What If? For Authors – Details, episodes & analysis

Episode Description: In this week’s episode of What If for Authors, Claire tackles one of the most common and frustrating challenges for writers: getting stuck on your manuscript. Drawing on her experience as a former in-house editor, English teacher, and story consultant, Claire provides a structured approach to understanding why you might be hitting a wall in your work and how to move past it. She offers insight into the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral patterns that might be interfering with your progress and explains how using your Enneagram type can help pinpoint the root cause of the issue. In the second half of the episode, Claire shifts gears to break down specific storytelling elements like your protagonist, antagonist, and theme—three key areas where story issues can lead to feeling stuck. This episode is packed with actionable strategies and introspective questions to help you get unstuck and back to crafting a story you love.

Key Takeaways:

• Why You’re Stuck Might Not Be About the Story: Often, the reasons authors get stuck have more to do with their internal patterns and fears rather than plot or character problems. Claire explains how to use your Enneagram type to identify these blocks.
• The Role of Fear in Writer’s Block: When your gut tells you to take a certain direction with your story, but that path triggers a core fear, it’s natural to stall out. Claire discusses how fear often disguises itself as “strategy” or “logic” and how to name it and move forward anyway.
• The Three Centers Approach: Claire introduces the Head, Heart, and Body centers as a way to explore why you’re stuck. She offers specific questions to ask each center, making it easier to identify the root of your resistance.
• The Power of Your Protagonist, Antagonist, and Theme: When you’re stuck for story-related reasons, these three elements are often the culprits. Claire explains how to realign these story pillars to strengthen your manuscript.
• Working Through Story Blocks with Your Enneagram Type: By identifying your protagonist’s Enneagram type and matching it to your theme and antagonist, you can clarify their motivations and internal conflict, making it easier to drive the plot forward.

Why You Should Listen: If you’ve ever hit a wall with your manuscript and didn’t know how to move forward, this episode will provide you with the tools to diagnose what’s holding you back and the strategies to get unstuck. Claire’s unique approach, using the Enneagram alongside storytelling techniques, offers insights that you won’t find in typical writing advice. This episode is perfect for both beginner and experienced writers who want to deepen their understanding of character, theme, and narrative structure—all while gaining some clarity about themselves in the process.

Join the Conversation: Are you currently stuck on your book? Share your experiences and questions with Claire by emailing her at contact@ffs.media. If you want personalized help working through your story, consider booking a Story Alignment session with Claire by visiting ffs.media/schedule.

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Episode Description:

In this week’s episode of What If For Authors, we tackle a difficult topic—public shaming. Claire dives into what happens when authors, as public figures, find themselves the target of online attacks or social media pile-ons. She shares practical steps for managing a shame campaign, from getting offline and regulating your emotions to deciding whether you need to bring in a crisis manager. But beyond the tactical approach, this episode digs deep into what shame really is, how it works, and how to transform toxic emotions into tools for growth and self-compassion. Whether you're worried about an angry reviewer or facing criticism that seems to come out of nowhere, this episode equips you to handle public shaming with resilience and grace.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding Shame vs. Guilt: Claire distinguishes between shame, which tells us that we are bad, and guilt, which tells us we did something bad. Understanding the difference is crucial to not letting shame control our responses.
• Practical Steps During a Crisis: Claire outlines what to do if you find yourself the subject of online shaming—step one is to get offline, regulate your emotions, and refrain from engaging. 
• The Role of Empathy in Combatting Shame: Shame isolates, making us feel undeserving of support and empathy. The antidote? Finding a safe, empathetic person to share your feelings with. Expressing your shame helps release its grip and restore a sense of connection.
• How Each Enneagram Type Handles Shame: Although Enneagram Types 2, 3, and 4 are in the “shame triad,” every type has a unique relationship with shame. Claire explains how recognizing these patterns can help lessen the hold shame has on your life and career.
• Why Self-Compassion is Key: The ultimate goal is to embrace the fact that while good people can do bad things, it doesn’t make them unworthy of love and connection. Self-compassion and honest reflection allow us to experience guilt without spiraling into toxic shame.

Why You Should Listen: If you’re an author who has ever worried about a bad review, social media backlash, or being misunderstood publicly, this episode is a must-listen. Claire’s candid discussion of how shame affects us at a fundamental human level and her practical advice on what to do when you’re feeling attacked will help you build resilience, develop self-awareness, and prepare for the inevitable challenges of being a public figure.

Join the Conversation: Have you ever faced public shaming or harsh criticism? Share your experiences and strategies with Claire by emailing her at contact@ffs.media. If you need support, Claire is there to offer empathy and guidance as you work through these complex emotions.

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Episode Description:

In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor tackles the anxiety-inducing atmosphere of election season and how it affects authors. Drawing from her experience as an Enneagram Certified Coach and her own journey as a writer, Claire explores strategies to remain creative and hopeful during such a stressful time. This episode offers a compassionate and realistic approach to managing your nervous system, staying grounded, and continuing your writing journey amidst political chaos.

Key Takeaways:

• Managing Election Anxiety: Understand the impact of the election season on your mental health and how to stay grounded.
• Nervous System Regulation: Learn practical techniques for regulating your nervous system and maintaining focus on your writing.
• Enneagram Insights: Use the Enneagram to identify and manage your emotional patterns and fears during stressful times.
• Impact of Stories: Recognize the power of storytelling in shaping minds and promoting compassion and understanding.
• Actionable Steps: Tips for creating a calming practice, staying informed without being overwhelmed, and staying connected to your writing purpose.

Why Listen? If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed by the current political climate and its potential impact on your creativity, this episode provides valuable insights and techniques to help you stay focused and resilient. Claire's empathetic guidance will help you navigate the turbulence of election season while continuing to write meaningful stories.

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

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Episode Description:

In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor dives into the anxiety-inducing topic of account bans and how authors can rebound and rebuild after such a nightmare scenario. Drawing from real experiences and practical strategies, Claire explores the steps authors can take if they find themselves banned from platforms like Instagram, TikTok, or even KDP. This episode provides a compassionate and realistic approach to managing this crisis and emphasizes the importance of resilience and adaptability.

Key Takeaways:

• Initial Response: Strategies for managing the initial freak-out and immediate steps to take after discovering an account ban.
• Appealing the Ban: Tips for reaching out to customer service and appealing the ban effectively.
• Acceptance and Adjustment: The importance of practicing acceptance and adjusting your strategy if the appeal doesn't work.
• Marketing as Water Flow: Claire's analogy of marketing channels and how to redirect your efforts when one channel is blocked.
• Support System: The value of having a support system in place and leveraging the author community during tough times.
• Rebuilding Strategy: Practical advice for rebuilding your business and exploring new opportunities, including selling direct or focusing on local markets.
• Accountability: Handling the emotional fallout if the ban was due to knowingly breaking terms of service, and the importance of taking accountability.

Why Listen? If you find yourself worrying about the possibility of account bans or if you're currently dealing with one, this episode offers thoughtful and actionable advice to help you navigate this challenging situation. Claire's insights into resilience and rebuilding provide a valuable perspective for any author facing setbacks.

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

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In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor tackles the crucial topic of support systems for authors. Drawing from her experience as an Enneagram coach and author, Claire explores how to navigate the challenges of building and recognizing support in your author career. Whether you're struggling to find support or unsure if you have enough, this episode provides a compassionate and realistic approach to understanding and leveraging the support you have.

Key Takeaways:

• Types of Support: Learn about the different types of support—personal and professional—and how each can benefit your author career.

• Recognizing Support: Discover strategies to identify and appreciate the support you already have.

• Building Support Systems: Tips on how to cultivate a robust support network, even if you feel you have none.

• Enneagram Insights: Insights into how different Enneagram types might resist asking for help and how to overcome these limiting beliefs.

• Practical Advice: Strategies for indie authors to start with minimal financial resources and gradually build up their support and resources.

Links mentioned:

• The Enneagram Guide to Waking Up: Find Your Path, Face Your Shadow, Discover Your True Self

Why Listen? If you find yourself feeling isolated or unsupported in your author journey, this episode offers a thoughtful and empathetic perspective on building and recognizing support systems. This episode is a must-listen for any author seeking to balance independence with the invaluable benefits of a supportive community.

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

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Episode Description:

In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor tackles the deeply emotional topic of grieving. Drawing from her experience as an Enneagram coach and her personal journey through grief, Claire explores how to manage an author career while dealing with significant loss. Whether you're in the midst of grief or supporting someone who is, this episode provides a compassionate and realistic approach to navigating these challenging times.

Key Takeaways:

• Avoiding Unnecessary Suffering: Learn why it's essential to fully experience grief rather than avoiding or suppressing it.
• Importance of Support: Recognize the value of asking for help and surrounding yourself with supportive people during the grieving process.
• Transformation Through Grief: Understand that grief changes you and that your writing process and projects may need to adapt to your new self.
• Taking a Break: It's okay to pause your writing to focus on healing; your career can continue once you're ready.
• Complex Emotions: Embrace the wide range of emotions, including gratitude, that coexist with grief, and learn how to navigate them.

Links mentioned:

• The Grieving Brain by Mary Frances O'Connor

Why Listen? If you're an author dealing with grief or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a thoughtful and empathetic perspective on balancing an author career with the profound emotions of loss. This episode is a must-listen for any author seeking to understand and navigate grief while maintaining their creative path.

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

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Episode Description:

In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor tackles the anxiety-inducing topic of not being liked. Drawing from her experience as an Enneagram coach and her own author journey, Claire explores the fear of rejection and how it affects different Enneagram types. Whether you're just starting out or are an established author, this episode provides a compassionate and realistic approach to managing your expectations and emotions regarding others' opinions.

Key Takeaways:

• Fear of Rejection: Understand that the fear of not being liked can be amplified once you start publishing, but this amplification can also be an opportunity for growth.
• Perfectionism and Approval: Learn how perfectionism, especially from an Enneagram One perspective, can impact your need for approval and how to address it.
• Different Enneagram Types: Explore how various Enneagram types experience the fear of not being liked and how it impacts their writing.
• Responsibility for Feelings: Recognize that how others feel about you is their responsibility, not yours, and take ownership of your feelings about others.
• Focusing on Supporters: Redirect your attention from critics to supporters to build a stronger connection with those who already like you.
• Parental Expectations: Address the influence of parental approval on your creative decisions and the importance of disappointing them to stay true to yourself.
• Internal Liberation: Embrace the clarity and freedom that comes from accepting that disappointing others might be part of your path toward fulfilling your purpose.

Why Listen? If you find yourself struggling with the fear of not being liked or are overwhelmed by criticism, this episode offers a thoughtful and empathetic perspective. This episode is a must-listen for any author seeking to balance the desire for approval with staying true to their creative vision.

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

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In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor tackles the anxiety-inducing topic of chronic health issues and their impact on an author's career. Drawing from her experience as an Enneagram coach and her own health journey, Claire explores how chronic conditions can affect work and life and provides compassionate strategies for managing your author dreams alongside your health needs.

Key Takeaways:

• Chronic health issues do not mean you have to give up on your author dreams. Modifications and self-compassion can help you thrive.

• Connecting with your three centers of intelligence can provide valuable insights into how to handle chronic health issues and their impact on your work.

• Acceptance and care are essential skills for managing chronic health conditions effectively.

• Developing a loving connection to your body, mind, and heart is crucial for long-term well-being and success.

• Seeking medical treatment and advocating for your health is vital, even in the face of potential challenges within the medical system.

Why Listen? If you find yourself struggling with chronic health issues and wondering if you can still achieve your author goals, this episode offers a thoughtful and empathetic perspective. This episode is a must-listen for any author seeking to balance their health with their passion for writing.

Links Mentioned:

• Sustain Your Author Career

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

Access the transcript for this episode here.

Happy Writing!

Episode Description:

In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor tackles the anxiety-inducing topic of book launches. Drawing from her experience as an Enneagram coach and her own author journey, Claire explores the fear of a book launch failing and how it affects different Enneagram types. Whether you're launching your first book or your tenth, this episode provides a compassionate and realistic approach to managing your expectations and emotions.

Key Takeaways:

• A book launch's success or failure doesn't define your book's long-term potential.
• Understanding your Enneagram type can provide valuable insights into how you handle book launches and their outcomes.
• Develop self-compassion and curiosity when setting expectations for your book launch.
• Conditions outside your control can affect your launch; recognize and respect these factors.
• Celebrate your accomplishments and take care of your well-being on launch day.

Why Listen? If you find yourself anxious about book launches or feeling overwhelmed by their potential outcomes, this episode offers a thoughtful and empathetic perspective. 

Links Mentioned:

• Sustain Your Author Career - Available June 13th
• Reclaim Your Author Career
• The Child in You by Stephanie Stahl
• Nine Lenses on the World by Dr. Jerome Wagner

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

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In this episode of "What If? For Authors," Claire Taylor tackles the anxiety-inducing topic of deadlines. Drawing from her experience as an Enneagram coach and her own author journey, Claire explores the complexities of deadlines and how they affect different Enneagram types. Whether you love deadlines or dread them, this episode provides a compassionate and realistic approach to managing your writing schedule.

Key Takeaways:

• Deadlines can create a sense of control and order but may also lead to burnout and disconnection from your creative work.
• Understanding your Enneagram type can provide valuable insights into your relationship with deadlines.
• It's important to develop self-compassion and flexibility when setting and attempting to meet deadlines.
• Conditions outside your control can affect your ability to meet deadlines; recognize and respect these factors.

Why Listen? If you find yourself struggling to meet deadlines or feeling overwhelmed by them, this episode offers a thoughtful and empathetic perspective. This episode is a must-listen for any author seeking to balance productivity with well-being.

Join the Conversation: Have a question or fear you'd like me to explore? Reach out to me at contact@ffs.media.

Access the transcript of this episode here.

Happy Writing!