Helping married entrepreneurs reach their business goals while living a better-balanced life with their spouse and family
The biggest challenge for married entrepreneurs isn't simply succeeding in business, it's succeeding in all areas of life.
This show will take you behind closed doors to share with you the real stories, conversations, and hard moments that happen in every married couple's life, especially when it's amplified by the stress of building a business.
Join your hosts Robert and Kay Lee Fukui each week as they take you into the boardroom and bedroom where you will hear encouraging stories from married entrepreneurs thriving in tandem.
Robert has over 25 years of working with Fortune 100 companies in marketing and sales before developing a consulting business to help privately held, family businesses become more profitable.
Kay Lee grew up and worked in her family business and understands the power struggles that can bring.
Together they spent two years in relationship counseling BEFORE they got married and have over 17 years of real-life marriage and business experience implementing what they've learned.
Stay connected with them on Facebook and Instagram @thrivingintandem or visit them at https://www.marriedentrepreneur.co for some great resources for your marriage and business.
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Ep. 250 - How to Handle Major Life Stress Without Hurting Your Marriage
Episode 250
Thursday, May 21, 2026 • Duration 28:34
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In this milestone 250th episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui pull back the curtain on one of the biggest transitions of their marriage and business journey: leaving California and relocating across the country to the Lake Norman area outside of Charlotte, North Carolina. As they record from Dallas during their cross-country road trip, they share the emotions, uncertainty, and real-time stress of making a life-changing move while still trying to protect their marriage, peace, and vision.
This episode dives into the reality of "moving without a plan"—not because they lacked vision, but because many details were still unfolding in real time. Robert and Kay Lee discuss how a shared long-term vision helped them navigate one of life's greatest stressors without turning against each other. They unpack the importance of testing major decisions over time, communicating honestly during stressful moments, creating backup plans, and refusing to let uncertainty create division in their marriage.
For married entrepreneurs, this conversation is a powerful reminder that growth often requires discomfort. Whether you're making a major move, navigating business uncertainty, or stepping into a new season of life, success isn't about having every detail perfectly figured out. It's about staying united, keeping your peace, and moving forward together even when the path ahead isn't fully clear.
Key Takeaways
Celebrating the milestone of 250 podcast episodes while entering a major life transition
Why having a shared vision is critical during stressful seasons of marriage and business
How testing major life decisions over time can strengthen confidence and unity
The emotional and practical realities of uprooting your life and moving across the country
How stress can either divide a couple or make them stronger together
Why moving forward imperfectly is often better than waiting for the "perfect plan"
The importance of protecting your peace and supporting your spouse during uncertainty
Ep. 249 - The Truth About Financial Freedom: Why More Money Won't Fix Your Work-Life Balance
Episode 249
Tuesday, April 21, 2026 • Duration 36:10
Financial freedom is often painted as the ultimate goal for entrepreneurs—but what happens when you actually reach it? In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui sit down with Mike and Carolyn Neubauer to unpack the real story behind building wealth together as a married couple. From humble beginnings—him as a firefighter and her as a stay-at-home mom—they share how they transitioned from trading time for money to creating a life centered on freedom, flexibility, and family. But their journey wasn't smooth. Their first real estate investment nearly strained both their marriage and sanity, forcing them to confront misaligned expectations, communication gaps, and the true cost of "success."
What makes this conversation powerful is how quickly it moves beyond tactics and into what actually matters. The Neubauers reveal that financial freedom isn't about hitting a number—it's about aligning your life with your values. Through trial and error, they learned how to define a shared vision, stay in their respective strengths, and build systems that supported both their business and their marriage. Instead of chasing scale at all costs, they chose intentional growth, prioritizing time, peace, and relationships over maximum profit.
For married entrepreneurs, this episode is both a wake-up call and a roadmap. You'll hear why chasing more money can quietly sabotage your home life, how to avoid common investment mistakes, and why true freedom is measured in choices—not dollars. If you've ever felt torn between growing your business and being present at home, this conversation will help you rethink what winning actually looks like.
Financial freedom isn't about money—it's about control of your time True wealth is the ability to choose how, when, and with whom you spend your life.
Ep. 240 - Sex, Intimacy & Marriage: How Entrepreneur Couples Rebuild Connection Without Burning Out with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo
Episode 240
Monday, February 9, 2026 • Duration 31:49
In this candid and timely conversation, Robert and Kay Lee sit down with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, co-hosts of the top-ranked One Extraordinary Marriage Show, to tackle a topic many couples think about—but few openly discuss: sex, intimacy, and connection in marriage. Drawing from nearly 30 years of marriage and over a decade of coaching couples worldwide, Tony and Alisa reframe intimacy as far more than a physical act. At its core, intimacy is about closeness, safety, and emotional connection—and when those are missing, sex often becomes the symptom, not the root issue.
The conversation explores the "chicken and egg" tension many couples face: one spouse needs emotional intimacy before sex, while the other needs sex to feel emotionally connected. Rather than choosing sides, Tony and Alisa explain why both emotional and sexual intimacy must be strengthened together, a concept they outline in their best-selling book The Six Pillars of Intimacy. For entrepreneurial couples—especially those who work together—this dynamic can be further complicated by stress, blurred boundaries, exhaustion, and over-familiarity. The result? Desire fades, communication stalls, and intimacy becomes an afterthought.
Throughout the episode, listeners receive practical, judgment-free strategies to rebuild connection: how to talk about sex without pressure or shame, why those conversations should not happen in the bedroom, and how tools like shared calendars, intentional planning, and even a "vision" for sexual intimacy can transform a marriage. From breaking taboos and starting small conversations to reigniting anticipation and creativity, this episode offers married entrepreneurs a refreshing, hopeful path toward deeper connection—without adding more strain to already full lives.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
The Fastest Way to Increase Profit (Without More Sales)
In this episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui tackle one of the most misunderstood—and most powerful—levers in business: profitability. Many business owners assume the only way to improve the bottom line is to sell more, but this conversation flips that belief on its head. Drawing from real client stories, they reveal how growing revenue can actually shrink profits when pricing and expenses aren't managed intentionally.
The heart of the episode centers on pricing—specifically why most entrepreneurs underprice their products and services. Robert walks through the most common pricing mistakes (cost-plus pricing, competitor-based pricing, and penetration pricing) and explains why none of them account for true value. Using everyday examples and a powerful auction story, they unpack the psychology of pricing and show how price communicates value, trust, and credibility to your customers.
Finally, they connect profitability to what matters most at home. When margins are thin, stress goes up, hours increase, and marriage pays the price. Healthy profit margins create margin in life—allowing business owners to reinvest, reclaim time, and reduce pressure on the family. The episode ends with a simple, practical assignment to calculate whether your business is hitting the 15% net profit benchmark—and how small pricing adjustments can create immediate relief.
Key Takeaways
Ep. 238 - Working With Your Spouse Without Competing with Jason and Elizabeth Settle
What happens when two strong leaders try to work side-by-side—inside marriage and business? In this candid and refreshingly honest conversation, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui sit down with Jason and Elizabeth Settle, co-founders of Settled Co., to unpack what it really takes for married couples to collaborate without competing. From early power struggles and identity clashes to learning how to celebrate each other's strengths, this episode speaks directly to high-achieving couples who want to win together, not against each other.
Jason and Elizabeth share their personal journey of moving from competition to partnership, highlighting how identity, self-esteem, and misplaced priorities can quietly sabotage both marriage and work. They explore why so many driven couples wrestle with power struggles, how healing individual identity creates a healthier "we," and why trying to change your spouse rarely works. Their insights offer hope to couples who have tried—and failed—to work together before.
The conversation also dives into a topic many entrepreneurs neglect: fun. From separating business meetings from date nights to understanding how joy, laughter, and emotional safety directly impact performance, creativity, and connection, this episode delivers practical wisdom you can apply immediately. If you're building a business while protecting your marriage, this episode will challenge how you think about identity, productivity, and the role of joy in thriving—together.
Key Takeaways
Power struggles are often identity struggles. Healthy collaboration starts when each spouse is secure in who they are—strong "me's" create a strong "we."
Ep. 237 - Legacy Starts Early: Money, Mindset & Meaning with Teen Founder Keira Chang
Episode 237
Tuesday, December 9, 2025 • Duration 23:16
In this powerful episode, Robert and Kay Lee sit down with 17-year-old entrepreneur and leukemia survivor Keira Chang, founder of Heroko Shop and author of The Second Race: The Turtle and the Puppy, A Story About Money. Diagnosed with leukemia the week before her 13th birthday, Keira spent years in treatment and isolation—but emerged with a renewed appreciation for life, community, and the importance of using your gifts to help others. Her story is raw, inspiring, and a needed reset for entrepreneurs who get caught up in the grind.
Keira shares how Heroko Shop was born at the end of her treatment as a way to give back to the pediatric cancer community that supported her. Designed for Gen Z, by Gen Z, her brand sells fun accessories while raising awareness and support for kids battling cancer. With guidance from mentors (including Robert and Kay Lee) through a local youth entrepreneur program, she transformed a simple idea into a profitable, impact-driven business—learning how to test, adapt, and lead a team along the way.
She also unpacks the heart behind her children's book on saving and money, and why financial literacy needs to start younger—especially in a world of rising debt and easy spending. For married entrepreneurs, Keira's perspective is a refreshing reminder: your business is a tool, not just for income, but for impact; your support system matters; and your influence on the next generation—whether through parenting, mentoring, or leading by example—can shape how they view hardship, money, generosity, and purpose.
How a life-threatening diagnosis at 12 reshaped Keira's gratitude, priorities, and view of what truly matters.
Ep. 236 - Reviewing Entrepreneurial Success and Failures
Episode 236
Tuesday, December 2, 2025 • Duration 34:34
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As the year winds down (or whenever you're listening), Robert and Kay Lee invite married entrepreneurs to pause and audit what's working—and what's quietly piling onto your calendar "just because." The danger isn't always failure… it's drift. When you never stop to evaluate, your schedule fills up, your energy gets spent on habits instead of priorities, and both marriage and business can slowly erode under nonstop momentum.
They walk through a powerful set of reflection questions designed to help you celebrate progress (not just critique problems), gain clarity on your goals, and make smarter decisions with your time. Kay Lee shares personal growth around emotional triggers and learning not to take everything personally—especially in family relationships. Robert opens up about loosening perfectionism, taking more chances, and using "small steps" to reduce overwhelm—like their decision to test a possible move to Lake Norman one step at a time instead of forcing a massive all-or-nothing decision.
The episode also highlights practical business lessons like testing demand safely (hello, waitlists) and learning to ask for what you want—whether it's closing a deal, requesting introductions, or opening doors through relationships. They wrap with meaningful experiences from the past 90 days: building local community through fun gatherings for married business owners, and serving local businesses impacted by the devastating Southern California fires—offering clarity, encouragement, and simple marketing direction when life feels foggy.
Key Takeaways Reflection Questions for Married Entrepreneurs (for you and your spouse):
Ep. 235 - Inconvenient Entrepreneurs: How Not To Start A Business with Robbie and Nicole Harper
Episode 235
Tuesday, November 25, 2025 • Duration 27:49
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What happens when a career shake-up, a calling to entrepreneurship, and a surprise pregnancy all collide at once? In this episode, Robert sits down with Robbie and Nicole Harper—co-founders of Blue Ridge PR—to talk about what it really looks like to build a business while protecting your marriage and family. Robbie shares how leaving an unhealthy work situation became the catalyst for launching their PR firm, while Nicole reflects on the early season of keeping the "home fires burning" so the business could get off the ground.
You'll hear how they navigated financial uncertainty, parenting stress, and the emotional ups and downs that come with entrepreneurship—especially when one spouse processes internally and the other needs to talk it out. Their secret? Honest communication, giving each other space to process, and learning how to "carry the baton" when the other spouse is spiraling. They even share practical tools they use in real life (including one surprising app that helps them process emotions and stay connected).
The Harpers also unpack what it takes to protect your relationship long-term—especially as kids grow up and empty nest seasons approach. From beach walks and "broke date nights" to ice cream runs and dog walks, they remind us that connection doesn't require a big budget—just intentionality. If you're a married entrepreneur trying to build something meaningful without losing each other in the process, this conversation will feel like a deep breath and a roadmap.
Key Takeaways
Ep. 234 - Five Hidden Business Growth Traps Costing You Time and Money
Episode 234
Tuesday, November 18, 2025 • Duration 29:20
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As married entrepreneurs, it's easy to fall into traps that seem harmless but quietly eat away at your profits, your time, and even your marriage. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee uncover five hidden growth traps that keep business owners stuck working harder instead of smarter. These aren't your typical sales or marketing issues—they're deeper mindset and leadership challenges that directly impact your ability to scale while still having time and energy for your spouse and family.
From chasing sales without focusing on profit margins, to micromanaging instead of delegating, to ignoring outside counsel (including your spouse's wisdom!), these traps are more common than you might think. You'll also hear how holding onto "sacred cows" or letting the words "I can't" dominate your thinking can prevent you from making necessary changes that create both freedom and financial stability. With practical stories and client examples, Robert and Kay Lee show how to shift your mindset and avoid sabotaging your own growth.
This episode is about more than building a bigger business—it's about building a healthier business and marriage at the same time. When you stop focusing on the wrong things and start creating systems, margins, and open communication, you'll reclaim time, reduce stress, and grow profitably in tandem.
Key Takeaways:
Sales don't guarantee profits—healthy margins do.
Ep. 233 - How To Make Risky Moves In Business and Marriage with Susan Schramm
Episode 233
Tuesday, November 11, 2025 • Duration 27:49
When big ideas stall, it's rarely because the idea is bad—it's because people get stuck. In this week's conversation, we welcome strategist and author Susan Schramm (chair of Nehemiah Project; founder of Go To Market Impact) to unpack how married entrepreneurs can de-risk decisions at work and at home—without killing momentum or connection.
Susan introduces her De-Risk System for Impact, a simple, people-first way to move initiatives forward: clarify why and why now, name who must take action, surface assumptions, and explore both upside and downside risk—including the risk of inaction. She also shares a practical rhythm couples can use to align different risk profiles (hello, "shoot first" spouse vs. "think it through" spouse), reduce anxiety, and keep communication open.
From cross-country moves and career shifts to launching products and leading teams, you'll hear scripts, questions, and exercises you can use tonight—like pre-mortems, writing decisions down, and even trying on "Disney roles" (visionary, operator, financier) together—so you protect your marriage, accelerate results, and avoid costly detours.
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Risk has two dimensions: awareness of risk and willingness to engage. Know where each spouse sits.
Always ask "Why now?" Great ideas can be right—but at the wrong time.
Map four quadrants: upside of acting, downside of acting, upside of not acting, downside (risk) of not acting. Inaction carries its own costs.
Make assumptions visible. Write down what you're presuming about time, travel, money, family, and capacity. Revisit when reality changes.
Use pre-mortems. Before launching, imagine what could go wrong (or right too fast) and plan responses—without making it personal.
Your first investment will test more than your finances—it will test your marriage Miscommunication, stress, and unclear roles can quickly create tension if you're not aligned.
Vision must be shared and specific A vague desire for "freedom" isn't enough—clear goals, timelines, and expectations are what unify couples.
Play to your strengths as a couple One leads execution, the other strengthens relationships and long-term thinking—both are critical.
Peace is often more valuable than profit Hiring help (even at a cost) can buy back time, reduce stress, and improve your relationship.
Don't just invest in deals—invest in people The operator behind the opportunity matters more than the numbers on paper.
You don't need to scale fast to win Intentional growth that aligns with your values leads to a more sustainable and fulfilling life.
Freedom is living life on your terms today—not someday Waiting until "later" to enjoy your family defeats the purpose of building wealth in the first place.
Mike and Caroline Neubauer
Mike and Caroline Neubauer went from broke, exhausted, and trading time for just enough to get by… to financially free, working on only things that light them up, and raising their son while investing across multiple markets. They didn't do it with a trust fund or a tech exit. Mike was a full-time firefighter on Maui. Caroline was a stay-at-home mom.
Their first move into real estate investing was a leap of faith, a spreadsheet, and a whole lot of YouTube. But once they went all in, that one deal kicked off a five-year sprint to financial freedom. Today, their portfolio spans short-term, mid-term, and long-term rentals, private lending, and passive investments across multiple states. They built a life that protects their peace, gives them time with their son, and still pays them while they travel.
Together, they host The Our Family Invests Podcast, where they interview entrepreneurial couples who are building wealth without losing their minds or their marriages. They talk about strategy, alignment, and how to grow a business that actually serves your life.
They're not trying to be the biggest name in real estate. They're focused on living intentionally, building a life that aligns with their personal compass while raising their son Nico with presence.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
Intimacy ≠ sex alone: True intimacy is closeness and connection; sex thrives when emotional safety is present.
It's not either/or: Emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy reinforce each other—and both must be nurtured.
Normalize the conversation: Talking about sex is emotional intimacy and removes unnecessary tension and assumptions.
Change the environment: Don't discuss sex in the bedroom—protect it as a sacred, pressure-free space.
Start small: Short, low-pressure conversations build confidence and momentum over time.
Entrepreneurial marriages need structure: Clear roles, shared calendars, and intentional boundaries reduce friction that kills desire.
Anticipation matters: Surprise, creativity, and intentional planning reignite excitement—just like in business.
Enhancement, not replacement: Tools and toys can support connection when used together, intentionally, and without shame.
Vision creates momentum: Couples who plan and prioritize intimacy are far more likely to experience growth, not drift.
Bio
As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best-selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
More sales don't guarantee more profit Revenue can increase while profit margins shrink if pricing and expenses aren't managed intentionally.
Your price sends a psychological signal Pricing communicates value and credibility. Underpricing often creates skepticism—not loyalty.
The most common pricing strategies are flawed Cost-plus, competitor-based, and penetration pricing ignore the true value you deliver.
15% net profit is the minimum target After paying yourself and all expenses, your business should retain at least 15% of revenue as net profit.
Raising prices is the fastest way to grow profit Price increases go straight to the bottom line without adding marketing costs, staff, or hours. Underpricing creates stress at home Thin margins force longer hours and constant hustle—stealing time, energy, and peace from your marriage.
Small price increases can have massive impact A 5–10% average price increase can be enough to restore healthy margins.
Competition kills partnership. Learning to celebrate each other's strengths instead of resenting them transforms both marriage and work.
Your spouse is not your project. Real growth begins when you stop trying to change your partner and focus on personal responsibility and self-control.
Work can't replace relationship. When affirmation, validation, or joy come solely from work, marriage inevitably suffers.
Fun is not optional—it's strategic. Laughter, joy, and shared experiences build emotional connection, reduce pressure, and improve performance.
Separate business from romance. Dedicated business meetings and protected date nights help couples stay connected without blurring boundaries.
Joy fuels resilience. In seasons of uncertainty or financial pressure, intentionally choosing fun helps couples stay emotionally connected and grounded.
Love rejoices in truth. Focusing on what's right about your spouse—not keeping score—puts wind in your sails as a couple.
Bio
Jason Settle
Jason is a highly respected educator, counselor, and consultant, recognized for his profound influence and dedication to empowering others. With a rich and diverse background in education and counseling, Jason delivers actionable guidance and strategic insights that enable individuals and organizations to achieve their full potential.
A dynamic leader and compelling communicator, Jason believes that true success begins with a person's self-perception. His approach, shaped by his studies in Dr. John Townsend's Organizational Leadership Master's program at Concordia University, emphasizes personal growth, self-awareness, and transformative leadership. Jason fosters an environment of innovation and continuous improvement, inspiring those he works with to push beyond their limits and discover new possibilities.
As a leader and Biblical counselor, Jason excels in both group and individual settings, offering powerful coaching that promotes freedom and personal development. His expertise enables clients to make meaningful changes in their daily lives and positively influence those around them.
Whether in the classroom, one-on-one counseling, or consulting roles, Jason remains committed to making a lasting impact. His unwavering support, paired with his wealth of experience, ensures that those he serves are equipped with the tools and confidence needed to thrive.
Elizabeth Settle
Elizabeth Settle is a dynamic speaker, dedicated community builder, pastor, and freedom counselor with a passion for helping individuals and communities embrace their true identity and live in freedom. With a heart for guiding others to hear God's voice and experience personal transformation, she blends practical wisdom with deep spiritual insight.
As a pastor, she nurtures vibrant, faith-filled communities, and as a freedom counselor, she walks alongside those seeking healing and wholeness. As a multilingual educator and writer,
Elizabeth has developed content in both English and Spanish, reaching wide audiences and contributing to organizations like Gateway Publishing, Docent Research Group, and Prestonwood Curriculums. Whether writing resources, speaking to large audiences, or working one-on-one, Elizabeth is committed to empowering others to thrive in their purpose and live authentically.
She holds a Master's Degree in Educational Administration from Texas State University and is recognized for her strategic thinking, emotional intelligence, and collaborative leadership.
Elizabeth is currently serving as a Pastor of Christian Education and Discipleship at Gateway Church.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
The origin of Heroko Shop and how a teen founder built a brand with a cause: Gen Z designs that support kids with cancer.
Why support systems—family, friends, community, medical staff—are crucial, and how that parallels the importance of strong marriage and partnership in entrepreneurship.
The inspiration behind The Second Race: The Turtle and the Puppy and why teaching kids about saving and stewardship early is so important.
Practical lessons married entrepreneurs can draw from Keira's story: simplifying what you stress about, aligning your business with impact, and remembering that people always matter more than pressure and profit.
A vision for legacy: how mentoring and modeling healthy leadership today can empower the next generation of values-driven entrepreneurs.
Biography:
Keira Chang is a 17-year-old high school student, cancer survivor, entrepreneur, and author. After being diagnosed with leukemia at 13, she was inspired to give back and founded Heroko Shop, a clothing and accessories brand that donates all profits to childhood cancer organizations. This year, she became a published author with her children's book on financial literacy, which she used to launch a campaign donating around 250 books to schools, libraries, hospitals, and community centers, hosting reading sessions and workshops to teach kids about saving. She also helped found her school's chapter of Therapicasso, a nonprofit that uses art to help kids process emotions and manage mental health.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
If you don't audit your life, your calendar will audit you. Reflection helps you remove what's no longer serving you—before "busy" becomes your default.
Celebrate small wins, not just big milestones. Most entrepreneurs can spot failures instantly—this episode helps you build balance and sanity by naming what's working.
Small steps reduce big fear. Especially for perfectionists, progress comes easier when you create a "safe" next step instead of trying to solve everything at once.
Test demand before you invest. A waitlist is a simple way to validate interest before you commit time, money, or a big launch.
Ask for what you want. Whether in business, relationships, or networking—doors open faster when you stop hoping and start asking.
Community is a strategy, not a luxury. Fun, face-to-face connection isn't optional for thriving—it's fuel for married entrepreneurs.
Encouragement is leadership. When people are overwhelmed or recovering from loss, clarity + reassurance can be the most meaningful "next step."
How have I grown as a person over the past three years?
What are the biggest things that I've learned in the past 12 months?
What are 10 important things I've accomplished in the past 12 months?
What meaningful experiences have I had in the past 90 days?
How am I clearer on my goals and vision than I was 90 days ago?
In what ways is my life different and better than 30 days ago?
What important progress have I made in the past seven days?
What progress have I made in the past 24 hours?
Don't let life stack up without a pause. Regularly audit what's working and what's adding unnecessary stress.
Start-up seasons are intense—support is everything. A spouse being genuinely "on board" can be the difference between breaking and building.
Communication is the real safety net. When money is tight or clients are slow to pay, staying connected keeps fear from taking over.
Only one meltdown at a time is a win. Learn how to stabilize each other when one spouse is spiraling.
Give each other space to process differently. Some need silence and a walk; others need to talk it out to find clarity.
Connection doesn't need to be fancy. Ice cream runs, dog walks, beach subs—small moments can be the most impactful.
Protect the marriage before the empty nest arrives. Keep investing now so you don't wake up later wondering, "Who are you?"
Intertwined lives require extra intentionality. When work, church, and family overlap, boundaries and check-ins matter even more.
Bio:
Robbie Harper, MBA, and Nicole Harper are the co-founders of Blue Bridge PR, a public relations firm focused on building reputation for faith-driven and values-based organizations. Robbie serves on the boards of both the U.S. Christian Chamber of Commerce and the Central Florida Christian Chamber of Commerce. Nicole is also the Children's Minister at Stetson Baptist Church. They live in DeLand, Florida, with their three children. Connect with them at https://www.bluebridgepr.com.
Micromanaging drains your energy and limits your team's potential.
Every entrepreneur needs trusted outside counsel (yes, even your spouse).
Holding onto "sacred cows" keeps you stuck in outdated practices.
Saying "I can't" closes the door on innovation and healthy growth.
Try role-switching. Together evaluate ideas as the visionary (experience), operator (execution), and financier (resources).
Document decisions. Capture reasoning so you can learn, adapt, and avoid blame when conditions shift.
Practice on small stuff. Use the system for everyday choices (schedules, purchases, projects) so you're ready for high-stakes moves.
Bio
Susan Schramm is on a mission to help people turn big ideas into reality. Whether in a boardroom or a coffee shop, Susan finds joy in equipping and encouraging people to overcome obstacles and move forward.
After decades of working with Fortune 500 companies and nonprofits launching new products and programs, new partnerships, and new companies, Susan founded her firm, Go to Market Impact. She aims to help leaders of organizations of all sizes achieve results faster when driving high-stakes strategies. Susan developed the De-RiskSystemforImpact® to encourage leaders to openly discuss risk and plan for the people side of strategy, which is often ignored. She brings energy, experience, and practical insights that inspire a fresh perspective.
Susan revels in exploring the world around her and has proudly conquered one of her bucket list goals: visiting all 50 states in the US. She is fueled by her faith, her family, and a bottomless cup of coffee.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs' guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
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