Conversations with a SEND Mum – Details, episodes & analysis

In this episode of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman is joined by Lisa Lloyd, author of Raising the Sen-Betweeners. Lisa shares her personal journey of raising two very different autistic children and the unique challenges they face navigating mainstream school settings when their needs don't quite fit the criteria for specialist education.

Key Highlights:

• Lisa’s Parenting Journey: Lisa discusses the emotional and practical realities of parenting children who fall between the cracks in the system—kids who struggle in mainstream settings but don’t have high enough care needs for specialist schools.
• The Hope Behind the Book: Lisa reveals her motivation for writing Raising the Sen-Betweeners and how she hopes it will offer comfort and validation to parents in similar situations, letting them know they are not alone in their struggles.
• Humour and Connection: Lisa and Nicole chat about the importance of humour in navigating the ups and downs of SEND life. Lisa shares how she uses her social media platforms, ASD with a G and T, to bring light-hearted moments to the SEN community while still being honest about the challenges.

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Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In the first episode of Season 3, Nicole Bateman sits down with Michelle Cyril, The Family Sleep Specialist, to discuss how to help neurodivergent children with complex sleep needs. As a nurse with a specialism in paediatric sleep, and a parent navigated sleep challenges with one of her children, Michelle brings a wealth of knowledge to the conversation.

Highlights of the Episode:

1. Michelle’s Personal Journey:
   Michelle shares her experience as a mum of a child with significant sleep challenges. She talks about how her personal struggles motivated her to develop solutions and ultimately led her to specialise in paediatric sleep support.
2. Meeting Sensory Needs for Better Sleep:
   Michelle dives into the role of sensory processing in sleep difficulties, explaining how meeting a child’s sensory needs can greatly impact their ability to settle at night. She offers practical strategies and insights on how parents can create an environment that helps their children feel safe, calm, and ready for rest.
3. Effective Sleep Strategies for Neurodivergent Kids:
   Nicole and Michelle discuss tailored strategies for supporting sleep and emotional regulation in children who are neurodivergent and may have reduced sleep needs. Michelle outlines some simple steps families can take to improve sleep routines, from addressing sensory sensitivities to creating calming bedtime routines.

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Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In Season 2, Episode 6 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a conversation with Kevin Wrenn, a Dad whose daughter is dyslexic, former school senior leader, and tuition business owner. Together, they delve into the topic of dyslexia, masking in primary school, and the education system.

Episode Highlights:

• Dyslexia and Masking in Primary School: Kevin shares his personal experiences and insights into his journey to dyslexia diagnosis with his daughter, discussing the challenges faced by his daughter in the transition to secondary school. They explore the phenomenon of masking leading to struggles in the classroom.
• Tuition and the Education System: Nicole and Kevin discuss the role of tuition in supporting students with dyslexia and other learning differences. Kevin draws on his expertise as a tuition business owner to share strategies and approaches for providing personalised support and empowering neurodivergent learners to thrive.
• Navigating the Education System: The conversation extends to navigating the complexities of the education system and advocating for all students. Kevin reflects on his experiences as a former school senior leader, highlighting the importance of inclusive practices, early intervention, and collaboration between schools and families.

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Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

*Trigger Warning * Talk of grief, death and cancer. Join host Nicole Bateman for an insightful conversation in Season 2, Episode 5 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum." Nicole welcomes Emma Gray as they explore the complexities of navigating grief as a neurodivergent family.

Episode Highlights:

• Building a Life Around Grief: Emma shares her personal journey of navigating the death of a loved one as a neurodivergent family. They discuss the challenges of processing grief and rebuilding life amidst loss, emphasising the importance of support networks and self-care strategies.
• Sorting Out Sadmin: Nicole and Emma delve into the practical aspects of dealing with administrative tasks (sadmin) while grieving. From managing paperwork to making arrangements, they offer insights and tips for navigating the logistical challenges of loss.
• Sharing News with Children: Emma opens up about the sensitive topic of sharing news of loss with children in a neurodivergent family. They explore age-appropriate communication strategies, fostering open conversations, and providing support and reassurance to children during difficult times.
• Life as a Neurodivergent Family: The conversation extends to the unique dynamics of life as a neurodivergent family navigating grief. Emma and Nicole reflect on the importance of understanding and accommodating neurodivergent needs while processing emotions and seeking comfort.
• Finding Rainbow Moments in Grief: Despite the challenges, Emma and Nicole highlight the importance of finding moments of joy and connection amidst grief. They share inspiring stories of resilience, hope, and finding rainbow moments that bring light and positivity to the journey.

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Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

For Undiagnosed Children's Day 2024, join host Nicole Bateman for a special episode of "Conversations with a SEND Mum." Nicole chats with Claudia Beard, a parent representative for the charity Swan UK, dedicated to supporting families with children who have undiagnosed genetic conditions.

Episode Highlights:

• What is Syndromes Without a Name (SWAN)?: Claudia provides insights into the concept of syndromes without a name (SWAN) and the unique challenges faced by families with undiagnosed genetic conditions. She sheds light on the emotional journey of navigating uncertainties and seeking support within the SWAN community.
• Sharing Hope: Claudia shares her personal journey of hope and resilience, offering encouragement and support to other families navigating similar paths. She emphasises the importance of finding strength in community, advocacy, and celebrating the unique strengths of undiagnosed children.

Note: Learn more about Swan UK and Undiagnosed Children's Day by visiting their website at http://www.geneticalliance.org.uk/swanuk

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

Welcome to Season 2 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum" with your host, Nicole Bateman! In this exciting premiere episode, Nicole kicks off the new season by sharing what's coming up and offering valuable tips on advocating for your child with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND).

Episode Highlights:

• Welcome to Season 2: Nicole warmly welcomes listeners back to the podcast and sets the stage for an empowering new season. She shares her enthusiasm for the upcoming episodes and guest interviews, promising insightful conversations and practical advice for SEND parents.

• 5 Tips for Advocating for Your Child:
  1. Gathering Documentation: Nicole emphasises the importance of collecting and organizing relevant documentation, including assessments, reports, and medical records, to support your child's needs effectively.
  2. Understanding Their Specific Needs: She encourages parents to gain a deep understanding of their child's specific needs, preferences, and challenges, which is key to advocating for appropriate support and accommodations.
  3. Knowing Your Rights and SEND Law: Nicole highlights the significance of familiarising yourself with the rights of children with SEND and the relevant SEND laws and regulations. This knowledge empowers parents to navigate the educational system and access necessary services.
  4. Establishing Communication Channels and Collaboration: Building effective communication channels with teachers, healthcare professionals, and support staff is essential. Nicole discusses the importance of collaboration and teamwork in advocating for your child's best interests but also acknowledges that in reality that is not always the case.
  5. Documenting All Communication: Lastly, she underscores the importance of documenting all communication and interactions related to your child's education and care. Keeping records can help track progress, identify challenges, and ensure accountability.
• Overall, Trust Your Instincts as a Parent: Nicole concludes with a powerful reminder for parents to trust their instincts and advocate passionately for their child's well-being. She shares that you are not alone and invites you to join her over on Instagram.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In episode 2 of Season 2 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Nicola Reekie, owner of The PDA Space. Together, they delve into the concept of low demand parenting, discuss Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), and explore adaptations in education settings for children with PDA.

Episode Highlights:

• Low Demand Parenting: Nicola introduces the concept of low demand parenting, emphasizing the importance of reducing demands and pressure on children with PDA to support their well-being and reduce anxiety. They discuss practical strategies and approaches for implementing low demand parenting techniques in daily life.
• Understanding PDA: Nicole and Nicola explore Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). They discuss common misconceptions of PDA and the challenges faced by individuals with this profile in educational settings.
• Adaptations in Education Settings: The conversation shifts to adaptations and accommodations for children with PDA in education settings. Nicola shares insights into creating supportive environments that cater to the unique needs of neurodivergent learners, promoting inclusion, understanding, and success.
• PDA Summit: Nicola highlights the upcoming PDA Summit from April 26th to 29th 2024, providing an exciting opportunity for learning and collaboration within the PDA community. She invites listeners to participate in this valuable event focused on PDA awareness, education, and support https://www.thepdaspace.com/summit-2024-speakers 

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In episode 3 of Season 2 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a fascinating conversation with Helen Daniel, owner of OTB Sensory. Together, they explore the concept of neurosensory divergence and discuss the physical differences in the brain that impact neurodivergent individuals. They also delve into the importance of classroom adaptations to support neurodivergent children.

Episode Highlights:

• Neurosensory Divergence Explained: Helen provides valuable insights into neurosensory divergence, highlighting the diverse ways in which brains can function and process information. They discuss terms such as monotropic (focusing intensely on one thing at a time) and hyper-polytropic (processing multiple stimuli simultaneously), shedding light on the complexity and diversity of neurodivergent experiences.
• Understanding Brain Differences: Nicole and Helen explore the physical differences in the brain that contribute to neurodiversity, emphasising the importance of recognising and respecting these differences. They discuss how these differences can influence learning styles, behaviours, and sensory processing in neurodivergent children.
• Classroom Adaptations: The conversation shifts to the crucial topic of classroom adaptations and accommodations for neurodivergent students. Helen shares practical strategies and recommendations for creating inclusive learning environments, from sensory-friendly adjustments to personalized supports that cater to individual needs.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this special edition of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman is joined by Sally Brighton, the Fundraising Director of the charity Young Epilepsy. Together, they share important insights, personal stories, and practical tips to raise awareness about epilepsy and celebrate Purple Day.

Episode Highlights:

• Sally's Story: Sally bravely opens up about her journey with epilepsy, sharing her personal story of being diagnosed at the age of 34. She reflects on the challenges, misconceptions, and triumphs she has encountered along the way, offering hope and inspiration to listeners.
• 'Understand My Epilepsy' Campaign: Nicole and Sally delve into the 'Understand My Epilepsy' campaign launched by Young Epilepsy, aiming to increase awareness and understanding of epilepsy. They discuss the importance of education, empathy, and inclusivity in supporting individuals living with epilepsy and their families.
• Celebrating Purple Day: Purple Day is an international effort dedicated to increasing awareness about epilepsy worldwide. Nicole and Sally share exciting ideas and opportunities for everyone to get involved in Purple Day, from wearing purple to hosting fundraising events and sharing educational resources.

For resources discussed in this episode go to: Young Epilepsy | Homepage

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Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this special edition of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman is joined by Nikki Talbot, owner of Pudding and Pie, and a parent of a child with epilepsy. Together, they share personal experiences, and heartfelt reflections on navigating epilepsy parenthood and raising awareness on Purple Day.

Episode Highlights:

• Parenting a Child with Epilepsy: Nikki shares her journey as a parent of a child with epilepsy, offering insights into the challenges, fears, and triumphs she has encountered along the way. She reflects on the impact of epilepsy on family life, relationships, and the importance of resilience in facing adversity.
• Transition into Adulthood: Nicole and Nikki discuss the unique challenges faced by parents as their children with epilepsy transition into adulthood. They explore topics such as independence, healthcare transitions, and the need for ongoing support and advocacy in ensuring the well-being and empowerment of young adults with epilepsy.
• Celebrating Purple Day: Purple Day is an international initiative dedicated to raising epilepsy awareness and promoting understanding and inclusivity. 

Trigger Warning:
Please be advised that this episode includes discussions about seizures, the experience of losing a child, and references to cancer, which may be triggering for some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad