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| How to Grieve like a Tantrika: A Guide for When Your Life Is Falling Apart | 08 nov. 2026 | 01:43:42 | |
When life falls apart, how do you keep from turning on yourself? In this deeply personal episode of This Tantric Life, Layla shares what's helping her move through heartbreak, grief, and the endings she never wanted. She reveals the shift that changed how she measures success in her hardest moments, and how she's learning to choose what's true, even when it breaks her heart. Discover how to interrupt self-criticism when life gets hard, stop mistaking today's pain for your whole future, and reclaim your worth beyond age or being chosen. Layla shares how she's learning to hold herself with love through the uncertainty, and stay open to the goodness she cannot yet see. In this episode
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| The Vagina Whisperer Shares Pelvic Floor Secrets Every Woman Should Know | 27 sept. 2026 | 01:03:53 | |
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Bio Dr. Sara Reardon is a board-certified pelvic floor physical therapist, widely known as The Vagina Whisperer on Instagram and TikTok. She's the creator of The V-Hive App, an online pelvic floor workout app for pregnancy, postpartum, menopause, painful sex, and pelvic floor strengthening.
Sara has been featured in The Washington Post, Time Magazine, NPR, Harper's Bazaar, The Today Show, and numerous other podcasts, publications, and professional conferences for her advocacy and educational work as pelvic floor physical therapist. She is a TED presenter on Rethinking Postpartum Care and the author of the national bestselling book FLOORED: A Woman's Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage.
Follow Dr. Sara on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the.vagina.whisperer, TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@thevagwhisperer, LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-reardon-pt, YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thevaginawhisperer, and Facebook https://www.facebook.com/thevagwhisperer.
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Timestamps
00:00:47 - Join Layla's email list to receive free practices, in-depth teachings, and new episodes https://laylamartin.com/ 00:00:54 - Guest introduction 00:02:23 - Dr. Sara and Layla share their own stories of peeing during activity 00:07:33 - What your pelvic floor actually is and what parts of your body it supports 00:05:33 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification https://laylamartin.com/coaching-certification/vita-coaching 00:14:53 - What causes dryness and how it can contribute to pain 00:20:08 - Why consent is at the core of every step of pelvic floor work 00:23:44 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout https://shopmood.com/shop-all/mood-sex-magic-sexy-plant-activated-elixir/ 00:26:42 - The one thing Dr. Sara wants to whisper to the entire world's vaginas 00:32:27 - How Layla talks to her pussy during medical procedures (and why it helps) 00:39:47 - Why you should care for your vulva the same way you care for your face 00:50:22 - What an "O-Day" is and why a patient sends the clinic flowers every year 00:54:34 - Dr. Sara's top advice for having better orgasms 01:01:53 - A simple, guided pelvic floor love practice you can do at home 01:03:33 - Conclusion | |||
| The 5 Sexual Superpowers That Change Your Entire Life | 13 sept. 2026 | 01:06:07 | |
In this special solocast episode of This Tantric Life, Layla Martin introduces a paradigm shift in how we approach pleasure, desire, and intimacy. Moving away from performance-based mechanics or static personality types, Layla frames sexual energy as a set of dynamic "superpowers" that every person can cultivate to heal blockages, deepen partner connection, and activate their full erotic potential. | |||
| Mama Gena Wrote You This Guidebook | 28 août 2026 | 01:17:37 | |
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Bio Regena Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, is a pioneering voice in women's empowerment, a bestselling author, teacher, feminist icon, and the founder and CEO of the School of Womanly Arts, which began in her living room in 1998 and has since grown into a global movement.
For more than three decades, Regena has devoted her work to restoring what has been systematically stripped from women: our connection to the body, our desires, our emotional lives, and our right to want more. At the heart of her teaching is a radical truth: pleasure is a form of power. And when a woman is fully expressed – in her body, her desires, her voice – she moves differently. She tolerates less and expects more. The stakes of her life become visible, and she responds accordingly.
This work is rooted in lived experience, decades of research, and the real-world results of hundreds of thousands of students. It has changed the way women relate to themselves, the standards they hold, and the lives they are willing to claim. Regena is the author of five books, including the New York Times bestseller Pussy: A Reclamation, and has been widely recognized as a leading voice in modern feminism.
Regena's approach is both deeply personal and unmistakably collective. In a culture that shames our bodies and suppresses our emotions, her work serves as a vital antidote that offers not only tools for survival, but a pathway to turn-on, truth, and full-bodied liberation. Her conviction: that the feminine, long suppressed, is the force that will change everything. These teachings don't just challenge the status quo. They transform it.
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Timestamps
00:00:52 - Guest introduction 00:02:53 - Join Layla's email list to receive free practices, in-depth teachings, and new episodes 00:04:17 - Why Layla was the very first person to read On Our Knees 00:05:33 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:12:27 - What brought Mama Gena to her knees feeling betrayed by God and Goddess 00:15:22 - An invitation: let discomfort move through you and remake you 00:18:13 - How the losing her greatest love taught Mama Gena about eros 00:23:44 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:28:15 - What got Mama Gena thrown out of the cathedral on Park Avenue 00:38:28 - What healing truly is (and what it isn't) 00:43:03 - The only prayer in the Goddess tradition is "thank you" 00:51:25 - What Layla learned throughout two years of ongoing illness 01:02:22 - Why the entire proposal for On Our Knees was rewritten in deep surrender to life 01:10:44 - What Mama Gena wants every woman to feel when she's on her knees in the dark 01:15:27 - On Our Knees is the guidebook for hell that we've needed for a long time 01:16:43 - Conclusion
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| What Happens When You Stop Treating Pleasure As Optional | 09 août 2026 | 01:09:58 | |
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Bio Kimberly Phoenix-Coffin is a trauma-informed intimacy, relationship, and Tantra teacher, speaker, co-author, and coach, co-founder of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and host of the Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples podcast. After decades of disconnection shaped by trauma, self-doubt, and survival-based relating, Kim devoted the last decade to deep healing. embodiment, and the reclamation of her body, truth, and life through extensive work with Layla Martin, Mama Gena, Ma Ananda Sarita, and other world-renowned teachers. Her work blends Tantra, nervous system awareness, and somatic, embodiment-based practices, rooted in lived, personal experience. Her story is a journey from numbness to pleasure, from self-doubt to sovereignty, and from disconnection and survival-based relating into a deeply connected, consciously chosen partnership rooted in truth, communication, and erotic aliveness. She brings this work not as theory, but as something she lives daily… in her body, her relationship, her choices, and her leadership. Now, at 50 years old, she lives and teaches what she embodies… guiding individuals and couples into deeper intimacy, honest communication, and full-spectrum aliveness. Together with her partner Roberto, she leads immersive Tantra couples retreats in North Kawartha, Ontario, Canada, designed to reignite the flame that date nights can't… where connection, safety, and erotic aliveness meet. Their work supports couples in rebuilding trust, deepening connection, and awakening erotic intimacy that is both grounded and expansive. Follow Kim on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok, and learn more about her work on her website. If learning about Tantra, embodiment, and conscious partnership lights you up… VITA™ Coaching is your next step ✨
Doors open August 20th, join the waitlist to get early access to join and the maximum number of bonuses!Follow Layla! 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women Timestamps 00:00:48 - Guest introduction 00:04:14 - The email Kim got from Mama Gena that changed everything 00:04:56 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:06:02 - Why fear always speaks the loudest right before you say yes to what you want 00:11:22 - Layla shares what it was like to lead 900 women in Sex Magic on a Broadway stage 00:14:37 - What started to change after Kim bejeweled her pussy 00:18:06 - The practices that helped Kim go from body hatred to body love 00:24:27 - Why Kim chose to bare it all on her eHarmony dating profile 00:27:47 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:31:56 - What it actually means to "eat the fear, eat the grief, and eat the rage" 00:36:55 - Why learning to listen to your pussy starts with your clothes 00:45:17 - Asking your pussy or testicles this one question can change everything 00:48:56 - An example of exactly how pleasure practices heal trauma 00:58:58 - The one thing Layla always experiences during an extraordinary pleasure practice 01:04:55 - Why deep, conscious intimacy is as psychedelic as plant medicine 01:08:09 - Conclusion
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| Meet the World's #1 Yoni Masseur {NEW Podcast!} | 26 juil. 2026 | 01:33:25 | |
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Bio Devah Curlechéile is a sex, intimacy, and sensual embodiment guide whose journey began in Ireland.
Raised Catholic, he felt from an early age that life held far more than what he had been shown. After graduating with a degree in Neuroscience from Trinity College Dublin, he left Ireland at 25 and began a decades long global quest to explore the deeper mysteries of human potential, consciousness, energy, and healing.
Over 20 years of travel and study, Devah immersed himself in a range of practices, including Reiki, Sound Healing, Tantra, meditation, shamanic medicine, conscious intimacy, EFT, and tantra massage. His path was shaped by various initiations, including breaking his back twice, navigating depression, sitting with large doses of the various Entheogen's, integrating suppressed parts of himself through transformative experiences in Tokyo's conscious kink underground, and studying tantra and tantra massage in Bali with Ma Ananda Sarita.
Along the way, he also discovered the extraordinary potential of intimate connection with himself and others to open transcendent states of consciousness, cosmic orgasm, and deep embodied awakening.
Now based on Kauai, Devah feels deeply called to help others reconnect with the wisdom of their bodies, awaken their senses, and access greater intimacy, healing, and expansion. Known for his compassionate heart, grounded presence, and nurturing approach, he creates spaces where people can feel safe, seen, and held in reverence as they explore, rediscover, and remember these pleasurable dimensions of embodiment.
Follow Devah on Instagram and learn more about his work on his website.
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Timestamps
00:00:47 - Guest introduction 00:03:48 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:07:19 - Why Devah recommends starting with a prostate massage before yoni dearmoring 00:11:13 - What Layla experienced when she saw Devah receive a prostate massage 00:15:00 - How to practice the microcosmic orbit to circulate your sexual energy 00:17:17 - Why grounding matters just as much as transcendence in Taoist Tantra 00:20:06 - Men are being socialized out of anal pleasure 00:26:17 - What self-pleasure on psychedelics can teach you about circulating energy 00:27:40 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:28:35 - What helps men to open up when their bodies are shut down from shame 00:37:52 - What a deeply intentional self-pleasure practice for men looks like 00:43:29 - The shift from dopamine sex to oxytocin sex 00:49:14 - The #1 piece of advice for men learning to become multi-orgasmic 00:57:31 - Why learning things while playing makes you 9x more likely to retain them 01:01:43 - How to worship the entire body before approaching the yoni 01:05:19 - Encouraging consent creates the safety needed for deeper pleasure 01:13:36 - How to hold space for a partner having an emotional experience 01:20:33 - An explanation of the "clock technique" to learn the inside of the yoni 01:25:56 - How Devah's queer sexual experiences made him a better lover to women 01:29:13 - What polarity really means and how to use it energetically 01:31:09 - Conclusion
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| Why Energy, Consciousness, and Polarity are Keys to Better Sex | 12 juil. 2026 | 01:34:54 | |
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Bio John Wineland is a world renowned author, teacher, and speaker. For nearly two decades, he has guided thousands of men and women in the realms of masculine and feminine embodiment, sexual polarity, and sacred intimacy.
His best selling book, From The Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth & Healing the World, has been translated into five languages and continues to support men around the world.
His next book, Evolutionary Love, releases in late 2026 and lays out the four pillars of a new approach to romantic partnership, sexual artistry, and the practice of love itself. John is the host of The Embodied Relationship Experience, the #1 podcast on relationships and sacred intimacy. His teachings blend energetic and practical approaches, offering profound insights into leadership, polarity, and conscious relationships.
Follow John's work on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook and learn about his new women's program The Body of Love and membership platform The Embodied Relationship Experience.
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Timestamps
00:00:47 - Guest introduction 00:03:00 - What Layla and John learned from dating each other 00:04:57 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:56 - Why men have been led to misunderstand what the masculine actually is 00:09:30 - What true nervous system regulation really requires 00:11:47 - The polarity practice John does with men in the desert 00:15:25 - What Achilles, Gilgamesh, and Beowulf taught John about masculinity 00:20:06 - How men with active feminines change relationships 00:24:04 - What polarity truly is and how it connects with consciousness and energy 00:28:55 - Almost everything between men and women is a call for love 00:29:29 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:34:29 - Why the greatest masculine practice is simply being a yes to what is 00:40:28 - Why the concept of polarity has gotten a bad reputation 00:46:23 - Breaking down first stage, second stage, and third stage of relationship 00:58:12 - How to carry consciousness into sex 01:07:50 - Why a deeply safe person can activate an unsafe nervous system 01:09:07 - Layla's realization that men are not okay 01:17:22 - 3 things men must address to in order to heal their collective wound 01:27:12 - What it will take to finally heal the pain between men and women 01:28:56 - John guides a simple embodiment practice to drop into your masculine or feminine 01:33:59 - Conclusion
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| From 25 Years of Sexual Repression to Being Multi-Orgasmic | 28 juin 2026 | 00:54:57 | |
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Bio Talaina is a sexual liberation guide and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples move beyond shame and shutdown into their deepest capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and authentic connection.
She transformed her own loving, but nearly sexless, marriage into a deeply connected, thriving relationship that is now a powerhouse of intimacy, emotional depth, erotic vitality, and orgasmic bliss.
By unraveling layers of repression shaped by religious conditioning, family dynamics, and societal messaging, she reclaimed her body, her desire, her voice – and ultimately, her life.
Now, she guides others into intimacy that is fully expressed, deeply connected, and truly alive. Talaina's work integrates nervous system regulation, advanced biofeedback technology, erotic awakening, and spiritual growth to create profound, lasting transformation.
She believes a liberated life is what happens the moment you stop abandoning your truth… and start living it fully and freely.
Follow Talaina on YouTube and Instagram, and if you want to connect with her directly, you can email her at talainataff@gmail.com. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps
00:00:50 - Guest introduction 00:03:48 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:56 - Being taught that sex was something to be ashamed of 00:09:20 - How fear can become embedded in your nervous system 00:11:00 - What led to Christianity becoming a system of social control 00:13:08 - How fear of sexuality impacts a developing nervous system 00:15:25 - How long it took for Talaina to unravel the religious conditioning she received 00:18:02 - The moment Talaina realized she needed to address her sexual repression 00:24:05 - How Talaina became multi-orgasmic after years of shutdown 00:27:49 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:28:35 - What shifted in Talaina's marriage after 25 years of sexual struggle 00:31:30 - How to begin creating a shared language around sex 00:34:40 - Why VITA™ Coaching changed everything for Talaina 00:38:35 - How sex can naturally unlock deeper spiritual states 00:43:20 - The most common relationship problem women face 00:48:15 - What happens when you discover your body's orgasmic potential 00:52:40 - Why the spiritual component of VITA™ Coaching matters so much 00:54:01 - Conclusion
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| How Divine Masculinity Unlocks Better Sex and Deeper Love | 14 juin 2026 | 01:07:49 | |
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Bio Brenden Durell is a breathwork and somatic facilitator, intimacy guide, author, and co-founder of Oríkao, a ceremonial grade heirloom cacao brand sourced from indigenous communities in the Amazon. He has spent over 14 years working at the intersection of embodied practice, plant medicine traditions, traditional Tantra, and sacred sexuality. Known for his ability to bridge ancient wisdom with modern life, Brenden guides individuals and couples into a more intimate relationship with themselves and the people they love.
His work lives in the body: in the breath, in presence, in the places we've learned to armor ourselves against feeling. Rooted in the principles of traditional Tantra and sacred sexuality, he helps people dissolve the walls that keep them from experiencing life and love more fully, reclaiming their body as a place of power, pleasure, and presence.
Brenden has been featured in Forbes, Men's Health, and has appeared on multiple seasons of Netflix's Too Hot to Handle. He is the founder of The Golden Room, a global community for those committed to deeper nervous system health, conscious living, and authentic connection. He is also a devoted father and partner currently raising his daughter between Peru and the United States.
You can follow Brenden's work on Instagram and on his website.
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Timestamps
00:00:45 - Guest introduction 00:02:16 - How Layla and Brenden first met 00:04:09 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:06:28 - What Brenden learned from teaching on a reality TV show 00:07:32 - Our society is sex forward but intimacy terrified 00:08:26 - How an invitation into intimacy can still impact people who are far from that world 00:10:44 - The part of reality TV that takes advantage of people for entertainment 00:15:56 - Layla shares her experience teaching on Netflix's Too Hot to Handle 00:17:07 - How Brenden showed up as the divine masculine for Layla during filming 00:17:27 - What the divine masculine truly is to Brenden 00:19:43 - Brenden describes what presence feels like in his body and mind 00:22:27 - Layla shares one of the great feminine arts she learned from Alison Armstrong 00:25:14 - What Brenden's partner does to make him feel more loved than he ever has 00:25:58 - This is one of the greatest acts of love a woman can offer in partnership 00:27:25 - Why sports pressure was easier for Brenden than being in conflict with his partner 00:28:36 - More men would thrive in relationship if they weren't afraid of this one thing 00:29:35 - A lot of Brenden's partner's requests that help her come out of her spirals are simple 00:30:48 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:32:18 - Why Brenden's relationship has been the greatest lesson for him in intentional living 00:35:15 - How Brenden translates all his personal growth and spiritual work into lovemaking 00:39:40 - Why men need to stay big, not get smaller, to serve 00:41:08 - This is the moment a man decides to come into spiritual work 00:43:12 - What Brenden sees as the reason men have changed so drastically 00:51:02 - What makes Brenden's flavor of divine masculine different than most men's 00:51:27 - You need to be whole in yourself to finally experience true masculinity and femininity 00:53:01 - The #1 thing Brenden would have every man do when he wakes up in the morning 00:55:03 - A simple practice that can change everything for men 00:56:14 - How to bring out the best in a man as a woman 01:00:47 - Brenden shares about his experience inside Layla's program, Men's Sexual Mastery 01:05:01 - The cycle Layla has observed of High Priestesses, Kings, and Queens 01:05:34 - Conclusion
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| Mama Gena's Top Teachings About Orgasm | 31 mai 2026 | 01:24:44 | |
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Bio Regena Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, is a pioneering voice in women's empowerment, a bestselling author, teacher, feminist icon, and the founder and CEO of the School of Womanly Arts, which began in her living room in 1998 and has since grown into a global movement.
For more than three decades, Regena has devoted her work to restoring what has been systematically stripped from women: our connection to the body, our desires, our emotional lives, and our right to want more. At the heart of her teaching is a radical truth: pleasure is a form of power. And when a woman is fully expressed – in her body, her desires, her voice – she moves differently. She tolerates less and expects more. The stakes of her life become visible, and she responds accordingly.
This work is rooted in lived experience, decades of research, and the real-world results of hundreds of thousands of students. It has changed the way women relate to themselves, the standards they hold, and the lives they are willing to claim. Regena is the author of five books, including the New York Times bestseller Pussy: A Reclamation, and has been widely recognized as a leading voice in modern feminism.
Regena's approach is both deeply personal and unmistakably collective. In a culture that shames our bodies and suppresses our emotions, her work serves as a vital antidote that offers not only tools for survival, but a pathway to turn-on, truth, and full-bodied liberation. Her conviction: that the feminine, long suppressed, is the force that will change everything. These teachings don't just challenge the status quo. They transform it. Sign up to pre-order Regena's new book here. Learn more about Mama Gena on her website and follow her on Instagram. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps
00:00:55 - Guest introduction 00:02:57 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:48 - Why Mama Gena calls the school she trained at the Vatican 00:08:24 - Mama Gena recommends all men and women plug into their orgasmic power 00:11:14 - Exactly how orgasm birthed who Mama Gena is today 00:15:50 - When you build pleasure, time and space changes 00:19:33 - The goddess is in every woman and baby girl 00:22:42 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:27:18 - Mama Gena shares the highest number of hand-delivered orgasms she's had in one day 00:29:21 - Why orgasm doesn't have to mean climax (and what it does mean) 00:36:21 - Mama Gena reveals who her daily pleasure practice partner is 00:39:20 - Why women have the ability to turn on anytime, under any circumstance 00:48:10 - Why being able to turn yourself on is useful inside of long term relationships 00:50:45 - Mama Gena's story of failing the final test for a sexuality class 00:52:18 - The degree to which you love yourself is the degree to which you can love your orgasm 00:57:14 - Mama Gena's main goal in returning to school was to get better with a pussy 01:03:53 - The best approach for a woman who is struggling to orgasm 01:08:40 - Why whore energy is potent, valuable, sacred, wild, and liberating 01:11:11 - What an extended massive orgasm practice actually is 01:17:34 - How courtesan nights encourage pleasure in a culture that resists it 01:22:18 - Conclusion
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| Four Pillars That Transform Conflict and Pain Into Deeper Intimacy | 17 mai 2026 | 01:33:00 | |
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Bio Brian Butts and Aubrey Slaver are relational and shadow alchemists devoted to the art of sacred partnership. Blending parts work, archetypal awareness, and practical communication tools, they have navigated religious deconstruction, addiction, separation, and infidelity and have come out on the other side loving each other more than they ever thought possible. They use radical honesty, safety, and conscious communication as the pillars of their growth.
They are currently launching a relationship podcast and developing a framework to help couples transform conflict into connection. With a shared mission to normalize raw, honest relating, they are devoted to helping couples deepen intimacy, decode their stories, create safety, and cultivate a more alive and fulfilling union.
You can follow Aubrey, Brian, and their shared work on Instagram. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps
00:01:20 - Guest introduction 00:02:43 - Layla's advice for staying in a relationship that's incredibly hard 00:05:42 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:10:52 - Aubrey and Brian talk about what shaped their early idea of marriage 00:14:28 - Brian shares his mother wound and how it created deep conflict 00:19:52 - A joyful relationship enhances your happiness, it doesn't create it 00:23:00 - The shift for Aubrey that helped her find a way out of constant conflict 00:27:46 - Layla explores what a narcissistic defense mechanism is 00:31:52 - How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points 00:36:20 - Why separating allowed Aubrey and Brian to become themselves again 00:37:59 - [AD] MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks: [MOOD Sex Magic] 00:46:18 - Brian shares what made him want to do the work in the relationship 00:47:35 - What distinguishes an abusive relationship from a partner with trauma 00:50:52 - Aubrey shares what reclaiming her sexuality inside VITA Coaching gave to her 00:59:10 - The four pillars that have helped Aubrey and Brian move through challenges 01:04:00 - If you can't be honest with yourself, you can't work with your truth in partnership 01:07:44 - Aubrey and Brian share what made them choose to return to each other 01:13:08 - The one question to ask yourself when you feel triggered by your partner 01:18:23 - Aubrey shares her experience inside The VITA™ Coaching Certification 01:21:57 - What marriage means to Aubrey and Brian after all the work they've done 01:25:29 - Brian and Aubrey share what they're most grateful for in their relationship 01:29:37 - Conclusion
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| What a Tantric Orgasm Actually Feels Like (and How to Get There) | 03 mai 2026 | 01:11:15 | |
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Bio Diana Richardson is widely regarded as a leading contemporary authority on human sexuality and conscious intimacy. A bestselling author on Tantra, her work centers on the union of sex and meditation, and on practical ways this sacred connection can transform intimate life. After completing a law degree, she became a disciple of the Indian mystic Osho in 1979, initiating a lifelong exploration of sexuality, love, and meditative awareness, further influenced by the teachings of Barry Long. Integrating these influences through lived experience, Diana developed Generative Sex, also known as Cool Sex, an evolutionary and sustainable approach to intimacy. This distilled wisdom is shared through her practical Love Keys, presented in her bestselling book, The Heart of Tantric Sex. For over 30 years, Diana has guided more than 15,000 couples in week-long residential retreats in Switzerland, and she is now launching a Rekindle online course based on these highly successful live retreats.
You can follow Diana's work on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Discover her online course here and her books and live retreats here. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
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00:00:52 - Guest introduction 00:03:08 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:06 - Diana describes how Tantric orgasm feels different than default orgasm 00:07:09 - When you don't think about orgasm as a goal, you can stay more present 00:07:48 - How a flow state compares to an orgasmic state 00:09:18 - How sex in our culture has become as aspect of the mind instead of the body 00:11:20 - You can't make an orgasmic state happen, you can only prepare the ground 00:12:14 - How to train your body for sexual experiences 00:14:49 - Why it's important to bring your body into your everyday life 00:18:12 - What it looks like in everyday life to make your own body the priority 00:18:57 - [AD] MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks: [MOOD Sex Magic] 00:20:34 - Why being in your mind can make you feel like you control the universe 00:22:46 - Why it's important to trust our body's intelligence 00:24:15 - Diana shares the deconditioning process she experienced with Tantra 00:27:40 - Why pushing your body during sex actually blocks pleasure 00:29:05 - Intensity during sex can come from a fear of loss of erection 00:30:53 - Why language around the penis and vagina matters 00:33:46 - The one thing Diana sees that helps women open into an orgasmic state 00:38:38 - The 3 elements Osho says are required for a blissful state 00:40:15 - The most valuable thing Diana wants women to know 00:42:17 - How to bring breast activation into your lovemaking experiences 00:46:40 - The real reason premature ejaculation happens 00:51:50 - The power of yin versus yang in sexual experiences 00:53:28 - What Diana finds in men who are willing to try a new way of making love 00:57:55 - Why Diana and her partner approach sex in a softer way 01:01:52 - Conclusion
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| The New Science of Psychedelics, Sex, and Deep Connection | 19 avr. 2026 | 01:29:56 | |
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Bio Tommaso Barba a PhD candidate at the Centre for Psychedelic Research, Imperial College London. Under the mentorship of Dr. David Erritzoe and Prof. David Nutt, he has co-authored more than ten high-impact publications, including five as first author, in prestigious journals like The Lancet EClinical Medicine and Nature Scientific Reports. His research explores the efficacy of psychedelics compared to traditional antidepressants, short acting tryptamines and the impact of psychedelics and MDMA on couples' intimacy, advocating for their potential in improving couples' connection within therapeutic settings. Tommaso's work has garnered widespread international and national media recognition, reflecting both its scientific importance and its societal relevance. He has been featured in Forbes USA, The Times, The Telegraph, Rolling Stone , CNN, Women's Health and more.
You can follow Tomasso's work on Instagram and on X, read his research here, and sign up to join Tomasso's Psychedelics and Couples Study. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps
00:01:00 - Guest introduction 00:03:13 - The legendary story of how Layla and Tomasso first met 00:04:40 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:11:57 - Layla shares her story of encountering aliens for the first time 00:15:45 - The real, tangible outcome of Layla's alien experience 00:17:29 - Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist 00:21:35 - How psilocybin impacts people's sex lives positively compared to SSRIs 00:27:30 - The parallels between psychedelics and sacred sexuality 00:31:15 - Tomasso shares what changed for him sexually after a guided psilocybin experience 00:36:36 - [AD] 2 FREE sticks of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir with code PODCAST at checkout 00:42:29 - Why your romantic partner can be the best, and worst, thing for your nervous system 00:50:43 - How Tomasso's research has mapped to his own growth in intimacy 00:53:04 - The moment Tomasso realized he didn't actually love himself 01:00:48 - A healthy, happy man can set a tone for an entire relationship 01:06:14 - Why love is a skill, not a feeling 01:16:00 - Why obsession and ecstatic feelings can be big red flags 01:20:01 - The most important decision you will ever make 01:25:53 - The exact study Tomasso would do if funding wasn't an issue 01:29:39 - Conclusion
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| How to Reclaim Your Feminine Power and Magic | 29 mars 2026 | 01:49:36 | |
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Bio Seren Bertrand is a cultural mystic and visionary, best known for her best selling and award winning books on feminine wisdom and eco-spirituality. Seren has been married to Dr. Azra Bertand for over a decade, with a beautiful daughter, and live on 18 acres of land in Appalachia, with their many fantastic beasts, curating an enchanted portal of the new paradigm.
You can follow Seren's work on Instagram and learn more on her website. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps 00:00:55 - Guest introduction 00:03:48 - [AD] Awaken your natural feminine radiance at my FREE live event, Rise Like Venus 00:07:52 - Seren shares her womb journey from fragmentation to restoration 00:12:01 - What Mary Magdalene said to Seren while writing the Magdalene Mysteries 00:17:19 - Why healing trauma is an act of magic 00:21:34 - How Layla's ancestral trauma was connected with two years of health challenges 00:28:50 - Live your life in a way that your magic is more intact than those who came before you 00:31:26 - The difference between womb healing and the High Priestess path 00:40:29 - Layla now recognizes her mother as an ancestor 00:42:43 - Layla's definition of magic 00:44:29 - Seren shares her definition of magic 00:48:42 - [AD] MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks: [MOOD Sex Magic] 00:58:38 - If you choose to work with the poison, you will find medicine in it 01:03:40 - Why the poison path is a death and rebirth initiation 01:08:38 - Daily devotion and beauty can help you fall back in love with being alive 01:12:05 - A simple daily womb practice to stay connected with your body 01:23:18 - Seren explains what she calls Earth Alpha men 01:40:54 - Why we need to be looking for more "yes!" frequency 01:43:46 - Integrating your wounds with the masculine allows you to see how sacred men are 01:46:32 - Conclusion
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| How This Tantra Teacher Faces Grief and Still Has the Best Sex of Her Life | 15 mars 2026 | 01:06:50 | |
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Bio Kirsti Kuosmanen is a lifelong artist, psychotherapist, and pioneer in women's sexuality and embodied spirituality. A professional actress since 1989 and a graduate of Drama Centre London, she is a founding member of Stella Polaris Improvisation Theatre, Finland's first improv theatre.
Alongside her performance career, Kirsti trained as a Gestalt Psychotherapist at the Gestalt Institute of Scandinavia and has spent nearly two decades guiding deep personal and relational transformation.
Her spiritual path began in 2006 and led her into Tantra in 2013, shaping her work at the intersection of psychology, embodiment, and sacred sexuality.
Kirsti is the author of Secrets of a Glowing Woman, Power Years of a Glowing Woman, and the forthcoming Garden of Venus. Kristi has trained extensively in Tantra, women's health, holotropic breathwork, psychedelic therapy, and coaching. She is a sought-after speaker for business organizations, teaching presence, communication, and embodied leadership.
You can follow Kirsti's work on Instagram and learn more on her website. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps 00:00:00 - Guest introduction 00:04:27 - Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist: [FREE VITA Coaching Checklist] 00:07:02 - Why the birth of Kirsti's first child caused her a breakdown 00:08:57 - This is what it feels like to find your soul 00:14:18 - Tantra allows you to be both fully spiritual and fully human 00:15:22 - How the Tantric path supported Kirsti in a life transition through grief and loss 00:18:07 - Layla shares about her final conversation with her beloved stepfather 00:23:23 - Why your nervous system goes numb while trying to process intense emotion 00:26:13 - Experiencing spiritual practices as enrichment to your life rather than bypassing 00:29:16 - The witches were the original holders of grief, death, birth, and magic rituals 00:30:08 - [AD] MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks: [MOOD Sex Magic] 00:33:04 - Kirsti and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC Elixir 00:37:02 - One of the top shadows that shows up in the Tantric field is ageism 00:39:38 - Why women's sexual energy ignites instead of dwindles after 40 years old 00:42:44 - Post-menopausal women used to use their power to become leaders and guides 00:45:46 - The younger male response Kirsti received when she began owning her sexuality 00:50:42 - Why men of ALL ages want to be sexually initiated, not just young men 00:54:00 - Some simple rules for experiencing Kundalini awakening 01:01:16 - Kirsti shares about her new book, Garden of Venus 01:05:29 - A simple beginners' practice for overcoming ageism and unlocking confidence 01:07:15 - Kirsti shares something she is currently struggling with and how she's overcoming it 01:08:44 - Conclusion
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| Kundalini Rising & Soul Rebirth: Listening to Your Inner Oracle with Rebecca Campbell | 01 mars 2026 | 01:25:34 | |
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Rebecca Campbell is an international bestselling author, mystic, and spiritual teacher whose creations have inspired millions of people all over the world.
Her bestselling books, oracle decks, and trainings have been translated into over 40 languages worldwide and her work has been featured in Vogue, The Sunday Times, Oprah.com, Psychologies Magazine, and more.
Rebecca's mission is to support people to live a soul-led life and develop a direct experience of the sacred. Her events are full sensory experiences… you will always leave having shifted something energetically and connected deeply to your soul.
Buy her latest book, Your Soul Had A Dream, Your Life Is It.
Learn more about Rebecca's work on her website and follow her on Instagram. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
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00:02:34 - Layla's invitation to you as you listen to this episode 00:04:31 - What does your soul most want you to know in this moment? 00:05:08 - Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist 00:09:21 - Rebecca shares the experience that initiated her spiritual path 00:10:59 - The moment Layla realized there's something deeper inside of her 00:14:53 - Rebecca's first time seeing soul in her adult life 00:19:08 - The two appropriate responses for pretty much anything in life 00:20:22 - The story of the soul death portal Layla experienced when her stepfather passed 00:25:47 - How undigested energy becomes trauma in our nervous systems 00:29:49 - Western society doesn't know what to do with death or how to honor it 00:33:31 - [AD] [MOOD Sex Magic] - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks 00:36:53 - How a Goddess dress and a case of norovirus became a crossroads for Layla 00:39:52 - Birth, death, and grief are beautiful… but they're not pretty 00:42:33 - Why Rebecca was afraid to become a mom 00:50:01 - Rebecca's story of her Kundalini awakening 00:53:20 - Layla shares the story of her Kundalini awakening 00:59:04 - How Western culture has let those of us who have energetic awakenings down 01:03:09 - How simple obligations can help to ground and regulate an awakening 01:04:52 - Layla shares guidance for people having a Kundalini awakening 01:09:42 - How to tell whether your soul or your ego is speaking 01:17:57 - Rebecca shares her favorite simple way to stay connected with your soul 01:18:55 - Bonus question with Layla 01:24:39 - Conclusion
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| Why Kegels Don't Work and Other Surprising Things About Your Pelvic Floor Health | 15 févr. 2026 | 01:11:21 | |
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Bio Lauren Ohayon is the creator of "Restore Your Core®" (RYC®), a comprehensive and sustainable fitness program that empowers women who aim to be strong, long, mobile, and functional.
With more than two decades' of experience as an internationally renowned pelvic floor movement specialist, Lauren focuses on resolving core and pelvic floor issues minus the "burn and shred" mentality. Her signature program has helped over 10,000 women regain confidence in their bodies and a life no longer limited by pain and pelvic floor symptoms. RYC® also boasts over 500 highly trained movement professionals around the world.
She is also the co-founder of Body Ready Method® which is rooted in the RYC® Method and offers evidence-based online pregnancy, birth, and recovery programs and has trained over 1,800 professionals globally.
Lauren and the RYC® teachers help women across the globe gain core strength, achieve ideal pelvic floor function, and learn to move efficiently and exercise optimally.
Learn more about Lauren's work on her website and follow her on YouTube and Instagram.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelaurenohayon/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@restoreyourcoremethod Website:
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00:02:58 - Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist 00:04:26 - How pelvic floor health connects to pleasure and sexual experiences 00:09:24 - How modern life and high heels create tightness in your pelvic floor 00:12:51 - One of the best things you can do for your pelvic floor 00:19:07 - How the Tantric and Daoist traditions view the pelvic floor 00:22:54 - Why tighter isn't better for your pelvic floor 00:26:24 - Pelvic floor work should train the pelvic floor to be responsive 00:30:53 - MOOD Sex Magic - Podcast coupon code + 2 free sticks 00:35:10 - Loving your pelvic floor allows it to do what it needs to do to heal 00:37:34 - Why the most important part of a jade egg practice is your relationship to it 00:46:17 - What you can start doing now to improve your pelvic floor health 00:51:12 - Blood flow is the core biological basis of sensitivity in your body 00:56:11 - Lauren's advice to women who feel numbness during sex 00:59:57 - A powerful moment Lauren fell in love with the capacity of the pelvic floor 01:03:18 - What would happen if the whole world was in touch with their pelvic floor 01:06:13 - Conclusion 01:06:43 - Bonus pelvic floor practice with Layla
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| How to Stay Madly in Love During Conflict with Your Partner | 01 févr. 2026 | 01:41:06 | |
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Bio Fabienne Annick is a Sex, Love & Spirit Coach who sees sexuality and partnership as profound mirrors for self-awareness and gateways to healing, growth, and magic. Her work is deeply inspired by her own exploration of conscious relationship with her beloved husband, Jef. Explore Fabienne's programs and coaching on her website and follow her on Instagram. Jef weaves together integrative psychology and cognitive restructuring as an improvisational art form. He has served as a consultant, coach, speaker, healer, teacher, and high performance mentor for more than a decade. A master level Shadow EFT practitioner who has innovated his own methodology, Jef's highest ideal is to model and help people influence energetic/emotional mastery with patterns of thought that create internal harmonization. His vision is one of stabilization and healing which continuously disperses itself throughout the collective psyche, while recognizing, honoring, and learning from the template of Union, alongside with his wife Fabienne, as their most sacred and valuable endeavor. Discover Jef's powerful work on his website and follow him on Instagram.
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Timestamps 00:02:59 - Layla explains what she calls the 3% in a relationship 00:04:33 - Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist 00:06:06 - Fabi and Jef share their epic engagement story 00:14:53 - How sovereignty and self-responsibility show up in conflict 00:19:16 - Why your relationship with yourself impacts your partner's ability to relate to you 00:23:03 - The value of processing things individually before coming together as a couple 00:24:15 - Keys to processing challenges in connection somatically with your bodies 00:26:14 - Second ad: MOOD Sex Magic (clean, scientifically-backed aphrodisiac supplement) 00:28:07 - Layla's top question for herself when conflict arises 00:35:47 - How to practice self-responsibility during relational challenges 00:47:04 - Fabi shares how she uses parts work to process high emotional intensity 00:55:03 - We all still think we're the only one who is broken and flawed 00:57:37 - Layla share the 5 core emotions that feel the most vulnerable for her in conflict 01:03:11 - 95% of humanity's problems come from the unwillingness to feel pain 01:07:00 - How to use conflict as a vehicle into a deeper level of connection 01:13:24 - What it looks like to walk through life as a perpetual student 01:17:06 - Fabi shares an experience of conflict with Jef that put her in full denial 01:24:55 - A vulnerable moment that made Jef fall more in love with Fabi 01:31:44 - Jef shares how a couple in their 70s went from roommates to safety and turn-on 01:39:08 - Conclusion
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| The Hidden Teachings of Mary Magdalene and the Radical Love We Were Never Taught | 18 janv. 2026 | 01:51:14 | |
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Bio Meggan Watterson is the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of Mary Magdalene Revealed. She is a feminist theologian with a Master of Theological Studies from Harvard Divinity School and a Master of Divinity from Union Theological Seminary.
Meggan is the founder of The House of Mary Magdalene, a spiritual community that studies the sacred texts left out of the traditional canon and practices the soul-voice meditation.
Her work has appeared in media outlets such as The New York Times, The New Yorker, HuffPost, TEDxWomen, and Marie Claire.
Meggan's most recent book, The Girl Who Baptized Herself, was recommended by Glennon Doyle in ELLE as "the book that kept me up way too late."
You can follow Meggan's work on Instagram and find her books, meditations, and offerings on her website. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps 00:00:45 - Guest introduction 00:02:36 - The moment the gospel of Mary Magdalene began transforming Meggan's life 00:06:20 - Layla explains the messaging that Catholic scripture sends to women 00:12:32 - The shift in Christianity from fighting the unjust to enforcing it 00:19:41 - How distorted teachings contribute to loneliness and alienation 00:24:43 - A sovereign power exists within every person 00:26:36 - The one thing Layla would change in the Catholic teachings 00:33:00 - How experiencing rage helped Meggan finally return to her body 00:36:21 - The original definition of salvation 00:42:46 - We are only ever as far from our power as we are from our own embodiment 00:49:32 - Spiritual lies live inside our bodies as negative self talk and self-rejection 00:58:53 - Meggan shares her experience with self-doubt and a desire for external validation 01:05:18 - Layla shares the hallmarks of the Tantric tradition 01:17:37 - How spirituality impacts our ability to be a fully expressed sexual being 01:23:59 - It's easier to control men who don't have a power center outside of religion 01:30:15 - What most people still don't understand about Mary Magdalene 01:32:15 - A simple practice you can do right now to reconnect with the voice of love within you 01:43:09 - Conclusion
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| What This Acclaimed Sex Therapist Wants You to Know | 04 janv. 2026 | 01:14:55 | |
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Bio Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sex therapist who works with individuals and couples on a range of relational issues that often lead to distress.
He's regularly featured as an expert in various media, such as The Atlantic, The New York Times, The Economist, and NPR, as well as contributes regularly on the topic of relationships for CNN.
Ian lectures frequently, with recent presentations for the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium, the Ackerman Institute, Tony Robbins, Goop, and TED 2021, and is the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and the recently published So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex.
In addition to being a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and is also a member of the American Family Therapy Academy (AFTA).
He's the co-founder and co-director of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of the oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities in New York City.
You can learn more about Ian's work on his website. 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
Timestamps 00:00:46 - Guest introduction 00:05:21 - Ian shares how his personal experience inspired him bring his work to the world 00:10:28 - The science behind how pleasure is created in the vagina through intercourse 00:15:53 - How sensual touch above the waist and communication impact sex and pleasure 00:16:59 - How to get a woman's desire going and enhance it throughout sex 00:24:25 - Ian shares his definition of great sex 00:31:18 - Layla explains what a recap after a sexual experience is and how it helps 00:33:00 - Ian and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:37:17 - How basic chemical attraction is part of what keeps couples together 00:39:45 - Can you create sexual desire if it was never there in the first place? 00:43:39 - Chemistry comes in all different forms 00:47:33 - Why porn is easier than partnered sex 00:55:54 - Ian shares what he sees as the biggest contributors to sexual issues 01:00:11 - How dating apps impact relational and sexual experiences 01:06:37 - The role willingness plays when it comes to sex in a long-term partnership 01:09:55 - The 3 different ways sex gets started 01:13:10 - The big key to Ian and his wife's sex life after 25 years together 01:13:56 - Conclusion
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| What It Really Means to be Multi-Orgasmic | 21 déc. 2025 | 01:16:03 | |
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Bio Lee Holden is a Qi Gong Master who has brought ancient tradition to the mainstream. He's the author of the bestselling book Ready, Set, SLOW and a PBS favorite with shows such as Less Stress, More Energy and Your Fountain of Youth.
Lee is the founder of Holden Qi Gong, an online education center for Eastern Wisdom.
You can learn more about Lee's work on his website and find him on Instagram: @holdenqigongofficial 🌐 Website 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎶 Listen on Spotify 💋 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements 🔥 For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery 🌹 Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women
00:00:51 - Guest introduction 00:02:11 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:05:30 - Sexual energy as the source of vitality 00:13:26 - When you can celebrate your power, you no longer have to hate yourself 00:14:41 - Transforming sexual energy into life force energy into spiritual energy 00:17:50 - Sexual energy is universal energy 00:22:24 - Get 2 FREE stick packs of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir using code PODCAST 00:24:20 - Different ways we unknowingly leak our sexual energy in modern life 00:27:45 - Layla's shares her favorite question to take inventory of your stress 00:32:52 - When you're inspired about the future, you have more energy in the present 00:40:36 - Key ways to begin rebuilding your sexual energy 00:44:19 - How sexuality used to be part of prescribed medicine 00:49:54 - How exchanging energy with your partner leads to increased pleasure 00:52:42 - What multi-orgasmic means for men 00:58:34 - How Lee learned to become multi-orgasmic 01:02:03 - Layla's shares her story of how she learned to be multi-orgasmic 01:04:06 - What obstacles men face in becoming multi-orgasmic and how to fix them 01:06:34 - Why becoming multi-orgasmic is important for both the man and his lover 01:09:12 - Energy work can build a bridge so both partners feel in the mood 01:10:51 - How slowing down during sex heightens and amplifies sexual energy 01:11:59 - Lee shares a simple practice to feel your Qi in less than 30 seconds 01:15:08 - Conclusion
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| That One Time I Had Sex in a Cemetery (and Other Tales About Desire) | 07 déc. 2025 | 00:43:31 | |
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Bio Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D is a Licensed Psychologist (Clinical and Forensic) in California, Florida, New York, and Illinois. She's a Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, and PACT III trained couples' therapist.
As the Founder of Modern Intimacy, a nationwide therapy practice, Dr. Balestrieri is a passionate advocate for mental, relational, and sexual health. Throughout her work, Dr. Balestrieri focuses on helping people build resilience and recovery from what ails them to move from a position of pain or discomfort to one of thriving holistically in their lives.
Dr. Balestrieri is the author of What Happened to My Sex Life? A Sex Therapist's Guide to Reclaiming Lost Desire, Connection and Pleasure, and is the host of the Get Naked with Dr. Kate podcast.
You can learn more about Dr. Balestrieri's work on her website and find Dr. Balestrieri on Instagram: @drkatebalestrieri 00:00:55 - Guest introduction 00:01:54 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:04:39 - Dr. Kate's 2025 mid-year sex in review 00:05:20 - The top ways Dr. Kate sees people lose desire 00:08:40 - How the American approach to pleasure compares to other cultures 00:11:15 - Layla shares one of her favorite cemetery sex stories 00:13:54 - Layla and Dr. Kate drink MOOD SEX MAGIC Elixir 00:16:19 - Dr. Kate shares a deep dive into her work with sex and addiction 00:18:22 - Get 2 FREE stick packs of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir using code PODCAST 00:20:27 - What it's like working with sex offenders in prison settings 00:25:04 - How better prevention can stop sexual violence 00:28:02 - The #1 way to get back into a sexual headspace 00:30:50 - How sexuality has changed from a cultural perspective over the last 20 years 00:32:11 - Dr. Kate's personal favorite thing about sex 00:32:54 - Dr. Kate shares her current sexual growth edges both personally and professionally 00:35:14 - How to approach shame around your sexuality 00:36:28 - Layla explains what it means to "eat shame for breakfast" 00:37:33 - Dr. Kate shares a take home practice you can use to connect with your body sexually 00:39:17 - Pleasure comes from within and you can access it anytime you desire 00:42:35 - Conclusion
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| Beyond Love: The Hidden Keys to Lasting Connection with Andrew Horn | 23 nov. 2025 | 01:32:11 | |
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Bio Andrew Horn is an entrepreneur, writer, and relational leadership coach whom Forbes calls "Dale Carnegie for the digital age." He grew his last company, Tribute, to eight figures in revenue and millions of users, landing on the Inc. 500, before stepping away to focus on coaching and transformation. He also co-founded Junto, a community for leaders to explore men's work and personal growth. Andrew has shared his insights on global stages including Conscious Capitalism, Summit Series, and Google Talks, and coaches founders and executives from some of today's most innovative companies, including Hinge, Casper, and Everyday Dose. Learn more about Andrew's work on his website, at Junto, and follow him on Instagram @itsandrewhorn
00:00 Truth hits like electricity: authenticity, curiosity, presence 01:01 Meet Andrew Horn and why "being right" is overrated 03:03 The Burning Man suitcase origin story 04:00 Take your business to the next level with my VITA™ Coaching Checklist 05:31 "I love the sh*t out of you" - friendship, on record 08:07 Bad communication = hyperbolic criticism (why "never/always" backfires) 09:41 Learning to meet fire with skill (Non Violent Communication, ownership, objectivity) 10:56 Gestalt wake-up: three pillars to speak from your spine 13:40 The eye-contact exercise that turned truth into lightning 15:02 Coffee-machine confession: when honesty cracks reality open 16:09 Matrix moment: you don't meet people, you meet your story about them 19:16 Layla's jungle-cult nights and the psychedelic power of saying the uncomfortable thing 25:02 Choosing aliveness over being liked 27:49 Objective > subjective: the foundation of clean communication 31:16 Feelings at work and the "clear ask" example 32:12 Get 2 FREE sticks packs of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir using code PODCAST at checkout 34:02 Curiosity as the antidote to mind-reading 39:46 Byron Katie and "everyone makes sense to themselves" 43:49 Boundaried vs. boundaryless and the sacred pause 47:45 "Violent" (charged) communication vs. objective language 51:10 Needs-based consciousness (OFNER) - a map out of reactivity 52:26 The Five A's of requests: Ask, Acknowledgement, Apology, Action, Agreements 58:24 Why agreements beat "good intentions" every time 1:00:55 Rituals that keep love alive: weekly check-ins & love dates 1:01:12 "Therapy speak" complaints - the pragmatic reframe 1:02:40 Integrity = knowing yourself, speaking the truth, and keeping agreements 1:06:37 Rebuilding integrity after breaches: deconditioning and working with shame *Correction: Nonviolent Communication was developed by Marshall Rosenberg (not Marshall Goldsmith). | |||
| What To Do When Your Childhood Trauma Is Hijacking Your Relationship | 16 nov. 2025 | 01:09:27 | |
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Bio Shay Aiyana is the best-selling author of Becoming the One and the founder of Rising Woman, a global community dedicated to self-healing, relational transformation, and spiritual embodiment. Her work blends somatic awareness, inner child healing, and grounded spiritual insight to guide millions through the landscapes of heartbreak, love, and personal rebirth. With a writing style that is both poetic and piercingly clear, Shay weaves personal storytelling with practical tools to offer readers a deeply human, emotionally resonant experience. Her words are a balm for those who have been lost in self-abandonment, teaching them how to come home to themselves with compassion and truth. Having grown up in foster care and overcome cycles of abuse, addiction, and heartbreak, Shay's teachings are not theoretical – they are lived. Through Rising Woman, she has helped millions remember that healing is not about becoming someone else, but about reclaiming the love, power, and wholeness that was always theirs. Learn more about Shay's work on the Rising Woman website and follow her on Instagram @sheleanaaiyana Timestamps 00:00:00 - Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist 00:00:59 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:02:29 - Guest introduction 00:04:39 - How Shay's childhood taught her the impact trauma has on adult relationships 00:07:30 - Why we have a tendency to draw in partners who are a perfect match for our wound 00:09:26 - How raising a child has helped Shay recognize adult attachment behaviors 00:13:01 - There are different levels of the expression of your wounds 00:17:04 - Why attachment and trauma wounds need to heal through relationships 00:21:24 - What is a healthy amount of healing that can be done in a relationship? 00:23:14 - How to know if you're in a dead end dynamic in your relationship 00:27:01 - A conversation that taught Shay she wasn't the partner she thought she was 00:29:31 - What it looks like to let your partner off the hook but still be self-responsible 00:32:14 - Get 2 FREE stick packs of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir using code PODCAST at checkout 00:36:03 - How changing your self-approach to "I've got you little one" shifts everything 00:40:52 - How being honest about your hurt in the moment improves your relationship 00:46:30 - How bringing "death energy" to her husband deepened Shay's marriage 00:49:49 - The one question Shay asks herself when her inner saboteur comes up 00:52:31 - A breakdown of Shay's first book, Becoming the One 00:56:52 - Layla's biggest takeaway from this powerful conversation 01:01:43 - True mastery is loving your parts so they don't hijack you in destructive ways 01:04:40 - 4 pieces of wisdom Shay used to create a better life than she was born into 01:06:38 - Conclusion
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| What to Do When Your Life Is "Perfect" but Your Soul Is Screaming | 02 nov. 2025 | 01:06:49 | |
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Bio Sarah thought she was destined to have an "in the box" life after going to a top college, working in advertising and then creating a successful emotional eating company. All of that changed when Sarah was introduced to Ceremony. After hearing "you're not who you think you are" while sitting in Ceremony and feeling the nudge from the Goddess to become a Priestess – she dove headfirst into training and ultimately became an Ordained Priestess.
Sarah has a way of making spiritual work incredibly approachable and reaches over 100,000 people all over the world. She works with doctors, lawyers, CEOs, stay at home moms, teachers, life coaches and healers. You can join Ceremony by joining the Living Temple, which Sarah co-founded with Kelly Taveras, to experience this work for yourself.
Learn more about Sarah's work on her website and Instagram @sarahjenks
Timestamps 00:00:45 - Guest introduction 00:04:01 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:06:25 - Sarah shares what her awakening and transition into feminine magic looked like 00:11:02 - What is a sacred feminine ceremony? 00:13:43 - How Sarah discovered that her experience with the sacred feminine was real 00:14:32 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:15:57 - Sarah reveals how her transition into the sacred feminine impacted her marriage 00:19:53 - Layla and Sarah drink MOOD Sex Magic 00:20:44 - Explore the magic of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:22:56 - Women's happiness lies in their connection to themselves 00:25:04 - The rise of patriarchy correlates with the destruction of the sacred feminine 00:34:07 - The moment Sarah knew she was ready to commit to the sacred path 00:37:04 - What the High Priestess path actually looks like 00:40:31 - Sarah shares the hardest parts about learning the Priestess path 00:45:45 - The most important functions of a Temple in a community 00:48:17 - Discover your sexual potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality 00:51:46 - Humans have an entire brain center that only lights up in spiritual practice 00:57:45 - Sarah shares her favorite item on her altar 00:58:22 - Layla shares her favorite item on her altar 01:02:02 - The process Sarah went through to overcome her witch wound 01:06:50 - Conclusion | |||
| This Therapist Taught Me How to Go from Hot Mess to Girlfriend of the Year | 19 oct. 2025 | 01:23:03 | |
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Terry Real is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker and best-selling author committed to helping you build the lasting, loving relationships you deserve.
The author of four books, including the recent New York Times bestseller Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, Terry knows how to lead people on a step-by-step journey to greater intimacy and personal fulfillment.
His revolutionary approach to couples therapy, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), underpins all of his books, courses and teachings. RLT equips people with the powerful relational skills they need to make love work and cultivate authentic connections – to themselves, each other and the planet as a whole.
A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry has worked with thousands of individuals, couples and fellow therapists. His extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce garnered Terry the reputation of "the turnaround guy," and demand from other therapists to learn his RLT method skyrocketed.
To bring the remarkable results of RLT to as many people as possible, Terry established his Relational Life Institute. To date, thousands of mental health practitioners have benefited from a whole new perspective on couples therapy that has transformed their clients, their practice and their own relationships.
Terry is passionately committed to empowering us all with the essential relational skills for meaningful relationships.
Learn more about Terry's work on his website and take his FREE quiz.
Timestamps 00:00:56 - Guest introduction 00:01:12 - What Terry's book Fierce Intimacy taught Layla 00:05:03 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:05:43 - Terry shares the work that inspired his grid 00:07:00 - Terry's "grid" that reveals how your trauma shows up in relationships 00:09:47 - Why we have a hard time centering our own self-esteem 00:11:21 - Terry gives a real life example of self-esteem 00:15:33 - How to get out of one down or one up on the grid 00:21:10 - Say whatever you have to say, but do it from the heart 00:23:55 - Individual empowerment vs relational empowerment 00:26:10 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:28:41 - Why Terry believes that our relationships are our biosphere 00:37:54 - Unlock your deepest pleasure with MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:38:42 - Layla reveals which quadrant she is in on the grid 00:46:36 - What allowed Layla's pain and desperation to finally dissolve 00:48:52 - Terry guides Layla through an inner child exercise 00:57:45 - Discover your sexual potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality 01:01:38 - The mysticism of marriage 01:07:55 - How Layla chose to be happy no matter what her partner is doing 01:10:50 - Guidance on how to shift out of anger 01:15:44 - Terry guides Layla and listeners through a boundary exercise 01:20:53 - Take Terry's quiz to find out where you are on the grid 01:22:08 - Conclusion
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| How to Awaken Your Cervix and Experience Cosmic Pleasure | 05 oct. 2025 | 01:07:18 | |
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Bio Olivia Bryant is the founder of Self:Cervix and creator of the Cervical Awakening Pathway – a profound journey into the body, love and creative power through activating the cervix.
For over a decade, Olivia has explored the cervix as a portal to expanded sensation, deep emotional release, universal love and the integration of sexuality and consciousness.
With a background in sexology and somatic practice, she's guided thousands of women through transformative experiences that awaken intimacy, pleasure and the multidimensional intelligence of their bodies.
Learn more about Olivia's work on her website.
Timestamps 00:00:46 - Guest introduction 00:02:07 - How Olivia experienced her first cervical orgasm 00:07:25 - The cervix alters your state of consciousness 00:10:08 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:11:39 - How Olivia vetted potential partners as a single woman 00:15:20 - You get to be responsible for exactly the kind of touch you desire 00:19:43 - How you move through a violation with your cervix 00:23:33 - How to dearmor the cervix to release pain 00:27:40 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:30:22 - When we surrender, our primal impulse flows through us 00:34:13 - What basic cervical dearmoring looks like inside your body 00:37:10 - The shadow of yin is a heavy energy 00:41:24 - Cervical orgasm influences the frequency you walk through the world with 00:41:58 - Olivia and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:48:41 - The importance of understanding sovereignty in a relationship 00:52:45 - No matter where you start, you can reach the deepest self-love 00:53:19 - Discover your sexual and relational potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality 00:55:56 - The phases of dearmoring safely 01:02:22 - Olivia's advice for reaching exquisite cosmic cervical orgasms 01:05:39 - Conclusion Follow Layla! | |||
| The Most Important Love Language No One Talks About: Repair | 21 sept. 2025 | 01:29:44 | |
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Bio Baya Voce is a relationship repair expert helping couples fight better and make up faster.
She holds an MSW from Columbia University, is in ongoing supervision with Esther Perel and is trained and mentored by Terry Real. Baya's approach blends therapeutic depth with the practicality of coaching, teaching couples how to break destructive patterns, rebuild trust and come back together.
Baya collaborates with Columbia University, MAPS (Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies) and Rick Doblin on pioneering research into MDMA-assisted couples therapy. She also regularly speaks at SXSW, and with over 5 million views, her TEDx talk on loneliness highlights the often-overlooked impact of relational disconnection.
Learn more about Baya's work on Instagram @bayavoce.
Timestamps 00:00:45 - Guest introduction 00:03:56 - What led Baya to create a career out of relationship repair 00:08:37 - The social shift of perfection in coaching and leadership 00:10:39 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:12:01 - What people don't realize about the happiest couples 00:14:35 - How a virtual world is challenging our human connections 00:19:08 - The difference between narcissistic abuse vs toxicity from trauma 00:22:47 - A question to ask yourself if you think you're in a manipulative relationship 00:27:20 - Why Baya chooses to stay in her marriage despite the challenges 00:31:14 - Most couples will experience disillusionment in their relationship 00:33:00 - A question to ask yourself to help shift out of victimization 00:33:47 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:39:29 - The end of a partner's capacity teaches you how strong you are 00:45:51 - How to never get ghosted again 00:50:57 - Explore the magic of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:55:23 - Baya explains the third pole of a relationship 01:01:50 - What exactly relationship repair is and why it's important 01:04:29 - The difference between perception and perspective 01:12:58 - Why repair is an ongoing practice 01:15:17 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 01:18:30 - Four of the most important skills required to repair 01:28:49 - Conclusion
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| Confessions Of A Former Good Girl: Pleasure is radical in a society built on purity culture | 07 sept. 2025 | 01:09:06 | |
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Bio Dr. Kimberly Rose Pendleton is a speaker, writer, teacher and the founder of UNCOVER, a 7-figure global lifestyle brand focused on intimacy, pleasure and women's empowerment.
With a M.A. from Yale, a PhD, in-depth coaching training and many years of experience, Dr. Kim considers it a deep honor and pleasure to weave the intellectual side of empowerment, healing and intimacy work into embodied, playful pleasure practices.
Learn more about Dr. Kimberly and her work on her website and find her on all social media platforms @drkimberlyrosependleton.
Timestamps 00:00:48 - Guest introduction 00:02:49 - Layla shares her religious history 00:05:57 - Why Jesus' ministry would not exist without the women who supported it 00:09:32 - Religious conditioning is baked into our society 00:09:56 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:12:55 - How purity culture manifests in women's bodies and sexual experiences 00:14:58 - The reality of women who follow the rules of purity culture 00:19:06 - An MRI study from Daniel Bergner's book What Do Women Want? proves that women silence their pleasure 00:26:29 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:30:40 - Pleasure is something all of us can access 00:37:51 - Dr. Kim shares a powerful practice that saved her life 00:40:30 - Why shame is the gateway to pleasure 00:42:30 - Explore the magic of MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:44:09 - Why a woman's pleasure is a gift to everyone around her 00:44:51 - How ecstatic states purify the soul from Ritual Texts for the Afterlife: Orpheus and the Bacchic Gold Tablets by Fritz Graf and Sarah Iles Johnston 00:49:11 - A woman connected to her pleasure can do anything 00:52:25 - Dr. Kim shares why her good girl part had to experience a death to liberate her 00:57:29 - Why every woman needs to learn how to activate pleasure 00:57:35 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 01:01:27 - Humans were designed to play multiple notes in life 01:02:24 - Discover Dr. Kim's free course Harlots and Heretics 01:02:40 - Dr. Kim shares about her experience inside VITA Coaching 01:08:05 - Conclusion
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| Attunement, Empathy, and Connection: Learn the "Soft" Skills of Sex | 24 août 2025 | 01:18:13 | |
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Steven Jaggers is a somatic educator, practitioner and the founder of SOMA+IQ™ Breathwork, a powerful modality for nervous system healing and embodied transformation.
He has trained over 2,000 practitioners in a unique method that rewires the body's response to stress, trauma and connection through potent tools like breath, co-regulation and somatic self-inquiry.
Steven's approach bridges ancient healing traditions with modern neuroscience, offering experiential tools for emotional integration, authentic relating and whole-body aliveness.
His work has been featured in university-accredited programs, major podcasts and global events. Learn more about Steven and his work on his website.
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00:00:45 - Guest introduction 00:04:54 - Steven explains what meta skills are and their importance 00:08:25 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:09:34 - The importance of focusing on connection instead of healing 00:13:14 - How to describe your feelings from your body instead of your head 00:17:20 - Steven shares Eckhart Tolle's definition of stress 00:21:05 - Others can feel your alignment in their nervous systems 00:23:24 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:24:35 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:25:36 - Steven's definition of eros 00:25:47 - Layla shares her definition of eros 00:32:13 - The most effective way to teach attunement to men 00:42:53 - Why lack of attunement feels like apathy 00:47:26 - The difference between suppression and containment 00:51:52 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:53:19 - Steven explains the 4 modes of communication 00:55:01 - Steven guides Layla through a powerful breathwork practice 01:06:42 - What it feels like to be present inside of yourself 01:07:05 - What it feels like to not be present inside of yourself 01:12:08 - The 3 potentials that can happen for a client during coaching or facilitating 01:16:57 - Conclusion
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| I Touch My Cervix Live During This Podcast (and you can, too!) with Jamie Elizabeth Thompson | 10 août 2025 | 01:13:14 | |
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Bio Jamie Elizabeth Thompson is a feminine embodiment teacher and the founder of Awakened Woman, a global community and course platform devoted to helping women reclaim their pleasure as holy and cultivate the intimacy they most deeply desire in relationships.
Timestamps 00:00:44 - Guest introduction 00:03:10 - How Jamie discovered the magic of her cervix 00:04:25 - Jamie describes the moment her whole life opened up during a cervical orgasm 00:08:36 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:09:04 - The ingredients that led Jamie to be able to have a cervical orgasm 00:11:10 - Why women have a hard time accessing cervical orgasms 00:13:37 - The difference between a clitoral orgasm and a cervical orgasm 00:19:04 - Layla shares the story of her most powerful cervical orgasm 00:21:09 - This is one of the greatest gifts of a cervical orgasm 00:21:40 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:22:45 - Layla and Jamie drink MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:24:02 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:25:14 - What sex is like before cervical healing vs. what it's like after 00:29:24 - The cervix is a gateway into full erotic expression 00:29:55 - The most important things to know about opening and activating your cervix 00:31:48 - A regulated nervous system opens up the pathway for a cervical orgasm 00:34:09 - Jamie shares the #1 pitfall women experience when activating their cervix 00:39:41 - Jamie guides a cervical micropractice you can follow along with 00:52:51 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:53:46 - Jamie and Layla share what they experienced during the practice 00:59:25 - How touching your cervix automatically puts you in a feminine state 01:00:24 - Can you create a relationship with your cervix if it's been removed? 01:03:13 - 3 Ways you can connect with your cervix every day 01:06:18 - Your cervix is connected to having a healthy nervous system 01:12:12 - Conclusion
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| The Local Witch's Guide to Finally Being Seen with Emily Fletcher | Ep 63 | 27 juil. 2025 | 01:00:51 | |
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Emily Fletcher is the founder of Ziva Meditation and has taught over 50,000 people. Her best-selling book, Stress Less, Accomplish More, debuted at #7 out of all books on Amazon and has been translated into 12 languages.
Her work has been featured by The New York Times, Good Morning America, The Today Show, Vogue and ABC. She's been named one of the top 100 women in wellness to watch and has taught at Apple, Google and Harvard Business School.
A formerly stressed Broadway performer who was going gray at 27, Emily discovered a powerful practice that cured her insomnia and improved her health on the first day. Her transformation was so dramatic that she felt inspired to share it with others.
It's Emily's mission to help as many people as possible achieve extraordinary benefits – like dramatically reduced stress, anxiety relief and deep, restful sleep.
Learn more about Emily and her work on her website.
Timestamps
00:01:00 - Guest introduction 00:02:00 - Emily shares her experience inside VITA Coaching 00:02:43 - What surprised Emily about VITA Coaching 00:04:24 - Emily shares about the death portal she's been experiencing 00:06:26- The pain carves out space for more joy 00:07:05 - What inspired Layla to create VITA Coaching 00:10:39 - How to re-establish beautiful orgasmic experiences 00:13:33 - The answer to women being fractured in their power 00:13:48 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:18:49 - VITA Coaching is an understanding of women's evolution of power 00:19:55 - The reactivation and reunion of sex, heart and spirit 00:21:45 - What has helped Emily remember her own divinity 00:25:29 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:27:52 - Layla shares her experience training terror into safety in her nervous system 00:30:09 - How the VITA tools allowed Layla to love greater than her relational trauma 00:32:10 - We have organic pleasure chemicals already in our body 00:33:31 - One of the things Layla is most proud of 00:35:59 - Some of our earliest imprints of whether pleasure is safe happen in infancy 00:39:31 - You heal your trauma at the level of consciousness it occurred 00:39:39 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:42:08 - If you love who you are, you can love what shaped you into it 00:45:43 - When you heal trauma from a resource perspective, it becomes a gift 00:46:22 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:47:26 - Layla shares the most touching thing VITA Coaching grads share with her 00:49:51 - Where to find the most outrageous amount of healing and self-practice 00:53:00 - Save your seat for Your Future is Erotic LIVE Event 00:54:12 - You don't need to be perfect to be a powerful coach 00:57:02 - Why Layla considers it her responsibility to support your success as a coach 00:57:32 - VITA Coaching niche specializations to scale your impact and income 00:58:54 - Join the VITA Coaching Waitlist and unlock the maximum number of bonuses 00:59:56 - Conclusion
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| Why Your Erotic Power is the Key to Female Leadership with Nisha Moodley | ep 62 | 13 juil. 2025 | 01:22:26 | |
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Nisha Moodley is a Devotional Leadership guide, founder of Global Sisterhood Day, host of Devotion Podcast and a mother. As a biracial woman with training in health and executive coaching, ancestral healing work and community building, she has a unique relationship to the ecology of leadership and a profound ability to catalyze growth for her clients. Her work centers around the path of matriarchal leadership as an expression of our devotional care. For 18 years, Nisha has guided intimate councils and online courses and taught 65+ live retreats, supporting women in liberating their leadership and weaving their gifts in service of a more beautiful world.
Learn more about Nisha and her work on her website.
Timestamps
00:00:42 - Guest introduction 00:03:59 - Layla reads the email love letter she sent to Nisha in 2014 00:10:58 - You never know what might happen when you take a chance 00:12:03 - Nisha's core components of leadership and why they're so important 00:15:16 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:16:00 - Layla shares the internal narrative she used to carry around leadership 00:21:04 - The world teaches women that in order to be powerful, they must remain frozen 00:27:06 - How savoring life begins to naturally start shifting your attention outward 00:29:36 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:30:34 - Layla and Nisha drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:32:54 - You can be both soft and gentle and ferocious and fiery as a woman 00:37:28 - We are exhausted from hypervigilance 00:44:47 - Steps you can take right now to build your own sanctuary 00:51:42 - How to be engaged in the sensual experience of life 00:54:08 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:57:12 - Nisha's advice to people who believe in their erotic power but don't feel it yet 01:04:03 - Why the most real sense of power comes from trusting your body 01:08:44 - Why the world represses mothers from the knowledge that they are erotic beings 01:11:34 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men's Sexual Mastery 01:13:19 - Nisha shares a powerful moment from her journey to erotic reclamation 01:18:27 - Nisha explains what she calls the "great trick" of midlife for women 01:21:04 - Conclusion
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| The Deepest Relational Work I've Ever Done {New Podcast!} | 62 | 29 juin 2025 | 01:28:42 | |
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From a young age, Tom Slater sought to learn through direct experience, a path that has taken him across the globe, immersing himself in many traditional and indigenous cultures. His quest to understand himself and the life he was experiencing led him to explore the very nature of his existence, often guiding him down challenging paths, including struggles with addiction and depression.
Through this deep exploration, Tom gradually opened up to a more profound connection with his own humanity, confronting the limitations that prevented him from fully feeling and embracing it. His personal journey has taught him invaluable lessons, enabling him to be present with others in a spontaneous and creative way, facilitating their own process of discovery.
Tom's work, particularly through The Sapience Retreat, focuses on helping individuals integrate all aspects of their being – mental, emotional, physical, social, and spiritual – in a way that fosters a true sense of homecoming, both within themselves and in connection with others. At the heart of his approach is cultivating an open awareness and a deep sense of choice, empowering people to show up more fully and authentically in life.
Learn more about Tom and The Sapience Retreat on his website.
Timestamps
00:00:54 - Guest introduction 00:05:46 - Tom describes what a "meeting" is in his work 00:09:54 - A meeting can be any flavor of energy 00:13:36 - The heart of this work is to have less and less resistance to what's happening 00:14:07 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:16:59 - Relational work has the ability to heal things that solo work can't 00:18:44 - The various traps humans get caught in 00:20:19 - Why deeper inquiry into yourself is at the heart of the spiritual journey 00:23:01 - Layla summarizes spiral dynamics 00:26:41 - The beautiful thing about disintegration and why it's so important 00:29:27 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:31:20 - Layla describes her experience with the beige stage 00:35:10 - Trust and safety only exist in this moment 00:39:51 - The power of unconditional somatic connection 00:40:40 - Layla and Tom drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:43:20 - Layla talks about her "Reclamation in the Red Stage" 00:51:30 - When we hide our power, it can become a force that creates disarray 00:55:23 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:58:35 - How to be present with what's true in the moment 01:01:09 - Layla shares about her entity removal at The Sapience Retreat 01:08:08 - What Tom whispered to Layla's inner little girl 01:10:55 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 01:11:46 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men's Sexual Mastery 01:13:40 - We don't have to become cosmic starchildren to touch magic 01:17:39 - Just meeting each other as humans is the most advanced thing we can do 01:21:48 - Tom's top advice for connecting with yourself on a deeper level 01:25:42 - Layla shares about the stuffed animal she used to carry 01:27:46 - Conclusion
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| The Best Sex Advice of 2025 with Dr. Emily Morse | 61 | 15 juin 2025 | 01:20:57 | |
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Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality and host of the award-winning #1 sexuality podcast, "Sex With Emily," which has been on air for two decades. She's a MasterClass instructor on sex and communication and the bestselling author of Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ & Own Your Pleasure. Emily has been profiled in The New York Times, Forbes and Men's Health and has been featured by The Today Show, Conan, Entertainment Tonight, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Bustle and others.
Dr. Emily's mission is to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives.
Learn more about Dr. Emily and find her work on her website.
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00:00:41 - Guest introduction 00:02:20 - What made you so good at talking about sex 00:04:43 - If you can't talk about something, then you can't have an empowering relationship to it 00:10:31 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:11:28 - Layla sexts with ChatGPT 00:14:31 - The worst sex ideas of 2025 00:17:42 - Every human is a magical universe 00:20:50 - Layla talks about her dating journey as a single woman 00:26:14 - The one piece of advice Layla would give to everyone 00:26:56 - The key to how Layla healed her unworthiness 00:31:57 - Even the experts are still human 00:33:41 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:36:53 - Layla and Dr. Emily drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:41:36 - Why Layla created MOOD Sexy Supplements 00:43:30 - Dr. Emily shares about her journey with somatic therapy 00:47:28 - Safety is the #1 ingredient for being orgasmic 00:48:20 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:49:09 - What are the biggest sexual problems people face | |||
| How to Create Secure, Lasting Love in a Long-Term Relationship with Dr. Stan Tatkin | 60 | 01 juin 2025 | 01:12:56 | |
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Bio Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. Dr Tatkin is the author of In Each Other's Care, We Do, Wired for Love, Your Brain on Love, Relationship Rx, Wired for Dating, What Every Therapist Ought to Know, co-author of Love and War in Intimate Relationships and co-author of Baby Bomb. Dr. Tatkin received his early training in developmental self and object relations (Masterson Institute), Gestalt, psychodrama, and family systems theory. His private practice specialized for some time in treating adolescents and adults with personality disorders. More recently, his interests turned to psycho-neurobiological theories of human relationship and applying principles of early mother-infant attachment to adult romantic relationships. Dr. Tatkin was clinical director of Charter Hospital's intensive outpatient drug and alcohol program and is a former president of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Ventura County chapter. He is a veteran member of Allan N. Schore's study group. He also trained in the Adult Attachment Interview by way of Mary Main and Erik Hesse's program through UC Berkeley. Timestamps 00:00:43 - Guest introduction 00:03:58 - The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning 00:06:00 - How to find compassion for an anxious or avoidant 00:09:59 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:11:49 - Layla describes an avoidant's experience as a baby 00:13:19 - Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles 00:16:17 - Attachment isn't personality, it's memory 00:21:49 - Plan for your devils, not your angels 00:25:43 - How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer 00:26:54 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:33:32 - Dr. Tatkin's advice for the moments you see your partner as an enemy 00:37:27 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:38:20 - What do you secretly put in front of your relationship? 00:45:48 - Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner 00:46:53 - How to learn to take care of your partner's nervous system 00:49:14 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss 00:50:50 - One of Dr. Tatkin's top ways to create safety for your partner 00:54:05 - Why apologizing can subconsciously feel like weakness 00:57:11 - Dr. Tatkin explains the details of "The Couple Bubble" 01:00:34 - What Dr. Tatkin sees that the happiest long term couples do 01:03:50 - Insecures don't believe there's such a thing as fairness and justice 01:05:44 - The biggest mistake people make in modern dating 01:08:07 - Dr. Tatkin celebrates his wife and his relationship 01:11:55 - Secure functioning is very hard but it's worth it 01:12:00 - Conclusion | |||
| My Most Powerful Sex Magic Ritual 59 | 18 mai 2025 | 00:25:17 | |
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Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe.
Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology.
Layla's programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.
Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.6 million downloads.
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00:00:36 - Introduction 00:01:39 - Why Layla created this manifestation ritual 00:02:44 - What you can use this manifestation ritual for 00:04:39 - Why you have to grieve to step onto a new timeline 00:06:00 - What supercharges this manifestation 00:06:07 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:07:25 - To create a new timeline, you have to shift your nervous system 00:10:02 - The grieving ritual 00:12:34 - The key to digesting a negative or heavy experience 00:12:56 - Layla drinks MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:13:24 - The grieving ritual recap 00:13:38 - Layla's grief ritual music playlist 00:14:40 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:15:39 - The Sex Magic ritual 00:17:19 - Make your Sex Magic as sensorial as possible 00:19:21 - How to do Sex Magic in 10-15 minutes 00:22:45 - Sex Magic is not just magic, it's working with your erotic power 00:24:22 - Conclusion
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| How to Stop Chasing Unavailable Men and Magnetize a Devoted Husband with Mel Wells | 58 | 04 mai 2025 | 01:04:29 | |
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Mel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and intimacy they deeply crave by fully understanding and embodying their feminine power, unlocking their wild magnetism and irresistible energy. Mel also mentors ambitious, spiritually driven women to scale their businesses by harnessing the power of their feminine energy and unique superpowers. Through her work, Mel helps women thrive in both love and leadership, embodying their most authentic and radiant selves.
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00:01:33 - Guest introduction 00:04:29 - The archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love 00:07:34 - Why we think of feminine energy as less powerful 00:08:04 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:09:56 - Mel shares about the relationship that sent her into a deep portal of reflection 00:13:22 - If his energy isn't pursuing you, he's disqualified 00:16:32 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:17:16 - Mel and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:20:25 - Men go after what they want 00:21:38 - If he's not moving towards you, it's not your job to figure it out 00:25:47 - Rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen 00:26:02 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:28:34 - We choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us 00:31:40 - Mel explains the feminine archetypes and how they impact dating 00:35:33 - Why it's important to listen deeply to your universal path 00:39:23 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss 00:43:04 - Finding delight in wherever you are on your dating journey 00:46:40 - Never discount the possibility of being fully chosen at every stage in your life 00:48:19 - You can be a female entrepreneur AND be filled with life and magic 00:51:10 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:54:18 - When you mother your partner, he will show up as a child 00:54:54 - The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother 00:57:46 - Mel's advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone 01:00:47 - A practice for switching from the Huntress archetype to the Queen 01:02:01 - A practice for shifting from the Mother archetype to the Lover 01:03:27 - Conclusion
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| Meet My First Boyfriend and All the Ways I F**cked It Up | 57 | 20 avr. 2025 | 01:29:37 | |
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Ryan Cheney is a therapist, seeker, and guide devoted to the process of inner transformation. Based in Austin, TX, he works with individuals and couples to uncover what stands in the way of lasting change – and how to meet those blocks with presence, compassion, and courage. His work is deeply rooted in Internal Family Systems and a profound curiosity about how people evolve.
Before turning his focus inward, Ryan was the founder of Raaka Chocolate, a Brooklyn-based bean-to-bar company built on transparency and ethical sourcing. But his truest calling lies in the inner landscapes: the quiet, tender spaces where real healing happens. His path has been shaped by deep inquiry, spiritual practice, and a love for the moments when people reconnect with the truth of who they are.
Ryan believes transformation doesn't have to be a battle – it can be a remembering. He's most alive when exploring the alchemy of change, the courage it requires, and the unexpected grace that can come when we stop striving and start listening.
Timestamps
00:01:16 - Guest introduction 00:06:02 - Ryan shares how he and Layla met 00:07:35 - Going from small and scared to big and free 00:07:59 - Where Layla was at in her life when she met Ryan 00:11:48 - Where Ryan was at in his life when he met Layla 00:12:31 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:13:11 - Friendship turns into strong attraction 00:13:47 - Ryan describes he and Layla's first kiss 00:16:20 - Why the sex didn't initially work for Ryan 00:19:33 - Ryan learned to hold all parts of Layla 00:21:11 - Layla's first experience with somatic therapy 00:23:00 - Layla credits Ryan for being deeply present for her healing journey 00:24:33 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:26:00 - Layla's desire to find the real Tantra 00:27:19 - Ryan and Layla gave each other spiritual names 00:34:05 - Layla and Ryan discuss their experience with sexual healing 00:39:01 - Why we have to take full responsibility for our actions and impact on others 00:41:48 - How to be present with intensity and pain 00:41:57 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:42:55 - Ryan and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:45:57 - The feedback Layla gave Ryan as their relationship ended 00:48:17 - Layla healed and opened her sexuality before healing and opening her heart 00:51:15 - Ryan shares what he learned from the end of the relationship 00:54:55 - Layla shares one of her favorite stories about Ryan 00:56:08 - How radical love is different than self-sacrificing 01:02:18 - Discover your most masculine confidence and presence with Men's Sexual Mastery 01:03:59 - Layla and Ryan share their experience with an open relationship 01:09:10 - Ryan shares what signaled the end for him 01:17:38 - What Layla learned from the end of the relationship 01:19:20 - What Ryan learned from the relationship 01:21:08 - One of the saddest parts of trauma 01:24:32 - Ryan's favorite parts of Layla from their relationship 01:27:41 - Conclusion
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| Hot Flashes to Hot Sex: The Power of Pleasure in Menopause with Eva Clay | 56 | 06 avr. 2025 | 00:52:02 | |
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Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. She's helped thousands of people unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. As a practitioner of sexual tantra for 13 years, her work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful - and she has a particular passion for elevating women in their midlife portal to enjoy the most wildly succulent phase of their lives.
See www.EvaClay.com
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00:01:00 - Guest introduction 00:04:02 - Eva shares the story of her first hot flash 00:06:20 - The medical model around perimenopause and menopause 00:07:59 - What Eva learned through menopause that she wishes she had known 00:09:19 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:11:00 - What we offer the world when we're in menopause fundamentally shifts 00:14:49 - The science behind body changes in perimenopause and menopause 00:17:38 - Why women who prioritize pleasure have a more easeful menopausal process 00:19:44 - The mindset that allowed Eva to have lovers in perimenopause 00:21:47 - Some of the key practices Eva recommends for midlife 00:24:46 - How meditation supports perimenopause and menopause 00:25:56 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:26:39 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:29:03 - Eva shares her love story 00:32:21 - Eva and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:33:52 - How ketamine helped Eva move into a deeper state of body acceptance 00:35:38 - How Eva's needs with men and relationships changed through menopause 00:38:23 - Eva's experience with hormones 00:39:34 - Why Eva calls Kali the Patron Goddess of Menopause 00:40:31 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss 00:42:15 - Why it's never too late to start these practices 00:46:00 - Menopause isn't about how you look, it's about how you feel 00:47:28 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:50:16 - Menopause: you are in full bloom 00:51:03 - Conclusion
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| Taking Psychedelics and Learning to Love Yourself Dr. Nick Brüss | 55 | 23 mars 2025 | 01:20:48 | |
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Nick Brüss, EdD, LMFT, is a leading licensed psychedelic therapist, researcher and educator who is passionate about inspiring and helping people heal, grow and live creative lives. He's pioneering treatments and programs that harness the synergistic power of combining psychedelic medicine with cutting edge therapy and coaching.
Dr. Brüss was a clinical researcher and supervisor on the ground breaking FDA Phase III clinical trial of MDMA-assisted therapy for PTSD sponsored by MAPS, and is currently a lead therapist on the Phase III Psilocybin therapy study for Treatment Resistant Depression sponsored by Compass Pathways.
In private practice, he specializes in concierge ketamine-assisted and Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. He trains nationally and speaks internationally on psychedelic-assisted therapy safety and efficacy, and is a co-founder of the Psychedelic Coalition for Health, a psychedelic medicine education and training platform.
Dr. Brüss is also a Certified Mindfulness Facilitator through UCLA's Mindful Awareness Research Center at the Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior, and a certified teacher of both Mindful Self-Compassion, and the Compassion Cultivation Training through the Center for Compassion, Altruism Research and Education at Stanford University School of Medicine.
Find more about Dr. Brüss' work at www.apracticeoffreedom.com and connect with him on LinkedIn and Instagram.
Timestamps
00:01:14 - Guest introduction 00:02:20 - How Layla and Dr. Brüss originally connected 00:04:51 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:06:51 - The first time Layla experienced her own somatic avoidance 00:11:14 - Humans are so beautiful when they don't have so much pain 00:13:52 - Dr. Brüss explains what Internal Family Systems therapy is 00:19:24 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:20:06 - Discover your most masculine confidence and presence with Men's Sexual Mastery 00:21:12 - Dr. Brüss introduces listeners to MAPS 00:24:36 - The actual mechanism that creates this profound level of healing 00:27:19 - Layla shares about her experiences with MDMA 00:30:43 - How IFS integrates with felt-sense experience 00:32:30 - How intellectually "getting" something isn't the same as being "in" it 00:36:33 - We don't realize how much power we actually have 00:38:44 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:42:48 - How psychedelics can be a loving catalyst to know ourselves more 00:44:28 - Layla shares her experience with psychedelics 00:47:22 - Dr. Brüss and Layla drink MOOD Sex Magic 00:55:28 - Psychedelic stigma was intentionally created 00:57:02 - The war on disconnection 00:57:27 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:59:15 - Why it's important to prepare your set and setting with psychedelics 01:04:33 - Dr. Brüss shares about his first psychedelic experience 01:07:24 - The difference between doses of psilocybin 01:12:06 - How different psychedelics work on different situations 01:19:53 - Conclusion
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| How Surrender and Polarity Create the Hottest Sex with Nina Lombardo | 54 | 09 mars 2025 | 01:00:33 | |
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Nina Lombardo is a teacher and mentor for women, specializing in conscious intimacy, polarity and sacred feminine practice. She supports women and couples in embodying their deepest spiritual-sexual expressions, allowing them to experience the union they crave with life, their lovers and the divine. The depth of her work is informed through her devotion to her inner practice, over 15 years of training and studies in the realms of healing, embodiment, feminine spirituality and sacred sexuality, her long-term intimate partnership and more than a decade of facilitating thousands of one-on-one client sessions, in-person retreats and online programs.
Learn more about Nina's powerful work at her website.
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00:01:08 - Introduction 00:02:34 - What people misunderstand about the feminine 00:05:54 - How do I show up when life is pulsating through me? 00:08:47 - The beauty of connecting to your feminine essence on a deeper level 00:10:51 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:11:29 - What exactly is surrender? 00:14:40 - How to surrender into letting life be good 00:17:12 - What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership 00:21:15 - Manifest your deepest desires using my free Sex Magic Practice 00:23:58 - Men are attracted to different life force energies in women 00:25:18 - Keys to navigating your partner's triggers with compassion 00:32:42 - All humans thrive in appreciation 00:34:18 - Unlock outrageous pleasure and self-love inside Crystal Pleasure 00:36:55 - How do you transform tension into surrender during sex? 00:40:05 - What it truly means for a man to be present sexually 00:43:37 - Nina and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:49:16 - How to experience longing as the fullness of life 00:53:10 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:54:01 - How submission is different than surrender 00:57:17 - The difference between active submission and passive submission 00:58:47 - Nina shares a practice for single women to soften into their pleasure 00:59:19 - Nina shares a practice for couples to intentionally cultivate polarity and deeper intimacy 1:00:00 - Conclusion
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| My Story of Tantric Liberation & Stepping on Global Stages | 52 | 23 févr. 2025 | 01:17:57 | |
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Layla Martin:
Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe.
Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology.
Layla's programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.
Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads.
Jess Magic:
Jess Magic is a "heARTist", a soul-stirring songstress, a ceremonialist and a muse for today's generation of visionary leaders and change-makers.
As a transformational facilitator and musical storyteller, Jess creates compelling invitations for people to interact with life from an open heart. In a world where so many are longing for deeper levels of connection, authentic expression and intimacy, Jess uses her humor, music, movement practices and storytelling to effectively weave a "spell" of love and connection that reveals relatable aspects of the human experience that penetrate and crack open the hearts of those who are touched by her presence.
Jess weaves together like-minded communities from San Francisco to Bali and beyond, offering her virtual Free Your Voice programs, Permission retreats, Gospel of Love Brunches and Soul Salons.
Her work has been seen in The New York Times and The London Sunday Times and has supported thousands of men and women from all walks of life in overcoming the shame, fear, and self-judgment that have inhibited their ability to discover, experience and express their feelings, their creative expression and their capacity to create intimacy with themselves and others. Her signature saying is "We don't sing to be good. We sing to be free."
Learn more about Jess' work on her website.
Timestamps
00:01:08 - Introduction 00:02:55 - Layla shares about her relationship with her father 00:06:39 - Your early years are when your nervous system is imprinted the most 00:09:24 - Layla explores her early relationship with her body 00:11:21 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:12:38 - How Layla knew there was something inside her worth fighting for 00:15:22 - Turning your pain into medicine 00:19:13 - The decision Layla made as a result of her early sexual experiences 00:21:34 - What Tantra means to Layla 00:22:43 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:26:44 - What led Layla to the Tantric path 00:29:00 - Layla shares the story of her Om tattoo 00:38:25 - The world we're creating is a reflection of our consciousness 00:39:40 - It's a human right to heal your pain 00:39:53 - Light up your body and sex life with MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:42:39 - Layla explores the role of the Priestess Temple in modern day 00:48:22 - The importance of rebuilding sacred spaces 00:53:08 - Can you heal so deeply you can eventually feel grateful for your pain? 00:54:21 - Discover your sexual and relational potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality 00:56:37 - What Layla sees as the path forward toward healing 01:02:19 - We're all in a process of remembering 01:05:10 - The story we've internalized that that we have to be special to be worthy 01:09:03 - Your heartistry is not a vocation, it's about a vibration 01:12:31 - The theory of Tantra is nothing compared to the actual practices 01:16:18 - Conclusion
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| The Top 4 Rituals to Supercharge Sex and Connection in Your Relationship | #51 | 09 févr. 2025 | 00:34:20 | |
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Here to download your FREE step-by-step guide to all 4 relationship rituals I shared in this podcast! Bio
Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe.
Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology.
Layla's programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.
Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads.
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00:00:43 - Introduction 00:01:27 - The 4 types of rituals that can enhance your relationship 00:01:49 - What does sacred union mean? 00:03:08 - What exactly is a ritual? 00:03:48 - The way you look at your partnership matters 00:04:33 - Who Layla used to compare herself to when she was dating 00:05:54 - When you compare yourself to perfection, you'll always fall short 00:06:52 - There is no perfect man on this planet 00:08:22 - How to break down perfect and replace it with what's real 00:09:17 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:10:56 - Most spiritual traditions have their own version of sacred union 00:13:18 - Inspiration is always supported by action 00:15:02 - We're not taught rituals for getting the most out of our relationship 00:17:02 - 4 Essential things you need to develop your partnership 00:17:38 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:18:20 - Ritual #1: The gratitude ritual 00:20:51 - Ritual #2: The safe communication ritual 00:22:54 - Ground rules for the safe communication ritual 00:24:37 - Ritual #3: The intimacy ritual 00:24:42 - Discover your sexual and relational potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality 00:27:43 - Ritual #4: The erotic ritual 00:29:09 - 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities 00:33:27 - Conclusion
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| 6 Ingredients You Need to Build a Lifetime of Love with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh | 26 janv. 2025 | 01:20:07 | |
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Building world peace, one relationship at a time is the mission of Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a globally renowned and award-winning author, speaker and relationship expert. With a PhD in Social Psychology and specialization in the fields of human sexuality and relationships, Dr. Nasserzadeh has worked with a countless number of individuals, couples and organizational clients across 41 countries to enhance relational health and a sense of thriving at micro and macro levels.
Dr. Nasserzadeh is a senior Accredited Member and a Registered Supervisor by the College of Sex and Relationship Therapists in the UK (COSRT) and a Sexuality Counselor and Approved Training provider by the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). She is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist in California.
Dr. Nasserzadeh has been a sought-after cultural advisor, speaker and expert facilitator at high profile events hosted by governmental organizations, UN Agencies, academic institutions and Fortune 500 companies. Her third book, Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love, is the result of her two-decade-long research on the status of thriving relationships and its key ingredients, namely: attraction, respect, trust, shared vision, compassion, and loving behaviors. Dr. Nasserzadeh's work has been featured on NPR, the BBC, ABC, CNN and USA Today.
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00:01:57 - Guest introduction 00:03:25 - Dr. Nasserzadeh's responsibility and role as a relationship expert 00:06:53 - Our disillusion with love as a society 00:08:28 - Why Dr. Nasserzadeh says 1+1=3 in love 00:09:43 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:13:12 - The system of a partnership is greater than the sum of us 00:15:12 - If you don't pay attention to the cracks, they become ledges 00:17:39 - How to be happy with what is instead of chasing dopamine 00:20:45 - Dr. Nasserzadeh's concept of JOMO vs FOMO 00:23:02 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:26:06 - The 6 ingredients to build a lifetime of love 00:30:38 - Dr. Nasserzadeh describes The Platinum Rule 00:32:59 - How to apply the 6 ingredients to your relationship 00:36:27 - Why it's so important to cheer on your partner 00:38:07 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:39:16 - Get Layla's free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:40:25 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:43:33 - The way you respect yourself is how others respect you 00:48:42 - Why attunement is one of the most powerful tools 00:55:08 - Trauma shifts your nervous system into hypervigilance 00:56:40 - Dr. Nasserzadeh's "soak together before you sink together" method 01:01:38 - How to show up with compassion even if you don't understand someone 01:04:06 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women's Sexual Masterclass 01:05:40 - How to build trust with your partner 01:10:10 - Sexual harmony vs sexual chemistry 01:12:38 - Everyone deserves to be in the loving relationship they desire 01:18:56 - Conclusion
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| Sex robots, cyberdildonics and the evolution of pleasure with futurist Natalie MacNeil #50 | 12 janv. 2025 | 01:25:09 | |
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Natalie MacNeil is an Emmy Award-winning media entrepreneur, futurist, seer, ICF-credentialed business & leadership coach and the bestselling author of five books. Her multi-dimensional work helps visionaries and entrepreneurs create their brightest future through intuitive foresights, practical strategies and her Transformational Embodiment Method.
This powerful method blends several disciplines and modalities with her strategic Futuring process and Transformational Embodiment Coaching Method and is designed to bridge your present and your desired future.
Over the last 15 years, she's guided more than one million people to become embodied leaders, envision and create their dream future and build extraordinary businesses that make an impactful difference in people's lives.
Learn more about Natalie's work on her website.
Timestamps
00:01:35 - Guest introduction 00:05:48 - What is a constellation relationship? 00:07:45 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:10:06 - The fastest way to kill your desire and creativity 00:14:54 - How being hopeful is different than being naive 00:17:20 - We have a bright and bisexual future ahead of us 00:23:40 - We all need people who celebrate our full expression 00:25:39 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:29:23 - Natalie's first experience with cyberdildonics 00:31:54 - What was the first sex toy? 00:35:06 - Why a dildo is still one of the most powerful sex toys 00:36:22 - Enjoy MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:38:02 - Natalie and Layla stack MOOD Sex Magic™ and MOOD Euphoria™ 00:42:28 - Natalie shares her experience with VR pornography 00:44:49 - Why embodiment work is so important for the future we're moving towards 00:46:43 - Layla's thoughts on VR pornography 00:50:49 - Get Layla's free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:51:58 - Discover your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:54:53 - Why it's important to build real human intimacy 00:56:07 - A lifetime without intimacy is no life at all 00:58:38 - Would you have sex with a robot? 01:05:16 - Instead of trying to control reality, work on your resilience to change 01:09:22 - Obliss Women's Sexual Masterclass 01:11:34 - AI fire round questions with Natalie 01:16:40 - AI will surpass us in emotional intelligence 01:20:40 - How to train your AI for your life 01:23:49 - Conclusion
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| Make Your Life A Living Ritual With Jess Magic | # 49 | 29 déc. 2024 | 01:18:10 | |
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Bio Jess Magic is a "heARTist", a soul-stirring songstress, a ceremonialist and a muse for today's generation of visionary leaders and change-makers. As a transformational facilitator and musical storyteller, Jess creates compelling invitations for people to interact with life from an open heart. In a world where so many are longing for deeper levels of connection, authentic expression and intimacy, Jess uses her humor, music, movement practices and storytelling to effectively weave a "spell" of love and connection that reveals relatable aspects of the human experience that penetrate and crack open the hearts of those who are touched by her presence. Jess weaves together like-minded communities from San Francisco to Bali and beyond, offering her virtual Free Your Voice programs, Permission retreats, Gospel of Love Brunches and Soul Salons. Her work has been seen in The New York Times and The London Sunday Times and has supported thousands of men and women from all walks of life in overcoming the shame, fear, and self-judgment that have inhibited their ability to discover, experience and express their feelings, their creative expression and their capacity to create intimacy with themselves and others. Her signature saying is "We don't sing to be good. We sing to be free." Learn more about Jess' work on her website. Timestamps 00:02:03 - Guest introduction 00:04:57 - What does it mean to live life in ceremony? 00:06:58 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:09:17 - A spiritual practice is training for your entire life 00:12:53 - Life happens to you, for you, through you and as you 00:15:20 - What would it look like if every day was a ceremony? 00:20:47 - Jess' trick for managing stressful situations 00:22:53 - The opposite of trauma is play 00:26:42 - How resistance to challenges prolongs them 00:27:00 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:31:32 - The importance of looking for the lesson in everything 00:36:25 - Learning to believe that life is trustworthy 00:39:40 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:40:49 - Get Layla's free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:41:58 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men's Sexual Mastery 00:46:25 - Trusting that anything can happen in life 00:49:57 - Why the most glamorous thing of all is to feel the full spectrum of aliveness 00:53:44 - Enjoy MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:54:58 - Jess sings about MOOD Sex Magic 00:59:41 - How to measure your trauma healing 01:02:01 - How Jess learned to be such an exquisite placeholder for others 01:08:20 - Get Layla's free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 01:08:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women's Sexual Masterclass 01:09:54 - Jess' Lineage of Lovers Philosophy 01:13:19 - The edges Jess is currently experiencing living her life in ceremony 01:17:33 - Conclusion | |||
| Through Heaven and Hell: Finding my Tantric Partnership with Dr. Baback Amen Ep 48 | 15 déc. 2024 | 01:24:24 | |
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Bio Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Layla's programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads. — Dr. Baback Amen MD has a steadfast passion for holistic and integrative means of cultivating longevity and vitality, and has accumulated a depth of knowledge in the areas of physiological optimisation, biohacking, nutrition and targeted testing. After graduating with honors from one of the premier medical schools in the Southern Hemisphere, Monash University, Dr. Amen became a board-certified anaesthesiologist, before undertaking further training in Longevity and Functional Medicine. In his private practice, he has led a multi-disciplinary team of health professionals to help guide multiple entrepreneurs, executives and high profile individuals to optimal health and function. His engaged, appreciative and loyal client base includes billionaires, Grammy Award winning music stars, and celebrated Hollywood actors. He has also been a devoted lifelong practitioner of the more esoteric and spiritual modalities of health promotion, such as meditation, breathwork, tantric and Taoist practices, and the ceremonial use of ancient plant medicines. Timestamps 00:02:16 - Guest introduction 00:03:28 - The story of how Layla and Baback met 00:07:39 - Baback shares what Layla said that stopped him in his tracks 00:09:25 - Baback and Layla's magical, 48-hour first date 00:09:48 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:13:30 - Being ready for a partnership of epic magnitude 00:15:33 - How Layla healed her relationship to the masculine 00:18:50 - The importance of seeing each other in partnership 00:21:40 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:23:53 - Layla's transition from LA to Australia 00:25:23 - How Layla and Baback have approached their relational trauma 00:31:18 - Why you must follow what's true in your heart 00:37:46 - The stories we tell ourselves are reflected back to us in a partnership 00:38:57 - Enjoy MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:41:39 - Going all in with your partner 00:44:47- Baback's guidance to men on meeting the feminine sexually 00:48:31 - How to come into a place of unquestioning self-love 00:52:40 - A choiceless choice to dive into trauma 00:57:21 - Using your intention and free will to choose love instead of trauma 00:59:53 - Discover your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 01:02:47 - The trauma is the lie 01:05:32 - The potency of Layla and Baback teaching together 01:08:00 - Layla and Baback discuss the magic of The Tantric Mastermind 01:10:28 - Get Layla's free Epic Sex Guide for deeper pleasure 01:14:44 - Every couple has the capacity for mind-blowing sex 01:20:24 - Power is not a zero sum game 01:23:31 - Conclusion | |||
| Clean Butts and Dirty Minds with Miki Agrawal | EP47 | 10 déc. 2024 | 01:24:08 | |
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Bio Miki Agrawal is a trailblazing entrepreneur, speaker and two-time bestselling author renowned for founding disruptive companies like TUSHY and THINX. A "Young Global Leader" recognized by the World Economic Forum and named one of Fast Company's "Most Creative People," Miki infuses her talks with two decades of boundary-pushing business experience, captivating audiences with her insights into innovative marketing, product development and business scaling. With a track record of building two nine-figure companies that disrupted two industries, Miki is now channeling her entrepreneurial spirit into her third venture, Hiro Technologies, aiming to solve the global plastic crisis with nature-inspired plastic eating mushrooms. Connect with Miki at www.mikiagrawal.com and on Instagram at @mikiagrawal. Timestamps 00:01:46 - Guest introduction 00:03:56 - How Miki's upbringing led to her entrepreneurial journey 00:06:00 - Miki's biggest a-ha moment of life 00:11:09 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:12:18 - Miki shares her inspiration behind Thinx 00:15:35 - Layla and Miki's early friendship 00:16:47 - Miki's experience fighting the subway to advertise Thinx 00:18:35 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:21:08 - At what cost are we pushing ourselves as women? 00:23:51 - Tushy is a beauty regimine 00:26:29 - Miki shares about ButtCon 00:29:18 - One of Layla's favorite iconic memories 00:33:51 - Miki's first experience with MDMA 00:37:00 - The profound synchronicity of Miki's company, Hiro Diapers 00:42:27 - Women are returning on investment better than most male-led companies 00:43:08 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:44:18 - Get Layla's free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:45:27 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men's Sexual Mastery 00:51:27 - How to hold an expansive mindset with limited time 00:56:58 - The more we radiate our true essence, the more we can care for others 01:00:56 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women's Sexual Masterclass 01:04:47 - Why it's so crucial to create something important in the world 01:06:27 - Miki and Layla drink Sex Magic 01:09:28 - Miki's biggest insights on how to build a brand 01:14:05 - Be outrageous and imaginative in your PR 01:22:51 - Conclusion | |||
| How to F**K like a Goddess with Alexandra TTL | 46 | 17 nov. 2024 | 00:55:51 | |
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Alexandra Roxo is an artist, bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess, transformational coach and teacher. She has been featured as a guest speaker on many renowned podcasts and onstage at numerous festivals and events worldwide and has also made multiple TV appearances, including two seasons of Netflix's hit show, Too Hot to Handle.
Alexandra's work has been featured in the New York Times, Harper's Bazaar, Vogue, The Guardian, Nylon and Playboy.
Her latest book, Dare to Feel, is a journey and handbook to feeling and healing the heart, exploring how to work through common blocks to intimacy and passionate living through the power of deep feeling and embodiment. This book is a candid journey through teachings, stories, rituals, practices and poems that radically invite us into our hearts so we can feel empathy, compassion, deep intimacy and love.
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00:02:15 - Guest introduction 00:04:11 - What does fucking like a goddess mean? 00:05:27 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:08:40 - What a split between your spirituality and sexuality feels like 00:11:00 - Spirit can exist alongside your body 00:15:28 - This is the opposite of shame 00:18:00 - Women's emotions can change the planet 00:19:53 - Steps to take to start healing 00:21:56 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:24:27 - Emotions are signatures of Goddess consciousness 00:27:39 - The difference between conscious and unconscious emotions 00:32:22 - Layla and Alexandra drink MOOD Sex Magic™ 00:32:34 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:33:44 - Get Layla's free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:34:54 - Experience the romantic adventure of a lifetime inside The Tantric Mastermind 00:38:41 - What it feels like to truly receive from your teachers 00:40:57 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women's Sexual Masterclass 00:46:52 - What alexandra finds humbling about motherhood 00:48:54 - How to stretch your smallest moments as a mom 00:50:45 - Spotting a good partner in the first interactions 00:52:18 - Alexandra describes a truly sacred union 00:54:25 - Conclusion
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