack.com/

Buy his new book: Love From the Inside Out

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In case you didn’t hear us mention it 1,000x before, we live in la la land, and with that comes a dating pool filled with a variety of characters. As we discussed with casting Director Jess Howard, there are certain archetypes people usually fill, but in LA, you can add “influencer,” “podcaster,” “reality star,” and “actor” to the list. And as we discussed in the last episode with expert dating coach Connell Barrett, sometimes it’s better if you have more “opportunities,” or more “skin in the game,” if you will. We’ve discussed relocating to different cities to try something, and someone(s) new, but would dating in a different zip code really do the trick, or do all cities have their own dating claim to shame?

Our friend, a Self Proclaimed dating expert, Mara Marini, joins us on the pod again, this time to share her experience with dating in LA, and why she’s saying boo-bye to all of the ghosts out there.

Keep up with Mara:

@popgloss

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If you’re into astrology like we are, you’re aware it was recently the Pluto Return, which happens like - every 248 years or something crazy. Well, turns out it sends things into a major transformation, and certain signs feel it more than others. It seems like all things are pointing towards authenticity, and we think finding someone who is authentically themselves is really attractive. Our guest, Connell Barrett, author of the bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and the founder of DatingTransformation.com, is here to help Rob and all of the other men out there attract their dream partners by being true to who they are, with or without Pluto’s help, and introduce the 5 Flirting Frequencies to help sparks fly and singles connect romantically.

Transform with Connell:

@datingtransformation

Buy the Book -  Dating Sucks But You Don’t

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Jen’s been binging Love is Blind lately, like the rest of Netflix subscribers and is strongly considering signing up for a reality dating show. Aside from being away from Mochi for an extended period of time, she can’t help but wonder how she’ll be perceived by the public.

Previously, we’ve been graced with the expertise of a reality TV casting director, but today our guest has had HER reality ON tv!! Vanderpump Rules TV personality, designer and entrepreneur, Kristen Doute, joins us to discuss what it’s like to be in a relationship on TV, how the public’s opinion has affected her relationships on AND off the screen, and how to embrace your “crazy” and never give up on love.

Keep hope alive with Kristen:

@kristendoute

@jamesmae.co

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Valentine’s Day is approaching and unlike the other holidays, it’s one that comes with a multitude of feelings, given that it’s a holiday for couples. We share our thoughts on and experiences with February 14, how to celebrate if you're single, taken, or it's complicated, which kinds of gifts work best, and when it's time to go Instagram official.

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Breakups are hard, and truly can be the worst. We’ve all been there, and have had very different experiences with it, as you’ve heard during some of our episodes.

Our guest, Tim Bader, actor and host of The Bounceback Show, takes his listeners on a wild ride during his weekly podcast, and this week takes us on the wild ride of his on and off-again relationships, the difference between love and lust, whether we’re staying in certain relationships for the right reasons, why it’s okay to be content, and when it’s the right time to walk away.

Get on and off again with Uncle Tim:

@thebouncebackpod and @timmybounceback

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Keep it Complicated with Jen, NotJen, and Rob:

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Breakups are hard, and truly can be the worst. We’ve all been there, and have had very different experiences with it, as you’ve heard during some of our episodes.

Our guest, Tim Bader, actor and host of The Bounceback Show, takes his listeners on a wild ride during his weekly podcast, and this week takes us on the wild ride of his on and off-again relationships, the difference between love and lust, whether we’re staying in certain relationships for the right reasons, why it’s okay to be content, and when it’s the right time to walk away.

Get on and off again with Uncle Tim:

@thebouncebackpod and @timmybounceback

Keep it Complicated with Jen, NotJen, and Rob:

Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @foreversevors, @complicatedshow

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