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At the time this episode is airing, it’s December 26. Wherever this Christmas season found you—full of joy, quiet reflection, grief, complexity, or somewhere in between—I hope you were able to encounter God’s presence in a meaningful way.

Today’s episode is a little different.

I’m replaying the most listened-to episode of Curious for Christ of all time:
“Struggling to Trust God in Gender Roles,” a thoughtful and grace-filled conversation with author and evangelist Gordon Ferguson.

This conversation continues to resonate deeply because beneath questions about roles—whether in marriage, family, work, or ministry—there is something even more foundational:

identity.

Identity Before Roles

One of the clearest things God revealed to me this past year is this:

Identity is the foundation of everything.

When our sense of worth is rooted in productivity, performance, approval, guilt, or even “doing the right thing,” exhaustion eventually follows. Even good and godly goals can wear us down if they’re built on the wrong foundation.

Scripture reminds us in Psalm 127:1:

If God isn’t the one building, sustaining, and leading—no amount of effort will ever feel like enough.

A Year of Shedding and Surrender

This past year was a season of shedding for me—unlearning patterns, expectations, and beliefs that had quietly placed distance between me and God. While that process wasn’t easy, I’m deeply grateful for it.

God gently reminded me of something simple and freeing:

I am first His child.
Not a role.
Not a result.
Not a résumé.

Jesus is enough.
God is enough.

As a woman, I’ve spent many years wrestling with who I thought I needed to be, how I thought I needed to show up, and what I thought faithfulness required of me. What God has patiently shown me is this:

Before anything else, I am His daughter—and I am deeply loved.

And whatever He places on my heart, even if no one around me sees it or understands it, I can walk in peace knowing that He does.

Why This Conversation Still Matters

That’s why I wanted to replay this episode.

Because when identity is rooted in God, roles stop being a burden—and trust begins to grow.

This conversation with Gordon Ferguson explores Scripture with depth, humility, and compassion, inviting us to step away from fear-based striving and into trust rooted in who God says we are.

I invite you to listen again—or perhaps for the first time—with fresh ears and an open heart.

Thank you so much for listening.

My prayer is that this conversation reminds you that God is far more interested in your faith than simply in what you do. As we move toward a new year, may your identity be deeply rooted in Him—and may everything else flow from that place of peace, knowing you are deeply loved.

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In this powerful and heartfelt episode of Curious for Christ, Alexandra sits down with Greg Stier, Founder & CEO of Dare 2 Share Ministries, to explore a surprising and deeply encouraging truth:

Greg opens up about his own dramatic childhood story, growing up in a violent, broken family that was transformed by the Gospel through one man’s courage to share Jesus. That transformation shaped Greg’s mission: to equip teenagers, parents, and leaders to confidently share their faith and ignite Gospel movements across the nation.

Together, Alexandra and Greg discuss:

✨ What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Greg’s incredible testimony and how God rescued his family from chaos and fear
• Why teenagers are uniquely positioned to spark revival
• How evangelism isn’t just another church program—it’s actually where our faith grows the deepest
• The powerful connection between sharing the Gospel and overcoming anxiety
• How Greg helped his own daughter battle crippling anxiety through dependence on the Holy Spirit
• New research from A Generation in Reach showing:
  • 3x overall youth ministry growth
  • 10x more Gospel conversations
  • 3x more students discipling other students
• Why parents are the #1 spiritual influencers—and how modeling faith-sharing transforms families
• The difference between “come and see” Christianity and the “go and rescue” mission of Jesus
• Practical steps to help teens and adults start sharing their faith with courage and love

💬 Key Takeaway

Evangelism isn’t about pressure—it’s about participation.
 When we step out in faith and depend on the Holy Spirit, our anxiety diminishes, our joy increases, and our relationship with Jesus grows deeper. Sharing the Gospel isn’t just for others; it’s also for our own healing.

📚 Resources Mentioned

Explore the tools Greg shared in today’s conversation:

• Dare 2 Share Ministries: free curriculum, training, and events
  👉 https://dare2share.org
  
  
• A Generation in Reach Research Report:
  👉 https://dontmissit.org
  
  
• Books by Greg Stier (highly recommended for families and adults):
  • Unlikely Fighter – Greg’s memoir of transformation
  • Radical Like Jesus – 21 challenges to deepen your walk with Christ

All links will be available in the show notes for easy access.

🎄 Christmas Blessing

As we approach Christmas, may the wonder of Jesus—born as a tiny, vulnerable baby—fill your heart with peace and renewed hope. He came close… so we could be free, healed, and deeply known.

📅 Next Episode

Alexandra returns on December 26, right after Christmas, with more faith-building conversations.

See you then. Bye for now!

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In this episode, host Alexandra explores the physical and spiritual reasons behind our body’s “fight, flight, or freeze” response. She talks about how physical tension—the tight shoulders, clenched jaw, or knot in your stomach—is a signal that our nervous system perceives a threat. However, as believers, we can use this moment of awareness as an invitation to lean into our faith. Alexandra offers three practical, faith-based steps to stay grounded and present with God, even in difficult conversations or moments of stress. This episode is a guide to moving from a place of fear to a place of trust, using our bodies as a tool for worship and connection with Christ.

The 3 Steps:

1. Awareness: The first step to staying grounded is simply noticing your physical reaction without judgment. This is a form of “taking every thought captive” and bringing it to God, as described in 2 Corinthians 10:5: "We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ."
2. Breath: Use your breath—a gift from God—to center yourself. Practice deep, intentional breathing as an act of stillness, connecting your body to the present moment and God's presence, as Psalm 46:10 reminds us to “Be still, and know that I am God.”
3. God’s Truth: When your mind spirals with fear, consciously replace those thoughts with God's truth. Recall verses like 1 John 4:18, which says "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear," and remind yourself that you are safe and loved in Him.

Call to Action:

This week, notice your body's tension without judgment but with curiosity. Use your breath as a tool for stillness, and lean on God's truth to anchor you in His love instead of your fear.

And remember, God's love is always near...

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This Podcast Episode introduces you to the world of Julie Landi and her "Live Your Vision" Coaching Program which helps women discover their unique set of strengths, values, and passions. Julie believes that if we take the time to discover, develop, and distribute them, we will make this world a better place, not to mention live a more fulfilling life!
The Episode also discusses the importance of self-awareness and transformation.

A bit about Julie:

With 25+ years of helping women grow their faith and take action toward their own dreams, Julie has a long list of success stories of women’s lives that have been permanently changed for the better. She has an incredible way of drawing out the best and even unrecognized talent in YOU to help you see things you never saw about yourself and do things you’ve never done before. Her practical yet inspiring speaking style is sure to get you ready to take your own life to the next level and convince you that the world needs what you have (in case you didn’t already know that). A few years ago, she felt hopeless and purposeless, drifting through life after several transitions that left her wondering if the best years of life had passed. But that wasn’t good enough for her, or the world. Thus the creation of Live YOUR Vision where she is today living out hers as she helps women all over the world live theirs.

Key Takeaways:

1. Not Me, But Him (Romans 12:4-5): Our lives are for God's glory, not just ours. He uses every part for good!
2. Together We Rise (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10): Transformation thrives within a community of believers.
3. Clarity for Action : Action follows clarity, and clarity comes from God.
4. Daily Uplift (Hebrews 10:24-25): We need daily encouragement, so let's encourage one another!
5. Seek Coaching (Proverbs 12:15): Find a program to help you grow! (Stay tuned for my upcoming program!)

How to get in touch with Julie?
- Check out her Website
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YT (newly launched)
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This episode is about exploring the theme of discontentment and longing for more in life, despite being surrounded by blessings. I delve into the idea that feelings of discontentment can be a catalyst for personal growth and reflection. I share a personal story of how God answered my prayers by granting me a real estate business in the luxury market, which brought unexpected stress and uncertainty but ultimately led to self-discovery and growth. I emphasize the importance of understanding one's core values and priorities, navigating challenges, and finding fulfillment amidst life's uncertainties through faith and self-reflection.

Here are the key takeaways from this episode with Bible verses:

1. Discontent Can Be a Catalyst for Growth (Romans 12:2):
The yearning for "more" might not be ingratitude, but a nudge from God to become a better version of yourself (Romans 12:2 says, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.").

2. Sometimes We're Not Ready for "More" Yet (James 1:17):
Perhaps the things we crave require personal growth before we can truly handle them. As James 1:17 reminds us, "every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." God's timing is perfect, and He may be preparing you for something even better.

3. Challenges Can Reveal Hidden Needs (Ecclesiastes 3:13, Ephesians 4:29):
Difficult experiences, like the unexpected stress of your luxury real estate career, can expose areas in our lives that need attention (Ecclesiastes 3:13 emphasizes, "to enjoy their work, this too is a gift from God."). They can also reveal hidden fears or a need for better communication in your marriage (Ephesians 4:29 advises, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, so that it may benefit those who listen.").

4. Re-evaluation Leads to Fulfillment (Proverbs 3:5-6):
The discomfort of discontent can be a catalyst for self-discovery and ultimately guide you towards a more fulfilling path. Proverbs 3:5-6 offers guidance: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

5. There's Hope, Even When Plans Change (Philippians 2:3-4):
Even if your initial desires don't pan out exactly as planned, the journey itself can lead to a deeper understanding of yourself and purpose. Philippians 2:3-4 provides encouragement: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each to the interests of the others." God may have a different, but even better, path for you.


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This episode takes you on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery sparked by a recent experience at a podcast festival. A little different from the previous two episodes (also at the podcast festival)...

Instead, I'm sharing a raw and unfiltered audio recording of my thoughts during a vulnerable time at the festival. It might not have been what I planned, but it turned out to be a treasure trove of crucial information for my personal growth.

Key Takeaways:

1. To be content, I need to explore what makes my heart happy, while listening to the Spirit. (Jeremiah 17:9)
2. Embracing creativity helps me navigate challenges and be resourceful to find solutions. (John 14:26)
3. I'm not walking this path alone; there's guidance along the way. (Psalm 23:1-2)
4. By laying down solid foundations (with the help of the Holy Spirit), I can build something lasting and more fulfilling. (1 Corinthians 3:12-13)
5. I don't need to conform to the stereotype (like the image of the struggling artist). (Ephesians 2:10)
6. Knowing that God cares about every aspect of my life brings me comfort and reminds me that I am deeply loved. I can be myself. God made me this way. (Psalm 139:13-14)
7. Discovering fulfillment and confidence empowers me to overcome fear and pursue my dreams authentically. (2 Timothy 1:7)

Additional Resources:

• The War of Art by Stephen Pressfield
• Bible Gateway 

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Feeling discouraged or stuck in your business (or even in life)?  This episode explores the hidden battlefield within us all and how a shift in mindset towards unshakeable worth can unlock true success and fulfillment.

Key Takeaways:

• The internal struggle we face can be a reflection of the spiritual battle between good and evil (Ephesians 6:12). By strengthening our faith, we gain the tools to overcome these internal challenges.
• Your worth is not tied to accomplishments, money, or external validation. You are created in God's image and your value is immeasurable (Genesis 1:27).
• Shifting from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset allows you to operate from a place of joy and fulfillment, trusting in God's provision (Philippians 4:19).
• Building a business with unshakeable worth rooted in your faith allows you to focus on your gifts and serve others as an extension of God's love (Romans 12:6).
• This mindset shift extends beyond business, impacting all areas of your life for a more fulfilling experience, allowing you to live a life that glorifies God (Colossians 3:23).

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This episode explores how surrendering to God's plan, even at a podcast festival, can lead to unexpected creative breakthroughs and a deeper connection with your inner voice.

Here are the key takeaways:

1. Trusting God's Creative Flow:

• We can plan and schedule, but ultimately, God guides our paths. Surrendering to His plan allows Him to weave unexpected detours into opportunities for growth and creativity. (Proverbs 16:9: "The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps" (NIV))

2. Listening to Your Inner Voice:

• The Holy Spirit can speak to us through intuition and a sense of peace. Discerning that voice and following its gentle nudges can lead us down unexpected but divinely-orchestrated paths. (Romans 8:14: "For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God." (NIV))

3. Embracing the Unknown:

• Stepping outside our comfort zones and embracing the unfamiliar can be scary, but it's often where God leads us to experience new things and discover hidden potential. Faith allows us to trust that He will guide us even in the unknown. (Hebrews 11:1: "Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." (NIV))

4. Self-Care is Essential:

• Just as Jesus prioritized time for prayer and solitude, prioritizing rest and self-care allows us to be more receptive to God's leading and creatively replenish ourselves. (Mark 1:35: "Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed." (NIV))

5. The Importance of Play and Exploration:

• God created us with the capacity for joy and exploration. Following a playful curiosity and allowing ourselves to explore new things can lead to unexpected creative breakthroughs. (Proverbs 17:22: "A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." (NIV))

6. Rekindling Your Inner Child:

• The Bible encourages us to retain a childlike faith and wonder. Reconnecting with that playful, creative part of ourselves can open doors to new possibilities. (Matthew 18:3: "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." (NIV))

7. God Uses All Experiences for Our Good:

• Even the unexpected detours and challenges we face can be used by God to refine us and shape us into who He created us to be. (Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." (NIV))

8. Creativity is a Gift from God:

• Our creative talents and passions are gifts from God, meant to be used to glorify Him and bless others. Following your creative calling is a way of honoring God's gift within you. (1 Corinthians 12:7-11: "Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. To one is given the word of wisdom by the Spirit, to another the word of knowledge by the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another tongues, and to another the interpretation of tongues. All these are empowered by the one and same Spir

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In this episode, I explore once more the concept of inner child but this time,  in connection to achieving creative goals from a Christian perspective. I delve into the idea that ignoring or resisting challenges can actually delay your progress. By embracing the pain and discomfort associated with growth, you can learn valuable lessons and develop the inner strength necessary to handle your ideal situation.

The episode uses the powerful analogy of childbirth to illustrate this point. Just as a mother needs to surrender to the contractions to allow birth to happen, creatives need to "get out of the way" of their own resistance and trust the process.

Drawing on my own personal experience, the episode offers practical tips on how to:

• Listen to your inner child's clues
• Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth
• Cultivate a spirit of self-awareness and self-acceptance
• Align your creative work with your God-given purpose

This episode is a powerful message for Christian creatives who are ready to break through limitations and accelerate their creative journey.


Do you ever feel like you're praying for a [creative] dream God placed in your heart, but you end up feeling far from Him, your goals, and even yourself?  I know I have!  It can be incredibly frustrating.  But even in that struggle, do you believe there's still a way to connect with God and move closer to your dreams?

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In this episode, join me for a captivating conversation with Frankey Barrz, an acclaimed musician with seven prestigious nominations. We delve into Frankey's quest for self-discovery as he grapples with understanding his place in God's plan, intertwining his love for music, politics, and advocating for marginalized communities, notably those incarcerated. Together, we navigate the complexities of his journey, offering insights that may resonate with you, encouraging you to embrace your own path of exploration into the unknown. Remember, you're never alone—I'm here to support you every step of the way.

Proverbs 13:12
Hope deferred makes the heart sick,
but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.

Key Takeaways:

1. Life is not a straight line. We all have unexpected turns and bumps along the way. They can be tough, but they can also teach us a lot.
2. God gives us dreams for a reason. When we follow those dreams and trust in Him, we learn more about how much He loves and cares for us.
3. We all learn at our own pace. Be patient with yourself and others.
4. Art can help us express ourselves. It's a great way to deal with difficult emotions and experiences.
5. Following God brings peace and guidance. Trusting in Him can help us heal and figure out what to do with our lives.

- Connect with Frankey Barrz on Facebook and on Instagram.

- Check out Frankey Barrz's Debut single: "On The Roll"  and his Debut Studio LP: "Trust, Truth, and Live: The Frankey Barrz Show", exclusively on Patreon.

- Listen to the playlist for the "The Frankey Barrz Show", for which Frankey won 2019 DCTV Voice of Music and Entertainment on, on Youtube.

- Enjoy his album Grace - EP by Frankey Barrz on Spotify.



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