Wanting In Public – Details, episodes & analysis

In our intro episode, we give workshop-level insights into the power of claiming your desires publicly and reframing the shame and selfishness we feel around “wanting”. We’ll coach each other (and you!) on pivoting towards lifestyle content without diluting trust or impact and breaking free from the paycheque-to-paycheque cycle (no matter how much money you’re bringing in). From manifesting enough embryos to build a soccer team and calling in enough wealth to buy one, we’re covering it all. 

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com

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What does ~*receiving abundance*~ really mean, and is it… bullshit? This episode is a juicy conversation around moving past financial ceilings, mastermind messaging that hits on the true value of group containers, the pressure that comes from being the sole provider, and the misrepresentation of “rest” that’s become so prevalent in the coaching space.

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

No more pussyfooting!!! In this episode we dive into how Kaitlyn’s been hiding the true potency of her work (with action steps to start saying what you mean without the overwhelm of a total messaging overhaul) and chat through strategic content ideas for Xanthe’s upcoming launch (which turns into a crash course on creating without comparison, showing up within your capacity, and getting more engagement). Also: all the moving things are HAPPENINGGGG and we chit chat about what’s still left to do, handwriting insecurity, new tattoos, and when a $30 salad is actually worth it. Spoiler: it’s the parm.

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

What do you MEAN “cash months”?! In this episode we drop our July Want Lists, including how we approach monthly revenue goals, cash flow, and what a “successful” month means in context. Then we coach each other around Kaitlyn claiming the title of Money Girl (without the scarcity, ego, or oversimplification) and plot the next evolution of Xanthe’s signature course alongside ecosystem updates for a more sustainable + stable model.

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

SOS, WE LOST THE PLOT. Xanthe arrives to this episode feeling so fucking done with being in “fixing energy,” hoping for a way to shake up her morning routine to feel more like LIVING the dream life (instead of just journaling about it). Kaitlyn seeks support on keeping her messaging in alignment with her core values, noticing a tendency to get distracted by ideas that don’t connect back to the big picture. We also touch on how we’re navigating September planning, how we’ve pivoted our processes to support lower capacity over the last few weeks, teaching your nervous system it’s safe to slow down, and how to follow inspiration without confusing your people (or yourself).

Don't forget to DOWNLOAD THE DESIRE DASH (it's free!)

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com.

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

The messyyyyy magic of moving to a new country is loud for both of us this week as we candidly confess our July wobbles and share our August wants for both life + business. We coach each other on selling daily, re-shaping our content flow, transforming big ideas into posts that show the applied breadth of our expertise, and making Instagram Stories feel funnnnn after a season of resistance. As Kaitlyn begins the IVF process, we also explore how to plan boldly even in seasons of total unknown, reminding ourselves — and you! — that systems are allowed to evolve as life does.

Don't forget to DOWNLOAD THE DESIRE DASH (it's free!)

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com.

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

A peek behind the curtain, if you will!!! We kick off this ep with a deep dive on our Substack strategies and processes, while Xanthe divulges her big dream of becoming a published smut author and her plan for rolling out more non-fiction writing. In lieu of our usual coaching corner, we develop a marketing strategy for our November retreat in real-time, brainstorming how to promote the IRL transformation and year-long coaching experience while staying true to our individual lanes of expertise and unique content styles. You’ll leave with a bajillion ideas for how to ideate content around your own offers, insight into new practices for staying consistent with your long-form content, and a burning desire to book a ticket to Spain this fall. ;)

Don't forget to DOWNLOAD THE DESIRE DASH (it's free!)

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com.

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

WANTING ALL OVER THE WORLD! This week we’re tuning in from two new countries, sharing how our respective relocations have impacted our romantic partnerships, shaken our sense of self, and challenged our creative capacity. During our coaching sesh, Xanthe supports Kaitlyn in recalibrating her online approach from the ground up (after over-planning her content pre-move as a coping strategy) and Kaitlyn guides Xanthe through practical actions she can take to move towards her big social media growth goals. You’ll leave with all the tea around transitioning to life abroad, plus a handful of new perspectives on navigating big shifts while your online community watches in real-time.

Don't forget to DOWNLOAD THE DESIRE DASH (it's free!)

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com.

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

Today we’re guiding you through the 6 essential steps to Wanting in Public so you can create your own want list, and start taking action towards actually getting it. Use our free Desire Dash in Notion to start creating your list based on the prompts you’ll learn in the episode!

(Once you get started, we’d love for you to send a DM on Instagram with something you’re wanting. In the next episode, we’ll share how we’d recommend embodying it so you can make your desires your reality even faster.)

DOWNLOAD THE DESIRE DASH

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler

WELCOME TO: OUR BEST EPISODE YET, QUESTION MARK? What begins as a life update and grocery-shopping-habits deep dive (fascinating, we swear!) evolves into an incredibly rich conversation about why we really compare ourselves, how momentum can be built in any season, practices for staying present, and the evolutions of identity that future-self journaling can’t prepare us for. We also go deep on the narrative of “fixing” that has become pervasive in the leadership space, and redefining enoughness on the heels of big change.

Don't forget to DOWNLOAD THE DESIRE DASH (it's free!)

Join us in Spain this November at our week-long retreat (and get a year of coaching and community support, too)! Learn more at cheerstoyournextchapter.com.

Connect with Xanthe on Instagram: instagram.com/xanthe.appleyard

Connect with Kaitlyn on Instagram: instagram.com/kaitlynskessler