Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.
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Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic Medicine
Thursday, December 11, 2025 • Duration 50:27
TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST
There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.
In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide.
We talk about:
untangling early childhood sexual trauma and the healing journey that followed
reclaiming pleasure and learning to trust her body again
unlinking fantasy from orgasm and expanding her capacity for sensation
using sex magic, arousal, shadow integration, and primal energy as tools for transformation
embodying the dark feminine and dark masculine, choosing sovereignty, and understanding why taboo desires often hold our deepest medicine
Listen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires.
The Secret to Mind-Blowing Pleasure with Pleasure Dom Sir Marvelous
Episode 21
Thursday, December 4, 2025 • Duration 46:28
There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.
In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.
If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in!
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Relationship Anarchy: Love Unbound (Featuring Adriana Smith)
Season 1 · Episode 12
Friday, August 29, 2025 • Duration 36:44
What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥
In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours.
Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is your wild invitation.
04:34 Communication and Agreements in Relationships
06:31 Exploring Intimacy and Connection
12:04 Pleasure and Sexuality in Relationship Anarchy
16:08 Self-Discovery and Understanding Needs
Desire Doesn't Have Flaws - It Has Flavors (Featuring Angie Enger)
Season 1 · Episode 11
Thursday, August 21, 2025 • Duration 54:58
Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.
Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?
In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.
You’ll learn:
The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)
Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge it
How to communicate your desires with more confidence
Why your body holds more pleasure than you’ve been taught
Whether you’re looking to expand your orgasmic toolkit or just want to feel more at home in your body, this episode is a must-listen.
Why We Should Be Talking Butt Stuff At Brunch (Ft. Whitaker Cohen)
Season 1 · Episode 9
Thursday, July 31, 2025 • Duration 51:27
We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨
Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you.
We get into:
Why anal play is about more than penetration
How to center female pleasure in anal sex
Talking about butt stuff with your partner & besties (yes, even at brunch)
Emotional safety, boundaries, and anal prep basics
And so much more!
Connect with Whitaker Cohen
https://loveamorsui.com/
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https://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/
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Chapters
00:00Introduction to AmorSui and Whitaker Cohen
02:00The Inspiration Behind AmorSui
Regulation: The Real Foreplay
Season 1 · Episode 8
Thursday, July 24, 2025 • Duration 45:14
Before the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway.
In this episode, somatic sex coach Meryl Victoria joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the nervous system and intimacy. From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on.
We dive into:
How nervous system regulation sets the stage for deeper connection
Why some bodies shut down—and how to invite them back online
Using sex as a tool for nervous system regulation
Somatic practices to shift from freeze to flow
Whether you’re craving more connection or curious about why you feel “off” in the bedroom, this episode is your roadmap. Because regulation is the real foreplay—and sometimes, pleasure is the medicine.
🎧 Listen now and come talk. Subscribe, share, and review if it hit home.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Polyvagal Theory
01:00 Understanding the Nervous System States
01:41 The Impact of Trauma on Sexuality
04:20 Exploring Co-Regulation and Connection
06:42 Rewiring the Nervous System for Pleasure
07:41 Navigating Consent and Safety
09:38 Practical Tools for Nervous System Regulation
21:30 Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) in Therapy
22:51 Supporting Partners with Trauma Histories
Pleasure In The Pause with Brenda Braxton
Season 1 · Episode 7
Thursday, June 19, 2025 • Duration 51:57
🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda Braxton
What if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning?
This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton—Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton. They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even as hormones shift.
From hot flashes to hot nights, Brenda brings humor, heart, and unfiltered truth about embracing your body at every stage.
🎭 Aging doesn’t mean fading. It means rising—with style, swagger, and yes… plenty of orgasms.
✨ Hit play, share with a friend, and don’t forget to follow the show for more unfiltered intimacy realness.
Connect with Brenda Braxton
https://pausebybbraxton.com/home
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Boundaries Are Hot. Confusion Is Not - with Dakota Ramppen
Season 1 · Episode 6
Thursday, June 12, 2025 • Duration 33:25
Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth.
If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes."
01:30 Understanding Boundaries and Personal Desires
03:35 The Role of Safety in Sexual Relationships
06:41 Navigating Sexuality and Self-Worth
10:08 Intentional Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics
Love Without the Ladder
Season 1 · Episode 5
Friday, June 6, 2025 • Duration 53:05
Why does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy?
In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy—that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency, unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout.
But here’s the truth: healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. They need community—the friendships, chosen family, and support systems that queer folks have long known are essential to thriving love and intimacy.
Adam brings a powerful lens to how queer relationships challenge the default and lean into non-hierarchical structures that center freedom, autonomy, and deep connection across many forms.
This one’s for anyone ready to build love that’s grounded, expansive, and rooted in more than just one person.
Because love without the ladder?That’s where the good stuff lives.
Chapters
00:00Happy Pride Month and Intro
02:53Understanding Relationship Hierarchy
07:10Exploring Codependency
10:20The Impact of Codependency on Relationships
12:16Correlation Between Relationship Hierarchy and Codependency
26:07 Exploring Factors Affecting Sexual Experience
27:50 The Importance of Play in Sexual Exploration
29:21 Reclaiming Orgasms: A Personal Journey
31:24 Communication: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction
33:38 Understanding the Orgasm Gap
36:09 Prostate Orgasms: Breaking Taboos
38:41 The Role of Lubrication in Pleasure
39:56 Coming to Completion: Orgasmic Preferences
04:07Breaking the Taboo: Conversations Around Anal Play
10:09Understanding the Stigma of Anal Play
13:23Education and Unlearning Shame
16:18Exploring Pleasure: The Journey of Anal Play
18:46Getting Started with Anal Play
20:27Supporting Partners in Exploration
24:39The Role of Products in Enhancing Pleasure
28:39Creating an Approachable Brand for Anal Play
29:20Cultural Expectations and Women's Pleasure
30:05Empowerment Through Open Conversations
31:57Claiming Anal Pleasure
32:27Inclusivity in Anal Play
33:36Brunch Conversations About Butt Stuff
38:23Myth Busting in Anal Play
42:10The Importance of Aftercare
47:39 Come To Completion AKA Rapid Fire Questions on Anal Play
25:12 The Importance of Relationship Check-Ins
29:16 The Role of Aftercare in Intimacy
30:52 Navigating Communication in Relationships
32:40 Exploring Erotic Styles and Nervous System Regulation
37:18 Coming to Completion
Connect with Meryl Victoria
https://www.verymeryl.com
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https://substack.com/@verymeryl
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13:50 The Journey of a Lover Girl
19:23 Embracing Queer Joy and Community
21:19 Creativity in Pleasure and Relationships
25:43 Be Gentle with You 28:50 Coming to Completion - Just To Be Queer
31:53 Come Again, Come Again, Come Again
15:29Compassion and Self-Discovery
17:27Understanding Codependency
18:08Queerness and Relationship Structures
21:00Breaking Down Relationship Hierarchies
23:17Exploring Non-Traditional Relationships
27:41The Role of Community in Healthy Relationships
30:52Understanding Healing and Triggers
32:34Navigating Codependency and Interdependence
35:05Building Community Beyond Relationships
39:29Self-Reflection in Relationship Dynamics
40:16Exploring Alternative Relationship Structures
46:45Embracing Queer Joy
47:41Navigating New Queerness
48:20Defining Queer Identity
50:02Coming to Completion AKA Just So We're Queer
52:00Come Again, Come Again, Come Again
Connect with Adam Fitzgerald
https://www.instagram.com/directorfitz1
https://www.adamsexcoach.com
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