Boujee Best Friend with Koko – Details, episodes & analysis

EP97: When it comes to dating, we’ve seen it all—and now we’re ready to spill. In this episode, Lisa and I are unpacking the wild lessons we’ve learned from our dating adventures. We’re diving into the non-negotiables we swear by, the red flags we’ll never ignore again, and why the idea of “being chosen” is overrated.

Whether you’re navigating the dating scene or just love some juicy girl talk, this episode is a must-listen. We’re getting real about setting boundaries, knowing your worth, and staying true to yourself no matter what. So grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and join us for a no-holds-barred chat about the ups and downs of dating today!

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E96: In this episode, Lily Comba, co-founder and CEO of Superbloom, shares her journey in the influencer marketing industry and the founding of her agency. She emphasizes the importance of building authentic relationships with influencers and bridging the gap between performance-driven strategies and human-first campaigns.

Lily delves into her corporate experience and the challenges of transitioning to entrepreneurship, offering valuable insights into the mindset and strategies required to start a successful business. She also discusses the significance of investing in influencer marketing, especially for small brands on a budget, and the value of user-generated content. We also explore how brands can stand out on social media, the importance of setting realistic expectations, and effective communication in influencer partnerships.

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EP87: Kim Van Haaster is a beauty entrepreneur, mom, Founder and CEO of Bloomeffects. Kim had always dreamt of creating her own skincare line. Despite her years of experience in the New York beauty industry, she never discovered a truly unique, pure, and natural ingredient that delivered effective results—until she moved to the Netherlands for love!

Can you guess what the magic ingredient is? TULIPS! Kim combined the magical compounds from a tulip and her love for beauty into a bottle. And sold it all over the world. Tune in to hear all about the beginnings of Kim’s career and advice for how she climbed to the top. You, too, can have it all… and with Kim’s advice, this episode will get you one step closer. 

Episode Highlights

Kim’s early years and successful career 

Tips from Kim on climbing the corporate ladder 

How Kim met her Tulip farming husband on a dance floor in Ibiza 

The incredible story behind Bloomeffects 

Beauty product ingredients and coming up with the products 

Advice on how to start a brand 

Making mistakes in the early years of your brand 

Recruiting a strong team 

Where to find Bloomeffects 

Shhhh… we may be having a giveaway 

Timestamps 

0:00- 1:45 | Intro 

1:45- 5:40 | Kim’s early career journey 

5:40- 8:25 | Advice for climbing the ladder in corporate beauty 

8:25-13:30 | Meeting the love of your life on the dance floor 

13:30- 20:20 | The story behind Bloomeffects and how it became the popular brand it is today 

20:20- 32:44 | How Kim has been expanding her business 

32:44- 47:05 | Making mistakes and advice on starting a brand today

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CONNECT WITH KIM

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EP86: Let’s be real—your twenties are often hyped up as the best years of your life, but they can also be some of the most challenging. In today's episode, I'm going to open up and share a mix of experiences, from the wildest birthday parties to those moments of reflection where I wonder, “What was I thinking?”

Your twenties are meant to be a struggle. We have all been there. Dating mistakes, money problems, major hangxiety, outgrowing friendships, and feeling like we don’t fit in. 

We've all had our fair share of dating mistakes, financial struggles, and times when we’ve felt like we just didn’t fit in. I'll delve into my own journey, discussing moments of confusion, the pressure to please others, and why embracing your true self is so important.

If you are feeling lost, you are not alone. It is a decade full of uncertainty. So grab your headphones, and let’s get into it.

Episode highlights

• My parents came to town 
• My teenage years
• Letting old relationships go 
• People-pleasing in your twenties 
• Feeling like I did not belong
• No one thinks about you as much as you think they do 
• Trying to do good things in my life that help other people 
• Having kids and your biological clock 
• Boujee Bestie Trip
• Invisalign

Timestamps:

0:00- 0:30 | Intro

0:30- 5:00 | My parents came to town

5:00- 8:15 | My teenage years

8:15- 10:30 | Your twenties are your people-pleasing years

10:30- 14:45 | Feeling like I did not belong

14:45- 17:20 | Do NOT change yourself for other people  

17:20- 19:00 | Your twenties are not all that 

19:00- 20:30 | Having kids and biological clocks 

20:30- 26:00 | Current updates: Boujee Besties Trip, Invisalign, and keeping standards high

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EP85: On this episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with the fabulous Allison McNamara, the mastermind behind Mara Beauty. Picture this: award-winning skincare and wellness products infused with algae, sourced straight from the coasts of France and Ireland. Mara Beauty takes skincare to the next level.

Throughout the interview, Allison gives advice for aspiring entrepreneurs, highlighting the significance of passion and perseverance. She discusses the challenges she faces in building her brand and how she overcame them.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in skincare, entrepreneurship, or seeking inspiration from a successful business founder. Join us as we dive into the world of beauty with Allison McNamara and uncover the secrets behind Mara Beauty's success!

Episode highlights…

About Allison McNamara and Mara Beauty

Starting a brand or business

Staying organized

Advice for success

Pitching your brand for breakthrough moments

How to spend your free time as an entrepreneur 

Hustle culture

Mara Beauty products  

The role of social media in business 

The future of Mara Beauty 

Advice from Allison McNamara

Timestamps

0:00- 2:00 | Intro 

2:00- 5:00 | About Mara

5:00- 20:00 | Mara Beauty and success in business 

20:00- 27:30 | Pitching your brand for success 

27:30- 32:30 | Spending time off the clock 

32:30- 40:00 | The future of Mara Beauty and business advice 

40:00- 40:50 | Outro 

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CONNECT WITH ALLISON

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EP84: Like most BFFs right now, my friend Lisa and are getting down and dirty discussing the most recent season of Love is Blind. We're sipping wine to get the convo flowing, and we're ready to unpack all the unhinged behavior from this season. Let me give you a sneak peek of our unfiltered opinions: Trevor is just seeking fame and attention, Chelsea is not exactly a Megan Fox lookalike (no offense), Johnny seems to be clueless about protection (but we hope he figures it out for Amy's sake), Sarah Ann and Jeremy are the worst, and someone needs to check on Matthew (although AD might be doing that post-show). As for Clay, he's either a weak man or a work in progress (but he needs to step it up).  We have a lot more to say and trust me, you don't want to miss it. Our final question is for all of you: Is love blind? Grab a drink, sit back, and join us as we laugh, vent, and spill all the tea on Love is Blind. It's a wild ride, and we're here for it. Episode highlights… Would you do reality TV just to get famous? Jimmy’s disappointment with Chelsea Breaking down Jimmy’s lack of contraceptive knowledge  Why we are huge fans of Jessica Sarah Ann’s and her problematic behavior  Brittany and Kenneth are boring  Unpacking Matthew  AD dating Matthew after the show Weak men and men in progress (We are talking about you, Clay) Is love really blind?  Timestamps  0:00- 2:00 | Intro 2:00- 10:10 | Going on Reality TV to get famous  10:10- 21:20 | Hot takes with Jimmy and Chelsea  21:20- 24:20 | Amy and Johnny  24:20-31:20 | Jessica is going to THRIVE  31:20- 39:00 | Laura and Jeremy (and Sarah Ann…)  39:00- 42:00 | Brittany and Kenneth have no sparks  42:00- 44:15 | Unpacking Matthew  44:15- 52:50 | Clay and AD- Clay is a weak man  52:50- 56:39 | Our final thoughts on Love is Blind  ⁠Spokeo - People Search Website⁠ CONNECT WITH KOKO ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://boujeebestie.com⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠https://m.youtube.com/@KokoBeaute CONNECT WITH LISA ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisaxgilmore/⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/unwinedingpod/ https://www.instagram.com/emmeclub/ https://emmeclub.com/⁠

EP83: At the start of this year, my goal was to slow down and focus on self-care. But, in Koko fashion, I found chasing perfection and loading up on tasks left and right. Life, however, had different plans, and things quickly spiraled into complete chaos… Do you ever feel like you're running on a never-ending hamster wheel?

In today's SOLO, we are celebrating Women's Month and Endometriosis Awareness Month, by diving into the topics of intimacy, red flags in sex, and of course, ways to spice up your sex life. 

We're diving into your most pressing questions because, ladies, you deserve love and respect in every aspect of your life – including romantic relationships and friendships. Stay tuned for more updates and juicy AF discussions. XOXO

P.S. Remember that epic Ibiza and Mallorca trip last year? Well, get ready because we're going even bigger! Prepare for a Boujee Besties Miami escape from May 22nd to May 26th. Spots will be limited for a more intimate experience, so keep your eyes peeled for the official announcement!

Episode Highlights:

• Boujee Besties trip  

• Love is Blind  

• Celebrating Women

• Endometriosis Month 

• Sexual pressures 

• Finding your soulmate (who respects you) 

• Red flags in sex

• How to spice up your sex life 

• Taking control of your own life 

• Female friendships 

  
  

Timestamps:

0:00- 3:30 | Introduction

3:30- 12:00 | Boujee Besties Trip and Celebrating Women

12:00- 16:20 | Endometriosis and women’s health  

16:20- 24:30 | Feeling pressured to do things you may not want to do 

24:30- 28:30 | Taking control of your life 

28:30- 32:20 | Finding your soulmate 

32:20- 34:20 | How to spice up your sex life 

34-20- 37:04 | Female friendships  

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Your 'Type' is Holding You Back from Finding True Love- On Happiness, Soulmates, and Surrender ft. Kute Blackson

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EP82: This week, we're diving deep into the world of female friendships, but we're taking it a step further than just "Girl Code." We're exploring the importance of respecting yourself and your relationships. I personally believe in holding myself and those around me to a very high standard. I would rather have very close friendships or none at all. I mean, what's the point of giving so much of yourself to others if you're not getting anything in return?  Ladies, it is time we stop wasting our energy on less than relationships. This episode is all about respecting yourself, setting high standards, and building connections that enrich your life. So, grab your pen and paper as I share 22 girl code rules to live by. Oh, and if you only leave this episode with one piece of advice… PLEASE don’t be the friend that “ex-hops.” It’s not cute. XOXO let’s go :) Episode highlights: NEVER sleep with your best friend’s ex Going out rules in girlhood  Never leave a girl behind at the bar  Successful people don’t go out past 3 am Be a better plus one at events  Tell your girlfriends if they have a wardrobe malfunction How to post photos of your friends  CARE if your friend lives or dies  Hype up your friends at all times  Timestamps:  0:00- 2:20 | Intro 2:20- 4:00 | #1 rule of girlhood  4:00- 12:45 | Going out rules in girlhood 12:45- 16:30 | How to appropriately interact with others  16:30- 20:50 | Hyping up your friends and putting them first  20:50- 22:05 | Sneak peek into my exciting new business ⁠Alo Moves: ⁠Use code KOKO30 for 30 Day Free Trial and 20% Annual Membership CONNECT WITH KOKO ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://boujeebestie.com⁠⁠  ⁠⁠https://m.youtube.com/@KokoBeaute Girl Code Pt. 1 Girl Code Pt. 2

EP81: Welcome back my soon-to-be social butterflies! I'm so excited about this episode where I am sharing my pro tips to help you stand out in any social scene. When I say "social scene," I mean any environment you find yourself in—whether it's at work, out with friends, networking events, or any other social situation where you want to shine.  

One of my strong suits in life is my ability to connect with people. I thrive in any setting because I understand how to build connections, leave a positive impression, and make genuine relationships. I was not always this great at connecting with people. However, after using these tips, I built the confidence I needed to dominate any social scene.  

Whether you're aiming to snag an invite, expand your professional network, or simply become everyone's favorite person, this episode is made for you. Let’s go :) 

Episode Highlights:

Networking

How to make people like you 

How to be the person who gets invited to every event 

Creating positive vibes 

Start remembering people’s names 

Just. Be. Nice. 

Acknowledging other people to show you care 

Don’t be the person who brags 

Posture and shaking hands

Making others feel important means they are going to like you 

Timestamps:

0:00- 1:30 | Intro

1:30- 4:38 | Making other people feel like they matter 

4:38- 7:30 | How to act around people in social situations 

7:30- 10:10 | Why you should let other people talk 

10:10- 12:10 | Your physical acts and presence 

12:10- 16:30 | Networking to be memorable 

16:30- 19:04 | Outro

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EP80: Grow up and glow up! In this episode, I am talking about (literally) everything to help you level up your life. Hair, nails, skin, sleep, makeup, wardrobe, meditation, daily habits, and working out, are a few of the many topics I am covering. I know my Boujee Besties always strive to be the best versions of themselves. But, there is always room for improvement. After all, we are always a work in progress. When you hear the word “glow up” what comes to mind? When I think of the word, I think about someone becoming a more confident and hotter version of themselves. Glow ups are both internal and external. It’s not always just about looks. The true glow up starts from within. I know that social media puts pressure on us to be fit, have perfect skin and hair, and that everything has to be fabulous. But in reality, what matters most, is how YOU feel. So take out your pen and paper and start taking notes, because I am giving you every tip and trick to glowing up.  Episode highlights: Deprogramming yourself  Glow Ups are internal  Nails and hand care Taking care of your hair  My skincare routine  Cleaning up your wardrobe  Learning how to do your makeup  Small things you can change in your life that go a long way Journaling, meditation, and taking care of yourself Daily habits to level up your life Time stamps: 0:00- 4:00 | Introduction  4:00- 7:30 | How to start your glow up with deprogramming yourself  7:30- 13:40 | Taking care of your nails and hair  13:40- 19:30 | Skincare 19:30- 21:40 | Wardrobe clean up   21:40- 24:15 | How to find a makeup routine that works for you 24:15- 36:20 | Tips that go a LONG WAY for your glow up   36:20- 41:20 | Daily habits for your glow up  41:20- 46:15 | Changing your mindset and habits  CONNECT WITH KOKO: https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend https://boujeebestie.com  https://m.youtube.com/@KokoBeaute