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Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love
Kimmy Seltzer
Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 400

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🇬🇧 Great Britain - relationships
12/11/2024#99
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Beyond the Swipe: How to Meet People in Real Life with Jena Kingsley
vendredi 13 juin 2025 • Duration 41:41
Have you ever wanted to strike up a conversation with a stranger—at a coffee shop, in line at the store, or on a first date—but felt totally tongue-tied or worried you’d seem awkward? In Episode 399 of The Charisma Quotient, “Beyond the Swipe: How to Meet People in Real Life with Jena Kingsley” Kimmy sits down with the fearless and funny Jena Kingsley. Jena is a comedian, writer, and the viral sensation behind daring, hilarious social experiments that turn the everyday awkward into unforgettable moments. Featured on CNN, MTV, The Today Show, and with her popular book Darcy Dates: An Unfiltered Dating Diary, Jena brings unmatched insight on how to break out of your shell and connect in real life.
Kimmy and Jena tackle the mental barriers that hold most of us back—fear of rejection, negative self-talk, overanalyzing interactions—and reveal how curiosity and authenticity can turn those fears upside down. You’ll learn why embracing spontaneity and sharing simple observations can spark genuine conversations, plus why it’s better to focus on whether you like them rather than worrying if they like you.
You’ll hear some of Jena’s most memorable stories, like the time a rainstorm in LA led to a flirty chat at a bar, or her viral New York subway pole-dancing prank that proves sometimes you just have to leap…and trust it’ll work out.
You’ll hear:
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Why “perfect” opening lines actually don’t matter—imperfect, spontaneous comments often lead to the most real connections
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How practicing small risks, like playful social challenges or “scavenger hunt” dates, can massively boost your social confidence
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Jena’s favorite mindset hacks for ditching self-censorship and staying present
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Stories of awkward elevator moments, viral public pranks, and what they teach about authenticity, humor, and breaking the ice—even with total strangers
Want to finally shed your social anxiety and start connecting for real? Come to Kimmy’s next interactive workshop, Conversation Hacks to help you get from boring conversations to flirty ones. Register at www.stophatingdating.com
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
How Self-Worth Sabotages Your Dating Life: Coaching with Kimmy
jeudi 5 juin 2025 • Duration 38:57
Do you ever wonder how your self-worth is secretly impacting your dating life? Are you stuck in the same painful patterns—chasing the unavailable, feeling unworthy, or never quite connecting with the right match? In Episode 398 of The Charisma Quotient, “How Self-Worth Sabotages Your Dating Life: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy coaches Jessica, a single mom and nurse who’s struggling with insecurity, self-concept, and a cycle of unfulfilling dates. Together they unpack why feeling “not enough” can become an unconscious magnet for the wrong partners—and why genuine confidence, not external validation, is the real key to love.
In this episode, Kimmy dives deep into how low self-esteem, formed long before your first date, acts as a silent magnet, influencing who you're drawn to, the choices you make, and even your body language.
Jessica bravely shares her journey—from a 15-year marriage and a supportive family, to the struggles she faces dating after divorce. Despite external affirmations of her attractiveness, Jessica wrestles with persistent feelings of not being "the pretty one," a pattern rooted in childhood and shaped by past relationships. Together, Kimmy and Jessica explore how past wounds, perfectionism, and protective shields can keep you stuck in unsatisfying dating loops—chasing after emotionally unavailable partners and feeling disconnected from those who are present and genuine.
Kimmy offers relatable coaching and actionable steps, encouraging Jessica to step into her confidence, get comfortable being seen, and shift the way she views herself inside and out.
You’ll hear:
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Why unresolved insecurities silently run the show in dating
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How early experiences and family patterns fuel attraction to the wrong people
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Real-life coaching moments and simple challenges to boost confidence and presence
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Actionable steps to move towards more self confidence
If you are finding yourself not able to attract love or even date due to self worth issues, book a FREE private call with Kimmy to discuss ways of overcoming your love challenges: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
ICYMI: Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy
jeudi 27 mars 2025 • Duration 46:08
Do you consider yourself an introvert? Are you in your head a lot and analyze everything to death to the point that it’s affecting your dating life? In Episode 391 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Evan live on the episode to help him get out of his own way when dating.
In this coaching session, Kimmy and Evan delve into the challenges that introverts face, from the exhausting overthinking in social scenarios to navigating extrovert-dominated dating environments. Evan shares his poignant story of overcoming Bell's palsy, a condition that not only affected his confidence but also became a turning point in his life. Through self-discovery and transformation, Evan emerged stronger and more in tune with himself—an inspiring testament to resilience and personal growth. Kimmy offers practical advice on how to shift from reactive to proactive approaches in dating, ultimately paving the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
You’ll hear:
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The magic of leaning into discomfort of social interactions to get over the fears attached to it
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How to stop overthinking and start taking action in dating.
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The significance of addressing the discomfort introverts feel in social situations.
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How to alleviate anxiety in order to make more genuine connections with others.
If you are an introvert and want help stepping out of your comfort zone and come up with a plan to put yourself out there, book a FREE breakthrough call with Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
************************************************
Would you like to connect with Kimmy?
Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/
Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer
Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com
Using Emotional Intelligence When Dating: Interview With Nada Lena
vendredi 9 juin 2023 • Duration 41:56
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!
************************************************ EPISODE 299 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Emotional Intelligence When Dating: Interview With Nada Lena Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Overcoming Your Dating Fears: Coaching with Kimmy
vendredi 2 juin 2023 • Duration 45:54
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later! ************************************************ EPISODE 298 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Your Dating Fears: Coaching With Kimmy Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer’s Dating Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: Interview With Kat Polsinelli
vendredi 26 mai 2023 • Duration 38:05
Introvert Dating Challenges: Coaching with Kimmy
vendredi 19 mai 2023 • Duration 49:49
Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone
vendredi 12 mai 2023 • Duration 23:52
************************************************ EPISODE 295 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
How To Find Your JSpot: Interview With Shari Alyse
vendredi 5 mai 2023 • Duration 30:12
This week on the show, Kimmy has a conversation with best-selling author and speaker Shari Alyse, who is known as the Joy Magnet who works with people to live joyful lives. EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot: Interview With Shari Alyse Shari shares candidly about experiencing childhood sexual abuse and how that trauma impacted the trajectory of her life and her ability to feel true joy. Shari shares how she felt disconnected from herself and her journey to reconnect to herself, and her happiness. Kimmy asks Shari what her life was like when she was in a dark place and what strategies she used to move forward. Shari discusses strategies around healing, starting with finding joy and acknowledging where you are and what really feels good to you. Shari and Kimmy talk about Shari’s dating life and how she started to turn her life around and prioritize what she wanted. Listen in to hear Shari’s top tips about how to ignite joy in your life. This conversation will remind you that joy, levity and play are within your reach! If you are not feeling the spark of joy or flirtiness in your life, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you. First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude! Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit. She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later! ************************************************ EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot: Interview With Shari Alyse. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups
Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable: Coaching with Kimmy
vendredi 28 avril 2023 • Duration 39:00