The Feminist Dating Show – Détails, épisodes et analyse

What happens when you stop playing it safe and start betting on yourself? In this episode, Jackie spills on how she shifted from burnout to bold moves, and what it takes to embrace that Main Character Energy.

Jackie, a former Main Character Energy Mastermind member, joins Lily for a convo about how she went from frozen in fear and burnt out to making some serious boss moves in her life. Together, they dive into the power of community and the mindset shifts that make growth happen. Spoiler: It’s all about trusting yourself, embracing the messiness, and going after what’s yours—whether it's your career goals or relationship desires.

We get into:

• How self-trust can lead to unexpected joy and experiences 
• Transitioning from a background character energy to main character energy
• “Whatever growth you are looking to make - if you put in the effort, it will come.”
• Taking imperfect action and claiming that things are working out - even when it feels uncomfortable 
• Jackie’s experience as a researcher of joy!

Links:
RSVP for Take That Risk with Confident Main Character Energy

Show notes:
http://datebrazen.com/blog/huge-risks-with-mce-with-jackie

Is it possible to stay true to yourself while navigating the world of dating? Absolutely! We’re pulling back the curtain with special guests Ali and Erica from Finding Mr. Height. Lily sits down with the duo to discuss how they decided to start their dating podcast and offers a glimpse into the clues, details, and breadcrumbs that help you figure out if someone is right for you. We also dig into the anxieties that surface in new and long-term relationships, offering strategies for navigating them with confidence and clarity.

You’ll also hear Ali and Erica's candid thoughts on their least favorite—and most favorite—pieces of dating advice. Plus, Lily explores some uncharted territory, sharing her take on long-term relationships. This episode is packed with humor and practical tips to help you own what you want and build strong relationships.

We get into:

• What inspired Ali and Erica to launch their dating podcast, Finding Mr. Height
• Spotting the subtle clues and signals to determine if someone’s right for you (or not)
• Relationship anxieties—whether you’re just starting out or deep in a long-term commitment
• Finding and building a meaningful relationship that works for you
• Ali and Erica’s top dating tips and the advice they’d rather skip

Links:
Finding Mr. Height podcast

Finding Mr. Height on Instagram @findingmrheight

Erica on Instagram @spericaa

Lily’s appearance on Finding Mr. Height

Show notes:
http://datebrazen.com/blog/finding-mr-height-ali-and-erica

Ever dreamed of writing a book or want to share your story and ideas? If so, this episode is for you. Lily welcomes Richelle Fredson, her incredible book proposal coach, on the show. Without Richelle, Thank You, More Please would still be a dream! We're diving deep into main character energy and how to bring it to your writing and publishing journey. We're talking about what it takes to get published, the importance of sharing your story, and how to boldly step into the world with your unique voice.

For nearly 20 years, Richelle has been a powerhouse in the book publishing industry. Known as the "six-figure book coach," she's worn many hats: publishing guide, guest teacher, and marketing strategist for bestselling authors. Now, she's here to help aspiring authors develop standout book concepts, killer book proposals, and vibrant online communities. Get ready to embrace your main character energy and share your story with the world, even if you don't think you're ready yet.

We get into:

• Conquering the anxiety of "shooting your shot"
• Flipping the script on imposter syndrome: embracing bold, messy action
• Richelle's take: "Who gets to write a book and who gets published?"
• Diving in: "You can start before you think you’re ready"
• The real talk on getting a book published
• The book proposal: your golden ticket to traditional publishing and ultimate self-advocacy
• Overcoming comparison and self-doubt to start telling your story

Links:

Richelle’s website

Richelle’s podcast Bound + Determined

Lily on Richelle’s podcast

You can pick up your copy of Thank You, More Please where all books are sold right now, and sign up for our book club at datebrazen.com/book!

Show notes:
http://datebrazen.com/blog/write-a-book-richelle-fredson

Lily welcomes three incredible humans to the podcast! Christine, Diana, and Trish were part of the in-person Main Character Energy retreat. In this episode, they join Lily to talk about what it was like to step fully into their main character energy within a room full of peers and share what it was like to own their power. We hope this episode inspires you to step into your main character energy in this season of your life. 

Hot-takes from this episode:

• The benefits of doing this work in a community: A community provides encouragement around reimagining what your love life can look like 
• “I can trust myself to make mistakes and not worry that it's not going to work out.”
• "Dating can feel isolating, but as the main character, you do have a supporting cast."
• Enjoy the moment and acknowledge you are exactly where you want to be. 

Links and resources: 
Follow Date Brazen on Instagram
Follow Date Brazen on TikTok

Show notes:
https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/bts-main-character-energy-in-person-retreat

In this week’s episode, Lily addresses some of the questions you don't say out loud and helps you to unpack them. Questions like, “Did I miss the boat? Am I too late?” or  “Is all of this work really worth it?”  When you gently bring awareness to your innermost thoughts and feelings, you can begin to move forward with self-compassion, emotional safety, and courage. 

Some of the questions that are addressed in this episode include:  

• How do I even start my dating life? I feel like I am late to the party.
• When is it too late to keep trying? I am 50, single, and never married.
• Will the type of person I'm attracted to be attracted to me?

Links and resources:
The Brazen Breakthrough Course
Follow Date Brazen on Instagram
Follow Date Brazen on TikTok

Over the last few weeks, we’ve re-aired episodes that covered the three pillars of Main Character Energy. This week the episode focuses on the pillar dedicated to courageous action. 

In this episode, Lily shares how you can go from feeling lonely and sorrowful in your dating life to courageous action. It all starts with the question that you need to ask yourself to define meaningful success and begin to root out scarcity thinking. Tune in to hear more. 

Stay tuned: Lily will return with new episodes in November! 

Download The Guide to Make Dating Feel Like Self-Care:
https://date-brazen.ck.page/c651f5218e

Show notes:
https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/badass-dating-action-plan

Over the next few weeks, we’re re-airing episodes that dive into the three pillars of Main Character Energy, while Lily recuperates from facilitating the Main Character Energy in-person retreat! This week the episode focuses on the pillar dedicated to self-trust.  

In this episode, Lily shares strategies you can take to increase your capacity to trust yourself in your dating life. Self-trust is built in small steps. There is no “arrived” point, there is only the next stop. Yes, you are whole right now. But there is still growth to be had.

Brazen Breakthrough Course:
https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/brazen-breakthrough-course-sales-page

Show notes:
https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/giving-yourself-permission-to-trust-what-you-desire

Over the next few weeks, we’re re-airing episodes that dive into the three pillars of Main Character Energy: Permission, Self-Trust, and Courageous Action.  While Lily is recuperating and re-charging from facilitating the Main Character Energy in-person retreat; we thought this would be a perfect time to share some episodes from the Date Brazen podcast vault! 

This week's episode focuses on permission and boundaries.  You'll hear the dating boundaries Lily recommends as well as learn how to craft boundaries to invite in more self-care, how to protect your heart, and find people who are right for you. 

Brazen Breakthrough Course:
https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/brazen-breakthrough-course-sales-page

Show Notes:
https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/boundaries-for-abundance-in-your-dating-life

“Will I die alone?”  This might be a question you’ve thought about but were too afraid to say out loud.  Or,  if you did say it, a well-meaning friend has replied, “No, you won’t!”  Today, Lily addresses this question and helps you unpack it so you can come out to the other side feeling more compassionate and connected to yourself. When you ask, “Will I just die alone?” you negate the magic, unknown, and awesomeness that is in store for you. Tune in to hear more! 

Episode hot-takes:

• A thought is not a fact
• Step off the mental see-saw with self-compassion and feel your feelings
• Unpack why you are afraid of dying alone
• Lily provides strategies to help neutralize the question, “Will I die alone?” 

Links and resources:

The Brazen Breakthrough Course
69. Worthiness + Winning Results with Simone Grace Seol

Show notes:
https://datebrazen.com/blog/will-i-just-die-alone

Danielle Prescod is on the podcast this week. She is the author of, “Token Black Girl,” and co-founder of 2BG Consulting, which offers anti-racism seminars and resources with the aim of fixing the fashion industry. This week, Danielle joins Lily in a conversation about writing her memoir, the trap of perfectionism, and the role white supremacy plays in the pursuit of perfectionism in love and in life.

Links:

Danielle’s new book!
Danielle’s website
Danielle on TikTok
Talking Body Image, Diet Culture, and Your Dating Life with Chrissy King
Date Brazen on Instagram
Date Brazen on TikTok

Show notes:
https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/releasing-perfectionism-with-danielle-prescod