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Does dating feel like one more thing on your already packed to-do list? 

As a high-achieving woman, you have enough responsibilities without adding the stress of doing all the work in your relationships. 

But what if dating could feel fun and easy again?

In this episode, I share how to shift the dynamic so men step up and support you. You’ll hear about five key areas where you can ask for help, making your life lighter while building deeper connections. 

I’ll also explain how asking for support shows you the kind of effort a man is willing to make—and whether he’s ready to show up for you.

If you’re ready to stop feeling drained by dating and start attracting men who make your life easier, this episode is for you.

Join the Well-Pleased Woman Workshop HERE

 Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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Do you feel like you’re always settling in your love life? Maybe the men you date seem great at first, but they never step up in the way you need them to. You might even wonder if you’re asking for too much…or if the kind of relationship you want is even possible.

In this episode, I break down exactly how to stop settling and start getting what you want in dating. 

We’ll talk about why it’s hard to figure out what you really desire, how to align your actions with your standards, and how to express your needs in a way that invites men to step up or step out. You’ll also hear real stories about how my clients have shifted from frustration to finding men who meet their expectations—and even exceed them.

Join the Well-Pleased Woman Workshop HERE

 Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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Tired of going on great dates and never hearing from the men again?

He compliments you, tells you how much fun he’s having, and it feels like everything is clicking.

Then, just like that—nothing. 

No text, no follow-up call, nothing. 

So you reach out…and there’s no response

If this keeps happening to you, you can break the cycle. 

Listen in as I share with you exactly how to vet men so that you can avoid constant ghosting, before you ever go on a date with them. 

Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to break the cycle of constant ghosting and attract men who are invested in pursuing you from day one. 

 Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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Most women don’t have powerful, healthy love lives. 

It’s not because they can’t or lack the ability.  

It's not because of past trauma or hurt. 

It’s because they aren’t ready to be 100% responsible for their love lives. 

They still want to blame men

They still want to make excuses. 

They still want to stay in their comfort zones

Real power requires real responsibility

It’s not your fault no one taught you how to have a healthy, fun love life, but it is your responsibility to have one. 

In today’s episode, I share what it looks like to have the power to create the love life that lights you up…and what it takes to get there. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• What is Radical Responsibility and how can we implement it while dating. 

• How to finally stop playing the blame game and ditch excuses so you can have the love you desire. 

• The big glaring reason why women can follow my work for years and still never have success with love. 

• 3 Key things we experience once we decide to be radically responsible. 

• How becoming radically responsible radically upgrades your love life. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Episode #11 Becoming the “Sun” in Your Love Life Solar System

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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That moment when a man hops into my comment section talkin’ bout” 

“You giving’ all this advice to women. Are YOU even married?”

As if a man validates my expertise…

As if marriage is a coaching certification…

As if having a husband means having an amazing love life…AND I can teach others to do the same.

Marriage is a relationship status

…Not proof that I can help women transform their love lives. 

So today I hop on the mic to rant a little about why me being married isn’t why you should be taking me seriously as a love coach. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The underlying reason why men troll women about their relationship statuses. 

• Why being married doesn’t qualify me to be a love/dating coach 

• The real reasons why I am a credible expert when it comes to helping women find love. 

• The truth behind women who get triggered by men who holler “Kevin Samuels” talking points. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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I want to invite you to come on a journey with me to the land of fulfilled desires. 

Here the women are satisfied, excited and extremely pleased by the men they are dating.

These men show up ready to serve these women and putting big smiles on their faces.  

Sounds unrealistic?

Think again. 

It may sound far-fetched, but it’s easier than you think to live this kind of life and be loved in this kind of way. 

All you have to do is Teach Men How to Win with You 

In today’s episode, I share a perspective on why teaching men to win with you is so important if you want to have the best experiences with the best men. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• What does it mean to teach men to win with you and practical guidance on how to do this 

• How to get the phone calls and dates that you want…when you want them. 

• The key to communicating to men your desires AND your boundaries so that they show up for you. 

• One of the biggest mistakes women make that causes them to lose out on fun dating experiences with men. 

• 3 things you have to stop doing in order to be successfully pleased by men.

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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Send episode requests here

The way we date men is important. Especially when we’re dating multiple men at a time.

We don’t date multiple men because it’s “cool”

Or to have a one-up on men

Or to distract ourselves from being so attached to the one man we really desire. 

It’s much deeper than that. 

In today’s episode, I get real with you about your dating practices while dating multiple men and I shed some light on why it’s deeper than you think. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How we are conditioned to follow dating rules that don’t serve us. 

• What it truly means to be in relationship with someone

• How most people are dating for transactions and not transformations.

• How dating multiple men is crucial for your personal growth

• All the ways you benefit from dating multiple men deeply

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Vickie High (Cuff-link from November Cohort 2021) shares her testimonial of being 58 years old and dating high-quality men. 

• Episode #4: Dating is a Spiritual Practice

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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Are you frustrated because the men you date aren’t being consistent? 

Because if a man truly is interested, he would reach out to us daily and take us out on a weekly date, Right???

Maybe…or maybe not.

In today’s episode, I share a new perspective on consistency and why we should change the way we expect men to show up while casually dating them

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• What most women think consistency is  vs TRUE consistency 

• Why women are easily fooled and confused by men who they feel are consistent.

• The truth behind why a man may only reach out once a week and still be a man of consistency.  

• Why daily communication with a man does not help move the relationship forward.

• How true consistency is principle focused, not pattern focused. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• A High-Quality Man has a Mission. Mentioned in Episode #2 : What is a Quality Man?

• High Connection/ Low Attachment. Mentioned in Episode #3: How to Date Multiple Men Without Getting Too Attached to One of Them. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”

That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. 

The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women

AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men. 

Why?

Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire

And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together. 

It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean. 

Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating. 

• The difference between a decent woman and a quality woman

• A quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating. 

• The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality men

• Why it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journey

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• How to Become a Triple Threat Success Woman (You can gain access to this free training by applying to Curved 2 Cuffed)

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed