Conversations with a SEND Mum – Details, episodes & analysis

In this episode of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman is joined by Julie Bevan, the franchisor of Dot Kids, a children’s art franchise with a heart and mission rooted in creativity, confidence and inclusion.

Julie shares her lived experience of navigating DLA forms and EHCP processes for her own child, and why that journey reshaped everything about how she sees children, families and the importance of truly inclusive activity spaces.

We talk about why art is such a powerful vehicle for nurturing wellbeing, expression and identity. Julie explains how Dot Kids creates environments that celebrate uniqueness, reduce pressure and support every child to take part in ways that feel safe and joyful for them.

We also discuss Julie’s incredible recognition as Inclusivity Champion in Franchising and why this award meant so much after a challenging year for her family. It represents not only her dedication but the real change she is making across the activity sector.

Julie and Nicole chat about the work they do together through The Friendly SEND Advisor, supporting franchisees and activity providers to become more inclusive in authentic and practical ways. Because the goal is simple. Every child deserves to feel they belong.

Highlights of the episode
• Julie’s personal journey through DLA and EHCP applications
• How lived experience drives her passion for genuine inclusion
• The role of art in supporting mental health and creative expression
• Winning Inclusivity Champion in Franchising at The Disruptive Franchise Awards and what it means
• The importance of training and co-production with families
• Why the children’s activity sector can lead the way to welcome all children

Connect with Julie and Dot Kids
Website: dotkids.co.uk
Facebook and Instagram: @dotkidsart

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this episode of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole sits down with Liz Evans;  an Occupational Therapist, mum, and the brilliant mind behind The Untypical OT.

Together they dive into an honest chat about dyslexia, parental burnout, and what it really means to live and work while navigating neurodivergence as both a parent and professional.

Liz shares her journey with dyslexia and how it has shaped the way she approaches her work and supports families. Nicole opens up about her own ADHD diagnosis, how it helped her understand her patterns of overwhelm and hyperfocus, and why this insight has changed how she looks after herself and her family.

This is a conversation full of compassion, connection, and those 'I thought it was just me' moments exploring the emotional load that often comes with caring, advocating, and trying to hold it all together while supporting neurodivergent children.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The realities of burnout for parents and professionals in the SEND community
• How dyslexia and ADHD shape the way we process, plan, and parent
• Why understanding our own neurotype is key to self-compassion
• Practical strategies for pacing, rest, and regulation
• Letting go of perfection and embracing being 'untypical'

If you’ve ever felt exhausted by the constant juggle or found yourself running on empty while supporting everyone else, this episode is a gentle reminder that you’re not alone and that understanding your own brain is one of the most powerful steps towards balance.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In episode 9 of Season 3 of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman welcomes Mark Allen and Callum Galbraith, two of the 14 fathers featured in The Journey into SEND Fatherhood, a powerful new book by SEND Reform England. Together, they dive into the unique experiences of being SEND Dads, sharing the challenges, triumphs, and personal growth that come with raising children with additional needs.

Key Takeaways:

1. Mark and Callum’s Stories
   Mark and Callum open up about their individual journeys into fatherhood, the initial struggles they faced, and how their perspectives evolved as they learned to navigate the world of SEND.
2. Breaking Down Barriers
   The discussion highlights the emotional toll on dads, the importance of vulnerability, and how societal expectations often impact their roles. They emphasise the need for better recognition and support for fathers within the SEND community.
3. The Inspiration Behind the Book
   Mark and Callum discuss the collaborative effort behind The Journey into SEND Fatherhood and how the book aims to provide solidarity and guidance for other fathers who may feel isolated in their experiences.
4. Advice for SEND Dads
   Nicole, Mark, and Callum share actionable advice for dads, including finding a supportive community, advocating for their children, and the importance of understanding and acceptance.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In Season 3 episode 8 of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman dives into the complex world of restricted eating and ARFID (Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) with expert Michelle Jacques. Together, they discuss:

1. What is ARFID?
   Michelle explains the everyday realities of ARFID, a sensory-based eating disorder. They explore how ARFID differs from other eating challenges and its impact on families.
2. Practical Strategies for Supporting Children with ARFID
   The discussion includes tips and tools to support children with ARFID, including sensory-based considerations, patience, and creating a low pressure environment.
3. Michelle’s Personal and Professional Journey
   Michelle shares her experiences navigating ARFID with her own child and how this inspired her to support other families facing similar challenges.
4. Raising Awareness and Reducing Stigma
   Nicole and Michelle emphasise the importance of understanding ARFID and advocating for increased awareness and support among professionals and educators.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In Season 3 episode 7 of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman is joined by Tania Gerard, an autistic and ADHD advocate, trainer, and speaker. Together, they explore the challenges of being neurodivergent in the workplace and the crucial need for understanding and inclusion in professional settings.

Key Highlights:

• Neurodiversity and Masking in the Workplace: Tania shares her personal experiences of masking in the high-pressure world of marketing. She discusses the toll it took on her mental health and how societal expectations can push neurodivergent individuals to hide their true selves in order to fit in.
• The Journey to Self-Acceptance: Tania opens up about the pivotal moments in her journey to embracing her neurodivergence. From recognizing the harmful effects of masking to understanding her own needs, Tania shares how this transformation inspired her to advocate for others.
• Training Companies on Neurodiversity: Using her lived experiences, Tania now works with businesses to educate them about neurodiversity. She explains how she helps organizations understand the value of diverse minds, the importance of reasonable adjustments, and practical ways to create truly inclusive workplaces.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this episode of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman sits down with Laura Brown, the voice behind Spinning World of Autism. Laura shares her family’s journey with her autistic son, Ethan, and their experiences navigating the world of AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) to support his communication needs.

Key Highlights:

• Embracing AAC and Alternative Communication: Laura opens up about their decision to explore AAC as a way to give Ethan a way of communicating. She discusses the initial challenges, the learning curve, and the transformative impact it’s had on Ethan’s ability to communicate his needs, preferences, and feelings.
• The Journey to Specialist School: Laura shares the emotional highs and lows of securing a specialist school placement for Ethan. She reflects on the advocacy required, the barriers they faced, and the relief that came with finding a school where Ethan can thrive. Her story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the importance of finding the right educational fit for each child.
• Navigating the Ups and Downs of Parenting: Throughout the conversation, Laura and Nicole dive into the realities of parenting a neurodivergent child. They chat about celebrating the small wins, embracing differences, and the importance of a supportive community.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In Episode 5 of Season 3 of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman sits down with Rachel Slyfield, founder of Rachel’s 3 R’s Subscription Box, who shares her journey as a SEND mum and her passion for self-care. Rachel opens up about her experience navigating the diagnosis process with her son, Teddy, and the ways she’s learned to balance parenting, self-care, and running her business.

Key Highlights:

• Rachel’s Journey with Teddy: Rachel recounts the challenges she faced during her son’s diagnosis process, offering insight and encouragement for other parents on a similar path. Her story resonates with many, reflecting the unique emotional and logistical hurdles SEND parents encounter.
• Sustainable Self-Care as a Single Parent: As a single parent, Rachel discusses her commitment to fitting in regular self-care and how it supports her wellbeing and resilience. She shares practical strategies for creating sustainable self-care practices that don’t require extensive time or resources -something that has been central to her journey.
• Building Rachel’s 3 R’s: Inspired by her own experiences, Rachel launched Rachel’s 3 R’s Subscription Box, designed to help SEND mums find moments of escape, reflection, and rejuvenation. Rachel and Nicole talk about the subscription’s focus on wellness and how each box includes curated items and masterclasses that encourage self-care for busy mums.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In episode 4 of Conversations with a SEND Mum Season 3, host Nicole Bateman chats with Nikki Saunders, an incredible mum of two autistic boys and the brilliant mind behind the TV series Ready Eddie Go on Sky Kids. Nikki shares her journey of becoming an author, driven by her desire to support her own children in understanding their autism diagnosis.

Key Highlights:

• The Beginning of Nikki’s Journey: Nikki recalls a pivotal moment when she walked into a bookstore searching for a book that would help her son understand his autism diagnosis, only to find there was nothing available. Determined to fill this gap, Nikki decided to write a book herself—a decision that not only helped her son but also led her into the world of publishing.
• Autistic Representation in Media: Nikki and Nicole discuss the importance of autistic representation in children's media, especially in helping neurodivergent children see themselves positively reflected on-screen. Nikki shares the creative process behind Ready Eddie Go and how she worked with the talented team at Hocus Pocus Studio to bring this ground-breaking series to life.
• The Power of Storytelling for SEND Families: They also dive into how storytelling can be a powerful tool for helping children understand their differences, process emotions, and build confidence. Nikki’s passion for creating accessible content for all children shines through as she talks about her mission to make sure autistic kids see themselves in the stories they consume.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this episode of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman is joined by Tamara Holland from Dot and Stripe Marketing to raise awareness for Developmental Language Disorder (DLD) on DLD Awareness Day. Tamara, a passionate advocate and parent of a child with DLD, shares her personal journey and the challenges of navigating life with a diagnosis that is often misunderstood or overlooked.

Key Highlights:

• What is DLD?: Tamara breaks down what Developmental Language Disorder is, explaining how it affects children’s ability to understand and use language, and why it’s often misdiagnosed or confused with other learning differences.
• Tamara’s Journey: Tamara discusses her experience as a parent of a child with DLD, from the early signs and diagnosis to advocating for support in education and daily life. She emphasises the importance of early intervention and understanding the unique needs of children with DLD.
• Raising Awareness and Creating Change: Nicole and Tamara talk about the importance of raising awareness for DLD, especially on days like DLD Awareness Day, to ensure that children with this condition receive the support and recognition they deserve. Tamara also shares tips for parents and educators on how to help children with DLD thrive.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this episode of Conversations with a SEND Mum, Nicole Bateman is joined by Lisa Lloyd, author of Raising the Sen-Betweeners. Lisa shares her personal journey of raising two very different autistic children and the unique challenges they face navigating mainstream school settings when their needs don't quite fit the criteria for specialist education.

Key Highlights:

• Lisa’s Parenting Journey: Lisa discusses the emotional and practical realities of parenting children who fall between the cracks in the system—kids who struggle in mainstream settings but don’t have high enough care needs for specialist schools.
• The Hope Behind the Book: Lisa reveals her motivation for writing Raising the Sen-Betweeners and how she hopes it will offer comfort and validation to parents in similar situations, letting them know they are not alone in their struggles.
• Humour and Connection: Lisa and Nicole chat about the importance of humour in navigating the ups and downs of SEND life. Lisa shares how she uses her social media platforms, ASD with a G and T, to bring light-hearted moments to the SEN community while still being honest about the challenges.

Follow Lisa on her social media channels ASD with a G and T for more stories, tips, and relatable humour.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad