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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez

Health & Fitness

Society & Culture

Frequency: 1 episode/4d. Total Eps: 170

Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

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Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party

Season 2 · Episode 30

Wednesday, November 5, 2025 • Duration 39:16

Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party

First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar

Episode Summary

Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We've got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you're there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, where we'll host a live Beyond Monogamy show with audience Q&A.

Come Hang With Us — Upcoming Events

➡️ Full Events Page (dates, times, maps, updates)

📍 Saturday, November 8 — Meet & Greet @ Forbidden Fruit (Austin, TX)

Time: 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM (we may stay later if it's poppin')
Where: Inside Forbidden Fruit (Austin's oldest locally owned adult boutique; block-party vibes with neighboring local shops)
What's happening: Photos, lives, light Q&A, merch, and meet-the-hosts energy
Parking tip: It's tight—street or neighborhood parking recommended. Worth the walk!

Full address, updates, and reminders are on our Events Page.

🎄 December 5–7 — Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio, TX)

Weekend takeover: Lifestyle community, day events, and night parties
We're performing: A live Beyond Monogamy podcast + audience Q&A (seating + mic setup on site)
Heads-up: Rooms are moving fast—see the Events Page for info & booking details

Traveling in to see us? Tell us you're coming—we love meeting out-of-towners.

How to Find Lifestyle Events

Check vetted platforms like SDC and Kasidie for party & meet-and-greet listings.
Local Facebook communities (often invite-only)—meet people at clubs and ask for a group invite.
At meet-and-greets, introduce yourself to the host or a connector; start with one person, let them introduce you onward.

First-Timer Tips (Real Talk)

It's normal to be nervous—your first event is the hardest; it gets easier fast.
Have a drink if you want, but avoid overdoing it—staying aware keeps you safe and confident.
Safety first: watch your surroundings, stick together, and honor consent like it's sacred.

Links & Resources Mentioned

🗓️ All Events (first stop): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/beyond-monogamy-events/
🌐 Main Site: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com
📬 Beyond Monogamy Confessional (anonymous): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/confess/
📻 Full Swap Radio: https://fullswapradio.com — catch us Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM Central
❤️ Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
📱 SDC (events/platform): https://www.sdc.com
📱 Kasidie (events/platform): https://www.kasidie.com

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Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community

Season 2 · Episode 29

Sunday, November 2, 2025 • Duration 01:05:04

In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories.

💧 Jaime's work: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com
🌐 Our site: www.beyond-monogamy.com
📻 Listen on FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com
❤️ Support us on Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris

CTA: If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review on whatever platform you listen on—it seriously helps the community grow!

Meet Us IRL: We'll be at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) on November 8—come say hi and join our live Q&A session!

Show Notes Key Topics

How labels help—when they're guides, not molds
Swinging vs. Polyamory: sex-forward vs. romance-forward dynamics
Jealousy isn't the villain: safety, communication, and growth
Latin culture, masculinity, shame, and sexual autonomy
Consent, agency, honesty & compassion as relationship pillars
Why community is the #1 unlock for sustainable ENM

About Our Guest

Jaime Gama is a psychologist and Gestalt therapist, international educator on ethical non-monogamy, and author of Si te duele, ahí no es. He leads workshops, writes, and creates hugely popular content that makes complex relationship ideas practical and accessible. Website:

Links & Resources How You Can Help Come Hang With Us

QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

Season 2 · Episode 20

Wednesday, October 1, 2025 • Duration 29:54

In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about the impact of bad swinging experiences and why one flop doesn't have to end your lifestyle journey. From erectile dysfunction struggles to mismatched vibes and awkward first encounters, they break down the most common reasons people walk away after a negative night — and how to process, communicate, and bounce back stronger. Adam shares why he believes in second chances and growth, while Pris explains why her instinct is to shut it down after one bad vibe. Together, they show how balancing those approaches can save your confidence, protect your relationship, and help you find better connections. If you've ever thought, "One bad swinging night means this isn't for me," this episode proves you can reset, learn, and still create amazing experiences in the lifestyle.

🎙️ Show Notes

Episode Title: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

Episode Summary:
What happens when your first (or even tenth) swinging experience doesn't go as planned? Adam & Pris dive into how to handle those moments without letting them ruin your outlook on the lifestyle. From bad sex, awkward vibes, or ED issues, they share personal stories and practical strategies for reframing those nights into valuable lessons.

What You'll Hear in This Episode:

Why one bad swinger night can feel like a dealbreaker (especially for newbies)
Pris's "no second chances" rule vs. Adam's "everyone deserves another shot" mindset
The role of communication, forgiveness, and learning in navigating bad encounters
Red flags that truly are dealbreakers vs. just one-off bad vibes
How to reset expectations and give the lifestyle another try
Why some of the best nights happen right after the worst ones

Why This Episode Matters:
So many couples quit the lifestyle after a negative experience. This conversation shows you how to move forward instead of letting one bad night define your entire journey.

Non-Monogamy & The Law: Jonathan Lane on Custody, Contracts & Protecting Non-Traditional Families

Season 2 · Episode 19

Sunday, September 28, 2025 • Duration 48:58

Family law gets real when you're living outside the box of traditional monogamy. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Maryland/DC attorney Jonathan Lane, a polyamorous lawyer who specializes in ethical non-monogamy, custody battles, divorce, inheritance, and family protections.

Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directives, employment discrimination, and how judges actually view non-traditional families in court.

Whether you're a swinger, poly, or exploring ENM, this is one of those conversations that could protect your kids, your partners, and your lifestyle. If you've ever worried about being "outed" in court, losing custody, or what happens if your throuple breaks up—this episode is packed with answers.

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Your reviews help Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris grow, get discovered, and keep amazing guests like Jonathan coming on the show.

In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the legal side of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging with Jonathan Lane, a Maryland/DC attorney who is out as poly himself and dedicated to protecting non-traditional families in the courtroom.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

⚖️ Custody & Courts — How judges view ENM parents, the "best interest of the child" standard, and why outcomes often depend on your county.
👩‍👩‍👧 De Facto Parent Status — What it means, how it protects non-bio/non-adoptive parents, and the strict criteria involved.
💔 Divorce & Breakups — Why written agreements, even texts, matter when disputes over cheating or swinging arise.
🏡 Property, Inheritance & Wills — How throuples/quads can own property together, protect assets, and secure inheritance rights.

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When They Want My Spouse but Not Me: Handling Rejection in Ethical Non-Monogamy

Season 2 · Episode 18

Wednesday, September 24, 2025 • Duration 38:34

Hey y'all — before we get into today's QUICKIE, we need your help.
If you love hanging out with us every week, please take a minute to leave us a review, hit that subscribe button, and share the show with your friends. It may not seem like much, but reviews are the lifeblood that keep Beyond Monogamy growing. It only takes a few seconds, and it helps us reach more open-minded, curious, and lifestyle-friendly listeners just like you.

💬 About This Episode

In today's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into one of those ouch moments almost every couple in the lifestyle has faced:
👉 What do you do when someone makes it crystal clear they're into your spouse… but not into you?

This episode is raw, funny, and a little sting-filled as we unpack:

Real stories from our own encounters when attraction wasn't mutual.
How being "the partner left out" can stir up jealousy, frustration, or even self-doubt.
Why delivery matters — the difference between respectful honesty and underhanded sneaking.
The role communication plays in softening the sting (and why sugarcoating sometimes happens).
How to handle being iced out, ignored, or overlooked without letting it kill your confidence.
Tips for reframing rejection so it doesn't ruin your night — or your relationship.

We don't just talk theory; we get vulnerable about the awkward moments that made us sour, laugh, and learn. And like always, we keep it playful while shining a light on the deeper emotional side of ethical non-monogamy.

🎧 Why Listen?

If you've ever thought "Wait, why don't they want me too?" or if you've had to sit with the sting of rejection in the lifestyle, this episode is for you. We share practical ways to deal with it, plus a few laughs that prove you're not alone.

🔗 Connect With Us

Thanks for listening and supporting !

Faith, Desire & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi

Season 2 · Episode 17

Sunday, September 21, 2025 • Duration 01:20:50

💥 Review Giveaway Alert! 💥
We're celebrating YOU with a sexy Review Giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin.

Here's how to enter:

Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.
Screenshot it.
Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.

📅 Ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at 11:59 PM CST
📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025 during our QUICKIE episode + on socials.

Your reviews help new listeners find us — and each entry is a chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit.

This week on Beyond Monogamy, we're joined by the brilliant Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi (aka Rabbi Nikki) — queer, poly, sex-positive rabbi, writer, and educator. Together, we explore how faith, spirituality, and ethical non-monogamy intersect, and how breaking the silence on desire in religious spaces can transform lives.

🔥 Topics include:

Coming out as polyamorous in religious and professional spaces.
What sacred texts really say (or don't say) about non-monogamy.
Queerness, feminism, and sex positivity in modern Jewish life.
Why honesty, consent, and ethics matter more than outdated dogma.
Real-life ENM experiences — from dating apps to married life.

Rabbi Nikki brings wisdom, humor, and lived experience to the mic, making this a must-listen for anyone exploring the deeper spiritual side of ethical non-monogamy.

🌐 Guest Links 📻 Catch Us Weekly 📲 Follow & Connect

QUICKIE: Would You Rather? Ethical Non-Monogamy Edition

Season 2 · Episode 16

Wednesday, September 17, 2025 • Duration 35:01

💥 Review Giveaway Alert! 💥
We're giving back to our community with a sexy review giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin. Here's how to enter:

Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.
Screenshot it.
Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.

📅 Giveaway ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025, at 11:59 PM CST
📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025, during our QUICKIE episode + across all socials.

Your reviews help new listeners find our show — and every entry boosts your chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. Don't wait, get your review in today!

🎙 Episode: Would You Rather? ENM Quickie Edition

In this spicy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris play an unfiltered game of "Would You Rather?" with an ethical non-monogamy twist. From sexy lifestyle scenarios to hilarious couple debates, nothing's off the table.

🔥 Topics we cover:

House Party vs Lifestyle Club — where would you rather play?
Flirt all night vs play fast — which gets your motor running?
Pool party fun vs themed costume parties — which vibe wins?
Threesome vs Full Swap — which brings more intimacy and connection?
Watch or be watched? — the ultimate ENM performance question.
Same-room vs separate-room play — where do couples feel most comfortable?

🌐 Where to Listen & Connect

Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest Conversations

Season 2 · Episode 15

Sunday, September 14, 2025 • Duration 42:37

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👉 Get spicy perks: Sign up for SDC with promo code 38236

🎧 Episode Summary

What happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, and unfiltered approach, Savage Swingers have built a huge following by showing the lifestyle as it really is: messy, sexy, and authentic.

We dive into their story—from a wild tent camping first experience at a music festival, to becoming lifestyle content creators with thousands of followers. Along the way, we laugh about resting bitch face problems, talk through misconceptions about swingers, and explore how communication and education are the real keys to keeping relationships strong.

If you've ever wondered what it's like to live your truth publicly in the ethical non-monogamy world—or you just need some savage laughs with your lifestyle inspo—this episode brings it all.

💡 What You'll Hear in This Episode 🔑 Keywords & Topics 🔗 Savage Swingers Links 🔗 Beyond Monogamy Links

QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner

Season 2 · Episode 14

Wednesday, September 10, 2025 • Duration 32:34

Review, Connect & Join Our Community

👉 Leave us a review on our website
👉 Review us on Apple Podcasts
👉 Review us on Spotify
👉 Join our Reddit community
👉 Join our Discord community
👉 Sign up for SDC.com with our link (Promo code: 38236)

Episode Summary – QUICKIE: Having The Talk

Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn't about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn't perfect) and what they've learned along the way.

They share:

Timing matters – don't drop the "lifestyle bomb" in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks.
The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings.
Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, "Am I not enough?" and that's okay.
Reassurance isn't optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid.
Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun.
– not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way.

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Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion Alive

Season 2 · Episode 13

Sunday, September 7, 2025 • Duration 01:16:24

In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging.

Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as "just trauma" or non-monogamy as "abnormal."

Together, we dive into:

How fantasies are shaped by trauma, culture, and healing opportunities.
Sacred Kink practices that transform play into intention, empowerment, and soul connection.
Addiction vs. vibrancy — how to tell when desire is a compulsion and when it's authentic.
Erotic hypnosis, empowerment scenes, and fantasy integration for deeper intimacy.
Menopause & vitality: how to break the cultural curse of aging, embrace bioidentical hormone replacement, and keep passion alive in long-term relationships.
Jealousy reframed: why Francesca says "don't call it jealousy" and how to uncover the deeper roots of those feelings.

This is one of those episodes that's hot, spiritual, and full of practical wisdom. Whether you're kinky, poly, swinging, or just curious, Francesca brings tools and insights that can change the way you approach intimacy.

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