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This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle.

No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we're talking about people pretending to be someone they're not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions.

From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today's TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down:

• 🎭 The Types of Catfish:
  – Filter fiends & "20-year-old" photos
  – Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy)
  – Profiles with pro-model shots only
  – "I swear my partner knows!"… when they don't
  – The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don't trade pics unless you're real)

• 🚩 Red Flags to Watch For:
  – No face pics
  – Always "too busy" to meet or video chat
  – Overeager for nudes or instant hookups
  – Stories that just don't add up

• 💔 The Fallout:
  – Emotional letdowns & wasted time
  – Safety concerns, especially for women
  – Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities
  – Why a single lie makes people wonder, "What else are they hiding?"

• 🛡️ Protect Yourself:
  – Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live)
  – Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets
  – Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie
  – Build a trusted network who can vouch for people
  – And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is.

Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic.

Catfishing isn't just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real.

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In this spicy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive into one of the stickiest topics in sex and the lifestyle: cum. From facials to cream pies, swallowing to spitting, they explore what men and women really feel about it — the turn-ons, the turn-offs, and the unspoken rules around consent. They share their own stories, laugh at awkward encounters, and break down why porn sets up unrealistic expectations. They also touch on lifestyle etiquette, the psychology of cum play, and how diet and habits affect taste. As always, it's raw, unfiltered, and hilariously real.

Title: QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?

Description:
In this week's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get messy (literally) with a raw and funny conversation about cum. Why do some love it while others hate it? Is swallowing a turn-on or a dealbreaker? What role does diet play in taste? And how does cum play fit into the swinger lifestyle with all its rules, boundaries, and safety concerns?

From embarrassing stories and personal kinks to the psychology of facials and cream pies, this episode is all about opening up the conversation — sticky jokes included.

You'll Hear About:

• Why porn creates unrealistic cum expectations

• Swallowing vs. spitting (and why consent always matters)

• The psychology behind facials and cream pies

• Cum rules in the swinger lifestyle

• How diet, hydration, and habits affect taste

• Turn-ons, turn-offs, and awkward cum moments

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This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving horn-first into the mysterious world of unicorns—those rare, magical, and often misunderstood single bisexual women in the lifestyle. Our guest Jessica, a self-proclaimed unicorn and seasoned swinger, opens up about discovering her sexuality, navigating the lifestyle solo, dealing with unicorn hunters, and knowing her worth in a world that sometimes forgets to ask.

From her upbringing in a swinger household (yes, really!) to the lessons learned through poly pitfalls and fantasy fulfillment, Jessica doesn't hold back. We talk red flags, relationship dynamics, and the art of empowered play—all while laughing, flirting, and sipping our favorite Dutch Bros.

Whether you're a couple seeking a unicorn, a single lady considering stepping into the lifestyle, or just here for the spicy stories, this episode will make you rethink what it really means to be a unicorn.

Guest: Jessica – Lifestyle unicorn, proud bisexual woman, and certified badass
Hosts: Adam & Pris
Episode Theme: Unicorns in the Lifestyle – the truth, the fantasy, and the real talk

• When Jessica realized she was bisexual and how her family reacted

• Growing up in a swinger household (!)

• Transitioning from a partnered swinger to a solo unicorn

• The biggest red flags she sees from couples

• Why confidence is a unicorn's secret weapon

• How she handles being fetishized—and where she draws the line

• What makes a couple unicorn-worthy

• Jessica's fantasy bucket list (yes, she's been the surprise guest 👀)

• Unicorn burnout and learning her boundaries

• And Adam's not-so-subtle birthday fantasy wishlist 😏

• Both partners should communicate—no one-sided vibes

• Don't just hunt—connect

• Don't love-bomb or breadcrumb—just be real

• Respect her time, her space, and her place in the dynamic

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Aftercare isn't just for kink! In this intimate and hilarious QUICKIE, Adam & Pris share their personal journey navigating aftercare in the swinger lifestyle—from disconnection and insecurity to reclaiming, cuddling, and late-night drive-thru confessions. They get real about how aftercare plays out after playdates, poly dynamics, and even sexy video calls. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just exploring, this episode offers insight, laughs, and maybe a few "oh shit, that's us" moments.

In This Episode:

• What aftercare really means in swinging—not just kink.

• Pris's early disconnects and emotional needs post-play.

• Adam's role in providing reassurance and reclaiming.

• How their dynamic changed after polyamory.

• What "aftercare" looks like for them today (spoiler: cuddles, food, and mini-rounds).

• An unexpected (and moody) moment after sexy video play.

• Upcoming plans for Adam's birthday bash & how aftercare will fit into a wild weekend.

• Communication tips for couples figuring out their own post-play rituals.

Listener Takeaway:
Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. It's about connection, reassurance, and finding rituals that keep you grounded. Whether it's a cuddle, convo, or simply being held—it matters.

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What happens when one half of the couple is ready to party and the other just wants to crawl under a blanket and hide? In this raw, real, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple opens up about the emotional hangover that came with a steamy swinger beach takeover that didn't quite go as planned.

With Pris battling sinus hell and Adam riding a tidal wave of sexual energy, tensions rose, communication faltered, and an epic (but educational) clash ensued. From missed signals and mixed emotions to makeup conversations and lessons learned, this episode is a vulnerable, laugh-out-loud, and totally relatable look at the highs and lows of navigating the lifestyle when you're not on the same page.

Whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with insights, love, and the occasional eye-roll. 😅

In this episode:

• How a sexy weekend at a swinger beach takeover turned into an unexpected emotional low

• What happens when one partner's energy is high and the other is running on empty

• The impact of unspoken expectations and poor planning

• Why checking in is just as sexy as checking out (of the moment)

• The difference between "separate play" in theory vs. reality

• How illness, anxiety, and miscommunication can crash even the sexiest of plans

• Rebuilding trust, processing conflict, and loving through the mess

• The real reason you need to talk before the clothes come off

• And a peek into the passionate, hilarious, and heartfelt way Adam & Pris always find their way back to each other

Key takeaway:
Even experienced lifestyle couples fumble. But with accountability, open hearts, and clear communication, those messy moments can become opportunities for deeper love, stronger connection, and better future playdates.

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n this laugh-out-loud QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're talking about the real MVPs of lifestyle interruptions: our pets.

Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house.

We're sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe a cat with ham) and reading hilarious listener tales of animal antics that brought the mood to a screeching halt.

🔹 Topic: The chaos pets bring to our private lifestyle moments

🔹 Type: QUICKIE (short & spicy)

🔹 Hosts: Adam & Pris

🔹 Runtime: ~32 minutes

In this episode:

• 🐶 When pets become unexpected voyeurs
• 🐱 "That time the cat brought a toy to bed… during playtime"
• 🐾 How lifestyle folks deal with barking, meowing, and staring
• 🛏️ Listener submissions: The funniest pet interruptions in the wild

Whether you're into swinging, polyamory, or just trying to have a peaceful night in with a partner, this episode is a hilarious look at how pets really don't care about your plans.

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In this special guest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the duo reunites with Jeremy, Adam's high school friend, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about sexuality, identity, and acceptance. Jeremy, who is openly gay and outside the lifestyle, shares his unique perspective on queer experiences, chosen family, and how judgment plays out both inside and outside the lifestyle community. The trio dives into meaningful discussions about dating apps, dealing with shame, and the power of having spaces where people feel safe being their authentic selves. It's part reunion, part revelation—full of laughs, reflection, and insight into how we all navigate love beyond the traditional mold.

Guest: Jeremy – Adam's longtime friend and a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community.

In this episode:

• 🧠 How Jeremy's coming out journey shaped his understanding of self-love and acceptance.
• 📲 The queer side of hookup culture and dating apps—raw, funny, and real.
• 💬 Why people outside the lifestyle can still deeply relate to the struggles of being judged.
• 🌈 The value of safe spaces, emotional honesty, and having a community—even if you're not "in the lifestyle."
• 🥂 Catching up after years apart, what's changed, and what still matters most.

1. Opener & Trigger

• Quick disclaimer on mature content
• Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a "vomit emoji" left on their celebratory post)

2. The Impact of Judgment

• How such reactions drive people "back into the closet"
• Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience

3. Discretion vs Authenticity

• Why some choose to stay hidden
• Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy

4. Life-Strengthening Benefits

• Stories on how ethical non-monogamy has improved communication and personal growth
• Their experience facing and overcoming shame

5. Cultural & Religious Conditioning

• The role of upbringing and religious beliefs in shaping moral judgments
• Adam's thoughts on his seminary background and shifting perspectives

6. Visibility & Acceptance

• The mainstream rise of swinging thanks to social media and LGBTQ normalization
• The value of staying true to oneself and celebrating non-traditional relationships

7. Season Updates & Community Ask

• New website launch: www.beyond-monogamy.com (featuring episodes, blog posts, voicemail feature, and future plans like video & guests)
• Encouragement to share with "vanilla" listeners who may just be curious
• Upcoming season updates and attendance at the Port Aransas Beach Takeover

• Judgment from others often stems from personal insecurities or societal conditioning
• Open non-monogamy can foster growth, connection, and emotional resilience
• Visibility matters—not just for the hosts, but for listeners exploring their own path
• Community support plays a therapeutic role in navigating lifestyle choices

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In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the beginning. They touch on essential costs like grooming and gym memberships, and discuss strategies for managing these expenses. This episode provides a candid look at the financial commitments involved in the swinging lifestyle, offering practical advice for those willing to explore this lifestyle on a budget.