Start your journey from surviving to thriving as a family at: calmthechaospodcast.com. Is your child's challenging behavior leaving you feeling exhausted, defeated, and hopeless? You are not alone, you are not a failure, and your child is not broken. Welcome to Calm the Chaos Parenting — the podcast for parents raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children. I'm Dayna Abraham, a parenting expert, and I've helped hundreds of thousands of families just like yours. Each week I’ll share simple science-backed solutions to help you feel more grounded, in tune, and deeply connected to your child, no matter what challenge you face. Be sure to follow the podcast on your favorite platform so you never miss an episode.
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Managing Back-to-School Overwhelm and Struggles with Seth Perler
mercredi 31 juillet 2024 • Durée 24:55
Episode 57: Are you worried about your child struggling with organization, planning, and time management as the new school year approaches? In this episode, we dive into these challenges and provide practical strategies to support your child’s success.
In this insightful episode, Dayna Abraham sits down with Seth Perler, an executive function coach who specializes in helping students navigate the demands of school and life.
Together, they discuss why kids often feel overwhelmed by school, common challenges during the back-to-school season, and how parents can better support their children’s development.
This episode is packed with practical tools and strategies to help parents foster their children’s skills with empathy and understanding.
"Executive function skills are crucial for a happy, healthy, and successful future. By understanding and supporting these skills, we can better help our children thrive." - Seth Perler
Key Takeaways:
[00:05:00] What Executive Function Is: Seth explains what executive function is and why it’s crucial for students.
[00:09:00] Common Back-to-School Challenges: Discussing common challenges kids face when going back to school, related to executive function.
[00:18:00] Can't vs. Won't: Understanding the difference between "won't" and "can't" in kids' behavior and how it impacts executive function.
[00:20:00] The Role of Parents: The importance of parents managing their own reactions and how to support children without doing everything for them.
[00:23:00] Backing Way Up: Seth talks about the importance of breaking tasks down into micro skills and scaffolding them to build executive function.
[00:28:00] Practical Tools: Practical steps and tools parents can take to help their children build executive function skills.
[00:30:00] Relationship and Attachment: The importance of relationship and attachment in helping children with executive function struggles.
[00:34:00] Asking for Help: Encouragement for parents to seek help and resources to support their children’s development.
[00:36:00] Final Advice: Seth’s message to parents: focus on doing the deep inner work and view parenting as a continuous study.
Additional Resources:
Seth Perler's Website: Discover more about Seth's work and resources to support executive function skills.
"Calm the Chaos Parenting" is a podcast offering parents practical tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children.
Understanding and Managing Big Behaviors with Krysten Taprell
mardi 23 juillet 2024 • Durée 32:01
Episode 56: Are you struggling to understand why your child exhibits big behaviors like yelling, hitting, or biting? In this episode, we uncover the reasons behind these actions and provide practical strategies to help you navigate them.
In this insightful episode, Dayna Abraham sits down with Krysten Taprell, a psychologist with over 20 years of experience and author of "Guidance from the Therapist Parent." Together, they discuss the normalcy of big behaviors in children, what these behaviors communicate, and how parents can better manage their own reactions to support their children effectively. This episode is packed with practical tools and strategies to help parents navigate challenging behaviors with understanding and compassion.
"When we recognize that big behaviors are a form of communication, we can better support our children through their most challenging moments." - Krysten Taprell
Key Takeaways:
[00:00:00] Understanding Big Behaviors: Big behaviors like yelling, hitting, and biting are normal and communicate a child's inability to cope with overwhelming situations.
[00:02:00] Krysten's Background: Krysten shares her journey as a psychologist and the inspiration behind her book.
[00:04:00] Misconceptions About Big Behaviors: Addressing common misconceptions and helping parents understand the root causes of challenging behaviors.
[00:06:00] Managing Parental Triggers: Importance of parents managing their own reactions and triggers to help their children effectively.
[00:09:00] Tools for Staying Calm: Practical tools for parents to remain calm, including breathing techniques and self-reflection.
[00:11:00] Building Connection: Strategies for building a strong connection with children, even after challenging behaviors.
[00:16:00] Handling Behaviors in the Moment: Tips for managing big behaviors in real-time and the importance of taking breaks.
[00:18:00] Setting Boundaries: How to set and enforce boundaries while maintaining a compassionate approach.
[00:20:00] Practical Tools from the Book: Exercises and tools from Krysten's book to help children manage anxiety and big emotions.
When Self-Care Feels Impossible with Julie Redmond
mardi 9 juillet 2024 • Durée 38:15
Episode 55: In this episode, Dayna Abraham chats with Julie Redmond, host of the Mom Made Plans podcast. Julie shares her journey from feeling overwhelmed to creating non-negotiables that help her navigate motherhood with more ease. They discuss the importance of identifying personal needs, practical strategies to make time for yourself, and how these changes can positively impact your parenting.
Key Takeaways:
Identifying Survival Mode (00:01:00): Julie shares her experiences with twins in the NICU and the realization of living in survival mode. She emphasizes the importance of savoring moments despite the chaos.
Gradual Changes Over Time (00:03:00): Discussion on how small, incremental changes and consistent efforts can lead to significant improvements in parenting and self-care.
Understanding Non-Negotiables (00:05:00): The concept of non-negotiables and why it’s crucial to determine and prioritize a few core needs that recharge you.
Balancing Needs with Parenting (00:09:00): Practical tips for reconciling personal needs with the demands of parenting, especially when dealing with challenging behaviors.
Practical Strategies and Habit Stacking (00:12:00): How to integrate self-care into daily routines through habit stacking and creative scheduling.
Setting Realistic Expectations (00:18:00): Adjusting expectations to make non-negotiables achievable and avoiding perfectionism.
Empathy and Awareness (00:21:00): Using self-awareness to better understand and meet the needs of your children, fostering a more empathetic approach to parenting.
Additional Resources:
Mom Made Plans Podcast: Listen to more practical tips and strategies for easier mom life.
Calm the Chaos Book: Need help getting out of survival mode, one baby step at a time? Grab a copy of the roadmap designed for you.
How to Parent Without Screwing Up Your Kids (Too Much) with Gwenna Laithland
mardi 18 juin 2024 • Durée 37:17
EPISODE 54: In this episode, Dayna Abraham chats with Gwenna Laithland, the hilarious and insightful author of Momma Cusses and TikTok sensation. Gwenna shares her personal journey from feeling overwhelmed and frustrated to becoming a responsive parenting advocate. They discuss the realities of parenting, the importance of handling big emotions, and practical strategies to improve parent-child relationships—all while keeping your sense of humor.
Key Takeaways:
Gwenna's Turning Point (00:00:00): Gwenna shares a powerful and relatable story about a moment of realization that led her to change her parenting approach. She discusses her transformative moment and the search for relatable resources that helped her along the way.
Navigating Early Parenting and Survival Mode (00:02:00): Gwenna discusses her initial years as a parent, dealing with survival mode, and the challenges of having a newborn, highlighting how she managed those early struggles.
Mindset Shifts (00:12:00): The importance of moving past labels like "gentle parenting" and embracing a style that fits your family's unique needs, and how these mindset shifts can transform your parenting approach.
Handling Big Emotions (00:18:00): Gwenna explains the Big Feels Loop De Loop, a method for recognizing, regulating, and reasoning through big emotions. She provides practical tips for handling these big emotions effectively.
Co-Regulation and Personal Strategies (00:22:00): Various co-regulation techniques and personal stories that illustrate practical applications, demonstrating how to help children manage their emotions through co-regulation.
Critiquing Traditional Advice (00:29:00): Gwenna addresses common criticisms and misconceptions about modern parenting techniques with her trademark humor, offering a fresh perspective on traditional advice.
✨Gwenna Laithland on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook: @MommaCusses
Let Go of Mom Guilt and Reclaim Your Power: A Conversation with Joann Crohn
mercredi 12 juin 2024 • Durée 46:41
Episode #53: In this heartfelt episode, Dayna sits down with Joann, the founder of No Guilt Mom, to delve into the pervasive issue of mom guilt. Together, they explore where this guilt comes from, why it affects so many mothers, and most importantly, how to overcome it.
Joann shares her personal journey from feeling overwhelmed and guilt-ridden to finding balance and joy in motherhood. This episode is packed with actionable insights to help you release guilt and step into your power as a mom.
"When we're able to release the mom guilt, we can step more into our power as women and make such a change in the world." - Joann
Key Takeaways:
[00:00:00] Joann's Background: Joann discusses her upbringing and how she initially viewed motherhood based on her parents' sacrifices.
[00:01:00] Introduction by Dayna: Dayna introduces Joann and the topic of mom guilt, highlighting the common struggle of balancing self-care with parenting duties.
[00:02:00] Joann's Story: Joann shares her career journey from TV and film to becoming a teacher and eventually founding No Guilt Mom.
[00:04:00] The Root of Mom Guilt: Joann explains how societal expectations and personal upbringing contribute to mom guilt.
[00:06:00] Breaking Free from Guilt: Joann's experience with postpartum depression and how therapy helped her release unrealistic expectations.
[00:08:00] Impact on Children: The importance of demonstrating self-care to children and breaking the cycle of self-sacrifice.
[00:10:00] Recognizing Triggers: Identifying the thoughts and stories that lead to feelings of guilt.
[00:14:00] Holding Boundaries: Joann shares a personal story about holding boundaries with her daughter and managing guilt.
[00:17:00] Embracing Discomfort: How to sit with uncomfortable emotions and let them pass.
[00:23:00] Connection Without Guilt: Redefining what it means to connect with your kids and the power of micro-moments.
[00:30:00] The Role of Self-Care: Why prioritizing your own needs is crucial for both you and your children.
When Inner Work Doesn't Work: Am I the Problem?
mardi 4 juin 2024 • Durée 26:09
Episode #52: Do you ever feel like you are the problem in your parenting journey? You are not alone!
Christine Nieves, a dedicated mother and Calm the Chaos member, shares her heartfelt story of moving from self-judgment and hopelessness to finding calm and connection with her children. Christine's journey offers valuable insights for parents struggling with similar feelings of overwhelm and frustration, showing that change is possible through small, actionable steps and a supportive community.
Key Takeaways:
[00:01:00] Introduction: Meet Christine, a mother of three with another on the way, and learn about her initial struggles with self-judgment and overwhelm.
[00:02:00] The Struggle with Self-Judgment: Christine opens up about feeling like the problem in her parenting and considering drastic measures.
[00:04:00] The Missing Link in Self-Care: Despite extensive self-care efforts, Christine discusses the gap in applying these practices to everyday parenting.
[00:06:00] Discovering Calm the Chaos: How Christine found the program and began to see significant changes in her reactions and mindset.
[00:08:00] The Importance of Tiny Steps: Breaking down self-care into manageable, daily actions that create lasting change.
[00:10:00] Shifting Mindsets: Identifying and changing the thoughts that trigger negative reactions.
[00:12:00] True Connection: Moving beyond superficial connections to truly engage and connect with children.
[00:14:00] Implementing the Calm the Chaos Framework: Christine’s practical application of the framework to her daily life.
[00:17:00] Self-Awareness and Self-Compassion: Learning to recognize and address personal needs and triggers.
[00:19:00] Practical Advice for Parents: Christine’s advice for parents feeling overwhelmed and hopeless.
Additional resources:
📖 Get your copy of "Calm The Chaos Book": calmthechaosbook.com
✨ Hear the Success Stories: calmthechaosworkshop.com/stories
Bridging the Gap Between Parenting Knowledge and Action
mardi 28 mai 2024 • Durée 31:15
Episode #51: Have you ever felt overwhelmed despite knowing all the right parenting strategies? In this episode of Calm the Chaos Parenting, Dayna welcomes Ginny, a parent of two neurodivergent children and a dedicated member of our community. Ginny shares her powerful journey of learning to bridge the gap between understanding her children's needs and effectively applying that knowledge in daily life.
Tune in to discover practical strategies for self-care, executive functioning, and building a supportive community that can transform your parenting approach.
Key Takeaways:
[00:00] – Introduction:
Meet Ginny and learn about her unique family dynamics and background.
[05:30] – The Disconnect Between Knowledge and Action:
Ginny describes the struggle of applying parenting knowledge under stress.
[15:45] – The Role of Self-Care:
How small daily self-care practices can significantly impact overall well-being.
[25:00] – Effective Tools for Self-Management:
Introduction to the five-minute energy plan and the brain dump exercise.
[35:20] – Personal Growth and Executive Functioning:
How focusing on tiny steps can lead to significant improvements in daily life.
[45:10] – Building and Utilizing Community Support:
The role of community in navigating parenting challenges and personal growth.
Additional Resources:
Calm the Chaos Book: Discover strategies to help you navigate parenting with confidence.
More Success Stories: Ginny is one of hundreds of parents around the world that have created more calm and joy in their lives using Calm the Chaos Framework.
Breaking the Cycle: A Journey to Safer, More Connected Parenting with Libby Ward
mardi 21 mai 2024 • Durée 40:05
Episode 50:
In this episode, we interview Libby Ward about breaking the cycle of unhealthy patterns in parenting. Libby shares her personal journey of realizing the need for change and becoming a cycle breaker.
Libby, a passionate advocate for authentic motherhood, discusses how confronting past traumas and embracing emotional honesty can lead to profound personal and familial growth.
This episode provides not only a deep dive into the psychological shifts necessary for breaking unhealthy cycles but also offers practical tools and heartfelt encouragement for those feeling overwhelmed by the demands of parenting.
Libby's candid sharing and the introduction of her thoughtfully designed journal serve as invaluable resources for anyone looking to foster a more empathetic and supportive family environment.
Key Moments:
[00:00] Introduction and Background: Introduction to the episode’s theme and Libby’s journey towards changing her parenting style to foster a safer and more loving environment.
[03:42] Recognizing the Need for Change: Libby shares a personal story that highlights a critical morning that sparked her realization of needing to change her approach to parenting.
[08:47] Understanding the Signs of Unhealthy Patterns: Discussion on how to recognize and interpret the signs of negative parenting patterns that may be passed down.
[11:27] Dealing with Guilt and Shame: Strategies to effectively manage the feelings of guilt and shame that can arise from parenting missteps.
[15:47] Breaking the Cycle: Definition and Examples: What does it mean to "break the cycle"? Libby provides definitions and examples of how parents can alter harmful family dynamics.
[23:49] Moving from Awareness to Action: Tips on how to move from recognizing issues to actively making changes in parenting behavior.
[29:25] Embracing Imperfection and Accountability: Libby emphasizes the importance of acknowledging one's imperfections as a parent and the power of accountability in healing and growth.
Acne, Body Odor, Sexuality and All Things Puberty with Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll
mardi 23 avril 2024 • Durée 50:34
Episode 49:
Welcome to another episode of the Calm the Chaos Parenting Podcast, where this week we're tackling a topic that can make any parent squirm—puberty. Joined by experts Kara and Vanessa of ‘This is So Awkward’, we delve into the messy, awkward, and absolutely essential discussions about the physical and emotional rollercoasters of puberty. From early breast buds to mood swings, this episode covers it all with humor, empathy, and expert insight.
Are you struggling to discuss puberty with your child without making it feel like a catastrophe? Does the thought of talking about body changes, sexuality, or mood swings fill you with dread?
You're not alone.
Many parents feel unprepared and uncomfortable when the inevitable questions about puberty arise. The fear of saying the wrong thing, the awkwardness of the topics, and personal baggage from our own experiences can make these conversations feel overwhelming.
This episode provides practical strategies and compassionate insights to help you approach puberty talks with confidence. Kara and Vanessa, through their extensive experience and relatable anecdotes, demonstrate how to break down complex topics into manageable, non-awkward discussions. Learn how to navigate these essential conversations with humor and understanding, making puberty a topic that can be discussed openly and without shame.
Key Takeaways:
[00:01:00] Early Signs of Puberty: Vanessa highlights how signs like behavioral changes or unexpected physical developments can signal that puberty is starting earlier than many parents anticipate.
[00:03:00] Duration and Misconceptions of Puberty: Kara clarifies the common misconception about the duration of puberty, explaining that it can extend well into the late teen years, far beyond what many assume.
[00:05:00] Reducing Awkwardness in Discussions: Dayna shares personal stories and insights on making puberty talks less awkward, emphasizing the role of humor and openness in these essential conversations.
ADHD Explained with Jessica McCabe"
mercredi 10 avril 2024 • Durée 42:37
Ever felt like no matter how hard you try, staying focused and organized just doesn't come naturally? You're not alone.
Jessica McCabe, creator of How to ADHD, shares her own struggles and revelations in "ADHD Explained with Jessica McCabe," a must-watch for anyone grappling with these challenges. Jessica's journey from confusion to clarity on ADHD sheds light on the misunderstood aspects of living with ADHD, from the frustration of misdiagnosis to the empowerment of understanding your brain.
"Every month or three months, I would go to the doctor and it would be, 'how are your meds working for you?'
'Yeah. Good.'
'Any side effects?'
'No? Cool. Here's a prescription.'
And that was it. Nobody ever asked me if my life was working," Jessica recounts her early experiences with ADHD treatment. This episode dives into the heart of ADHD, not just as a deficit of attention, but as a complex interplay of focus, motivation, and executive functioning challenges that many find overwhelming.
Jessica doesn't just share her story; she offers a lifeline.
From practical tips for enhancing focus and managing daily tasks to leveraging the unique strengths of ADHD, this conversation is a toolkit for those seeking to work with their brain, not against it. Discover why understanding ADHD goes beyond medication, how societal perceptions are shifting, and what strategies can truly make a difference in managing ADHD.
Armed with insights from her YouTube channel, How to ADHD, and her book, "How to ADHD: An Insider's Guide to Working with Your Brain, Not Against It," Jessica offers solutions that are as real and attainable as they are transformative. Whether you're a parent, a partner, or someone on a personal journey with ADHD, this episode is a step towards embracing the chaos and turning it into your greatest asset.
Key Takeaways:
[00:00:30] Jessica's early misunderstanding of her ADHD diagnosis and its implications.
[00:02:00] The revelation that ADHD is more than just a focus issue.
[00:22:00] Final Advice: Krysten's message to parents: your child is doing the best they can, and so are you.
Additional Resources:
Guidance from the Therapist Parent: Discover practical tools and strategies from Krysten Taprell's book to help navigate big behaviors in children.
Calm the Chaos Book: Need help getting out of survival mode, one baby step at a time? Grab a copy of the roadmap designed for you.
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"Calm the Chaos Parenting" is a podcast offering parents practical tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children.
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"Calm the Chaos Parenting" is a podcast offering parents practical tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children.
"Calm the Chaos Parenting" is a podcast offering parents practical tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children.
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[00:38:00] Practical Steps: Joann’s journaling techniques to understand and manage guilt, and how self-compassion can transform your parenting experience.
[00:42:00] Final Advice: Joann’s powerful message to mothers struggling with guilt.
"Calm the Chaos Parenting" is a podcast offering parents practical tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children.
🎧 Follow us on your favorite platform so you never miss an episode!
Remember, you are exactly the parent your children need. It’s about taking one baby step at a time, focusing on self-compassion, and utilizing the support systems available. You've got this!
🎧 Follow us on your favorite platform so you never miss an episode!
👉 Stay connected for more insights and support in your parenting journey:
"Calm the Chaos Parenting" is a podcast offering parents practical tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children.
🎧 Follow us on your favorite platform so you never miss an episode!
[33:32] Journaling as a Tool for Self-Reflection: Introduction to journaling as a practical tool to aid parents in their journey towards deeper self-awareness and intentionality.
[35:06] Overview of the Journal: Detailed look at the structure and benefits of Libby’s journal, designed to guide parents through self-reflection and improvement.
[39:05] Closing Remarks and Encouragement: Final thoughts and encouragement for parents, emphasizing the journey of continuous improvement and the importance of small steps towards change.
Additional Resources:
The Honest Mom Journal with Libby Challenge: 5 Days to Feel Better in Motherhood. (a free *journal with Libby* 5 day challenge meant to encourage moms who are struggling to try journaling to improve how they are feeling.)
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[00:08:00] Strategies for Manageable Conversations: The episode offers practical tips on breaking down the daunting puberty discussion into smaller, more digestible parts to make the topic less overwhelming for both children and parents.
[00:12:00] Handling Personal Baggage: It's discussed how important it is for parents to process their own experiences and traumas related to puberty, to better support and understand their children during these transformative years.
[00:15:00] Physical Changes Indicating Puberty: Kara and Vanessa discuss the early physical signs of puberty, such as breast budding in girls and testicular growth in boys, helping parents recognize these initial changes.
[00:18:00] Emotional Changes and Behavioral Effects: Insights into how hormonal fluctuations can lead to mood swings and emotional volatility during puberty, with advice on how parents can support their children through these shifts.
[00:21:00] Ensuring Inclusive and Respectful Communication: The importance of using inclusive language and a respectful approach when discussing the diverse experiences of puberty is emphasized, ensuring that all children feel seen and supported.
"Understanding puberty is about more than just anticipating physical changes; it's about preparing for the emotional rollercoaster and knowing how to support your child through it." — Kara
This episode provides invaluable advice for parents navigating the often turbulent waters of puberty discussions. Tune in to learn how to approach these talks with confidence, ensuring a healthier and more understanding dialogue with your child.
👉 Stay connected for more insights and support in your parenting journey:
Today's episode is not just about understanding ADHD; it's about embracing the journey of self-discovery and leveraging unique strengths. Whether you're navigating ADHD yourself, supporting a loved one, or simply seeking to understand the condition better, Jessica's insights and strategies offer hope, empowerment, and a path forward.
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If you found value in this episode, don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this video with anyone who might benefit from a deeper understanding of ADHD. Join our community for more episodes that empower you through knowledge and connection. Remember, understanding is the first step toward positive change.
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