Come With Us Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

Sometimes, the weight of life's events calls for a pause, a deep breath, and a heartfelt reflection. Today, I'm holding the space to share a significant update about 'Come With Us' and to honor the profound impact my co-host Beth has made, as she deals with the unimaginable loss of her beloved daughter, Kaia. While Beth has stepped back to navigate through her grief—a journey with no roadmap or timeframe—we remember her warmth and wisdom through her countless contributions to the podcast and invite you to explore her resources at bethdarling.com.

This episode is not just an announcement, but a celebration of the moments we've shared, from the early days with Beth, Tina, and myself, to the laughter and learning that came with every discussion about sex and relationships. We recognize that the essence of our show thrives on the dynamic between co-hosts and while the format may change, the spirit of 'Come With Us' continues. Revisit our most memorable episodes or discover them for the first time, and join me as we cherish the past and look forward to the future with hope and gratitude for the journey we've all shared.

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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Ever felt the allure of the unknown, the mysterious spark that tingles more than just your curiosity? Dara from the effervescent Pink Kink podcast returns to our audio haven to explore the electrifying realm of electro play and sensation play. Strap in for an episode that's charged with the vibrant energy of a violet wand and the insightful tips on how to safely incorporate these buzzing practices into your erotic explorations. Dara's expertise is not only invigorating but also educational, as she teases the details of the Pink Kink Institute's upcoming beginner class. It's high-voltage pleasure with a side of giggles, transforming taboo into tantalizing temptation.

Have you ever wondered how the sting of a horse curry comb could possibly enhance your intimate encounters? We unravel the complexities of electricity play, from the necessity of a high pain threshold to the thrilling unpredictability that comes with the territory. Hear about the logistical puzzles of transporting kinky gear, the importance of safety and consent in BDSM, and why a good cleanup is as essential as the play itself. As we share candid tales from personal experiences to the less glamorous aspects of adult entertainment, the conversation sparkles with humor and the kind of blunt honesty that makes for an unforgettable listening experience.

Wrapping things up, we cast a light on the nuances of ElectroPlay, emphasizing the importance of trying out those intriguing toys before making an investment. With stories that will have you laughing and nodding in agreement, we unveil the practical challenges, like navigating gear transportation and the all-important post-play cleanup. Dara's charm guides us through an episode brimming with anecdotes and advice that promise to leave you both more knowledgeable and entertained. Connect with us and feel the buzz of our latest podcast adventure – it's a jolt of joy you won't want to miss.

Make sure to check out Dara on the Pink Kink Podcast! AND if you want to register for her intro to electro class check it out here!

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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Step into the fascinating realm of psychedelics and their transformative potential with us, as we welcome Joe Moore, co-founder of Psychedelics Today. Together, we tackle the macho culture in professional sports and ponder the shifting perceptions around psychedelics, brought to light by athletes like Aaron Rodgers. Psychedelics could be the paradigm shift in mental health and sports psychology, enabling athletes to face mental health issues head-on. But how?

The second half of our conversation dives into the healing abilities of ketamine and psilocybin, substances that are not just mind-altering but potentially mind-healing. Discover how they could promote nerve tissue regrowth, help individuals resolve traumatic experiences, and even induce mystical experiences. But psychedelics are powerful substances, and their use comes with a certain level of caution. We delve into the ethical concerns within psychedelic spaces, emphasizing the importance of informed consent, sober guides, and the role of breathwork for personal growth. Strap in for an intellectually stimulating episode packed with expert views and compelling dialogue.

If you want to learn more, check out https://psychedelicstoday.com/ 

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

This episode could save your relationship. 

We're 100% serious about that statement. On this episode we go into the four relationship killers as laid out by Drs. Julie & John Gottman. Here's just a few of the topics we touched on:

• Sexy Ed School - Learn from Beth, Your Sexy Genius! Take 20% off using the code "COMEWITHUS"
• How to avoid these relationship mistakes
• How to repair your relationship
• 60% of people who get divorced don't fight
• Fighting is part of a happy relationship
• Our most recent fights
• Words said during fights can sting
• Using absolutes like "always" and " never"
• "Kitchen Sink"-ing
• Fights are good for airing frustrations
• Fights are goof for resolving issues
• Getting called out
• Leaving clothes on the floor
• Don't get emotional about conflicts
• Being insecure can make you more defensive
• How to deescalate emotions
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• If one person starts handling things better, the other will follow.

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://sexyedschool.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

This week, we're talking manscaping... from the top of your heads to the tips of your toes... and everything in between.

Before we get into the heart of the show notes,  I wanted to mention our new sponsor: Manscaped!  Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com!

Now on to the episode, where we talked about:

• Male grooming
• Shark Tank
• We didn't learn these skills in school
• Body odor
• Body hair
• Nails
• How did Aaron learn to shave his face?
• Scandinavian men don't need to shave as often?
• Sensitive skin
• When did you start shaving your bush?
• The importance of a good barber
• Controlling dandruff
• 3-in-one shampoo, conditioner, body wash
• Unibrows
• Trimming nose hair
• Cologne
• Biting fingernails
• Mani/Pedis

And much more! Hey, let us know if you use our Manscaped discount (Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com), just send an email to us with your story to comewithusconfessions@gmail.com!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://sexyedschool.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

If you've encountered a commercial on TV or the radio you know the "most romantic day of the year" is coming up on February 14. 

And if you've listened to our podcast you know that we do not agree with that statement.  I mean, we want you take make every single day as romantic as the Valentine's Day commercials depict the holiday. 

But the realistic, wholehearted version of it. So our episode this week is 100% focused on  creating a mutual day of pleasure and love... for men & women. Here's just a few things we touched on:

• "Oh shit! It's Valentine's Day!"
• Who is St. Valentine?
• Valentine's vs. Christmas
• Valentine's vs. Easter
• Beth loves candy
• Loving love
• Creating a new holiday called "Candy Day" (editor's note: I am here for this)
• Over-commercialization of holidays
• Valentine's Day is not all about the female
• Why don't both sides give?
• Mutually beneficial holiday
• Throw away the cliches
• Making cards
• Taboos
• How to make Valentine's Day wor for your relationship
• Ladies can plan V-Day too
• Sexiest things you can cook at home
• Manscaped (Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code COMEWITHUS at MANSCAPED.com! #ad #manscapedpod)
• Aaron was an early manscaper

And so much more. What are your Valentine's plans? Share them with us at comewithusconfessions@gmail.com!

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://sexyedschool.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Scheduling sex sounds like the epitome of BMS (Boring Married Sex), doesn't it? Well, the gang's here to tell you that it is not in this enlightening episode all about scheduling sex. 

Here's just some of the stuff we covered this week:

• People think scheduling sex is not romantic or spontaneous
• Aaron's experience scheduling sex
• Sex schedules are similar to gym schedules
• Dates are fun - schedule a date!
• Sexy dates vs. 'other' dates
• Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma'am Sex
• New Relationship Energy
• Getting hyped up throughout the day
• Tina's opinion on scheduled sex
• Movie sex isn't real sex
• Men like to be seduced too
• The difference between "Sexy Fun" and regular sex
• Foreplay & orgasms
• Orgasms & getting pregnant
• Fear is keeping us from sexy
• Fuck buddies
• 28 days makes a habit
• "Just lay there and spread your legs"
• Adding quotas

Have you tried scheduling sex before? We'd love to hear (and maybe share!) your story. Just email us at comewithusconfessions@gmail.com.

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://sexyedschool.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

This week, the gang plays with what Aaron expects to be some "nerdy-ass Harry Potter thing" and expects that someone will "get their ass electrocuted" but no, the gang's playing with the Violet Wand, a gorgeous piece of electro-stim sex tech that is completely safe and, of course, somewhat shocking!

And of course, we all had to test it out, too!

Here are just a few things we buzzed about this episode:

• What *is* the Violet Wand?
• Hearing the buzzing
• Seeing the purple electricity
• Glass rake
• Telsa developed the tech for the Violet Wand
• Violet rays make you feel good
• Static electricity
• Electrostimulation
• Electric Sex
• E-Stim
• Pacemakers + E-Stim
• Burning body hair
• Comparing E-Stim to getting a tattoo
• The noise is intimidating. 
• Using the Violet Wand heightens your awareness & sensation
• You can use your body to conduct the electricity
• How the rubber attachment on the Violet Wand works
• Testing vibrators on the tip of your nose
• Cattle prods
• Electronic Stimulation is good for power play
• Syncing electricity of music

and much, much more!

Please, if you decide to try out the Violet Wand or other E-Stim technology, consult your physician first.
 
Have you tried the Violet Wand? We'd love to hear about it! Email us at comewithusconfessions@gmail.com. 

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://sexyedschool.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

While we were unable to attend the Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas this year, we did have an amazing time talking about all the sex tech that came out of CES 2022! Here's a litte overview of what we talked about this episode:

• Our Goal: Attend CES 2023
• Sex toy drama at CES 2019
• Osé  Robotic Massager
• Lara DiCarlo
• Being "too obscene for the robotics category"
• Metaverse
• VR sex
• Vibrator ads on subways
• The concept of a Fleshlight
• App-controlled pleasure props
• So much testing needs to be done
• Lovense
• Buying direct from the manufacturer
• V-Patch
• Baci Baci
• Womanizer
• Satisfyer
• The Handy 
• Beth's VR experience

and more! Have you run into an interesting piece of sex tech? Tell us about it at comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

We started talking about sex hormones last week on our "Sex Under the Influence" episode.  So we kept the conversation going this week, covering sexy hormones, sex chemistry and more, including:

• Attachment Bro - Adam Lane Smith
• Attachment Bro on TikTok
• Do hormones work different for males and females?
• Oxytocin vs dopamine vs serotonin vs norepinephrine
• Hook up culture
• Post-nut clarity
• Cuddling after sex
• What oxytocin does to the body
• Studying brains during sex
• Masters & Johnson
• Johns Hopkins psychedelics lab
• TikTok wants to teach men to bond chemically
• Bonding, attachment and sex
• Bonding through sports
• Big feet? Big dick.
• Kissing starts the hormones
• Toe-sucking
• Benefits of swallowing semen
• The reason why people stop kissing

and so much more. Did you like this episode? Leave us a review! Click here.

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S  &  S O C I A L   M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://sexyedschool.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us:

comewithusconfessions@gmail.com

Support the show

WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?

Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!

Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!

Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!

Website: https://bethdarling.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast

Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast

Contact Come With Us: comewithusconfessions@gmail.com